I-Paranoid Manipulative Personality: Yintoni iParanoia?

Pha iparanoia luphawu oluqhelekileyo kubantu abanengxaki yobuntu be-narcissistic. Kodwa kwenzeka njani ukuba umntu okhohlisayo azive esemngciphekweni wokude abe yiparanoid? Ngaba inkohliso yakhe ye-paranoid igqithisekile okanye woyika ngokwenene? Ngaba unokuyinyanga i-paranoia yakhe? Sithatha isitokhwe kweli nqaku.

5 izizathu ezenza umntu okhohlakeleyo abe yiparanoid yobuntu  

Ngenxa yokungonwabi a i-narcissistic manipulator, ucinga ukuba zininzi izinto izoyikiso zokwenyani. Kule mihlathi ilandelayo, siza kukubonisa 5 izizathu eziphambili ezivelisa iimpawu zabo ze-paranoid.

1. I-narcissism yakhe imbeka kumbindi womnqweno

Abantu abanengxaki ye-narcissistic personality disorder beyisekile ukuba abo babangqongileyo banqwenela iimpawu nezinto abanazo. Nangona kunjalo, yi-egocentrism, inyaniso eyenziweyo eya kumvumela ukuba azalise ubuze bakhe bangaphakathi.

Ufuna impembelelo yangaphandle ukuze aziqinisekise ukuba usembindini weminqweno. Ngoko ke, ukuze azive emkhulu, kufuneka ajongwe ngabanye. Noko ke, ukuze abuyisele ingqalelo yabanye kuye, usenokude amxhokonxele intiyo.

2. Kuyamdinisa ukufuna ukulawula yonke into

Abaqhubi beNarcissistic baye imfuno engafanelekanga yokulawula. Baqhutywa kukufuna rhoqo ukuziva bephakamile kunabanye kwaye babuyekeze ukungazithembi kwabo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuseka nokugcina abo babangqongileyo bephantsi kolawulo, kufuneka benze umgudu omkhulu. Ngokuhlala uphaphile, i-narcissistic manipulator ihlala kwimeko yoxinzelelo olusisigxina.

Ngenxa yoko, ngesona sisongelo sincinci esichaphazela ukulinganisela kwakhe, ukhona esoyika. Ngenxa yoko, ulindele nayiphi na ingozi enokubakho enokuthi imsongele, ukusa kwinqanaba lokuba ayenze into yokwenene. Le meko yokuxhalaba ngokusisigxina yokubeka umngcipheko wokulahlekelwa kulawulo nangaliphi na ixesha iya kondla i-paranoia kuye kwaye imvalele kwisangqa esibi.

3. Ujonge izenzo zakhe kwabanye kwaye uzilindele

Ii-manipulators ze-Narcissistic nazo zinokuba yi-paranoid ngenxa bayayazi ifuthe labo kwizinto zabo iqela labantu. Ngokwenene, xa sibonakalisa umlingiswa otshabalalisayo kwabanye, ngokuzenzekelayo sijonga ihlabathi njengesisongelo esinokubakho. Ngenxa yoko, i-manipulator iziva isongelwa rhoqo ngenxa yezenzo zakhe.

Ngaphaya koko, oku kuchaza ukuziphatha kwe umona ogqithisileyo ukuba ii-manipulators zeemvakalelo ezenziwa kubudlelwane babo. Uthando novelwano asizomvakalelo abazaziyo okanye abaziqondayo.

4. I-manipulator ye-narcissistic ixhaphaza ixhoba layo ngokubuyisela umva iindima

Ukuze ube ne ulawulo olupheleleyo kwixhoba lakhe, irhamncwa elineemvakalelo liyathanda umva iindima. Uhlwayela ukudideka engqondweni yexhoba lakhe ngokulenza likholelwe ukuba iingxaki ziphuma kulo. Njengomntu okhohlisayo, akanaxhala lokuzigqala njengelona xhoba liphambili. Ukongeza, eli qhinga limvumela ukuba aphambukise ingqalelo yexhoba lakhe kweyona ngxaki. Ngenxa yoko, uziva enetyala. Yaye ngokuhlaselwa ngolo hlobo, elona xhoba lokwenene liphela liyikholelwa loo nto.

5. Ulindele impindezelo yamaxhoba akhe

Ii-manipulators nazo ziba yi-paranoid xa zityhilwa. Ngokuphatha kakubi ixhoba lakhe kunye nokuhlwayela isiphithiphithi engqondweni yakhe, uyoyika ukuba kuya kufuneka abandezeleke ngumsindo wabo xa etyhilwa. Ukuziphindezela yindlela yokuziphatha eyoyikayo i-narcissistic manipulator. Kuye, xa ixhoba lakhe likrazule isigqubuthelo kuye, lingathanda ukuziphindezela ngenxa yobubi elibufumene kuye. Emva koko ulindele uhlaselo olunokwenzeka.

Narcissistic kunye ne-paranoid manipulative personality- umahluko phakathi kwezi ngcali zimbini zokukhohlisa

Les troubles de la personnalité ii-manipulators ze-narcissistic Kwaye i-paranoid zombini zineempawu ezifanayo. Nangona kunjalo, ezi ngcali zimbini zokukhohlisa zisenomohluko othile.

• Ukongeza ekuphatheni, ai-narcissistic manipulatorngokuqhelekileyo ngumntu ozicingela yedwa. Uhlala eziva efuna ukunconywa nokuhoywa. Basenokungathintelwa ngokwemigaqo yokuziphatha kwaye basenokuziva bengazisoli okanye benetyala. Ngokuchasene noko, itshabalalisa ixhoba layo isebenzisaIzigwebo ezibangela ukuba netyala.
• Ngokuphathelele umntu ophethwe yi-paranoia, ukuphazamiseka kwabo kudla ngokuzibonakalisa njengokungathembani okukhulu kunye nokukrokra kwabanye. Uhlala eqinisekile ukuba uyasetyenziswa okanye uyangcatshwa. Ngaphezu koko, basabela ngogonyamelo kwezi nkolelo zangaphakathi okanye ngobutshaba.

Ukushwankathela, abantu abachaphazelekayo ukuphazamiseka kobuntu be-narcissistic bagxile ikakhulu kubuntu babo kunye nomfanekiso wabo. Ngokuphathelele abantu abane-paranoid personality disorder, bagxile kwabanye kunye nokungabathembi kwabo.

Uyinyanga njani ingxaki yobuntu bomntu oyi-paranoid manipulator?

Ukuphazamiseka kobuntu be-manipulator’s paranoid personality kubonakaliswa kukungathembi okuxhaphakileyo kunye notyekelo lokubona amayelenqe kunye nokungcatsha kuyo yonke indawo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iindlela zokunyanga ukuphazamiseka kwe-manipulator’s paranoid. :

• Unyango lokuziphatha kwengqondo kunye nonyango lweqela lunokunceda umntu onengxaki yeparanoia.
• psychotherapy ikwayindlela enokunceda abantu abanengxaki yokulawula ukungathembani kunye nomsindo. Olu nyango lukwavumela abantu abane-paranoid ukuba baphucule ubudlelwane babo bentlalo kunye nokuphuhlisa izakhono zonxibelelwano ezisebenzayo.

Ngamanye amaxesha, i-paranoia ifuna unyango lweziyobisi, ngakumbi xa imeko yoloyiko olusisigxina ivelisa ixhala kunye nokudakumba. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ukunyanga i-paranoid personality disorder kwi-manipulator akulula. Kungathatha iinyanga ezininzi okanye iminyaka ukubona iziphumo ezibalulekileyo.

Indlela yokusabela kubuntu be-paranoid bomntu okhohlisayo?

Kwi-manipulator ye-narcissistic, i-paranoia sisifo sengqondo esinokubangela ukuziphatha okungenangqiqo Kwaye othathekile. Ngoko ke, loo mntu ufanele aphathwe ngomonde nangokuqonda. Kodwa ukuba uyagqabaza uze umgxeke, oko kunokwenza izinto zibe mbi ngakumbi. Ukongeza, kukwabalulekile ukuhlonipha indawo yobuqu kwaye uphephe ukwabelana ngeemvakalelo abangaziva bekhululekile ukwabelana ngazo. Okokugqibela, ukubonisana nengcali yezempilo yengqondo kunokunceda malunga nendlela yokujongana nomntu ophazamisekileyo.

Iingqinisekiso zeBhayibhiliyografi malunga nobuntu beparanoid bomntu okhohlisayo

Nazi iimbekiselo ezisixhenxe zebhayibhilografi kumxholo wobuntu beparanoid kunye nokuziphatha okukhohlisayo:

1. Bergeret, J. (1996). La personnalité normale et pathologique. Paris : Dunod.
2. Moro, M.-R., & Baubet, T. (2004). Psychopathologie transculturelle. Paris : Masson.
3. Mellier, D. (2009). Les personnalités pathologiques. Paris : Armand Colin.
4. Crocq, L. (2013). Les troubles de la personnalité. Paris : PUF.
5. Racamier, P.-C. (1992). Le génie des origines. Paris : Payot.
6. Kernberg, O. (2004). Les relations d’objet et les processus psychiques. Paris : PUF.
7. Cloninger, C. R. (1999). Biologie et personnalité. Paris : Odile Jacob.

Ezi zikhombisi kufuneka zikunike isiseko esiluqilima sokwenza nzulu ukuqonda kwakho ubuntu be-paranoid kunye nokuziphatha okukhohlisayo.

Conclusion

Ukuqukumbela, eli nqaku liqaqambisa iimpawu ezintsonkothileyo nezintsonkothileyo zobuntu be-paranoid kwii-narcissistic manipulators. Ibonisa indlela i-narcissism eyandisiweyo, imfuno yolawulo kunye noqikelelo oluphembelela umjikelo wokungathembi kunye ne-paranoia. Nangona iindlela zonyango ezinjengonyango lokuziphatha kwengqondo okanye i-psychotherapy zibonelela ngezisombululo, inkqubo yokuphilisa ihlala ihlala inde kwaye ithambile. Ukujongana nokuziphatha oku, umonde, ukuqonda kunye nenkxaso evela kwiingcali zempilo yengqondo zibalulekile.