Ubusuku obumnyama bomphefumlo

Ukuqhekeka kwesazisi

Pha Ubusuku Obumnyama boMphefumlo kukuntywila kubunzulu bobukho, isigaba apho i-ego idodobala, apho iziseko zobuntu bethu ziwa. Le nkqubo ibuhlungu ifana nokuqhekeka kwangaphakathi: into ebesicinga ukuba siyiyo, iintsika ebesiphumle kuzo, azisabambeki. Ingqondo iyaphakuzela, ikhangela iimpawu zomhlaba ezingasekhoyo. Oku kungenanto, le mvakalelo yokulahleka, eneneni lithuba lokuzalwa ngokutsha.

Ukuvula Intliziyo Ngokubandezeleka

Intlungu eviwayo ngeli xesha lokuwela ayilolize. Ungumthombo wokuvula intliziyo. Igagasi ngalinye lokubandezeleka lisityhalela ukuba silahle inkohliso yolawulo, siyekele ukuncamathela okusigcine sithinjiwe. Esi sicatshulwa siyimfuneko ukuvumela amandla entliziyo ukuba avuke ngokupheleleyo.

Ukoyika ubukhulu bomntu

Enye yezona nkalo zingaziwayo zokuwela kukoyika ubukhulu bomntu. I-ego, ejwayele imida eyaziwayo, iyathuthumela ebusweni bobukhulu bomphefumlo ovusayo. Kulula ukuhlala ekubandezelekeni kunokwamkela ngokupheleleyo ukukhanya namandla angaphakathi kuthi. Ukanti, kungokwamkela obu bungangamsha esinokuthi ngenene sizise izulu emhlabeni, liquka eyona nto likuyo.

Inkohliso yengqondo kunye nobulumko bentliziyo

Ingqondo iyasokola ngokuchasene nale nguqu, ifuna ukuqonda izinto ezingaqondakaliyo. Kodwa ke Ubusuku Obumnyama boMphefumlo asiyongxaki ukusonjululwa, ngamava okudlula. Xa kungena amathandabuzo, ekuphela kwempendulo kukubuyela entliziyweni, ukuziva endaweni yokuhlalutya. Ingqondo ayikwazi ukubamba ubukhulu bomphefumlo. Yintliziyo kuphela eyaziyo.

“Umnqweno wam wokuphila unzima kakhulu, kwaye nangona intliziyo yam yaphukile, iintliziyo zenziwe zaphukile: yiyo loo nto uThixo ethumela intlungu emhlabeni … -Oscar Wilde, Iileta

Indima yokuDibana kunye noQhagamshelwano lweKarmic

Ngeli nqanaba, ukudibana okuthile kukhanyisela umphefumlo wethu. Aba bantu banxibelelana nenyaniso yethu enzulu. Akufunekanga siluxhathise olu nxibelelwano, kodwa silwamkele ngokuzithemba. Ngokuchaseneyo, ubudlelwane obuyityhefu, obusekwe kwiipateni zekarmic, kufuneka buvalwe ngokuqinisekileyo. Lixesha lokuba uthi: “Ima apha.” Ukuyeka ezi bhondi kukuvumela ukuba uzikhulule kwaye uqhubele phambili.

Inkqubo yokuTshabalaliswa nokuZalwa ngokutsha

Ngaba wakha walibona ibhabhathane liphuma eqokobheni lalo? Kufuneka azabalazele ukomeleza amaphiko akhe. Ukuba umntu umnceda kwangaphambi kwexesha, akanakuze akwazi ukubhabha, kuba akayi kudlula kweli nqanaba libalulekileyo lotshintsho.

Eyakho Ubusuku Obumnyama boMphefumlo ngumoya wakho, ikhuko lakho; kukufa kwe-ego, inkqubo apho ususa yonke into ekuthintelayo ekuhlanganiseni ngokupheleleyo umphefumlo wakho. Ngaphambi kokuba kubekho ukuphiliswa okanye ukukhula kokwenene, kumele ukuba kubekho ukutshatyalaliswa nokubhangiswa kwayo yonke into obucinga ukuba ingumthombo wolonwabo.

Ukusukela ekuzalweni, umiselwe ukuba ukholelwe ukuba imali, impumelelo, uthando olufanelekileyo okanye ubukrelekrele kuya kukwenza wonwabe. Kodwa le mfuno yangaphandle yolonwabo ingumsinga, kuba ulonwabo sele lukhona, ngalo mzuzu, ngaphandle kokwenza nantoni na okanye ukuyikhangela. Ulonwabo Bucala ngasekhohlo.

Ukuphela koMzabalazo: Ukuxolelwa kunye noKwamkeleka

Omnye wemigibe emikhulu ye Ubusuku Obumnyama boMphefumlo sisihendo sempindezelo okanye ingqumbo. Kodwa inyaniso kukuba nguThixo – okanye indalo yonke – onoxanduva lokubuyisela ukulingana. Ukusukela umsindo kulibazisa ulwaluko. Kufuneka sixolelwe, kungekhona ukuze sizithethelele, kodwa ukuze sizikhulule. Ukuyeka, ukulila, kunye nokuqhubela phambili ngamanyathelo abalulekileyo.

Myeke kwaye Thembela

Yonke into ebesicinga ukuba siyayifuna engazange yenzeke yayisisipho ngokwenene. Kuhlala kukho into enkulu elindele ukuzibonakalisa. Isitshixo kukuyeka ukufuna ukuqonda kunye nokuthembela nje. Apho siziva sisondelelene kakhulu kwaye singenamandla kulapho kanye kufuneka siyekele khona.

Isiphelo: Ukufa kunye nokuzalwa ngokutsha koBukho

Pha Ubusuku Obumnyama boMphefumlo kukuqalwa kwinyaniso yoBuyiyo. Le nkqubo ibuhlungu, kodwa ikwayisitshixo kwinguqu enzulu. Asivuki ngokuzibonakalisa ekukhanyeni, kodwa ngokwenza ubumnyama bethu bube ngqondweni. Umbuzo onzulu – Ngubani ocingayo? Ngubani owoyikayo? Ngubani ofayo? -Kubalulekile ukuba udlule kobu busuku kwaye uzalwe kwakhona kuwe.

Ingqondo sisixhobo esinamandla, esibunjwe yindaleko, esikhuselayo kunye nokwakha ubunyani bethu. Kodwa ikwasikelwe umda kwaye ayinakukwazi ukwamkela ubukhulu bomphefumlo. Ukuwela i Ubusuku Obumnyama, simele siwuqonde lo mda size siziyekele koko kungaphezu kokuqiqa.

Lila yonke imihla ukuba kuyimfuneko. Jonga ixesha elidlulileyo kwakhona, uze ulilibale. Umphefumlo mawuthathe indawo yawo efanelekileyo. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, hamba eyakho indlela, uqulathe ngokupheleleyo isiseko sakho, ngaphandle kwemaski, ngaphandle koloyiko.

Inguqu enzulu

Ngokusisiseko, uBusuku Obumnyameni boMphefumlo yinkqubo yokuhlutha ikhaya lakho langaphakathi elidala ukhangela elitsha. Ngokwemvelo, le nkqubo idinga ukutsiba okukhulu kwinto engaziwayo, enokuthi yenzeke ngequbuliso kwaye iyoyikisa.

Ukuba ucinga ukuba ukule meko, yazi ukuba akuwedwa. Abanye abaninzi bebelapho kwaye abaninzi basekho. Akukho mephu yolu hambo, kukubengezela okudanyazayo kuphela komphefumlo wakho ukukukhokela.

Cinga ngokufaniswa kwempahla: ukugqoka iimpahla ezintsha, kufuneka uqale ukhulule ezindala. Ngamafutshane, yile nto kanye imalunga nayo. Ezindala kufuneka zikhutshwe ukuze kuvuleleke indawo yokuhlaziya. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukubandezeleka okuvayo ngeli xesha lobunzima kunenjongo: ukutshatyalaliswa kweenkolelo ezidlulileyo, izazisi kunye nemikhwa yokuvula indlela yeendlela ezintsha zokuphila.