I-Depersonalization: Isiganeko esintsonkothileyo esibonwa ngamaxhoba

Pha depersonalization yinto yengqondo edla ngokufunyanwa ngamaxhoba e-narcissistic manipulators. Olu luphawu oluphazamisayo ngokukodwa olunokuthi lunike ingcamango yokuphulukana nesiqu sakho, umgama ukusuka kumzimba okanye ingqondo kabani. Kweli nqaku, siza kuphonononga ukuba yintoni i-depersonalization, kunye nokuba inxulumana njani nokukhohlisa ngokwasengqondweni okwenziwa zii-narcissistic manipulators.

Yintoni i-depersonalization?

Pha depersonalization yimvakalelo yokuzahlukanisa nesiqu sakho, nokuba kusemzimbeni okanye ngokwasengqondweni. Abantu abachaphazelekayo basenokuziva ngathi badada ngaphandle kwemizimba yabo, bezibona besenza izinto ngaphandle kokubandakanyeka ngokwenene, okanye abasaziboni kwiingcinga okanye iimvakalelo zabo. Esi siganeko sihlala sikhatshwa kukunganyaniseki, apho ilizwe langaphandle libonakala lingekho ngqiqweni ngequbuliso okanye ngathi libonwa ngefestile eluzizi.

Ngokutsho kweengcali, ukunyanzeliswa komntu akuyiyo ingxaki ngokwayo, kodwa impawu efumaneka kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, kuquka.ixhala, ukudakumba, ngakumbi kumaxhoba ii-manipulators ze-narcissistic. I-narcissistic manipulator, ngokusebenzisa ubuchule bayo bokuxhaphaza ngokwasengqondweni, inokubangela okanye iyandise le mvakalelo ngokufaka ukudideka okugqithisileyo engqondweni yexhoba lakhe.

Iimbangela zokunganyaniseki komntu kumaxhoba e-narcissistic manipulators

Pha ukuguqulwa kwengqondo ukusetyenziswa yi manipulator narcissistic ngunobangela rhoqo depersonalization. Ngokwenene, olu hlobo lwe-manipulator lusebenzisa amaqhinga afana gaslighting (okanye “ukuqweqwedisa ngokwengqondo”), ulawulo lovakalelo, kunye nokuhla kwexabiso okuqhubekayo, nto leyo eyenza ixhoba libe kwimeko yokuthandabuza rhoqo malunga nezimvo zalo.

1. Gaslighting : Obu buchule bubandakanya ukwenza ixhoba lithandabuze eyalo inyaniso. Ngokutshintsha iinyani okanye ukukhanyela oko kwenzeka ngokwenene, i-narcissistic manipulator ilawula ukugqwetha imbono yexhoba lakhe, imenze angakwazi ukwahlula into eyinyani kwinto ebubuxoki. Le nkqubo yokuphelisa uzinzo inokukhokelela ekulahlekelweni koqhagamshelwano kunye nawe kunye ne-depersonalization.
2. Emotional control : Umqhathi we-narcissistic utyhalela ixhoba lakhe ukuba lithandabuze iimvakalelo zalo ngokulixelela ukuba “linovelwano kakhulu”, ” paranoid “, okanye “hysterical”. Ixhoba, lidiniwe ngokwasengqondweni, linokuzifumanisa liqhawulwe kwiimvakalelo zalo, lidala umsantsa phakathi kwengqondo kunye neemvakalelo zabo.
3. Erasing identity : Ngokugxekwa okungapheliyo kunye namazwi atshabalalisayo, i-manipulator ye-narcissistic iyakwazi ukucima ngokuthe ngcembe i-identity yexhoba layo. Owamva unokuyeka ukuzazi, azive engento yanto kwaye engenabuntu, iimpawu zobuntu.

Iziphumo ngokwasengqondweni depersonalization

Pha depersonalization ineziphumo ezininzi kwimpilo yengqondo yamaxhoba ee-manipulators ze-narcissistic. Imvakalelo yokungafunwa nokuphazanyiswa inokuba nzulu kangangokuba ixhoba lizive “njengombukeli” kubomi balo. Nazi ezinye zeziphumo eziphawulekayo zesi simo:

• Ukuqhawula ixesha elide : Xa i-depersonalization ithatha ixesha elide, inokubangela ukuhlukana okungaphezulu, apho ixhoba liziva likhululekile ngokupheleleyo. Esi simo sokuqhawuka singenza ukuba naluphi na uhlobo lwentsebenziswano yentlalontle okanye yobuchwephesha kube nzima, umntu akasaziva “ekhoyo”.
• Ukuphelelwa ukuzithemba: Ixhoba le-narcissistic manipulator, elihlala libandezeleka ekuhlaselweni kwengqibelelo kunye nobuntu bakhe, linokulahlekelwa ngokupheleleyo kwiimbono kunye nezigwebo zakhe. Oku kuphelelwa yintembelo kudla ngokukhatshwa kukuxhalaba nokudandatheka.
• Ukuhlala wedwa: Ngaphantsi kweempembelelo zomntu okhohlisayo, umntu usenokuzikhwebula kubantu abasondeleyo kuye, ecinga ukuba akayiqondi into atyhubela kuyo. Ukuziva ungaqondwa kakuhle okanye ukuba “lilize” komeleza ukuba likheswa.

I-Depersonalization kunye ne-narcissistic manipulator syndrome: ikhonkco elisondeleyo

Ikhonkco phakathi kwe depersonalization kunye nokuguqulwa kwengqondo kwee-manipulators ze-narcissistic kunzulu. Amaxhoba, aphantsi kwemijikelo engatshintshiyo ye ubundlobongela ngokwasengqondweni, ngamanye amaxesha ubalekela kwi-depersonalization njengendlela yokukhusela. “Ngokuzahlula” kwiimvakalelo zabo kunye nenyaniso yabo, bazama ukuzikhusela kwiintlungu ezinganyamezelekiyo ezibangelwa ukuxhatshazwa kwe-narcissistic.

Pha ukulahlekelwa kweebheringi isembindini wale nto. I-narcissistic manipulator idala imeko yokubhideka okugqithisileyo, apho ixhoba lingasazi ukuba lithembele kubani na okanye nokuba loluphi uhlobo lwenyani ekufuneka libambelele kuyo. Oku kuphazamiseka ngokuthe ngcembe kukhokelela kumsantsa phakathi kokuzibona kunye nelizwe langaphandle, kukhethwa ukuvela kobuntu.

I-Depersonalization: uphawu oluntsokothileyo kodwa olunokubuyiselwa umva

Nangona i depersonalization luphawu oluphazamisayo noloyikisayo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba lunokubuyiswa. Nje ukuba ixhoba likwazile ukuphuncuka kubudlelwane obuyityhefu kwaye liqonde iindlela zokukhohlisa ebezisebenza, ngokuthe ngcembe banokuphinda bazive beziqu zabo. Unyango, kwaye ngakumbi unyango lwengqondo-yokuziphatha, lunokuba luncedo olukhulu ekubuyiseleni unxibelelwano phakathi komzimba nengqondo, kunye nokubuyisela uzinzo lweemvakalelo.

Iimbekiselo zeBibliographic ngokwenziwa komntu

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Ezi zingqinisiso zibonelela ngembono enzulu malunga ne-depersonalization, ukujongana nemiba yayo yeklinikhi, yengqondo kunye neyexesha langoku.

Ukuqukumbela

Pha depersonalization yimpendulo entsonkothileyo kuxinzelelo olumandla lweemvakalelo kunye nolwengqondo, oluhlala lufunyanwa ngamaxhoba e-narcissistic manipulators. Olu phawu, nangona lubhidanisa, lulinge lwengqondo lokuzikhusela kubundlobongela obungokwengqondo. Ukuqonda ubume be-depersonalization, kunye neengcambu zezizathu ezinxulumene nokuxhatshazwa kwe-narcissistic, linyathelo lokuqala elibhekiselele ekuphiliseni. Ngenkxaso eyaneleyo, amaxhoba anokubuyisela ubuni bawo kwaye aphinde alawule ubomi bawo, kude nempembelelo eyityhefu ye-manipulator.