Igama elithi “i-manipulative narcissist” ayilogama elivunyiweyo ngokusemthethweni njengoxilongo lwezonyango, kodwa lihlala lisetyenziswa kulwimi oludumileyo ukuchaza uluhlu lweendlela zokuziphatha ezinxulumene ne-narcissistic kunye neempawu zobuntu ezikhohlisayo. Abantu ababhalwe njenge-narcissistic manipulators badla ngokubonisa iimpawu ezinje ukulawulwa ngokweemvakalelo, ukungabikho kovelwano, isidingo esiqhubekayo sokuqwalaselwa kunye nokuqinisekiswa, kunye nokuziphatha okunyanzelisayo. Nangona kungekho kuhlelwa ngokusesikweni kweentlobo ze-narcissistic manipulators, zihlala zibekwe ngokwamaqela ngokusekelwe kwiimpawu ezithile zokuziphatha kwazo.
Iindidi ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissistic manipulators
Nantsi eminye imizekelo:
1-I-narcissistic manipulator esesichengeni
Abenzi be-narcissistic basesichengeni babeka i-facade eethe-ethe nengazinzanga ngokweemvakalelo, befihla iindlela zobuqhetseba ezintsonkothileyo. Ubuqhophololo babo ekulawuleni, ngamagqabaza afihlakeleyo athoba isidima kunye nokuziphatha okurhabaxa, kwenza kube nzima ukuzibona iinjongo zabo eziyityhefu kwangethuba. Ngokudlala indima yexhoba, ngakumbi phakathi kobudlelwane obusondeleyo, aba baxhaphazi banokubangela umonakalo onzulu weemvakalelo, baqaqambise ukubaluleka kokuqatshelwa kwangoko ukuthintela ukuxhatshazwa kunye nokomeleza. ukomelela umntu ngamnye. Fumana ngakumbi kwinqaku lethu I-narcissistic manipulator esesichengeni.
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2-I-megalomaniac narcissistic manipulator: Ukufuna amandla apheleleyo
I-megalomaniac narcissistic manipulator ibonakaliswe kukukholelwa okungagungqiyo kwamandla akhe onke. Uphuhlisa iingcinga ezigqithisileyo zempumelelo kunye nokuqatshelwa. Ukuziphatha kwakhe kubonisa ukukhangela rhoqo izikhundla zegunya nokulawula.
Lo mahluko ubonakalisa imfuno enyanzelekileyo yolawulo kuzo zonke iindawo. I-megalomaniac idala iimeko ezinzima ukubonisa ukongama kwayo. Usebenzisa i-charisma yakhe ukwakha ubukhosi bomntu, nokuba buchwephesha okanye bubudlelwane. Inkolelo yakhe yokuba ufanelwe yimpatho ekhethekileyo imtyhalela ekubeni angayihoyi imithetho eqhelekileyo yoluntu.
3-I-altruistic narcissistic manipulator: Isigqubuthelo sobubele
I-manipulator ye-altruistic narcissistic izibonakalisa njengomntu ozinikele kwabanye. Usebenzisa izenzo zakhe ezibonakala ngathi unesisa njengendlela yokulawula. Ukuziphatha kwakhe kufihla ukukhohlisa okufihlakeleyo emva kwe-facade yobubele.
Lo mahluko wahlulwa ngokukwazi kwawo ukudala ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo kwabanye. I-altruist ye-narcissistic ihlakulela umfanekiso woluntu njengomsindisi okanye umxhasi. Usebenzisa igama lakhe njengomntu onesisa ukusebenzisa i-impembelelo yengqondo phezu kwabo bamngqongileyo. “Izenzo zakhe ezilungileyo” zilungiselela izilangazelelo zakhe zobuqu.
I-4-Oyena mntu ulawulayo we-narcissistic manipulator: Inkosi yolawulo
Umlawuli we-narcissistic olawulayo usebenzisa ulawulo lwakhe ngokusebenzisa amandla engqondo. Ibeka imithetho kunye neemfuno zayo ngokucwangcisiweyo. Ukuziphatha kwakhe kujolise ekupheliseni naluphi na uhlobo lokuxhathisa kwixhoba lakhe ukuseka ulawulo olupheleleyo.
Olu lwahluko lusebenzisa ikakhulu ukoyikisa kunye noloyiko njengezixhobo zolawulo. I-dominator iyatshintshana phakathi kwamaxesha oxinzelelo olugqithisileyo kunye namaxesha okuzola okucacileyo. Ngokuthe ngcembe uyalahlula ixhoba lakhe kwabo balingqongileyo ukuze omeleze impembelelo yakhe.
5-I-narcissistic manipulator ehendayo: I-manipulator enomtsalane
Umntu okhohlisayo okhohlisayo usebenzisa i-charm yakhe njengesixhobo sakhe esiphambili. Uyagqwesa kubugcisa bokuhenda ngokwasengqondweni. Ukuziphatha kwakhe kuyatshintshana phakathi kokuhoywa okugqithisileyo kunye nokungabi namdla okukhohlakeleyo ukuze aphazamise ixhoba lakhe.
Le fomu ibonakaliswe ngokukwazi ukudala ukuxhomekeka okukhulu ngokweemvakalelo. Umlukuhli uthembisa uthando olufanelekileyo ngelixa ephindaphinda ukuthotywa okuchuliweyo. Igcina ixhoba layo likwimeko eqhubekayo yokungakhuseleki ngokweemvakalelo.
6-Umtshutshisi we-narcissistic manipulator: Umthuthumbisi ngokwasengqondweni
Umtshutshisi we-narcissistic manipulator ufumana ukwaneliseka ekubandezelekeni kwengqondo komnye. Usebenzisa iindlela ezicacileyo zokuxhatshazwa ngokokuziphatha. Indlela aziphatha ngayo ijolise ekutshabalaliseni ngokuthe ngcembe ukuzithemba kwexhoba lakhe.
Olu lwahluko lugqwesa kubugcisa bokuthuthunjiswa kwengqondo okufihlakeleyo. Umtshutshisi udala iimeko ezingenakwenzeka kwixhoba lakhe. Usebenzisa ukudideka kwengqondo njengesixhobo sokutshabalalisa.
7-Isigqubuthelo se-narcissistic manipulator: Ingcaphephe yokufihla
I-manipulator ye-narcissistic efihliweyo isebenza emthunzini nasemfihlakalweni. Ugcina i-facade yentlalontle. Ukuziphatha kwakhe okunetyhefu kuzibonakalisa kuphela kwimfihlo yobudlelwane obusondeleyo.
Olu hlobo luphawulwa ngobuntu obubini. Umntu ogqunywe isigqubuthelo sobuso uyagqwesa kubugcisa bokubonakala njengomntu oqhelekileyo emehlweni ehlabathi. Uwakhetha ngocoselelo amaxhoba akhe kubantu ekusenokwenzeka ukuba angakholelwa kubo.
8-Ingcaphephe ye-narcissistic manipulator: Ixhoba lombutho
Ingcali ye-narcissistic manipulator isebenzisa ubuthi bayo ikakhulu kumxholo womsebenzi. Usebenzisa izakhiwo zoluhlu ukuze ancede yena. Ukuziphatha kwakhe kujolise ekutshabalaliseni abo bakhuphisana naye ngelixa egcina isikhundla sakhe.
Lo mahluko ulawula imekobume yobuchwephesha ngobuchule. Ingcali idala umanyano lobuchule ngelixa ihlukanisa iithagethi zayo. Usebenzisa imithetho neenkqubo njengezixhobo nxamnye namaxhoba akhe.
I-9-I-manipulator eyonakalisayo ye-narcissistic: I-methodical annihilator
I-manipulator eyonakalisayo ye-narcissistic ijolise ekutshatyalalisweni ngokupheleleyo ngokwasengqondweni kwexhoba lakhe. Ucwangcisa izenzo zakhe ngendlela ecwangcisiweyo nenenkqubela. Indlela aziphatha ngayo ityhila umnqweno wakhe wokutshabalalisa omnye.
Le fomu imele elona qondo ligqithileyo lokugqwetheka kwe-narcissistic. Umtshabalalisi ufumana ukwaneliseka kwakhe kuphela ekuweni ngokupheleleyo kwexhoba lakhe. Igcina ukubamba kwayo nasemva kokufikelela kwiinjongo zayo ezitshabalalisayo.
Iimbekiselo zeBibliographic kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissistic manipulators
Nalu ukhetho lweereferensi kwisiFrentshi kumxholo weentlobo ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissistic manipulators:
- “Iindidi ezili-10 zee-manipulators ze-narcissistic ekufuneka uzazi” nguSteven Clément.
- “Iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissism: I-6 narcissists eyingozi” kwiwebhusayithi yeLa Vie des Reines.
- “Iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeNarcissistic Manipulators” kwindawo ethi narcissisticmanipulator.org.
- “Iindlela ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissistic manipulators” kwiblogi yeWooskill.
- “Iintlobo ezi-5 ze-narcissism kunye neempawu zazo” kwiwebhusayithi ye-MentorShow.
- “i-manipulator ye-narcissistic: iimpawu ezingama-20 zokumchonga kunye nokumazi” kwi Landela indawo yeZebra.
- “i-manipulator ye-narcissistic: iimpawu ze-13 zokumazi” kwiwebhusayithi yeLa Clinique E-Santé.
Ezi zixhobo zinika ukuqonda okunzulu kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zee-manipulators ze-narcissistic kunye neempawu zokuzichonga.
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The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.