Ixhoba leempawu ze-narcissistic manipulator – iimpawu ze-20 zokwazi

Uninzi lwethu sele simazi umntu othanda ukubhuqa, nokuba kusapho, emsebenzini, eklasini okanye kubuhlobo. I-narcissistic manipulator ikhohlisa kwaye ilijongela phantsi ixhoba layo de ayisazithembi kwaye ixhomekeke kuye. Ukuze uncede amaxhoba e-narcissistic manipulators, kuyacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba udibane nodokotela wengqondo. Abaninzi bethu banokuba ngamaxhoba abo bengazi. Fumana kweli nqaku ukuba ungomnye wamaxhoba e-narcissistic manipulator okanye hayi.

22 iimpawu zexhoba le-Narcissistic Pervert

Nazi iimpawu zokubona ixhoba le-narcissistic manipulator:

1. Wayenomzali okhohlakeleyo ngokwakhe

Ixhoba le i-narcissistic manipulator kufuneka abe nomzali (abazali) abanochuku. Ke ngoko sele ebandezelekile kwizenzo zobuchule bokukhohlisa ukusuka ebuntwaneni bakhe. Ngenxa yoko, ixhoba likufumanisa kunzima ukuqonda ukuba ubomi balo abukho buqhelekileyo. Ucinga ukuba ubomi busebenza ngolo hlobo. 

Ixhoba loyika ukuba xa i-narcissistic manipulator iyamshiya, kuya kufuneka aqale phantsi, yiyo loo nto ehlala ecaleni kwakhe. Ngokwenene, le yimvakalelo eyenziwa ngumtyholi kwixhoba. 

2. Ukuya ku-a isiphene se-narcissistic

Amaxhoba e-narcissistic manipulators sele edibene nabantu be-narcissistic kwabasebancinci, yiyo loo nto beneziphene ze-narcissistic. Ezi ziphene zisisiphumo samanxeba e-narcissistic. Ngokuba nezi mpazamo kubo, abantu abasele bebandezelekile kwizenzo ze-narcissistic bahlala benobudlelwane kunye ne-narcissistic manipulator. 

3. Ukuxhomekeka (ngokweemvakalelo, ngokwemali)

Ixhoba le-narcissistic manipulator lixhomekeke kakhulu kuye, nokuba ngokweemvakalelo okanye ngokwemali. Umntu akakwazi ukuphinda ahlukane ne-manipulator yakhe kwaye akanakho ukuzimela ebomini. Kodwa, i-manipulator ye-narcissistic nayo ixhomekeke kwixhoba layo, ukubandezeleka kwabo kuphucula i-ego yakhe. 

4. Ukungazithembi

Amaxhoba amaninzi aphenjelelwayo aphelelwa sisidima. Ngokuchitha ixesha elininzi nomxhaphazi, ixhoba liqalisa ukuzigxeka, linganeliseki koko likwenzayo lize lidandatheke kakhulu. Ukongezelela, umntu akasaziva ekhuselekile. 

I-narcissistic manipulator igxeka ixhoba layo rhoqo. Uzama ukumbeka phantsi. Ucinga ukuba nguye kuphela umntu onokumthanda, kungoko esoyika ukuqalisa ubuhlobo obutsha nomntu omtsha.

5. Ukungazithandi

Ngenxa yokuphathwa kakubi kwe-narcissistic manipulator, ixhoba liziva lingenalo ukuzithanda. Ixhoba lifuna uthando oluninzi, alisayazi eyona nto liyifunayo kwaye alisakwazi ukuzinyamekela. Uhlala ngokwesiqhelo. Ubudlelwane phakathi kwe-narcissistic manipulator kunye nexhoba lakhe bunzima kakhulu. 

6. Akukho miqobo ephilileyo yengqondo 

Umntu ophantsi kwempembelelo ye-manipulator yabo, ixhoba alikwazi ukuthi HAYI. Wamkela yonke into efunwa ngumcuphi we-narcissistic nokuba ichasene nentando yakhe. Umntu uqala ukuba angaphinde abe nomqobo ophilileyo wengqondo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ixhoba liba ngunodoli we-narcissistic manipulator. 

7. Isetyenziswa ngokulula

Abantu abangamaxhoba e-narcissistic manipulators kulula kakhulu ukuwasebenzisa. Okukhona bechitha ixesha elininzi nolu didi lwabantu, kokukhona besetyenziswa kakhulu. Inqanaba labo lokuphaphama kunye nengqalelo iba phantsi kakhulu ekuhambeni kwexesha. Enyanisweni, kubudlelwane kunye Umlukuhli ogwenxa, alusekho uthando, kulawula ubuqhophololo kuphela.  

8. Umntu onovelwano kakhulu

Ixhoba le-narcissistic manipulator nalo linobuntu onovelwano kakhulu. Uba novelwano kakhulu kwiimvakalelo zabanye. Umntu uyaziqonda ngokulula iimvakalelo zabanye ngenxa yeemvakalelo zakhe kunye nengqiqo yakhe. Ixhoba lithanda ukuba mnandi. Ngaphandle koko, yayibububele bakhe obanceda umntu ogqwethekileyo ukuba afezekise iinjongo zakhe. 

9. HPI/HPE

Ixhoba le-narcissistic manipulator inokuba ngumntu onamandla oBukrelekrele obuPhakamileyo (HIP) kodwa aphinde abe ngumntu onaMandla oMvakalelo oPhezulu (HPE). Bonke ngabantu abaneempawu zamaqwarhashe. Olu hlobo lwabantu lunengqondo eyomeleleyo. Ke, ixhoba lakhe ngumntu onesiphiwo. Nokuba ixhoba likrelekrele, oku akuzange kukwazi ukubeka umqobo kwizenzo zomntu ogqwethekileyo. 

10. Ukuba likheswa ekuhlaleni

Emva kweendlela ezahlukeneyo zokukhohlisa i-narcissistic manipulator, ixhoba lakhe libonakala lizahlula ngokwalo. Umntu uqala ukuzihlukanisa nabantu abathandayo, iintsapho, abahlobo, oogxa, njl njl. I-manipulator ye-narcissistic ifuna ukumhlukanisa nehlabathi ukuze agxininise kuye kuphela kwaye angafumani ncedo oluvela ngaphandle.

11. Fake Self

Umntu onesiqu somgunyathi ngumntu osele ejongene nokufa. Ixhoba le-narcissistic manipulator nalo linobuntu. Ulahlekelwa ngokupheleleyo bubuntu bakhe. Ngaphezu koko, akanalo uvuyo ebomini kwaye uzibonakalisa njengomfanekiso. 

12. Sibandezeleka kakhulu (ukungabikho kothando kuyanda)

Ixhoba alisavuyi konke konke ebomini balo, kwinto eliyenzayo kwaye nokuba lenza izinto ebezithanda ngokwenene, alisamvuyisi. Ubomi bakhe abuyonto ngaphandle kokubandezeleka. Akabonakalisi uncumo. 

13. Sifakwe kakubi (ngokwesondo, ngokweemvakalelo)

I-narcissistic manipulator yenza ixhoba lakhe limnyama kakhulu. I-Blackmail inokuza ngeendlela ezimbini: ngokwesondo kunye neemvakalelo. Ixhoba lisenokungayiqondi into elityhubela kuyo de kube sebusuku kakhulu. Umntu ogqwethekileyo uya kwenza ixhoba lakhe liqonde ukuba alitshivela, nguye kuphela umntu olikhathaleleyo kwaye kufuneka abuyisele ububele bakhe.  

14. Ego encinane kakhulu

Ixhoba aliziniki ukubaluleka ngakumbi kunoko linikela ngakumbi kwelinye. Akasakwazi ukunika uluvo lwakhe okanye izimvo zakhe xa ejongene nemeko ethile kodwa ulandela kuphela iingcebiso zombhexeshi wakhe.  

15. Unesisa kakhulu 

Ukonwabisa iqabane labo elikhohlisayo, ixhoba linika yonke into enayo nangaphaya koko banayo. Ubomi bakhe ngoku bujikeleza kuphela kulo mntu ukhohlakeleyo kwaye uxakeke ngumsebenzi wokumsindisa. Kodwa, ixhoba alilunganga kuphela kwi-manipulator, lilungile kuye wonke umntu. 

16. Siyaxinezeleka, siyaphazamiseka, sikhathazekile, kwaye oku ngakumbi nangakumbi rhoqo

Inqanaba loxinzelelo lomntu olixhoba le-narcissistic manipulator liyaqhubeka nokukhula. Ukongezelela ekubeni noxinzelelo, uya ecaphuka ngakumbi kwaye uhlala exhalabile. Akaziva ekhuselekile xa kukho omnye okanye xa bengekho. Ixhoba liphila phantsi koxinzelelo. 

17. Sizilibele ukuba singoobani na, silibale ngobubi obuninzi obenziwe kuthi.

Ixhoba alisakwazi ukuqonda ubuntu balo bokwenyani kwaye lilibale ngomonakalo omkhulu owenziwe kulo ngaphambili. Ucinga ukuba ufumene iqabane elifanelekileyo kwaye ubomi bakhe buqhelekile. Esi sisiphumo sokukhohlisa komntu ogqwethekileyo. 

18. Uthetha inyani naxa ikwimeko embi kuwe

Umntu udla ngokuxoka ukuze kungenelwe yena. Kwelinye icala, ixhoba le-narcissistic manipulator ayifani nakancinci, uya kuthetha inyani nokuba ikwimeko yakhe. Bunokwenzakalisa ubomi bakhe kodwa uyayenza nangona kunjalo ngenxa yobuqhetseba. 

19. Umntu oye wahlala ekhonza umzali wakhe kwaye ngoko akakwazi ngokwenene ukuzimela ngokwasengqondweni

Uninzi lwamaxhoba e-narcissistic manipulators ayenabazali abano-narcissistic. Ngenxa yoko, bebesoloko bekwinkonzo yaba bazali, yiyo loo nto bengakhange bafumane ukuzimela ngokwasengqondweni. Oku kutyhala ixhoba ukuba lamkele yonke into elibuzwayo kwaye loyike izimvo zabanye.  

20. Ukhathazwa kukungabi navelwano ukanti uyakwamkela okungamkelekanga

Umntu olixhoba lezenzo zomgibi unengxaki yokungabi naluvelwano. Ufana nokuba nobuntu obungathandekiyo. Kodwa uyakwazi ukwamkela yonke into, kwanento engamkelekanga ngokwenene. Yile nto sisandula ukuyithetha kuphawu lwesi-6, asikwazi ukuthi Hayi. 

21. Une-savior syndrome

Emva kokuphathwa kakubi, ixhoba liyanyanzeleka ukuba lidlale indima yomsindisi. Obu bubuchule obusetyenziswa yi-narcissistic manipulator. Owokugqibela uzama ukudala kwixhoba lakhe umnqweno wokulisindisa kwimeko yalo ukuze lihlale lilawula ngakumbi. 

22. Une-imposter syndrome

Uphawu lokugqibela yi-imposter syndrome. Uya kuziva le syndrome ngexesha lobudlelwane bakho kunye ne-narcissistic manipulator. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, uya kucinga ukuba awuyifanelanga indawo yakho kwaye uya kuqala ukuzithelekisa nabanye. 

Ngubani onokuba lixhoba le-narcissistic manipulator?

Ngamnye wethu unokuba lixhoba le-narcissistic manipulator. Abasetyhini kodwa namadoda anokuba ngamaxhoba emisebenzi ye-narcissistic manipulator. Le yokugqibela inohlobo lweradar ukukhetha ixhoba labo. Nangona nabani na enokuba lixhoba labo, ii-narcissistic manipulators zinokukhetha okuthile.

• On kwelinye icala, bakhetha abantu abasesichengeni, abo bangazithembiyo. Bakhetha ezi ntlobo zabantu kuba ziyakwazi ukuzilawula. Bambi baye banengxaki yokungakhuseleki kwasebuntwaneni, kukho abo baye balahlwa okanye baphathwa kakubi ngabo babathandayo. Ngenxa yoku, abakwazi kwaphela ukubona ingozi ebangqongileyo. 
• Nangona kunjalo, i-abona bantu bakrelekrele nabo banenye yezinto abazikhethayo. Iingcali zengqondo ekwaxoxwa nazo zibonise ukuba i-70% yamaxhoba e-narcissistic manipulators ngabantu abaqhelekileyo ngelixa i-30% i-HPI / HPE. Ezi ntlobo zabantu zithatha ixesha elide ukuqonda ukuba zingamaxhoba e-narcissistic manipulator ngenxa yokuba ubuchopho babo bukhubazekile. 

Uninzi lwabantu ekudityanwe nabo ngabasetyhini. Kumadoda, ngumbandela ongavumelekanga. Noko ke, amadoda amaninzi nangakumbi angamaxhoba abagqwetheki be-narcissistic kunye nabakhohlisayo. 

QIincwadi zebhayibhiliyografi

Nazi iimbekiselo ezisixhenxe zebhayibhilografi kumxholo weempawu kumaxhoba e-narcissistic manipulators:

1. Fajnwaks, F. (2003). Construction du concept de personnalité narcissique dans la psychopathologie américaine à partir de 1940. Thèse de doctorat, Université Rennes 2.
2. Bardouil, N. (2002). Modèle et méthode pour l’évaluation clinique de la vulnérabilité identitaire narcissique : comprendre et prévenir les conduites inadaptées chez l’adolescent. Thèse de doctorat, Université Toulouse 2.
3. Rotta Teixeira, M. A. (2012). Des névroses de transfert aux névroses narcissiques : contributions aux fondements de la théorie freudienne de la mélancolie. Thèse de doctorat, Université Paris 7.
4. Ballans, P. (2003). Un effet du démenti pervers : l’écriture blanche. Thèse de doctorat, Université Montpellier 3.
5. Bozzoni, O. (2019). L’accompagnement des personnes exilées en quête de protection dans le champ du travail social : représentations sociales et pratiques professionnelles à l’épreuve du sensible. Thèse de doctorat, Université de Toulouse.
6. Ric, F. (2018). Émotions et cognition sociale : une approche expérimentale. Thèse de doctorat, Université de Bordeaux.
7. Bozzoni, O. (2019). Droit d’auteur et chorégraphie : une analyse juridique. Thèse de doctorat, Université Paris 1 Panthéon-Sorbonne.

Lo msebenzi uphonononga iinkalo ezahlukeneyo ezinxulumene ne-narcissism, ukuguqulwa kunye neempembelelo zabo kumaxhoba, ngaloo ndlela unikezela ukuqonda okunzulu kweempawu ezinxulumene nazo.

Conclusion

Ukuqukumbela, kubalulekile ukuqonda iimpawu zobudlelwane obuyityhefu kunye ne-narcissistic manipulator. Ukuqonda iindlela zokukhohlisa kunye neempembelelo zabo kumaxhoba linyathelo lokuqala elibalulekileyo lokuzikhulula kule mpembelelo. Xa uthandabuza, inkxaso evela kwingcali ihlala ingumthombo ophambili wokuzithemba kwakhona kunye nokuphinda uphile ubomi obanelisayo. Singalibali ukuba wonke umntu ufanelwe kulwalamano oluphilileyo nolunentlonipho.

Ukuqhagamshelana:

• Am ndikubudlelwane obuyityhefu?
• Indawo ebuthathaka yoMsebenzisi
• Isenzo seManipulator xa uyishiya.
• Imen Es Mayday
• Imen Es Narcissistic Pervert
• Perverse Narcissist Treatment
• Emotional Manipulator
• Uyenza njani intlungu iNarcissist
• Kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukuba umntu okhohlisayo abuye?
• Ngaba umkhohlisi we-narcissistic uyazi ukuba ungu-PN
• Kutheni umntu okhohlisayo ekuhlola nje? 
• Narcissistic Pervert kunye neTelephone
• Is Narcissistic Pervert Wonwabile Ebomini?
• False Self iimpawu
• Emotional Blackmail Abazali

Ukuba uziva ngathi ulixhoba le-narcissistic manipulator, ungalibazisi ukudibana nogqirha wengqondo. Sukuba nexhala, ungaphuma kakuhle kulawulo lwe-narcissistic manipulator.