Enoba ngokobuqu okanye ngokomsebenzi, sonke sinako bhenela ekuqhubeni ukuze bazuze kwiingenelo ezithile. Noko ke, kukho abantu abasoloko bekhohlakala kuba bekuthanda ukuxoka nokuxhaphaza abanye. Phakathi kwabo, sinokucaphula i-psychopathic manipulator. Kule post uya kufunda into ebalulekileyo ukwazi ngayo.
Yintoni i-psychopathic manipulator?
Xa sicinga nge-psychopath, uninzi lwethu lunomfanekiso wombulali we-serial okanye i-villain efana naleyo kwiimuvi kunye neenkqubo zeTV. Yintoni abantu abaninzi abangayiqondiyo kukuba bajongana nomntu okanye abantu abaninzi abahlangabezana neekhrayitheriya zesi sifo kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla.
I-psychopaths ekhohlisayo ibonisa iintlobo ezininzi zokuziphatha ezitenxayo kwisiqhelo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukubaukungabikho kwayo nayiphi na imvakalelo yesazela, ukuzisola okanye ukuziva unetyala. Kulolu hlobo lomntu, ihlabathi liphazamisekile ngokumangalisayo kwaye imithetho eqhelekileyo yeemvakalelo zomntu kunye nokusebenzisana ayisebenzi kubo. I-psychopathic manipulator ibonisa ukuziphatha okungxamisekileyo kunye nokonakalisa. Akazihloneli iimvakalelo nempilo-ntle yabanye.
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Zeziphi iimpawu ze-psychopath ekhohlisayo?
Kwipsychology, i-psychopathic manipulator ngumntu owakhe ubuntu buphawulwa ngezi mpawu zilandelayo :
- Akaziboni iimpawu zakhe njengengxaki. Abantu abane-psychopathy ephezulu abanangxaki nokubonisa indlela abahluke ngayo kwabanye, nokuba oko kuthetha ukuza njengeyona nto iphambili.
- Akayikhathalelanga imiphumo emibi yezenzo zakhe. Abantu abane-psychopathic ephezulu banokuzazi iimpawu zabo ezimbi, kodwa abakhathaleli ngokukodwa ngempembelelo yabo kwabanye.
- Uzama ukulawula abanye. Uya kwazi ukuba uphambi kwe-psychopathic manipulator ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba uhlala ezama ukulawula wena.
- Udla ngokusabela ngokugqithiseleyo ukuba akalufezi usukelo lwakhe. Ngokomzekelo, unokwenza ubundlobongela, ukuphosa umsindo, njl.
- Uzama ukubonisa ukuba unyaniseke ngendlela engaqhelekanga. Ukunyaniseka akuzi ngokwemvelo kubantu abane-psychopathy, kodwa i-personality disorder yabo inokukhokelela ekubeni bacinge ukuba banjalo. Amaxhoba anokuzivumela ukuba aphenjelelwe lolu tshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha.
Umfumana njani umntu osebenzisa ingqondo yengqondo?
Ukuba ufuna ukuqaphela ukuba umntu ukhona i-psychopathic manipulator okanye hayi, kukho imiqondiso ebalulekileyo okanye iimpawu ezinxulumene nobuntu bakhe:
- Utyekelo lokugxeka abanye. Wenza abanye bazive benetyala ngokubhenela kumaqhina entsapho, ubuhlobo kunye nokuziphatha okuhle.
- Wayezibaleka iimbopheleleko zakhe okanye wazidlulisela kwabanye.
- Uhlala engacacanga ekuchazeni iimfuno zakhe, iimfuno, iimvakalelo kunye nezimvo.
- Udla ngokunika iimpendulo ezingacacanga.
- Utshintsha uluvo lwakhe, ukuziphatha kunye neemvakalelo kuxhomekeke kubantu kunye neemeko.
- Usebenzisa iingxoxo ezisengqiqweni ukufihla amabango akhe.
- Ufuna abanye bakholelwe ukuba umele afezeke, akanakuze atshintshe ingqondo yakhe, azi yonk’ into yaye unokukwazi ukuyiphendula ngokukhawuleza imibuzo ayibuzayo.
- Uthanda ukucel’ umngeni iimpawu, ubuchule nobuntu babanye.
- Uyathanda ukuvakalisa uluvo lwakhe nokugxeka abanye.
Uthini umahluko phakathi kwe-psychopathic manipulator kunye ne-narcissistic manipulator?
THE ii-manipulators ze-psychopathic kunye ne-narcissistic manipulators yabelana ngeengongoma eziliqela ezifanayo. Abaziva bezisola okanye benovelwano kwabanye, bayayigatya imibutho yentlalo kunye nemithetho, kwaye abathwali uxanduva ngezenzo zabo. Kodwa mhlawumbi uyazibuza ukuba ungabahlula njani.
I-narcissistic pervert
Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ukuphazamiseka kwe I-narcissistic personality disorder, ngokukodwa ukuphazamiseka kwamadoda, uzibonakalisa njengokuzicingela ngokugqithiseleyo. Ukuzikhukhumalisa okugqithisileyo, ukungahoywa kweengqungquthela zentlalo kunye namalungelo abanye, ukuzithemba okuphakamileyo, kunye nokuxhaphaza abanye ngokuzingca zezona mpawu ziphambili zabantu abangenangqondo. Bahlala ngokukhanyela kwaye bakholelwa ukuba yonke into ilungile kunye nabo. Ngokubanzi, i ii-manipulators ze-narcissistic abazinzanga ngokweemvakalelo kwaye bathanda ukuba nezinto ezingxamileyo.
I-psychopathic manipulator
Ngokuphathelele i-psychopathic manipulator, uhlala ethandeka kakhulu kwaye ubonakala eqhelekile xa umjonga nje. Akanaso isimo sengqondo okanye uvelwano. Ubonisa ukuziphatha kakubi, kwaye ukholelwa ukuba ababuthathaka bafanele baxhatshazwe, ukuba iimvakalelo zomntu azinamsebenzi. Banenkohliso kakhulu kwaye bahlala bexoka. Ngale ndlela, i-psychopathic manipulator iya kucwangcisa ukukhohlisa kwayo ukuya kweyona nkcukacha incinci, ngelixa ithintela imingcipheko ukuze iphephe ukuzingcatsha. I-Psychopaths ibala kakhulu kwaye yenza iimpazamo ezimbalwa.
Ngaba zonke ii-manipulators zine-psychopathy?
Ngokubanzi, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu abe ngumkhohlisi ngaphandle kokuba yi-psychopath. Kwelinye icala, i-psychopath ayinakuphepheka i-manipulator.
Ukongeza, ngenxa yeempawu kunye neempawu zabo, ii-manipulators ezine-psychopathy zikhohlakele ngakumbi. Sisenokuthi bavakalelwa kukuba bafuna ukwenzakalisa abanye.
Kwezinye iimeko, i-psychopathic manipulator inokuqonda ukuphazamiseka kwakhe kwengqondo kwaye ifune ukutshintsha. Kule meko, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zonyango ezinokwenzeka ezifana nonyango lwengqondo okanye ukuthatha amayeza.
Ireferensi yeBibliographical kwi-psychopathic manipulator
Nalu uluhlu lweereferensi ezisixhenxe zebhayibhilografi kumxholo othi “i-psychopathic manipulator”:
- Hervey Cleckley – Le masque de la normalité
- Robert Hare – Psychopathie : Théorie et recherches
- Geneviève Schmit – Cerveau du psychopathe et du pervers narcissique
- Dr. Cancel – Psychopathe : comment le reconnaître et les causes possibles ?
- Geneviève Schmit – Le masque du psychopathe pervers narcissique
- Robert Hare – L’échelle de psychopathie
- Soutien Psy en Ligne – Le rôle du thérapeute dans la guérison des victimes de psychopathes
Ezi zikhombisi zibonelela ngembono enzulu malunga nokuguqulwa kwengqondo kwi-psychopaths, kubandakanywa nohlalutyo lweklinikhi, unyango, kunye nokuziphatha.
Conclusion
Ukuqukumbela, kubalulekile ukuqonda iimpawu ze-psychopathic manipulator ukuze uzikhusele kwimpembelelo yazo enetyhefu. Aba bantu, bahlala benomtsalane kwaye bebala, basebenzisa amaqhinga achuliweyo ukuze balawule kwaye baxhaphaze abo babangqongileyo, ngaphandle kokuziva bezisola okanye imfesane. Ngokwahlukileyo kwii-manipulators ze-narcissistic, ii-psychopathic manipulators zigqama ngenxa yokungabi naluvelwano ngokupheleleyo kunye nokukwazi kwabo ukucwangcisa ngokucokisekileyo izenzo zabo. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba nangona zonke ii-psychopaths zingama-manipulators, ayizizo zonke ii-manipulators eziyi-psychopaths. Kwezinye iimeko, i-psychopath inokufuna uncedo lokutshintsha, kodwa oku kufuna unyango olufanelekileyo kunye nenkxaso yobungcali.
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Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.