Ii-manipulators zeNarcissistic hlala kwindawo ebalaseleyo kwintelekelelo edumileyo, kwaye ileyibhile ethi “narcissist” isetyenziswa ngokubanzi ukubhekisa kubantu ababonakala bezizele kakhulu. Kukwakho noluvo olukhulayo lokuba i-narcissism iyanda kwihlabathi liphela, ngakumbi phakathi kwabantu abancinci, nangona uninzi lophando lwezengqondo aluyixhasi le ngcamango.
Yintoni narcissistic manipulator?
THE ukuphazamiseka kobuntu be-narcissistic yingxaki yempilo yengqondo apho abantu banengqiqo engekho ngqiqweni yokubaluleka kwabo. Bafuna kwaye bafuna ukuhoywa kakhulu kwaye bafuna abantu babancome. Abantu abanale ngxaki basenokungakwazi ukuqonda okanye ukukhathalela iimvakalelo zabanye. Kodwa emva kwesi sigqubuthelo sokuzithemba ngokugqithiseleyo, abaqinisekanga ngokuzixabisa kwabo kwaye bacatshukiswa lula kokona kugxekwa kancinane.
Ukuphazamiseka kobuntu be-narcissistic okanye i-narcissistic manipulator ikhokelela kwiingxaki kwiindawo ezininzi zobomi, ezinjengobudlelwane, umsebenzi, isikolo, okanye imicimbi yezemali. Abantu abanengxaki yobuntu be-narcissistic banokungonwabi kwaye badanile xa bengafumani zibabalo ezikhethekileyo okanye ukunconywa abacinga ukuba kufanelekile. Basenokufumanisa ukuba ubudlelwane babo bunenkathazo kwaye bunganelisi, kwaye abanye abantu basenokungakuthandi ukuba kufutshane nabo.
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Imvelaphi ye-narcissistic manipulator
Akucaci ukuba yintoni ebangela oko okanye imvelaphi ye-narcissistic manipulator. Mhlawumbi unobangela untsokothile. Ukuphazamiseka kobuntu be-Narcissistic kunokunxulunyaniswa noku:
- Imeko-bume – ubudlelwane bomzali nomntwana mhlawumbi bunokunqulwa ngokugqithiseleyo okanye ukugxekwa okugqithisileyo okungahambelaniyo namava okwenene kunye nezinto aziphumezileyo umntwana.
- Genetics – iimpawu ezizuzwe njengelifa, njengeempawu ezithile zobuntu.
- Neurobiology – ikhonkco phakathi kwengqondo, ukuziphatha kunye nokucinga.
Kutheni kukho ii-Narcissistic Manipulators?
THE ii-manipulators ze-narcissistic zikho ngenxa yamabali ababewaphila kunye nonxunguphalo ababelunyamezele ebuntwaneni babo. Indlela yokuziphatha ye-narcissistic manipulator ke ngoko iphumela kwinto abanokuthi bahlangabezane nayo kwixesha labo elidlulileyo.
Oku kubakhokelela ekubeni baziphathe kwaye bazijonge njengabakhethekileyo okanye “abakhethekileyo” kwaye banokuqondwa kuphela ngabanye abantu abakhethekileyo. Ngaphezu koko, zilunge kakhulu kuyo nayiphi na into ephakathi okanye eqhelekileyo. Bafuna kuphela ukunxulumana kunye nokunxulumana nabantu abakwiprofayili ephezulu, iindawo kunye nezinto.
Uzikhusela njani kwii-Narcissistic Manipulators?
1. Misela uhlobo lweNarcissist ojongene nalo
Intliziyo yazo zonke iinarcissists ibandakanya ukungakhuseleki okunzulu, hypersensitivity nokuzithiya. Kodwa zikwawela kwiindidi ezininzi ezineempawu zomlinganiswa ngamnye. Ukuzibona kuyindlela yokuqala yokuzikhusela kwi-narcissist.
Ezona ntlobo zixhaphakileyo yi-grandiose narcissism, i-covert narcissism, kunye ne-malignant narcissism. I-narcissist enkulu ihlala ifuna ukuhoywa kwaye ikhukhumele ngokukrakra. I-Covert narcissists ininzi i-passive-aggressive kwaye ihlala ibonakala ngathi idandathekile. Okokugqibela, uhlobo olukrelekrele luthambekele ekuziphatheni kolwaphulo-mthetho-uyaba, uyaqhatha kwaye uyaxoka. Xa inarcissist isiya entolongweni, isoloko igxeka abanye ngezenzo zayo eziphosakeleyo.
Ukwazi ukuba luhlobo luni lwe-narcissist oluphambi kwakho lunokukunceda ukuphuhlisa isicwangciso sokukhusela.
2. Walumkele Amaqhinga Abawasebenzisayo
Abenzi be-Narcissistic manipulators banamaqhinga amaninzi engqondo ukukhohlisa abanye. Umzekelo, basebenzisa iqhinga elithi “likeability” ukwenza abanye babathande. Kodwa bakwanazo neendlela ezintsonkothileyo zokoyikisa nokuphatha kakubi amaxhoba abo, oko kukuthi iibhokhwe zabo.
Iindlela abazithandayo zezi gaslighting kunye nokuxoka, amaxesha amaninzi i-pathological. Esona sixhobo sakho sichasene nokukhanya kwegesi kukubambelela kwinyani yakho kwaye uthembele kwimvelo yakho. Kwaye qaphela ukuba akukho sizathu sokujongana nabo. Mhlawumbi baya kukugxeka ngobuxoki babo, besithi “lityala lakho ngokungabaxhasi”, njl.
3. Ziqelelene nomntu oyinarcissist
Ukuba usebudlelwaneni ne-manipulative narcissist okanye usandula ukuhlukana, fumana indlela yokuthintela lonke unxibelelwano kunye naye. Kufuneka ulahle i-manipulator ye-narcissistic ngokukhawuleza, ngakumbi ukuba sele ikuxhaphaza. Akayi kutshintsha kwaye aqalise ukukuphatha kakuhle. Nje ukuba ube lixhoba labo, abayi kukuvumela uhambe.
Isizathu sokuba nguMceli weNarcissistic
Njengakuninzi kokuphazamiseka kobuntu, oyena nobangela we-narcissism awaziwa. Isenokuba ngumxube wemfuza, amava obuntwana, kunye nezinto zengqondo.
Imiba esemngciphekweni yobuntwana ibandakanya ukunconywa okugqithisileyo okanye ukugwetywa kwabazali, ukwenzakala, okanye ukuphathwa gadalala.
Ukuzithemba okuphantsi kunye nemiba yokulawula uxinzelelo kunokuba sisizathu se-narcissistic manipulator.
Nangona kungekho mpendulo inye kumbuzo wokuba yintoni ebangela i-narcissism, iingcali ziyavuma ukuba unyango lwakwangoko luqala, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu aphucule umgangatho wobomi bakhe.
Ngaba sinokuziphepha ii-manipulators ze-narcissistic?
Kunokwenzeka kakhulu ukuphepha ii-manipulators ze-narcissistic ngokubeka imida yakho xa usebenzisana nabo. Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuchonga iimpawu ze-narcissistic manipulators kwaye ugweme ukuba kufuphi nabo ukuze bangaweli kwimigibe yabo. Izinto ezithile zinokubangela iingxaki nge-narcissistic manipulator, ngoko ke kungcono ukuziphepha.
Musa ukuphikisa okanye ukujongana. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba kungcono ukuba ungajongani ngqo ne-narcissistic manipulator.
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The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.