I-vampire yengqondo: ungababona njani abantu abakuhlutha amandla?

I-Psychic Vampire : ungumntu ofuna ukude kuwe. La ngamasela amandla angadinwayo lixhoba lawo de aligqibe amandla alo abalulekileyo. Nazi ezinye iinkcazo kunye nezinto eziyinyani eziya kunceda ukuzohlula kwaye uzikhusele kuzo. 

Yintoni ivampire yengqondo?

Inkcazo ye-vampire yengqondo yinto encinci kwaye iyingozi kakhulu ekhupha amandla akho obomi ngaphandle komda, de udinwe. Eyona nto imbi kukuba uhlala ezibonisa njengexhoba, akushiye udiniwe kwaye ungenanto.

Ivampire ngokweemvakalelo ingaba a umhlobo, isizalwane, umntu osebenza naye, umntu ohlala naye okanye iqabane. Ithiyori yale ngcamango, Stéphane Clerget, ichaza ukuba ezi zidalwa zifuna nje ezinye ukuze zibekho. Ngoko ke ngulo mnqweno we-visceral wokuba amandla abanye kunye noku kudla ngokugqithiseleyo okwenza i-vampire yeemvakalelo ibe yinto yoyikwa kwaye igwenywe.

Uyibona njani ivampire yengqondo?

Ulumke kakhulu kwindlela yakhe yokwenza izinto, i-vampire yengqondo iyazazi izenzo azenzayo ziyingozi. Kungenxa yoko le nto ubuqili buyenye yeendlela zabo eziphambili, kuba ngumbulali othuleyo. Kodwa unokuba njani ivampire yengqondo?

Enyanisweni, eyona nto inzima kakhulu kukukwazi ukuchonga umntu okudinisa ngokweemvakalelo kubo bonke ubuqili babo. Indlela yokuqonda i-vampire yamandla? Phakathi kweempawu ezibonakalayo unayo:

• Imvakalelo esisigxina yokungalungiseki: le yenye yeempawu zomntu odlamkileyo. Ingaba ngumlingane, umzala, umhlobo, uyise we-psychic vampire okanye umama, i-vampire ibonisa ukuba akanakuze aphazamise.
• Ukunganeliseki ngokupheleleyo: uya kufumanisa ukuba yonke into ivampire yengqondo kubuhlobo okanye kubudlelwane ihlala icela okungakumbi. Akaneliseki yintwanana ayinikwayo kwaye naloo nto ayicelayo ayimneli.
• Fukwenza abanye bazive benetyala: ivampire yengqondo kubudlelwane ithatha uyolo olubi lokufaka ubutyala kwi-subconscious yeqabane lakhe. Kwenziwa into efanayo kulo lonke ulwalamano lwakhe nabantu okanye lwentlalo.
• Ukungabi naluvelwano: akukho kuziva unetyala, okanye ukuzisola ngevampire yeemvakalelo. Akanakuze abe novelwano ngentlungu okanye ukubandezeleka kwakho.
• Ukungakwazi ukubonisa umbulelo: ekubeni engumntu ongenambulelo, akanako nangayiphi na indlela ukuyibona into omenzela yona. Nangona i-psychic vampire engazi nto ayinayo i-shred yokubulela kwabo bafikelela kuye okanye bamxhasa yonke imihla. Ngaba sinelungelo lokuzibuza umbuzo othi “ingaba ndiyivampire yengqondo?” xa singenaluvelwano.
• Imvakalelo esisigxina yokwamkeleka: olunye uphawu olungqina ukuba ujongene nomdli wamandla okholelwa ukuba wamkelekile kuyo yonke indawo nakuyo yonke indawo. Akayihloniphi indawo yakho, ungasathethi ke ngemfihlo yakho. I-vampire yengqondo iyakwazi oko ikwenzayo. Indlela eziphatha ngayo ixhaswa sisibakala sokuba ifuna ngamandla ukubiwa amandla abalulekileyo exhoba layo.

I-Psychic vampire kunye ne-narcissistic manipulator: Yintoni umahluko?

Makhe sibone umahluko phakathi kwevampire yengqondo kunye ne-narcissistic manipulator:

• I-I-vampire yengqondo ayinakukhohlisa: yindlela yokuziphatha ebonisa bonke abaqhubi be-narcissistic. Le yokugqibela igqwesile kule ndawo kwaye isebenzisa ubuqhetseba ukwenza amaxhoba amaninzi. Nangona kunjalo, yenza uvavanyo oluncinci kwi-vampire yengqondo kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba akayena u-manipulator olungileyo kakhulu.
• Umntu okudinisa ngokweemvakalelo akazimiselanga kwenzakalisa: umbhexeshi we-narcissistic ulambele ukuziphatha okuhle nothando. Ezi zenzo zinegalelo ekonakaleni ngabom nasekutshabalaliseni ixhoba layo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i-vampire yengqondo ifuna kuphela ukufunxa amandla abalulekileyo kwixhoba layo kwaye inomdla wayo ukuba ilungile ukuze ifumane ezinye izinto.
• Ivampire yezengqondo ayikwazi ukuhlala yodwa: lo ngumbono olusizi, kodwa ophinda udale umsantsa phakathi kwababulali babini. I-vampire ixhomekeke kumandla exhoba layo kwaye ayikwazi ukuphila ngaphandle kwayo. Kwelinye icala, i-manipulator ye-narcissistic izimele ngakumbi kwaye ifuna nje ukulawula, ukulawula kunye nokulimaza ixhoba layo.

QAPHELA: I-drainer yamandla kunye ne-narcissistic manipulator inento enye abafana ngayo. Aba ngabantu ababini abangenalo uvelwano nakubani na.

Wazi njani ukuba ulixhoba levampire yengqondo?

Ukumamela intuition yakho okanye kuwe kunye neemvakalelo zakho kukuvumela ukuba wazi ukuba uvampirized. Ngokwenyani, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kububungqina bokuba ulixhoba le-drainer yamandla. Phakathi kweempawu zengqondo emva kokuba i-hypothesis yokugula ikhutshiwe, sinokucaphula:

• Iintlungu (amalungu, umva, njl.),
• Ukuqhawuka kolusu (urticaria, eczema, njl.),
• Iintlungu zesisu,
• Ukudinwa ngokubanzi, okungaqhelekanga nokungachazwanga.

Njengexhoba, kuya kuba nzima kuwe ukuqonda ukuba ezi ngxaki zibangelwa ngumntu osondeleyo kuwe. Enyanisweni, ii-vampires zengqondo zihlala zibandakanya ukusebenza kabini, okukhokelela kubumfama bamaxhoba abo. Owokugqibela uya kuziva eluncedo kwaye acele umngeni xa kuziwa ekuboneleleni ngoncedo kwi-vampire enikezelwe njengexhoba. Awuyi kuba nomfanekiso ongalunganga wevampire.

Iimbekiselo zeBibliographic

Nazi iireferensi ezisixhenxe zebhayibhilografi ngevampire yengqondo:

1. Clerget, S. (2018). Les Vampires psychiques : comment les reconnaître, comment leur échapper. Paris : Fayard.
2. Saint-André, S., Richard, Y., & Lazartigues, A. (2009). “Actualité psychiatrique sur les vampires. Vampire : un mythe contemporain ?” L’Information psychiatrique, 85(7), 675-679.
3. Goens, J. (1993). Loups-garous, vampires et autres monstres, enquêtes médicales et littéraires. Paris : CNRS Éditions.
4. Faivre, T. (1962). Les Vampires. Essai historique, critique et littéraire. Paris : Éditions du Terrain vague.
5. Lecouteux, C. (1994). Fées, sorcières et loups-garous au Moyen Âge. Paris : Imago.
6. Marigny, J. (1999). Le Vampire. Histoire et légendes. Paris : Éditions du Rocher.
7. Hirigoyen, M.-F. (1998). Le Harcèlement moral. La violence perverse au quotidien. Paris : La Découverte.

Ezi zikhombisi zibonelela ngokuqonda okunzulu kwee-vampires zengqondo, zombini kwimbali kunye nembono yengqondo.

I-Psychic Vampire-Isiphelo

Ngamafutshane, i-vampire yengqondo ngumntu odla ngokuxinezeleka ngokweemvakalelo okhupha amandla abalulekileyo amaxhoba abo ukuze aphile. Ubuchwephesha be-vampire yengqondo buxhomekeke kubuqili kunye nokuxhatshazwa. Injongo kukufunxa amandla exhoba layo ngokuvusa ingqalelo kunye nothando kuwo. Indlela yokuqonda ivampire yeemvakalelo? Ulwazi oluphuhliswe kwesi sikhokelo luya kuba luncedo olukhulu kuwe.

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• Energy vampire
• Ukwenzakalisa abanye

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