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Ukuphiliswa kwi-manipulator ye-narcissistic kuthatha iinyanga, ngamanye amaxesha iminyaka: ibhondi ebuhlungu, ukuchithwa kokuzithemba, ukulila ngenkohliso. Iingcaciso kunye neelevers ukukhawulezisa ukwakha kwakhona.
Ukushiya i-manipulator ye-narcissistic ayikwazi ukuphuculwa: ukuphuma ekukhanyeni, ukwakha kwakhona inethiwekhi yakho, ukulungiselela, ukushiya, ukujamelana nokunyuka, ukwakha kwakhona. Isicwangciso esipheleleyo ngamanyathelo ama-6.
Kutheni le nto i-narcissistic manipulator ibonakala ingenavelwano, ngelixa isazi kakuhle ukuba ibetha phi? Uphando luthini, iimpawu zemihla ngemihla kunye ne-7 reflexes ukuzikhusela.
Indlela yokuqonda ixoki eluthandweni? Iimpawu ze-10 ezithembekileyo (kwaye kutheni iimpawu zomzimba zikhohlisa), umahluko kunye nomqambimanga onyanzelekileyo kunye namanyathelo angama-7 okusabela.
Ngaba i-mythomania sisifo? Umahluko phakathi kwe-mythomaniac kunye ne-manipulator, iimpawu zokuqaphela i-mythomaniac ekhohlisayo kunye ne-7 reflexes ukuzikhusela kubuxoki babo.
Indlela yokuqonda i-manipulator ye-narcissistic kubudlelwane? Ukuziphatha kwemihla ngemihla ye-9, yintoni ixhoba elifumanayo, uluhlu lokukhangela kwimibuzo ye-10 kunye namanyathelo okuqala okuzikhusela.
Ngaba umntu one-bipolar unenkohliso okanye ulixoki? Iimpawu zokwahlula ukuphazamiseka kwe-bipolar, ukukhohlisa kunye nokugqwetheka kwe-narcissistic, ngaphandle kokubeka ibala, kunye nokukhusela ibhalansi yakho.
Yintoni ukuguqulwa kwengqondo? Inkcazo elula, iifom zokukhwabanisa, iindlela eziqhelekileyo kunye nemizekelo ephathekayo kunye namanyathelo angama-7 okuzikhusela.
Qaphela ukuguqulwa kwesityholo, uqonde i-DARVO kwaye ubuyele kwiinyani: imizekelo, imida kunye neendlela zokufuna inkxaso yokhuseleko.
Idealization, devaluation, rejection, honeymoon: qonda izigaba zomjikelo we-narcissistic, kutheni kunzima kakhulu ukubaleka kuwo kunye nendlela yokuwuqhawula.