Iincwadi eziPhezulu ezisi-7 zabanesiphiwo: i-HPI kunye ne-HPE

Yeyiphi incwadi enesiphiwo ye-HPI kunye ne-HPE? Ukuzifumana kwizihlangu zomntu onesiphiwo okanye iqwarha akusoloko kumnandi. THE HPI Kwaye HPE Ngamahlelo amabini asetyenziselwa ukwahlula abantu abanengqiqo ephezulu okanye amandla ovakalelo. Ityala labo lifanelwe ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo ngenxa yomdla abanawo abenzi be-narcissistic kubo.

Iincwadi ezisi-7 eziPhezulu zaBanesiphiwo, i-HPE kunye ne-HPI

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1. “Umntu Omdala onesiphiwo: Ukufunda ukwenza kube lula xa kuntsonkothile”
2. “Amandla abo banesiphiwo kwihlabathi elikwiNgxaki: Ubukrelekrele kunye nokunyamezela”
3. “Abanesiphiwo Nothando”
4. “Ukuze umntwana wam aphumelele”
5. “Imvakalelo yokuba lilolo”
6. “Umntu Omdala Onesiphiwo kuLoyiso Lolonwabo”
7. “Umfazi onesiphiwo”

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1. “Umntu omdala onesiphiwo: Ukufunda ukwenza lula xa unzima”

Kuyinyani ukuba sikrelekrele ngamanye amaxesha kangangokuba senza izinto ezibudenge, asijongani nenyaniso kuba siqonda izinto ezininzi kwaye ngenxa yoko asikwazi ukubona izinto ngokulula. Le ncwadi ye UMonique Huon waseKermadec iluncedo ngokwenene ekufundeni ukuyigcina ilula nokuba ukrelekrele kwaye uyaziqonda iinkalo ezininzi zobunyani.

2. “Amandla abo banesiphiwo kwihlabathi elikwiNgxaki: ubukrelekrele kunye nokuqina”

Ukomelela yinto abanesiphiwo abanayo ngaphakathi kubo (i-HPE ngokomzekelo) eyenza ukuba bame kwii-manipulators ze-narcissistic. Kodwa ukomelela kufuneka kusetyenziswe kwinto eyilayo, kwinto elungileyo hayi kwi ubudlelwane obuyityhefu kunye narcissistic manipulators. Lo msebenzi kwakhona UMonique Huon waseKermade.

3. “Abanesiphiwo Nothando”

Ngokwenene, uthando lungumbandela osikhathazayo, yinto esijonge kuyo sonke enyanisweni. Isihlokwana sithi: “Thanda ngentloko yakho nangentliziyo yakho”. Rhoqo abantwana banovelwano, abanalo uthando ke apha lixhoba le-narcissistic manipulator engenalo uthando ebuntwaneni bakhe.

4. “Ukuze umntwana wam aphumelele”

Oku kuchaphazela enye into kancinane, oko kukuthi ukuba uyi-HPE/HPI, kukho ithuba elihle lokuba nomntwana wakho abekho. Kufuneka uqonde ukuba ungumntu onjani, kwaye ungamnceda njani umntwana wakho ukuze angagqibeli sele enarcissistic, umzekelo, ukuba uyise okanye umama wakhe ngumgibi we-narcissistic kwaye unesiphiwo.

5. “Imvakalelo yobulolo”

Ihlala ibhalwa nguMonique de Kermadec. Yincwadi echaza kakuhle into eyenzekayo kwintloko ye-HPI / HPE / umntu onesiphiwo oziva ehlukile kwabanye.

6. “Umntu omdala onesiphiwo ekoyiseni ulonwabo”

Kubalulekile, ukuba unesiphiwo kwaye usebudlelwaneni kunye ne-narcissistic manipulator, le ncwadi ikunceda ukuba uqonde oko kukulungeleyo, inika imikhondo kuba ulonwabo lwesiphiwo ayilulo ulonwabo lwabanye umzekelo.

7. “Umfazi onesiphiwo”

Ukuba ungumfazi kwaye unesiphiwo/HPI/HPE, ndincoma. Nje ukuba ufunde ezinye, yincwadi enika imbono entsha. Yincwadi esivumela ukuba siqonde indawo yowesifazane onesiphiwo kuluntu lwanamhlanje kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo hayi emva kwegqwetha.

QAPHELA: Ukukhetha kwethu ezi ncwadi nguMonique Huon de Kermadec kuvela kubunzulu obubekwe ngulo mbhali kumsebenzi wakhe.

Uthini umahluko phakathi kwe-HPE kunye ne-HPI?

Umahluko phakathi komntu one-HPE kunye nomnye one-HPI ulele kwiinkalo zabo.

• Umntu one-HPI ngumntu one-QI or Intelligence Quotient . Ngelixa i-HPE it ilinganiswa kwi-QE or Emotional Quotient. Umahluko apha ufunyenwe ngaphakathi kwenethiwekhi ye-neural ngokwayo. Kwi-HPI, iindawo ezidityaniswe nemisebenzi yokuqonda zezo zenziwa zisebenze ngokugqithisileyo. Ngelixa i-HPE iyilezo zinxulunyaniswa neemvakalelo kunye neembono zeemvakalelo ezoyisayo.
• Zikwahluka ngokwendlela yokuqiqa. Ngokwenene, umntu one-HPI uya kusebenza ngokwemigaqo yengqiqo, ngelixa i-HPE iya kuba much more intuitive.
• Enye ingongoma yokwahlukana kulawulo lweemvakalelo. Umntu one-HPI uya kugxila kwilogic ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho. Usebenzisa ingqondo yakhe ukuze alawule iimvakalelo zakhe. Oku kunokuba nempumelelo kwinkangeleko, nangona kunjalo, i-HPI eluthandweni inokuba nobunzima bokulawula oko avakalelwa kukubaukungazithembi. Kwimeko yayo, i-HPE ine-ulawulo oluqaphele ngakumbi lweemvakalelo zakho. Nangona kunjalo, inokuwela kwiimeko ze-hypersensitivity kwiimeko ezithile.

Wazi njani ukuba uyi-HPI okanye i-HPE?

Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokwazi ukuba uyi-HPI okanye i-HPE. Okokuqala, kukho iimvavanyo ezahlukeneyo onokuzenza. Nangona kunjalo, imithombo eboniswe kwi-intanethi ayiqiniseki kakhulu. Yiyo loo nto ukubiza ungenelelo lwengcali yengqondo kucetyiswa kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kukwakho ithuba lokubhekisa kufundo. Ngokwenene kukho incwadi enokukukhanyisela kwaye ubone ukuba unesiphiwo, i-HPI okanye HPE.

Nangona kunjalo, iimpawu ezithile zinokukunika umkhondo malunga nokuba uyi-HPI okanye hayi i-HPE:

• Okokuqala, kukho ngokucacileyo ubukho be- yobukrelekrele obukhethekileyo. Olu phawu luqhelekile kubo bonke abantu abanesiphiwo okanye amaqwarhashe.
• Sinako kwakhona ukuqaphela i- i-emotional hypersensitivity.
• Ubukho be-ingcinga efana nomthi enokuthi ihlasele ngamanye amaxesha.
• ingqondo ephuhliswe ngokwengqondo, ephuhliswe kakhulu.
• Umgangatho ophakamileyo we- onovelwano, .

Yiyiphi inkxaso ekufuneka ndiyinike umntu we-HPE okanye we-HPI?

Kusenokubonakala kungahambelani ukucinga ukuba umntu onesiphiwo usenokufuna uncedo. Nangona kunjalo, iwonga labo elikhethekileyo libabeka kwimeko enzima ngakumbi kunomntu olula. Ubunzima bulele kubudlelwane babo bentlalontle, iyahluka nokuba yi-HPI okanye i-HPE.

• Ezi ziquka i-Ukubonakala kwe-impostor syndrome. Abantu abane-HP bathanda ukuthandabuza ubuchule babo. Ubonakalisa ukungazithembi okuthile ukuze ajamelane neengxaki zobomi bemihla ngemihla. Kwiimeko ezininzi, umntu onegunya yeyona nto ifunwa kakhulu.
• Umntu one-PIH ukwanamava athileukuzijongela phantsiKwayeukungazithembi. Bahlala bejamelana noku ngexesha lobuntwana kunye nokufikisa. Eli lixesha elisoloko likhethwa ngabantu abanesiphiwo njengelona libi ebomini babo. I-HPE ayidibani nolu hlobo lobunzima, kuba iqhelekileukuzithanda ngamandla.
• Ekugqibeleni, inqaku elixhalabisa kuphela i-HPIs kukuba banokuzifumana besebunzimeni xa kuziwa kwiimvakalelo. Kuya kuba nzima ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zabo. Kuseluthandweni ukuba i-HPI idinga uncedo ngakumbi.

Lusebenza njani uthando ngeHPI?

Ngothando, i-HPI inokudibana nobunzima obuthile. Isizathu kukuba badla ngokutyekela ekuthembeleni kuphela kuhlalutyo lwabo olunengqiqo. Oku kunokubathintela ekukhuleni ngokukhululekileyo kubudlelwane. Yiloo nto besoloko befuna icebiso elingqalileyo. Incwadi efana nethi “The Gifted and Love” iyacetyiswa ukuba ibancede kulo mmandla. Umbuzo othi “zinjani ii-HPI eluthandweni?” ngumxholo ophindaphindiweyo. Ukuqonda okugqithisileyo kweemvakalelo ibeka i-HPI ebunzimeni kubudlelwane babo beemvakalelo.

Imingcipheko ye-HPI kunye ne-HPE ejongene ne-Narcissistic Pervert

Ezi ntlobo zimbini zabantu ziphakathi kwawona maxhoba anqwenelekayo kwii-narcissistic manipulators. Inene, i-hypersensitivity yabo ihlala isetyenziswa zii-narcissistic manipulators ngokuchasene nabo. Baya kucaphuka ngokulula xa bejamelene nezenzo zomntu ogqwethekileyo. Sinomzekelo wovelwano lwabo olukhulu oluya kuvumela umxhasi we-narcissistic ukuba abaxhaphaze kumanqaku ahlukeneyo. Baya kuthi ke baphuhlise i umsindisi syndrome, nto leyo eya komeleza ukubamba kogqwethayo kubo. Yiyo loo nto ukufumana ulwazi ngeencwadi ze-HPI enesiphiwo kunye ne-HPE kubalulekile.

Imifanekiso ye-QBibliographic

Nalu ukhetho lwemisebenzi esixhenxe kwi-High Intellectual (HPI) kunye ne-Emotional Potential (HPE):

1. “I-Philo-cognitives: Bathanda kuphela ukucinga nokucinga ngendlela eyahlukileyo” nguFanny Nusbaum, u-Olivier Revol kunye noDominic Sappey-Marinier (2019).
2. “Umntu Omdala Onesiphiwo: Ukufunda ukugcina izinto zilula xa unzima” nguMonique de Kermadec (2011).
3. “Ukrelekrele kakhulu ukuba wonwabe? Umntu omdala onesiphiwo” nguJeanne Siaud-Facchin (2008).
4. “Abantu abadala abanovelwano kunye nesiphiwo: Ukufumana indawo yabo emsebenzini kwaye baphumelele” nguCécile Bost (2014).
5. “Umahluko kunye nokubandezeleka komntu omdala onesiphiwo” nguCécile Bost (2011).
6. “Umntwana onesiphiwo: Ukumnceda akhule, amncede aphumelele” nguJeanne Siaud-Facchin (2002). oués, iluncedo ekuqondeni i-HPI/HPE yabantu abadala.
7. “I-Psychology yabantwana abanesiphiwo kakhulu” ngu-Olivier Revol (2013).

Le misebenzi ibonelela ngokuqonda okunzulu malunga neenkcukacha zabantu abanobuchule obuphezulu bengqondo kunye neemvakalelo, ngokusekelwe kuphando lwezenzululwazi kunye namava eklinikhi.

Conclusion

Ukuqukumbela, ukufunda malunga ne-HPI kunye ne-HPE ngokufunda ngokuzinikela kusivumela ukuba siziqonde ngcono ezi zizwe zinye kunye nokuxhasa abanesiphiwo kwimingeni yabo yobuqu kunye nobudlelwane. Le misebenzi ibonelela ngeendlela ezibambekayo zokuqonda ukuntsonkotha kwabo kwengqondo kunye neemvakalelo, kunye nokukhuthaza uphuhliso oluhambelanayo kwihlabathi ekunzima ngamanye amaxesha ukudibanisa nezinto zalo ezikhethekileyo.