I-Mythomania – zithini iiMpawu kunye noNyango?

Ngaphezu kobuxoki obuqhelekileyo, i-mythomania sisigulo sokuziphatha esaziwa kangako. Abantu abangamaxhoba obu bubi bakufumanisa kunzima ukwahlula inyaniso kubuxoki. Ngenxa yendawo engwevu kulo mbandela, eli gama lisetyenziswa ngokungakhethiyo. Kangangokuba kunzima ukuyicalula kuba intsonkothile. Ngoko ke siya kuwucalula lo mbandela nawe.

Mythomania – Yintoni?

Sisifo sengqondo se-pathological kwi-psychiatry. Ukuyibeka ngokulula, ngu utyekelo lokusebenzisa ubuxoki ukubuyisela ubunyani ngaphandle kokuqaphela. Nangona kunjalo, i-nuance kufuneka yenziwe, kuba oku akubona ubuxoki obulula (i-narcissistic manipulator ubuxoki).

• Oku kuziphatha kuchazwe kuqala ngugqirha wengqondo Anton Delbruck en 1891. Kodwa ukuqonda kwe-mythomania okwangoku akukacaci njengoko kubonisiwe kupapasho ku-Dsm-5. Kusekho indawo enkulu engwevu kakhulu. Ngokwenene, esi sigulo sinokufihla ukubandezeleka kokwenene emntwini.
• Ngokukodwa ekubeni ubuxoki bunokuba yinto engokwemvelo kumntwana ongakaqondi umda phakathi kokwenyani kunye nokucinga. Inokukhula ibe yingxaki yokuziphatha xa umntu emdala.
• Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka siphakamise into yokuba iimeko ze-mythomania yobuntwana okanye ezikhoyo ekufikiseni ziye zafunyaniswa. Ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba sizibuze ukuba ngabamythomania ayisosifo sofuzo. Nangona kunjalo, oku akunjalo, sinokuqwalaselaphakathi kwezinye iintsomi, ukukhohlisa, ukukholelwa okanye ukungabikho kwabazali.

• Injongo ye-mythomaniac kukuguqula ubunyani ukuze ufezekise ihlabathi lokuziphakamisa. Kodwa nokudala inyani emvumela ukuba abaleke inyani emkhumbuza ngomothuko wakhe wangaphambili.

Unyango lwe-Mythomania

Ukunyanga i-mythomania ngamayeza akukenzeki. Yenye yokuphazamiseka kwengqondo ebonakala ilula kumphezulu, kodwa inenkalo entsonkothileyo kuyo.

• Isisombululo esilungileyo sokunceda ukugula kwe-mythomania kuhlala kunyango ngonyango lwengqondo okanye lwengqondo.
• Ukusondela kugqirha wengqondo okhethekileyo kwi-mythomania yam ivumela ukuphuculwa okucacileyo kwimeko yengqondo. Le ngxaki ngamanye amaxesha inokunxulunyaniswa nomothuko ohlukeneyo okanye ukothuka okukhoyo kwixesha elidlulileyo.
• I-Mythomania ke ngoko iya kuba sisiphumo sobubi obudlulileyo, obungakhange boyiswe ngumntu ngamnye. Inyathelo lokuqala ke ngoko kukufumanisa, unobangela yingxaki.
• Eyona ngxaki inkulu kunyango kukuba isigulane ngokwaso asiziboni sinjalo. Eneneni uyathuthuzeleka kweyakhe inyani yaye akafuni ukuyishiya. Leli nqanaba elona linzima ngokwe-psychoanalysis ye-mythomania.

Ziziphi iimpawu ezikhoyo kwiMythomaniac?

Ukuze ukwahlula i-mythomania eyi- isifo sengqondo ukusuka kubuxoki obulula, inqaku elinye ngokukhethekileyo livelele. I-mythomaniac ayiyi kwahlula inyaniso kwizinto eziqulunqwe ngayo. Ngokombono wakhe, aba bamva bakhona ngokwenene. Nazi iimpawu ezivumela umntu ukuba afunyanwe ukuba une-mythomania kwi-psychiatry kwaye isetyenziswe ngugqirha wengqondo:

• Ubuxoki buphindaphindwa rhoqo;
• Inqanaba lokugqwethwa kokwenyani okubangelwa yi-confabulations linokwahluka ngamandla. Oku kunokususela ekuguquleni iinkcukacha ezincinane, kuse ekubuyiselweni ngokupheleleyo kobomi bomntu;
• I-ukuzehlisa ukuzithemba kunye nokungabikho kokuzithemba okuthile;
• xa sele ejongene nobuxoki bakhe, i-mythomaniac iya kuba nobunzima bokuyamkela inyaniso. Kwaye oku nokuba ujongene nobungqina bobuxoki bakhe. isizathu kukuba yena ngokwakhe uyabukholelwa ubuxoki bakhe.

Psychotic okanye Pathological Mythomaniac?

Ukufumana indawo ebangela ukuphazamiseka kwi-mythomaniac ngumsebenzi onobungozi. Nangona kunjalo, ugqirha wengqondo uyavuma ukuba i-mythomania ihlala ibonakala njengempendulo yomothuko onzulu weemvakalelo. Yeyokugqibela apho umntu azama ukubaleka ngazo zonke iindleko. Oku kunokususela ekufeni komntu omthandayo, ukuphoxeka eluthandweni, ukubhengezwa kwesigulo esinganyangekiyo okanye ukungaphumeleli okuphindaphindiweyo kwezemfundo okanye kubungcali.

• Mythomaniac pathological: Kule meko, umntu ubalekela inyaniso. Oku kudla ngokubonakala njengokunqongophala okanye ukungazithembi. Le yimeko ye-pathological mythomania.
• Psychotic mythomaniac: Unengqondo xa ukukhohlisa kwe-mythomaniac kungadityaniswa nenyani. Zivela kwi-psychosis efana ne-schizophrenia, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okanye nakwisigaba somntu. Iya kudibaniswa apha kunye nezinye iziphazamiso zengqondo kunye neempawu zabo.

Iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeMtyhtomania

Ngaphandle koku, ikwahlelwa kwiintlobo ezi-4 ziingcali ezithile

• Vainted (umntu uyaqhayisa, ngamanye amaxesha abeke iingxoxo ezibambekayo okanye ezihlasimlisayo),
• Errante (umntu uhlala ebaleka inyaniso kwaye akakwazi ukumelana nayo),
• Malignant (usebenza ukubuyekeza ukuziva uphantsi),
• Perverse (le fomu isondele kwi-scam).

Iziphumo ezibi kwimeko yeMythomaniac

Impembelelo ekunokuba nayo ukuxoka kubomi bomntu inkulu kakhulu. Kule ngxaki yengqondo, akukho nto inokwenzeka ukuba ibe mandundu ngokwayo. Enyanisweni, ayiyi kutshintsha ibe kolunye uhlobo lwesi simo se-pathological.

• Eyona ngxaki ikubomi bemihla ngemihla bomntu ochatshazelwe sesi sigulo. Abo bajikeleze i-mythomaniac bazifumana becaphukile ngenxa yolu qulunqo. Aba bakhanyelayo banokubona ukuba i-mythomaniac yenziwe ngabom kwaye ayizizo izenzo zokuzithandela. Uya kwandula ke abe likheswa nangakumbi, nto leyo eya kugxininisa kuphela ukuwohloka kwemeko yakhe yengqondo.
• Ukongeza kwingxaki enokuthi ibangele abanye, yona ngokwayo inokuba yingozi kuye. Eneneni, ukuthembela kwakhe ngokumfamekileyo kwimicimbi yakhe kunokubangela iimeko eziyingozi. Makhe sithathe umzekelo ongenakuthelekiswa nanto womntu wasentsomini okholelwa ukuba unamandla athile omzimba kwaye onokuzama ukungqina amabango akhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba semngciphekweni wokwenzakala kakhulu aze afe.

Umahluko phakathi kwexoki kunye ne-mythomaniac

Ukuba esi sigulo sinokunxulumana nesenzo esilula sokuxoka, kukho i-nuance ekufuneka yenziwe. Oku kungenxa yokuba ukuba ukuxoka kwimeko ethile kusetyenziselwa izizathu “ezilungileyo”, ezinjengokukhusela iimvakalelo zomntu. Okanye ukwenza abantwana baphuphe ngamabali athile. Oku akunjalo apha. I-mythomaniac ayinayo injongo enjalo yokufezekisa.

• Amaxoki, kungakhathaliseki ukuba angakanani na amanqanaba, akanakugqalwa njengeentsomi. Ingongoma kukuba ixoki elizinikeleyo okanye umkhohlisi usebenzisa ukugqwetheka kokwenyani ngokuqaphela into ayenzayo. Ukongezelela, ukuxoka kusetyenziselwa ukufezekisa injongo ethile nge-interlocutor. Sisixhobo esisetyenziselwa ukufihla ulwazi ukuguqula imeko ibe yinzuzo kumntu.
• Umntu wasentsomini uyaxoka kuye engakhange abe nolwazi ngobuqhetseba abuthethayo. Ubomi bakhe bugutyungelwe ngokupheleleyo sisigqubuthelo sobuxoki bakhe. Ngulo mqobo ovumela ukuba akhusele umbono wakhe wehlabathi kunye novelwano lwakhe.

Kutheni iMythomaniac ixoka?

Kufuneka kuvunywe ukuba ukuxoka kusisixhobo esiluncedo kakhulu sokuphuma engxakini. Kodwa i-mythomaniac njengexoki elinyanzelekileyo liya kuxoka ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo ngokupheleleyo. Inokuphenjelelwa kukuzithanda okuqinileyo, ukuzingca okugqithisileyo okanye ukuzicingela kakubi. I-mythomaniac ayinakumela inyaniso kwaye ayikwazi ukujongana nayo. Esi sisizathu esicacileyo sokuba kutheni yena ngokwakhe ekholelwa kwizinto zakhe.

Ireferensi yebhayibhilografi kwiMythomania

Nazi izingqinisiso ezisixhenxe zenzululwazi kumxholo we-mythomania:

1. Dupré, Ernest. La Mythomanie, étude psychologique et médico-légale du mensonge et de la fabulation morbides. Paris : Imprimerie de J. Gainche, 1905.
2. Journiac, Kevin, et Viviane Rohart. « La mythomanie dans une perspective addictologique : le mensonge comme un pharmakon ». Psychotropes, vol. 24, no 2, 2018, pp. 5-22.
3. Cyrulnik, Boris. Les nourritures affectives. Paris : Odile Jacob, 1993.
4. Mijolla-Mellor, Sophie de. « Mensonge et vérité en psychanalyse ». Revue française de psychanalyse, vol. 59, no 5, 1995, pp. 1315-1325.
5. Neveu, Pascal. Les manipulateurs sont parmi nous. Paris : Éditions de l’Homme, 2008.
6. Biland, Claudine. « La mythomanie : définition, causes, symptômes, traitement ». Santé Magazine, 9 février 2022.
7. Descartes Foundation. “Inyaniso kunye nokunganyaniseki: ubuxoki, ubuxoki, ubuxoki, i-mythomania kunye nokholo olubi”. 2020.

Ezi ncwadi kunye namanqaku anika imbono enzulu malunga ne-mythomania, ukubonakaliswa kwayo kunye neempembelelo zayo zengqondo.

Ukuqukumbela

Ukuqukumbela, i-mythomania sisifo esintsonkothileyo, esihlala singaqondwa kakuhle kwaye kunzima ukwahlula kubuxoki obulula. Le ndlela yokuziphatha ye-pathological ibonisa imfuno yokubuyisela ubunyani, rhoqo ukubaleka ukwenzakala okudlulileyo. Ngaphandle kokungabikho konyango oluthile lwechiza, uhlolo olufanelekileyo lonyango lunokunceda ukuqonda kunye nokunyanga esi sifo. I-Mythomaniacs, ebanjwe kubuxoki babo, idla ngokuba nobunzima bokuyamkela imeko yabo, iyenza inkqubo yokuphilisa ibe-ethe-ethe kwaye ifuna inkxaso ekhethekileyo yengqondo okanye yengqondo.

Ukuqhagamshelana:

• Uthetha njani nomntu osebenzisa i-narcissistic manipulator?
• Manipulative Perverted Narcissist