Iindidi ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissism: Uhlalutyo olunzulu

I-Narcissism yingcamango entsonkothileyo eye yabangela umdla kwiingcali zengqondo kunye noluntu ngokubanzi amashumi eminyaka. Nangona zihlala zibonwa ngokulula, kukho iindidi ezininzi ze-narcissism, nganye ineempawu zayo kunye nokubonakaliswa. Eli nqaku liphonononga iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissism, inkcazo yazo, izizathu ezinokubakho kunye neziphumo zabo kubantu ngabanye nakwabo babangqongileyo.

I-Narcissism: I-spectrum kunodidi olubini

I-narcissism ayingombuzo olula othi “ewe” okanye “hayi”. Endaweni yoko, yi-spectrum enamanqanaba ahlukeneyo obunzima. Kwelinye icala kukho iindlela ezibuthathaka ze-narcissism ezinokubonakala ngokuziphatha okucaphukisayo kodwa okungeyongozi. Kwelinye icala, kukho iindlela ezimandundu ngakumbi ezinokuba neziphumo ezibi kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu kunye nentlalo-ntle yeemvakalelo yabo bachaphazelekayo.

Umahluko phakathi kwe-narcissism kunye ne-narcissistic personality disorder

Kubalulekile ukuqonda umahluko phakathi kwe-narcissism njengophawu lobuntu kunye ne-narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). I-Narcissism ligama elichazayo elibandakanya isethi yokuziphatha kunye nesimo sengqondo, ngelixa i-NPD luxilongo oluthile lwekliniki. I-TPN idinga ukuhlangabezana neendlela ezithile ezichazwe kwi-Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) okanye i-International Classification of Diseases (ICD-11).

Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo ze-narcissism

Nangona ukubonakaliswa kwe-narcissism kunokwahluka, iimpawu ezithile zihlala zikhona:

1. Ukungabi naluvelwano
2. Ukuziva wongamile
3. Isidingo esithe rhoqo sokuqinisekiswa
4. Ubunzima bokulawula iimvakalelo
5. Utyekelo lokuxhaphaza abanye
6. Ukungakhuseleki okunzulu okugqunywe yimbonakalo yokuzithemba.

Iindidi ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissism

Nazi iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissism:

• Grandiose narcissism

I-Grandiose narcissism lolona hlobo lwaziwayo. Abantu abanolu hlobo lwe-narcissism banombono ophakamileyo wokubaluleka kunye nobuchule babo. Basoloko befuna ukunconywa nengqalelo kwabanye, kwaye banokuba nekratshi kwaye bazithobe.

• Covert (okanye efihliweyo) narcissism

Ngokungafaniyo ne-grandiose narcissism, i-narcissism efihlakeleyo inobuqili ngakumbi. Abantu abanolu hlobo lwe-narcissism banokubonakala beneentloni okanye begcinwe phezulu, kodwa ngaphakathi baphethe iingcamango zobukhulu kunye nesidingo esinzulu sokuqatshelwa. Basenokuba novelwano kakhulu ekugxekweni kwaye babe nomona onzulu kwabanye.

• I-narcissism yoluntu

I-Communal narcissism iphawulwa ngesidingo esigqithisileyo sokuqondwa kwegalelo likabani kuluntu okanye kwisizathu. Aba bantu bazijonga njengabaxhamli abangazicingeliyo, kodwa eyona njongo yabo ingundoqo ihlala ikukuphucuka komntu endaweniukuthanda abanye abantu yinyani.

• I-narcissism eyingozi

I-narcissism enobungozi ithathwa njengenye yeendlela eziyingozi kakhulu. Idibanisa iimpawu ze-narcissism kunye nezo ze-psychopathy kunye ne-sadism. Abantu abanolu hlobo lwe-narcissism banokukhohlisa ngakumbi, babe ndlongondlongo, kwaye baswele ukuzisola.

• Benign narcissism

I-narcissism ethambileyo luhlobo oluthambileyo olunokuthi luthathwe njengenqanaba lokukhula eliqhelekileyo, ngakumbi kulutsha kunye nabantu abadala abancinci. Ibonakaliswe ngamampunge athile kunye nesidingo sokuqwalaselwa, kodwa ngaphandle kwemiba eyonakalisayo yezinye iintlobo ze-narcissism.

• I-narcissism yemveli okanye yenkcubeko

Olu hlobo lwe-narcissism lubhekiselele kwi-narcissism ebonwa kwisizukulwana okanye kwinkcubeko yonke. Inokuphenjelelwa yimiba yoluntu, njengokugxininisa kumntu ngamnye okanye impembelelo yeendaba zoluntu.

• I-narcissism exutyiweyo

Abanye abantu banokubonisa iimpawu ezingaphezulu kolunye uhlobo lwe-narcissism, nto leyo eyenza ulwahlulo lwabo lube nzima ngakumbi. Olu hlobo lwe-narcissism edibeneyo lunokudibanisa izinto ze-subtypes ezahlukeneyo, ukudala eyodwa kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukubethelela iprofayili.

Izinto ezinokuba ngunobangela we-narcissism

Imvelaphi ye-narcissism inzima kwaye ingumxholo weethiyori ezininzi. Phakathi kwezinto ezinokuthi zibandakanyeke, sinokucaphula:

1. Education: Imfundo evumela kakhulu okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ibaluleke kakhulu inokuba negalelo ekuphuhliseni iimpawu ze-narcissistic.
2. Ukwenzakala kwabantwana: Amava okwenzakala kwangethuba ngamanye amaxesha anokukhokelela ekwamkelweni kweendlela zokukhusela i-narcissistic.
3. Imiba yeGenetic: Olunye uphando lucebisa ukuba kukho ufuzo kwi-narcissism.
4. Impembelelo yenkcubeko: Ukuqinisekiswa kwentlalo yeempawu ezithile ze-narcissistic kunokukhuthaza ukukhula kwazo.

Iziphumo zeentlobo ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissism

I-Narcissism ingaba neempembelelo ezibalulekileyo kubomi babantu abachaphazelekayo kunye nabo babangqongileyo:

• Impembelelo kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu

Abantu beNarcissistic bahlala benobunzima bokugcina ubudlelwane obunempilo, obuhlala buhleli. Ukungabi naluvelwano kwabo kunye notyekelo lokuxhaphaza kunokubangela uxinezeleko kunye neengxabano eziqhubekayo.

• Imicimbi yobuchwephesha

Nangona ezinye iimpawu ze-narcissistic zinokukhuthaza impumelelo yomsebenzi, zinokukhokelela kubunzima ekuhambeni kwexesha. Ukuziphatha okuzigwagwisayo kunye nokungabikho kwentsebenziswano kunokonakalisa ubudlelwane bomsebenzi kunye nokuqhubela phambili komsebenzi.

• Impilo yengqondo

I-Narcissism ihlala inxulunyaniswa nezinye iimeko zempilo yengqondo, ezifana nokudakumba, ukuxhalaba, okanye ukuphazamiseka kokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi. Ubunzima bokusingatha ukugxekwa kunye nokusilela kunokukhokelela ekubandezelekeni okukhulu ngokweemvakalelo.

• Impembelelo kuluntu

Ngomlinganiselo omkhulu, ukuxhaphaka kweempawu ze-narcissistic kuluntu kunokuba nemiphumo kwimilinganiselo edibeneyo, i-social dynamics kunye nezopolitiko.

I-Narcissism kunye ne-narcissistic personality disorder

Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ayingabo bonke abantu ababonisa iimpawu ze-narcissistic ekunyanzelekileyo ukuba baphathwe yi-narcissistic personality disorder. Ukuxilongwa kwe-TPN kufuna uvavanyo olunzulu lweklinikhi kunye nobukho bekhrayitheriya ethile ebangela ukuxinezeleka okukhulu okanye ukuphazamiseka ekusebenzeni kwentlalo kunye nomsebenzi.

Iimbekiselo zeBibliographic kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissism

Nalu ukhetho lweembekiselo ezisixhenxe zebhayografi kumxholo weentlobo ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissism:

1. Séguin, D. (2024). Variations des caractéristiques narcissiques de la personnalité : vers une meilleure conceptualisation de la pathologie du narcissisme.
2. Descôteaux, J., & Laverdière, O. (2019). Narcissisme normal et pathologique : exposé intégratif des principales conceptualisations psychanalytiques nord-américaines.
3. Barbe, R. (2021). NarcissismeS.
4. Willis, M. (2023). Deux types de narcissisme : grandiose et vulnérable.
5. Michaud, P. (2019). Tous narcissiques?.
6. Cabanat, A., & Carton, F. (2021). Tomber avec l’objet.
7. Sellier-Mesnard, É. (2021). Rencontre avec l’autre et subjectivation.

Ezi zikhombisi zibonelela ngembono enzulu kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissism, zombini kwimbono yethiyori kunye neklinikhi.

Ukuqukumbela

Iindidi ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissism zisihloko esintsonkothileyo kwaye esinentsingiselo. Ukusuka kwifomu enkulu ukuya kwifom egqunyiweyo, kubandakanywa ukwahluka kwenkcubeko kunye nomxube, i-narcissism izibonakalisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ukuqonda ezi fom ezahlukeneyo akusivumeli kuphela ukuba siqonde ngcono le nto yengqondo, kodwa nokuphuhlisa iindlela ezilungelelanisiweyo zokujongana nayo, nokuba kumxholo wobuqu, wobugcisa okanye wonyango.

Ukuqaphela iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ze-narcissism kuvula indlela yokuqonda ngcono ubunzima bobuntu bomntu kunye nemingeni enokuthi ibangele ekusebenzisaneni kwethu kwemihla ngemihla. Ikwaqaqambisa ukubaluleka kwendlela enovelwano kunye ne-nuanced kwindlela esibona ngayo isimilo se-narcissistic, ngelixa siqaphela impembelelo enokuba yingozi enokuba nayo kumntu ngamnye nakuluntu luphela.

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