Ama-manipulative narcisists adla ngokubonwa njengabantu abanoluvo oluphezulu ngeziqu zabo. Kodwa kwelinye icala, kukho kwakhona Isiphene se-narcissistic lolunye udidi lwabantu abaneentsilelo ze-narcissistic, oko kukuthi banokuzithemba okuncinci.. Olu hlobo lwabantu lunqongophele ngokupheleleyo uthando lwabo. Ngenxa yoku, bahlala befuna ukuqinisekiswa ngokunxulumene nexabiso labo lobuqu.
Isiphoso seNarcissistic: yintoni na?
Eli gama lihlala lisetyenziswa zii-psychoanalysts, isiphene se-narcissistic sichasene ne-narcissistic personality ebonakaliswa kukungazithembi kunye nokuzithemba. Kule meko, umntu ojongene nesiphako se-narcissistic esikhundleni sokuzixakekisa ngokwakhe, uhlala eziva engenamsebenzi, akafanelekanga kwaye uhlala engaphantsi kwabanye.
Oku kwakhona kuzibonakalisa ngeempawu ezahlukeneyo ezifana nezi:
- lacks ukuzithemba
- Ukuzidelela
- Ukuthelekisa nabanye
- I-Umfanekiso ongalunganga we-self
- Ubunzima bokuziva ubalulekile
- Ukuziva uneentloni
- Ukungakhuseleki okunamandla
- Ubunzima bokudibanisa
- Ukuzibeka ityala
Zifihlwe phi iimpazamo zeNarcissistic?
Ngokutsho kwezinye iingcali zonyango kunye neengcali zengqondo, iziphene ze-narcissistic zihlala zifihla kwi-narcissism enempilo ukuze zizenze buthathaka. Ihlala izibonakalisa njenge-narcissism yokuzingca ngenxa yokuba uninzi lwemvelaphi yabo inxulumene nobuntwana. Esi siphoso siphinde sifihle ngendlela yemfuno engaphezulu yokuqwalaselwa kunye nokuqatshelwa komntu ochasene naye.
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Oku kuzibonakalisa ngeempawu ezininzi kwaye kufihlwe ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ezifana I-narcissism esemngciphekweni, okanye ngokuziphatha okugqithisileyo kunye nokwenzakala ngokulula.
Zintoni izizathu zesiphene se-narcissistic?
Uphando lusafumanisa okuninzi malunga ne-narcissism kunye nobuthathaka be-narcissistic.
Uphononongo lubonise ukuba:
- Ukwenzakala kwasebuntwaneni
- Ukuxhatshazwa
- Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo
- Imfuza
Ezi zinto zonke zidlala indima ekuphuhliseni naluphi na uhlobo lwe-narcissism. Izinto eziguquguqukayo zokusingqongileyo nezofuzo zinokudlala indima zombini.
Inkcazo yonobangela wesiphene se-narcissistic
Njengoko ubuchopho bukhula, kucingwa ukuba ukuphazamiseka kokukhula okunempilo, okungaguqukiyo kunokucacisa ukuba kutheni umntu enokuba nesifo. ukuphazamiseka kobuntu be-narcissistic okanye ube i-narcissistic manipulator. Amava anje ngeentshukumo zosapho ezikhohlisayo kunye nokuqatshelwa okuninzi okanye okuncinci kakhulu kunokubangela. Iimeko zosapho ezingahambelaniyo okanye eziguquguqukayo ngokweemvakalelo zinokukhokelela ekukhuleni kwesi sifo sobuntu njengoko umntu ekhula.
Nakuphi na ukugqith’ emgceni (kuninzi kakhulu okanye kuncinane kakhulu), nokuba kukuncoma, ukuncoma, okanye ukuzingca, nako kunokukhokelela ekuphuhliseni uhlobo oluthile lwenarcissism, olufana nenarcissism esengozini. Ukungabikho kokulinganisela kunye nokuzinza ngokubanzi kubangela ukuphazamiseka kwe-homeostasis yangaphakathi, ekhokelela kuluhlu lweengxaki zempilo yengqondo, kuquka i-narcissism okanye i-narcissism esengozini.
Izikena zobuchopho bomntu onengxaki yobuntu be-narcissistic zibonise ukuba umntu unento encinci engwevu kwindawo yobuchopho elawula ingqondo kunye nolawulo lweemvakalelo, kubandakanya uvelwano kunye novelwano, iimpawu ezimbini ezidla ngokungabikho kulo naluphi na uhlobo lobuntu be-narcissistic.
Iziphumo zesiphene se-narcissistic
Ukuziphatha kwabantu abaneziphene ze-narcissistic kunokuba nemiphumo emininzi eyingozi, kuquka ukudakumba, ixhala, ukurhoxa, iimvakalelo zobutshaba kunye nokucalulwa ekuhlaleni kwaye banikezela ngomzekelo onyanzelisayo wendlela isiphene se-narcissistic esinokuzibonakalisa ngayo kwindawo yokusebenza.
- I-Emotional discomfort inokuba sesinye seziphumo ze-narcissistic flaw. Isenokukhokelela umntu ekubeni angazikhathaleli yena, impilo yakhe, yaye oku kunokukhokelela kumalinge okuzibulala.
- Esinye seziphumo eziphambili zokungaphumeleli kwe-narcissistic kwakhonaukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo okanye ukukhobokisa.Oku kukhuthaza amaxhoba ukuba azidalise aze abaleke ukungonwabi kwawo okunzulu ukuze anelise iimvakalelo zawo zonxunguphalo.
Amanxeba amathathu e-narcissistic
UFreud uchaze amanxeba amathathu amakhulu embali kwi-narcissism ephambili yesifundo somntu esizicingela yedwa, ozama ukugcina uloyiko kude ngentelekelelo yobuntu obukhethekileyo.
- Eyokuqala yiCopernican Wound eyasusa uMhlaba ngokwawo, umhlaba wekhaya lomntu, kumbindi wecosmos waza wavula indlela yokuqhekeka kwaloo cosmos kwindalo iphela yexesha elingenabuntu, elingelolwazi lweteleology kunye nendawo. Yinzululwazi eye yazisa oku kuhlonitshwa.
- Inxeba lesibini yi-Darwinian, eyabeka i-Homo sapiens ngokuqinileyo kwihlabathi lezinye izidalwa, zonke zizama ukufumana ubomi babo basemhlabeni kwaye ngoko ziguqukela ngokumalunga omnye nomnye ngaphandle kokuqinisekiswa kweebhikhoni ezikhombayo ezifikelela kuMntu. Inzululwazi nayo iye yakugxeka oku kusikwa kwenkohlakalo.
- Inxeba lesithathu leleFreudian, ebeka umntu ongazi nto eyoyisa ubungangamsha beenkqubo zolwazi, kuquka nesizathu esithuthuzela uMntu ekugqweseni kwakhe okukhethekileyo, kunye neziphumo ezibi kwiteleology kwakhona. Inzululwazi nayo ibonakala iyibambe le blade.
Indlela yokuphilisa isiphene se-narcissistic?
Olona nyango lwaziwayo lwenarcissism lunyango, olunceda izigulana zizive ngcono. Amayeza asenokuqukwa kunyango ukuba unezinye iingxaki zempilo yengqondo, ezifana nokudakumba.
Olu nyango lunokukunceda ukulawula iimpawu kunye nokunciphisa impembelelo yemeko ekuzithembeni, emsebenzini kunye nobudlelwane.
Ngaphandle koku, ezi mpazamo ze-narcissistic zinokutshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha. Banokusebenzela ukuba babe novelwano ngakumbi, yaye ulwalamano lunokuphumelela. Kubalulekile nje ukuba nenyani kwaye uqonde ukuba akuyi kuba lula.
Iimbekiselo zeBibliographic ngempazamo ye-narcissistic
Nazi iimbekiselo ezisixhenxe zebhayibhilografi kumxholo “we-narcissistic flaw”:
- Kapsambelis, V. (2011). « La “fragilité narcissique”, une clinique contemporaine ». Revue française de psychanalyse, 75(4), 1097-1112.
- Descôteaux, J., & Laverdière, O. (2019). « Narcissisme normal et pathologique : exposé intégratif des principales conceptualisations psychanalytiques nord-américaines ». Psychothérapies, 39(2), 55-69.
- Desloges, G. (2013) . “Ukusuka kwiziphene ze-narcissistic ukuya ekungaphumelelini komzimba: ngaba izifo zomzimba zinentsingiselo? » Ukuphela kwe-dissertation yokufunda, i-Faculty of Medicine La Pitié – Salpêtrière.
- Nosal, S. (2022) . “Ukungabi nazingqondo kunye ne-narcissism emngciphekweni we-borderline states: ukuya kwisihloko sesithathu? » Ithisisi yobuGqirha, iYunivesithi yaseLorraine.
- Desjardins-Begon, D. (2013) . “Ukusilela kwe-Narcissistic kunye nokuphazamiseka kokuzithemba ekuziphatheni komlutha: uphononongo loncwadi kunye nesifundo setyala leklinikhi”. Inkcazo yokugqibela, iYunivesithi yaseNice Sophia Antipolis.
- Maïdi, H. (2014). « Narcissisme à l’adolescence ». Journal de la psychanalyse de l’enfant, 4(1), 123-140.
- Hirigoyen, M.-F. (2019) . “I-Narcissus: bathathe amandla”. Iinguqulelo La Découverte.
Ezi ncwadi kunye namanqaku abonelela ngokuphonononga olunzulu kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissism, kubandakanywa ubuthathaka be-narcissistic kunye neziphene, kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zeklinikhi kunye neethiyori.
Ukuqukumbela
Ukuqukumbela, isiphene se-narcissistic sibonisa into eyaziwa kancinci kodwa ibaluleke ngokulinganayo, ebonakaliswa kukungazithembi kunye nokuziva ungakhuselekanga. Ngokuqonda ngcono imvelaphi kunye nokubonakaliswa kwale meko, kuba nako ukuqwalasela izisombululo ezifanelekileyo, ngokukodwa ngeendlela zonyango ezijoliswe ekubuyiseleni ukulinganisela kweemvakalelo kunye nokuzijonga okunempilo.
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The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.