Kwilizwe apho ingxaki yezindlu ibangela ukwanda kweentsapho ukuba zithathele ingqalelo ukuhlala ndawonye kwabantu bezizwe ngezizwe, kubalulekile ukujonga imingeni eyodwa enokuthi iveze le meko, ngakumbi kubafazi abangamaxhoba enkohliso phakathi kosapho lwabo. Eli nqaku liphonononga “Icala Elimnyama loSapho lweZizukulwane ezininzi,” isihloko esihlala singahoywa kwiingxoxo zeenzuzo zobu bomi.
Yintoni ukuhlalisana kwabantu abaninzi?
Ukuhlalisana kwezizukulwana ezininzi kubhekiselele kwilungiselelo apho izizukulwana ezininzi zosapho olunye zihlala phantsi kophahla olunye okanye kufutshane. Olu cwangciso lunokubandakanya oomakhulu nootatomkhulu, abazali, kunye nabantwana ababelana ngendawo yokuhlala efanayo. Nangona isoloko ichazwa njengesicombululo esifanelekileyo kwimingeni ekhoyo yezoqoqosho nezentlalo, le meko inokuba yingxaki yokwenene xa ilungu lentsapho liyimpatho-mbi.
Intsomi yosapho olugqibeleleyo
Amajelo eendaba kunye noluntu luthanda ukwenza ubomi babantu bube bulungelelanisiweyo, bubonisa imifanekiso yeentsapho ezonwabileyo zisabelana ngokutya kwintendelezo esembindini, bencedana, kwaye bonwabele isitiya soluntu. Nangona kunjalo, lo mbono wothando awuthatheli ngqalelo ubunyani beentsapho ezingasebenziyo, ngakumbi ezo ziphawulwe nge-narcissism.
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Narcissism kwimeko yosapho
I-narcissism, ebonakala ngokuzicingela ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nokungabi novelwano, kunokuba nemiphumo ebuhlungu kwindawo esondeleyo yentsapho. Kwimeko yezizwe ngezizwe, ezi mpawu zobuntu zinokukhula, zidale imeko enetyhefu kuwo onke amalungu osapho, ngakumbi kubafazi abasoloko bengowona mgomo uphambili wokuziphatha gadalala.
Imiceli mngeni eyodwa yokuhlala nenarcissist
Ukuhlalisana kunye ne-narcissist kuzisa imingeni emininzi.
Ukuphatha rhoqo
Kwindawo ekwabelwana ngayo, i-narcissist inamathuba amaninzi okukhohlisa amanye amalungu osapho. Amaxhoba amabhinqa asenokuzifumana ehlala egadile, ezama ukuzulazula kwindawo eneemvakalelo mihla le.
Ukunqongophala kwabucala kunye nemida
Ukusondela ngokwasemzimbeni kwikhaya elinabantu abaninzi kunokunyusa imiba yemida yomntu. I-narcissist inokuxhaphaza le meko ukuze ihlasele indawo yobuqu yabanye, iyenze kube nzima ukuba amaxhoba afumane indawo yokusabela okanye umzuzu woxolo.
Usapho lukanxantathu
I-narcissist inokusebenzisa ubukho bezizukulwana ezininzi ukudala ubudlelwane kunye nokwahlula usapho. Oku kuguquguquka kunokulahlula ngakumbi ixhoba kwaye libahluthe inkxaso kwintsapho yalo.
Impembelelo yecala elimnyama leentsapho ezininzi kwimpilo yengqondo
Ukuphila ngokuseta kwizizukulwana ezininzi kunye ne-narcissist kunokuba neziphumo ezibi kwimpilo yengqondo yamaxhoba. Ukuxinezeleka rhoqo, ukuxhalaba kunye nokudakumba ziingxaki eziqhelekileyo. Ukungakwazi ukubaleka indawo enetyhefu kunokuzenza zibe mandundu ngakumbi ezi mpawu kwaye kukhokelele ekudinweni ngokweemvakalelo.
Okulindelweyo luluntu nenkcubeko
Kwiinkcubeko ezininzi, ukuhlalisana kwabantu abaninzi kuthathwa njengento eqhelekileyo. Olu xinzelelo lwasekuhlaleni lunokwenza kube nzima ngakumbi ukuba amaxhoba abaleke imeko yokuxhatshazwa. Amabhinqa, ngokukodwa, asenokuziva ecinezelekile ukuba agcine imvisiswano yentsapho ngokulahlekelwa yimpilo-ntle yawo.
I-paradox yokuncedana
Okumangalisayo kukuba, ngelixa ukuphila kwezizukulwana ezininzi kudla ngokunconywa ngeenzuzo zabo ngokunyamekela kunye nokuxhasana okufanayo, ubukho be-narcissist bunokuguqula le ntshukumo ibe yinto eyahlukileyo. Endaweni yendawo exhasayo, ikhaya liba yindawo yokuxhaphaza apho i-narcissist ithatha inzuzo kwabanye ngaphandle kokubuyisela.
Impembelelo yezoqoqosho
Ukuxhomekeka kwezoqoqosho kunokuba yinto eyingozi kakhulu kwezi meko. Amalungiselelo antsonkothileyo emali ahlala ekhapha ubomi bezizukulwana ezininzi anokwenza kube nzima kwixhoba ukuba liyishiyile imeko, ngakumbi ukuba lityale izibonelelo kubunini okwabelwana ngaso.
Umjikelo wokuxhatshazwa phakathi kwezizukulwana
Kwimeko-bume yezizukulwana ezininzi, ukuziphatha kwe-narcissistic kunokudluliselwa ukusuka kwesinye isizukulwana ukuya kwesinye. Abantwana abasesichengeni sokuphinda ezi patheni, nto leyo eqhubela phambili umjikelo wokuxhatshazwa.
Ubunzima bokubaleka
Ngokungafaniyo nemeko yobudlelwane apho ukwahlukana ngokwasemzimbeni kulukhetho, impilo yezizukulwana ezininzi yenza ukubaleka kube nzima ngakumbi. Amaxhoba asenokuziva evaleleke, engakwazi ukusaba ngaphandle kokushiya yonke intsapho yawo.
Ungquzulwano phakathi komsebenzi kunye nentlalontle yomntu
Abafazi abakwezi meko basoloko bezifumana bexakiwe phakathi kwemvakalelo yabo yoxanduva kusapho kunye nemfuno yabo yokhuseleko lobuqu. Olu ngquzulwano lwangaphakathi lunokukhokelela ekubeni netyala elinzulu nobunzima bokwenza izigqibo ngentlalo-ntle yabo.
Ukubekwa wedwa koluntu
Ukuhlala kwizizukulwana ezininzi kunye ne-narcissist kunokukhokelela ekwandeni kwe-intlalontle . Amaxhoba anokuba neentloni ngemeko yentsapho yawo kwaye angafuni ukumema abahlobo okanye ukuthatha inxaxheba kwizinto zentlalo, esoyika ukuba ukuziphatha kwe-narcissist kuya kubhengezwa okanye kubangele iingxaki.
Ukukhanyela kunye nokunciphisa
Kwimeko yosapho lwezizukulwana ngezizukulwana, kusenokuba lula ukuba amanye amalungu akhanyele okanye acuthe ukuziphatha kakubi kwenarcissist. Oku kuguquguquka kunokomeleza imvakalelo yexhoba yokungabi nakuzinceda kuze kwenze kube nzima ngakumbi ukufumana inkxaso kusapho ngokwalo.
Icala elimnyama leNtsapho yeZizukulwane ezininzi: Isiphelo
Icala elimnyama lentsapho yezizwe ezininzi phambi kwe-narcissist ibonisa inyaniso enzima kunye nentlungu kubasetyhini abaninzi. Kude nomfanekiso ongaqhelekanga osoloko uboniswa, olu lungelelwaniso lunokwandisa amandla anetyhefu kwaye lwenza ukubaleka kube nzima ngakumbi kumaxhoba. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela le miceli mngeni yodwa kwaye uqonde ukuba, kwezinye iintsapho, ukuhlalisana kwezizukulwana ezininzi asiyondlela inokwenzeka okanye esempilweni. Ngokukhanyisela ezi nyaniso, sinokuqalisa ukulungisa iimfuno zabantu abajongene nezi meko zinzima ngendlela eyongezelelekileyo nenemfesane.
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The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.