I-Narcissistic Flaw – Konke odinga ukukwazi mayelana nalokhu kuphatheka kabi

Ama-Narcissistic perverts avame ukubonwa njengabantu abanombono ophezulu ngabo. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, kukhona futhi iphutha le-narcissistic okungesinye isigaba somuntu onokuhluleka kwe-narcissistic, okusho ukuthi banokuzethemba okuncane kakhulu. Lezi zinhlobo zabantu zinokuntula okuphelele kokuzithanda. Ngenxa yalokhu, banesidingo esiqhubekayo sokuqinisekiswa ngokuphathelene nokubaluleka kwabo siqu.

I-Narcissistic Flaw: Kuyini?

Leli gama livame ukusetshenziswa ama-psychoanalysts, iphutha le-narcissistic liphambene nobuntu be-narcissistic obubonakala ngokuzethemba okuphansi nokuzethemba. Kulokhu, umuntu ohlushwa iphutha le-narcissistic esikhundleni sokuzicabangela yena, uhlale ezizwa engenamsebenzi, akafanelwe lutho futhi ehlala ephansi kunabanye.

Lokhu futhi kuziveza nezici ezahlukene ezifana nalezi:

• La ukungazethembi
• Ukuzidelela
• Ukuqhathanisa nabanye
• Isithombe sakho negative
• Ubunzima bokuzizwa ubalulekile
• Umuzwa wehlazo
• Ukungavikeleki okuqinile
• Ubunzima bokuhlanganisa
• Ukuzigxeka

Afihlwe kuphi amaphutha eNarcissistic?

Ngokusho kwabanye abelaphi nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, amaphutha e-narcissistic ngokuvamile acasha ku-narcissism enempilo ukuze azenze buthaka. Ivamise ukuziveza njengobugovu obungenabugovu ngoba iningi lemvelaphi yabo lixhumene nobungane. Leli phutha liphinde lifihle ngendlela yokufuna ngokweqile ukunakwa nokuqashelwa kumuntu ophambene naye.

Lokhu kuzibonakalisa ngokusebenzisa izici eziningana futhi kufihlwe ngezindlela ezahlukene ezifana I-narcissism esengozini, noma ngokuziphatha okuzwela kakhulu nokulimaza kalula.

Yiziphi izimbangela zephutha le-narcissistic?

Ucwaningo lusathola okuningi mayelana ne-narcissism kanye nobuthakathaka be-narcissistic.

Ucwaningo luveze ukuthi:

• Ukuhlukumezeka kwasebuntwaneni
• Ukuhlukumeza
• Ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi
• Izakhi zofuzo

Lezi zici zonke zidlala indima ekuthuthukisweni kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lwe-narcissism. Okuguquguqukayo kwemvelo kanye nezakhi zofuzo zombili zingadlala indima.

Incazelo yembangela yephutha le-narcissistic

Lapho ubuchopho bukhula, kucatshangwa futhi ukuthi ukuphazamiseka kokukhula okunempilo kungachaza ukuthi kungani umuntu engaba nenkinga ebizwa ngokuthi i-narcissistic personality disorder ou être i-narcissistic pervert. Okuhlangenwe nakho okufana nokuguquguquka komndeni okukhohlisayo kanye nokuqashelwa okuningi noma okuncane kakhulu kungaba yimbangela. Izimo zomndeni ezingaguquki noma ezishintshashintshayo ngokomzwelo nazo zingaholela ekuthuthukisweni kwalesi sifo sobuntu njengoba umuntu ekhula.

Noma yikuphi okweqisayo (okuningi kakhulu noma okuncane kakhulu), kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukudumisa, ukutuswa, noma ukuzitika, kungase futhi kuholele ekuthuthukisweni kohlobo lwe-narcissism, olufana ne-narcissism esengozini. Ukuntuleka okuvamile kokulinganisela nokuzinza kubangela ukuphazamiseka kwe-homeostasis yangaphakathi, okuholela ezinhlobonhlobo zezinkinga zempilo yengqondo, okuhlanganisa i-narcissism noma i-narcissism esengozini.

Izikena zobuchopho zomuntu onenkinga yobuntu be-narcissistic zembule ukuthi umuntu wayenento encane empunga engxenyeni yobuchopho elawula ukulawulwa kwengqondo nemizwa, okuhlanganisa uzwela nobubele, izici ezimbili ngokuvamile ezingekho kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lomuntu lwe-narcissistic.

Imiphumela yephutha le-narcissistic

Ukuziphatha kwabantu abanamaphutha e-narcissistic kungaba nemiphumela eminingi eyingozi, okuhlanganisa ukucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka, ukuhoxa, imizwa yobutha kanye nokucwaswa emphakathini futhi banikeza isibonelo esicindezelayo sokuthi iphutha le-narcissistic lingazibonakalisa kanjani endaweni yokusebenza.

1. Ukungakhululeki ngokomzwelo kungase futhi kube omunye wemiphumela yephutha le-narcissistic. Kungaholela ekutheni umuntu angazinaki yena, angazinaki impilo yakhe, futhi lokhu kungaholela ngisho nasekuzameni ukuzibulala.
2. Omunye wemiphumela eyinhloko yokwehluleka kwe-narcissistic nakho ukuncika ngokomzwelo noma umlutha. Lokhu kukhuthaza izisulu ukuba zizilalise futhi zibaleke ukungakhululeki kwazo okujulile ukuze zanelise imizwa yazo yokukhungatheka.

Amanxeba amathathu e-narcissistic

UFreud uchaze amanxeba amathathu amakhulu omlando ku-narcissism eyinhloko yesihloko somuntu esizicabangela yedwa, ozama ukuvimba ukwethuka ngokusebenzisa iphupho lokuzikhethela komuntu.

• Okokuqala ukulimala kweCopernican okwasusa uMhlaba ngokwawo, izwe lasekhaya lomuntu, enkabeni yendawo yonke futhi kwavula indlela yokuphahlazeka kwaleyondawo yonke ibe indawo yonke yesikhathi esingenamuntu, esingezona ezesayensi yokuxhumana nabantu. Yisayensi eye yaletha lokhu kuhlonishwa.
• Isilonda sesibili yiDarwin, okwabeka ama-Homo sapiens aqina emhlabeni wezinye izidalwa, zonke zizama ukuthola ukuphila kwazo kwasemhlabeni futhi ngenxa yalokho zithuthuka ngokuhlobene nomunye nomunye ngaphandle kokuqiniseka kwezibani eziqondisayo ezifinyelela umvuthwandaba kuMuntu. Isayensi nayo ikugxekile lokhu kusikwa okunonya.
• Isilonda sesithathu yiFreudian, okuveza ukuquleka okwehlula ukubaluleka kwezinqubo zokuqaphela, okuhlanganisa isizathu esiduduza uMuntu ngobuhle bakhe obuyingqayizivele, ngemiphumela eyinhlekelele ye-teleology futhi. Isayensi nayo ibonakala ibambe le blade.

Indlela yokulungisa iphutha le-narcissistic?

Ukwelashwa kwe-narcissism okwaziwa kakhulu, okusiza iziguli ukuthi zizwe kangcono. Imithi ingase ifakwe ekwelashweni uma unezinye izinkinga zempilo yengqondo, njengokucindezeleka.

Lezi zindlela zokwelapha zingakusiza ukuthi ulawule izimpawu futhi unciphise umthelela wesimo ekuzethembeni, emsebenzini nasebudlelwaneni.

Ngaphandle kwalokhu, lawa maphutha e-narcissistic angashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Bangasebenzela ukuba nozwela, futhi ubuhlobo bungaphumelela. Kubalulekile nje ukuba neqiniso futhi uqonde ukuthi ngeke kube lula.

Izinkomba ze-bibliographic ngephutha le-narcissistic

Nazi izikhombo zebhayibheli eziyisikhombisa endikimbeni “ye-narcissistic flaw”:

1. Kapsambelis, V. (2011). “I-Narcissistic fragility”, umtholampilo wesimanje. Ijenali yesiFulentshi yePsychoanalysis, 75 (4), 1097-1112.
2. I-Descôteaux, J., & Laverdière, O. (2019). “I-narcissism evamile kanye ne-pathological: isethulo esihlanganisayo se-North American psychoanalytic conceptualizations”. I-Psychotherapies, 39 (2), 55-69.
3. U-Desloges, G. (2013). “Kusuka emaphutheni e-narcissistic kuya ekuhlulekeni komzimba: ingabe ukugula komzimba kunencazelo? » Uhlaka lokugcina, La Pitié – Salpêtrière Faculty of Medicine.
4. Nosal, S. (2022). “Ukungazi lutho kanye ne-narcissism engcupheni ye-borderline ithi: ukuya esihlokweni sesithathu? » Ithesis yobudokotela, University of Lorraine.
5. Desjardins-Begon, D. (2013). “Ukwehluleka kwe-Narcissistic kanye nokuphazamiseka kokuzethemba ekuziphatheni okuluthayo: ukubuyekezwa kwezincwadi kanye nesifundo secala lomtholampilo”. I-dissertation yokugcina, i-Nice Sophia Antipolis University.
6. UMaïdi, H. (2014). “I-Narcissism ebusheni”. Ijenali ye-Child Psychoanalysis, 4 (1), 123-140.
7. Hirigoyen, M.-F. (2019). “AmaNarcisses: bathatha amandla”. Izinhlelo ze-La Découverte.

Lezi zincwadi nezindatshana zinikeza ukuhlola okujulile kwezingxenye ezihlukene ze-narcissism, okuhlanganisa ubungozi be-narcissistic namaphutha, ezimweni ezihlukahlukene zomtholampilo nezethiyori.

Isiphetho

Sengiphetha, iphutha le-narcissistic ligqamisa ingxenye eyaziwa kancane kodwa ebaluleke ngokulinganayo ye-narcissism, ebonakala ngokuntula ukuzethemba okujulile nomuzwa wokungazethembi. Ngokuqonda kangcono umsuka nokubonakaliswa kwalesi simo, kuba nokwenzeka ukucabangela izixazululo ezifanele, ikakhulukazi ngokusebenzisa izindlela zokwelapha ezihloselwe ukubuyisela ukulingana ngokomzwelo kanye nokuzibona okunempilo.

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