Ubudlelwane kunye ne-narcissistic manipulator bunokuba neziphumo ezininzi ezimbi kwimpilo yengqondo kunye nomzimba. Phakathi kwezi, ukuphuthelwa luphawu oluqhelekileyo kodwa oludla ngokungakhathalelwa. Eli nqaku liphonononga amakhonkco phakathi kwe-narcissistic abuse kunye nokuphazamiseka kokulala, kunye neendlela zokufumana ubusuku obunokuthula.
Ukungalali, uphawu lobudlelwane obuyityhefu
Ukuphuthelwa lolunye lweempawu zokuqala ezinokukulumkisa kubudlelwane obuxhaphazayo kunye ne-narcissistic manipulator. Amaxhoba adla ngokuchaza ubunzima bokulala, ukuvuka rhoqo ebusuku, okanye ukulala okungaqabukiyo. Olu kuphazamiseka kokulala lukhula ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye lunokuba lungapheliyo.
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Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba oku kuphazamiseka kokulala akuyonto encinci kwaye kunokuba luphawu olubalulekileyo olulumkisayo. Bahlala bebonakalisa uxinzelelo oluqhubekayo kunye nokuxhalaba okuvela kubudlelwane obuyityhefu, nangona ixhoba lingayazi ngokupheleleyo emini.
Iindlela zokungalali ezinxulunyaniswa nokusetyenziswa kakubi kwe-narcissistic
Izinto ezininzi zichaza ukuba kutheni amaxhoba e-narcissistic manipulators ehlala enengxaki yokuphuthelwa:
- Ukuhlaziywa kwengqondo kwiingxabano kunye nokukhohlisa
- Ukuxhalaba kunye noxinzelelo oluqhubekayo olubangelwa ubudlelwane
- Iingcinga eziphazamisayo ezinxulumene nokulayita igesi
- Ukudinwa ngokweemvakalelo okuphazamisa imijikelo yokulala
Ukuphuthelwa kunye nempilo: isangqa esiyingozi esiyingozi
Ukungabikho kokulala okungapheliyo kunemiphumo emibi kwimpilo yomzimba kunye nengqondo. Yandisa umngcipheko wokudakumba, ukuxhalaba kunye nokudinwa. Ukongeza, ukudinwa kwenza amaxhoba abe sesichengeni ngakumbi kubuchule be-narcissistic manipulator. Oku kukhula kobuthathaka kunokubonakala njengokuncipha kwamandla okwenza izigqibo ezizizo okanye ukugcina imida yeemvakalelo esempilweni.
Ukongezelela, ukuphuthelwa okuzingisileyo kunokuchaphazela inkqubo yomzimba yokuzikhusela, nto leyo eyenza amaxhoba abe sesichengeni sokugula ngokwasemzimbeni, kongezeleleka ngakumbi kwimeko esele inzima.
Ukubuyela ekulaleni ukuze uzikhulule kulawulo lwe-narcissistic
Nanga amanye amacebiso okuphucula ukulala kwakho kwaye ufumane amandla kwakhona:
- Ziphephe izikrini ngaphambi kokulala
- Ziqhelanise neendlela zokuphumla kunye nokuphefumla
- Gcina ijenali ukukhupha iingcinga ezingalunganga
- Jonga igcisa elisebenza ngokugqithisileyo Narcissistic abuse.
Ukungalali njengendlela yokuxhatshazwa: ukulawula ubuthongo
Ulawulo lokulala lolona hlobo lusoloko lungahoywa kodwa luyingozi kakhulu. Abaqhubi be-Narcissistic banokuphazamisa ngabom ubuthongo bexhoba ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: ukuqala iingxabano ngaphambi kokulala, ukuvusa iqabane labo ngaphandle kwesizathu esivakalayo, okanye ukudala indawo engafanelekanga yokuphumla. Ezi ndlela zokuziphatha zijolise ekunciphiseni ixhoba kunye nokugcina ulawulo.
Impembelelo yokungalali kwimihla ngemihla kunye nobomi bomsebenzi
Imiphumo yokuphuthelwa ibonakala kwiinkalo ezininzi zobomi bethu. Yonke imihla, abantu abanengxaki yokuphuthelwa bajongana:
- Ukunciphisa ukugxila kunye nememori
- Ukonyuka kokucaphuka kunye nokuguquka kwemizwelo
- Amandla aphantsi kunye nokukhathala okungapheliyo
- Umngcipheko ophezulu weengozi zasekhaya nezendlela
Kwimeko yobuchwephesha, iziphumo zibaluleke ngokufanayo:
- Ukunciphisa imveliso kunye nokusebenza
- Ubunzima bokwenza izigqibo
- Ukwanda kweempazamo kunye nokungahoyi
- Ubudlelwane obunzima bomsebenzi
- Ukungabikho rhoqo emsebenzini
Kubalulekile ukudibana nengcali yezempilo kwiimpawu zokuqala eziqhubekayo zokuphuthelwa ukunqanda imeko ukuba ibe mandundu.
Izicwangciso ezisebenzayo zokukhusela ubuthongo bakho
Ujongene neqabane eliphazamisa ukulala kwakho ngabom, amanyathelo abambekayo ayimfuneko:
- Cinga ngokulala kwigumbi elahlukileyo ukuba kunokwenzeka
- Tyala imali kwizixhobo zokulala njengewotshi eyenza ixesha elikwisilingi
- Misela imida ecacileyo malunga nokuphazamiseka kokulala
- Ukuphazamiseka kwamaxwebhu ukuqonda ubungakanani bengxaki
- Ungalibazisi ukudibana nomgqirha ngenkxaso kunye nezicwangciso ezilungelelanisiweyo
Ukuphuthelwa okubangelwa yi-narcissistic manipulator yingxaki enkulu efuna ingqalelo yakho epheleleyo. Ukukhusela ubuthongo bakho kubalulekile ekugcineni impilo yakho kunye nokukwazi kwakho ukubuyela kwakhona kubudlelwane be-toxic. Musa ukoyika ukuthatha amanyathelo angqongqo ukuqinisekisa impilo-ntle yakho kunye neyabo ubathandayo.
I-Bibliographic reference malunga nokuphuthelwa
Nazi iimbekiselo ezisixhenxe zebhayibhili malunga nombandela wokuphuthelwa:
- Fouquet, J. (2018). L’insomnie : Comprendre et traiter les troubles du sommeil. Paris : Éditions Odile Jacob.
- Auckett, A. et al. (2019). Troubles du sommeil : Évaluation et prise en charge de l’insomnie. Revue Française de Psychiatrie, 37(3), 85-90.
- Sénat, J. (2016). Le sommeil et ses troubles. Paris : Éditions du CNRS.
- Cerny, F., & Ouellet, M. (2020). L’insomnie chronique : Comprendre les mécanismes et les traitements. Annales Médico-Psychologiques, 178(8), 845-850.
- Druet, C. (2021). Sommeil et santé mentale : l’impact de l’insomnie sur les pathologies psychiatriques. Psychiatrie et Santé Mentale, 11(2), 123-130.
- Rosenberg, R. (2017). Insomnie : Approches contemporaines de la thérapie cognitive et comportementale. Psychologie & Santé, 22(1), 45-52.
- Lemoine, P., & Bouhassira, D. (2015). Douleur chronique et insomnie : une approche pluridisciplinaire. Revue du Rhumatisme, 82(4), 357-365.
Ezi zikhombisi kufuneka zikunike isiseko esiluqilima sokuphonononga isihloko sokuphuthelwa ngendlela yesayensi.
Ukuphuthelwa, umqobo kwindlela eya ekuchacheni
Ukufumana ubuthongo obumnandi kubalulekile ukuze uzakhe kwakhona emva kobudlelwane ne-narcissistic manipulator. Idla ngokuba yinkqubo ende efuna umonde nobubele ngakuwe.
Ukuqukumbela, ukuphuthelwa luphawu oluqhelekileyo kodwa olujongelwa phantsi lokuxhatshazwa kwe-narcissistic. Ukuqonda olu xhulumaniso kunye nokuphumeza izicwangciso zokulala ngcono ngamanyathelo abalulekileyo ekuphiliseni. Ungalibazisi ukuthetha nogqirha wakho okanye ingcali yezempilo yengqondo ukuba iingxaki zakho zokulala ziyaqhubeka.
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Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.