Kungani Kukhona Ama-Narcissistic Perverts?

I-Narcissistic perverts thatha indawo evelele emcabangweni odumile, futhi ilebula ethi “narcissist” isetshenziswa kakhulu ukubhekisa kubantu ababonakala begcwele kakhulu. Kuphinde kube nomuzwa okhulayo wokuthi i-narcissism iyanda emhlabeni wonke, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwentsha, nakuba ucwaningo oluningi lwezengqondo lungawusekeli lo mbono.

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Yini i-Narcissistic Pervert?

Le i-narcissistic personality disorder kuyinkinga yempilo yengqondo lapho abantu bezibona bebaluleke ngokweqile. Badinga futhi bafuna ukunakwa ngokweqile, bafune ukuthi abantu babancome. Abantu abanale nkinga bangase bangakwazi ukuqonda noma ukukhathalela imizwa yabanye. Kodwa ngaphansi kokuzethemba ngokweqile, abaqiniseki ngokubaluleka kwabo futhi bacasulwa kalula ngisho nangokugxekwa okuncane.

I-Narcissistic personality disorder noma i-NP iholela ezinkingeni ezindaweni eziningi zokuphila, njengobudlelwane, umsebenzi, isikole, noma izindaba zezezimali. Abantu abane-narcissistic personality disorder bangase bangajabuli futhi badumale lapho bengatholi ukuthandwa okukhethekile noma ukunconywa abacabanga ukuthi kufanele. Bangase bathole ubudlelwano babo bunezinkinga futhi bungagcwaliseki, futhi abanye abantu bangase bangajabuleli ukuba nabo.

Ukwelashwa kwe-narcissistic personality disorder kugxile ekwelapheni kokukhuluma, okubizwa nangokuthi i-psychotherapy.

Umsuka we-Narcissistic Pervert

Asazi kahle ukuthi kubangelwa yini noma umsuka wokuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic. Cishe imbangela iyinkimbinkimbi. I-Narcissistic personality disorder ingaxhunyaniswa noku:

• Imvelo – ubudlelwano bomzali nengane obunokudunyiswa ngokweqile noma ukugxekwa kakhulu okungahambisani nezinto ezingokoqobo zengane kanye nezimpumelelo zayo.
• I-Genetics – izici ezizuzwe njengefa, njengezici ezithile zobuntu.
• I-Neurobiology – ukuxhumana phakathi kobuchopho, ukuziphatha kanye nokucabanga.

Kungani Kukhona Ama-Narcissistic Perverts?

Lezi I-Narcissistic perverts zikhona ngenxa yezindaba ababeziphila kanye nokuhlukumezeka abakubekezelele ebuntwaneni babo. Ngakho-ke ukuziphatha kwe-narcissistic pervert kuvela kulokho okungenzeka ukuthi bahlangabezane nakho esikhathini sabo esidlule.

Lokhu kubaholela ekuziphatheni nasekuziboneni behlukile noma ‘bakhethekile’ nokuthi bangaqondwa kuphela abanye abantu abakhethekile. Futhi, zilungele kakhulu kunoma yini emaphakathi noma evamile. Bafuna kuphela ukuzihlanganisa nokuhlotshaniswa nabantu abasezingeni eliphezulu, izindawo nezinto.

Ungazivikela Kanjani Ku-PN?

1. Thola Uhlobo Lwe-Narcissist Obhekene Nalo

Enhliziyweni yabo bonke abantu abazicabangela bona kukhona ukungazethembi okujulile, hypersensitivity kanye nokuziphatha kokuzizonda. Kodwa futhi bahlukaniswa ngezinhlobo ezahlukene ezinezici zobuntu ezihlukile. Ukubabona kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuzivikela kumuntu ozicabangela yena.

Izinhlobo ezivame kakhulu i-grandiose narcissism, i-covert narcissism, kanye ne-malignant narcissism. I-narcissist enkulu ihlale ifuna ukunakwa futhi ikhukhumele ngokucasuka. Ama-Covert narcissists ajwayele ukungenzi lutho futhi ahlala ebonakala ecindezelekile. Ekugcineni, umfana ohlakaniphile ujwayele ukuziphatha ngobugebengu – uyantshontsha, uyakhohlisa futhi aqambe amanga. Nxa umgilwa eboshiwe uhlala esola abanye ngobubi bakhe.

Ukwazi ukuthi hlobo luni lwe-narcissist oluphambi kwakho lungakusiza uthuthukise isu lokuvikela.

2. Qaphela Amaqhinga Abawasebenzisayo

Ama-Narcissists anamaqhinga amaningi angokwengqondo angawasebenzisa ukukhohlisa abanye. Isibonelo, basebenzisa iqhinga elithi “ukuthandeka” ukuze benze abanye bababaze. Kodwa futhi banezindlela eziyinkimbinkimbi zokwesabisa nokuhlukumeza izisulu zabo, okungukuthi, izimbuzi zabo.

Izindlela abazithandayo yilezi ukukhanyisa igesi futhi ukuqamba amanga, ngokuvamile pathological. Isikhali sakho esingcono kakhulu sokumelana nokukhanya kwegesi ukubambelela eqinisweni lakho futhi wethembe umuzwa wakho wemvelo. Futhi qaphela ukuthi asikho isidingo sokubhekana nabo. Cishe bazokusola ngamanga abo, bethi “yiphutha lakho ngoba awubasekeli” njll.

3. Ziqhelelanise ne-narcissist

Uma usebudlelwaneni nomuntu onama-narcissist noma usanda kuhlukana, thola indlela yokuvimba konke ukuxhumana naye. Udinga ukususa i-PN ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, ikakhulukazi uma sebekuhlukumeza kakade. Ngeke ashintshe aqale ukukuphatha kahle. Uma usuyisisulu sabo, ngeke bakuyeke uhambe.

Isizathu Sokuba I-Narcissistic Pervert

Njengezinkinga eziningi zobuntu, imbangela yangempela ye-narcissism ayaziwa. Cishe kuyingxube yofuzo, okuhlangenwe nakho kwasebuntwaneni, nezici zengqondo.

Izici eziyingozi zezingane zibandakanya ukutuswa ngokweqile noma ukwahlulela okuvela kubazali, ukuhlukumezeka, noma ukuhlukumeza.

Ukuzethemba okuphansi kanye nezinkinga zokulawula ingcindezi nakho kungaba yisizathu se-PN.

Nakuba ingekho impendulo eyodwa embuzweni wokuthi yini ebangela i-narcissism, ochwepheshe bayavuma ukuthi ukwelashwa kwangaphambili kuyaqala, maningi amathuba okuba umuntu athuthukise izinga lakhe lokuphila.

Singakwazi yini ukugwema ama-Narcissistic Perverts?

Kungenzeka kakhulu ukugwema izihlanekezi ze-narcissistic ngokubeka imikhawulo yakho lapho usebenza nazo. Kungenzeka futhi ukukhomba izimpawu ze-PN futhi ugweme ukuba seduze nabo ukuze ungangeni ezingibeni zabo. Izinto ezithile zingadala izinkinga nge-narcissistic pervert, ngakho-ke kungcono ukuzigwema.

Ningaphikisani noma nibhekane. Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi kungcono ukungabhekani ngqo ne-PN.