Ngaba ukhe waba lixhoba le-narcissistic manipulator kwaye uyaphupha ngokuziphindezela ngaphandle kokushiya umkhondo? Le yimvakalelo eqondakalayo emva kokuphathwa kakubi ngokwasengqondweni kunye nokuxhatshazwa. Nangona kunjalo, impindezelo yokwenyani ayizi ngezenzo ezincinci okanye ezingekho mthethweni, kodwa ngokukhula kwakho kunye nenkululeko yangaphakathi. Nantsi indlela yokuziphindezela ngendlela ephilileyo neyakhayo, ngaphandle kokuzehlisela kwinqanaba lomhlaseli wakho.
Kutheni umnqweno wokuziphindezela ungokwemvelo kodwa uyingozi?
Emva kobudlelwane be-toxic kunye ne-manipulator ye-narcissistic, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuziva unomsindo kunye nomnqweno wobulungisa. Wonzakele, wasetyenziswa, kwaye ufuna umxhaphazi wakho ahlawule ngezenzo zakhe. Le mvakalelo yokuziphindezela inokubonakala izolile okwangoku, kodwa inomngcipheko omkhulu:
- Kukugcina kunxibelelwano lweemvakalelo nomxhaphazi lowo wakho
- Ukwenza ukuba wamkele ukuziphatha okuyityhefu efana neyakhe.
- Kusenokubakho iziphumo zomthetho ukuba uthatha inyathelo.
- Ikuthintela ukuba uqhubele phambili kwaye uzakhe kwakhona ngoxolo
Ukongezelela, ii-manipulators ze-narcissistic ziyaphumelela kwingqalelo enikelwa kubo, kwanengqalelo engafanelekanga. Ukufuna impindezelo ngenkuthalo bekuya komeleza imvakalelo yabo yokuba namandla onke. Eyona mpindezelo ilungileyo ke ngoko kukuzikhupha ngokupheleleyo kwaye ugxile kuwe.
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Ukubuyisela uBuyela kuBomi bakho: ukuziphindezela okugqibeleleyo
Impindezelo yokwenyani ngokuchasene ne-narcissistic manipulator kukubuyisela ukulawula ubomi bakho kunye nolonwabo lwakho. Nantsi indlela yokufikelela kuyo:
Luqhawule lonke unxibelelwano nomxhaphazi lowo wakho
Inyathelo lokuqala elibalulekileyo kukuqhawula onke amaqhina kunye ne-narcissistic manipulator:
- Vimba amanani abo kunye neenethiwekhi zentlalo
- Yeka ukuphendula kwiinzame zabo zoqhagamshelwano
- Ziphephe iindawo athe rhoqo kuzo
- Cela abo bakungqongileyo ukuba bangabaniki ulwazi ngawe
Olu lwahlulo lucacileyo lubalulekile ukuze uzikhulule kwimpembelelo yalo kwaye uqale ukuphiliswa kwakho.
Sebenzela ukuzithemba kwakho
I-narcissistic manipulator ikonakalisa ngokungathandabuzekiyo ukuzithemba kwakho. Yakhe kwakhona inyathelo ngenyathelo:
- Dwelisa iimpawu zakho kunye nempumelelo yonke imihla
- Zijikeleze ngabantu abakhathalayo nabanomvuzo
- Zibekele iinjongo ezinokufikelelwa kwaye ubhiyozele uloyiso lwakho
- Ziqhelanise ne-self-mfesane phambi kweempazamo okanye ubuthathaka bakho.
Kancinci kancinci, uya kuphinda ube nokholo kuwe nakwizakhono zakho.
Qalisa kwakhona iiprojekthi zakho zobuqu
Yintoni oyibeke ecaleni ngenxa yolu lwalamano luyityhefu? Lixesha lokuba uphinde uqhagamshelane nezinto ozithandayo kunye namabhongo akho:
- Buyela kwizifundo okanye uqeqesho
- Thatha into entsha yokuzonwabisa
- Ukuhamba, fumana i-horizons entsha
- Phuhlisa iitalente zakho zobugcisa okanye ezemidlalo
Ukufezekisa amaphupha akho yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokubonisa ukuba awuyidingi ukuba uphumelele.
Philisa amanxeba akho angaphakathi ukuze uqhubele phambili
Ukuzikhulula ngokwenyani, kubalulekile ukuphilisa amanxeba akho ngokweemvakalelo:
Cacisa iimvakalelo zakho
I-narcissistic manipulator mhlawumbi ikunyanzele ukuba ucinezele iimvakalelo zakho. Bakhulule ekugqibeleni:
- Bhala idayari uvakalise umsindo wakho kunye nosizi
- Ziqhelanise neendlela zokukhupha iimvakalelo (EFT, ukuphefumla, njl.)
- Khala, khala, udanise ukukhulula ukuphuphuma kweemvakalelo
- Thetha nabantu obathandayo othembekileyo okanye ingcali yokunyanga
Ukuvakalisa oko kusentliziyweni yakho kuya kukuvumela ukuba uzikhwebule kuyo ngokuthe ngcembe.
Zixolele kwaye uyeke
Musa ukuzibeka ityala “ngokuwela emgibeni”. Ukuzixolela kubalulekile:
- Khumbula ukuba awunaxanduva ngezenzo zomxhaphazi lowo wakho
- Yamkela ukuba awukwazi ukutshintsha ixesha elidlulileyo
- Guqula la mava abe kukufunda kwixesha elizayo
- Gxininisa kwixesha langoku kunye nento onokuyilawula
Ngokuzixolela, ukhulula ubunzima betyala kunye nenzondo.
Ukwakha kwakhona ubomi obanelisayo: eyona mpindezelo yakho inkulu
Uphuhliso lwakho lobuqu yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokubonisa ukuba unamandla kunaye:
Zijikeleze ngobudlelwane obunempilo, obulungileyo
Emva kobudlelwane obunetyhefu, lixesha lokudala unxibelelwano oluyinyani nolunenkathalo:
- Qhagamshelana kwakhona nabahlobo bakudala obungahoywanga ngexesha lobudlelwane bakho
- Zivulele kwiindibano ezintsha zobuhlobo
- Zibandakanye kwimisebenzi yeqela (ezemidlalo, amavolontiya, njl.njl.)
- Funda ukumisela imida yakho kunye nokunxibelelana ngokusempilweni
Obu budlelwane buhle buya kukunceda ukuba uphinde uthembele kwabanye nakwisiqu sakho.
Yinyamekele impilo yakho yomzimba nengqondo
Ukuphila ngendlela enempilo kuya komeleza ukomelela kwakho:
- Yitya ukutya okunokulinganisela kunye okunencasa
- Ziqhelise ukwenza umthambo rhoqo
- Zinike ixesha lokuphumla kunye nokucamngca
- Qhagamshelana nengcali yezempilo ukuba kuyimfuneko (ugqirha, isazi ngengqondo, njl.njl.)
Ngokuzikhathalela, uthumela umyalezo onamandla: uyazihlonela kwaye ufanelwe okona kulungileyo.
Yenza amaphupha akho obuchule abe yinyaniso
Umsebenzi unokuba ngumthombo omangalisayo wokuzaliseka:
- Yiba nobuganga bokwenza isicelo seso sikhundla uphupha ngaso
- Yiya kwishishini ukuba ufuna loo nto
- Thatha uqeqesho lokuphucula izakhono zakho
- Ziqinisekise kubudlelwane bakho bomsebenzi
Impumelelo yakho iya kuba bubungqina obuphilayo bokuba awuyifuni ukuba ikhanye.
Khuthaza amanye amaxhoba ngokomelela kwakho
Uhambo lwakho lunokuba ngumthombo wethemba kwabanye abafazi abakwimeko yakho:
- Yabelana ngamava akho kwiiforamu okanye kumaqela enkxaso
- Bhala ibhlog okanye incwadi malunga nohambo lwakho lokuphilisa
- Yiba livolontiya kumbutho onceda i-Amaxhoba e-narcissistic pervert
- Yenza abo bakungqongileyo bazi iimpawu zobudlelwane obuyityhefu
Ngokunceda abanye, unika intsingiselo kumava akho kwaye womeleze owakho ukuphiliswa.
Ukuqukumbela
Ukuqukumbela, ukuziphindezela ngaphandle kokushiya umkhondo kwi-narcissistic manipulator ayibandakanyi izenzo zokuziphindezela, kodwa ngophuhliso lwakho. Ngokuzakha kwakhona, ukufezekisa amaphupha akho kwaye uphile ngokupheleleyo, ubonisa ukuba ukubamba kwayo kuwe kuphelile. Ulonwabo lwakho kunye nempumelelo iya kuba yimpindezelo yakho enkulu, ngaphandle kokufuna ukuzithoba okanye umngcipheko weziphumo zomthetho. Khumbula: eyona ndlela ingcono yokuziphindezela kukuphila kakuhle, kwaye ungamvumeli umhlaseli wakho athathe indawo engqondweni okanye entliziyweni yakho.
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The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.