Ikhowudi yamagama e-narcissism: Ukucacisa ulwimi olugqunyiweyo

“Amagama ekhowudi ye-narcissism” ngamagama kunye namabinzana aqhelekileyo asetyenziswa ukuchaza ukuziphatha kwe-narcissistic ngaphandle kokusebenzisa ngokucacileyo igama elithi “narcissism.” Esi siganeko solwimi sibonisa ukuntsonkotha kunye novakalelo olujikeleze ingxoxo yobuntu be-narcissistic kuluntu lwanamhlanje. Makhe sijonge ngokweenkcukacha la mabinzana anentsingiselo enzulu.

Ukuvela kwee-euphemisms ze-narcissism

I-narcissism iye yaba ngumbandela oxoxiswayo ngokwandayo, kodwa ikwanguwo oethe-ethe wokuthetha ngokuthe ngqo. Le meko ikhokelele ekuveleni kwamagama amaninzi angenye yokuchaza isimilo se-narcissistic ngaphandle kokusebenzisa igama ngokwalo. Ezi zigantsontso zisivumela ukuba sithethe ngalo mbandela ngendlela engangqalenga kangako nenokuthi ibe nokungatyholwa kangako.

Ukusetyenziswa kwala magama ekhowudi kubonisa ukungafuni kwentlalo “ukuxilonga” okanye ukubiza umntu njenge-narcissist. Ikwabonisa nomnqweno wokuxoxa ngokuziphatha okuyingxaki ngendlela entsonkothileyo, ngaphandle kokubhenela kumagama abonwa njengecategorical kakhulu okanye abeka amabala.

“Intense”: i-euphemism eqhelekileyo ye-narcissism

Elinye lawona magama ekhowudi aqhelekileyo ukuchaza ukuziphatha kwe-narcissistic “kubukhali.” Eli gama lingabonakala lingathathi hlangothi, okanye lilungile kwiimeko ezithile. Nangona kunjalo, xa isetyenziselwa ukuchaza ubuntu, ihlala ifihla iimpawu ezinengxaki ye-narcissistic.

Umntu ochazwe “njengobukhali” unokubonisa ezi mpawu zilandelayo:

• Ukweyiseka okuqinileyo nokunganikezeliyo kwimiba ethile
• Ukungakwazi ukwenza iminyinyiva okanye ukubona ezinye iimbono
• Ukugqobhoza okanye ukoyikisa ukujonga
• Umnqweno ogqithisileyo onokuthi wongamele kwabanye
• Ubunzima bokubandakanyeka kwiincoko ezilula

Nangona ukuqina kunokuba yinto entle kwezinye iindawo (ezifana nobugcisa okanye imidlalo), kunokuba yingxaki kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Umntu ohlala “ebukhali” unokuba nobunzima bokulungelelanisa iimfuno zabanye okanye ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yemihla ngemihla ngaphandle kokulinganisa.

“Rugh paternalism”: i-euphemism yesini

Elinye igama elinekhowudi elisetyenziswayo ngamanye amaxesha, ngakumbi ukuchaza amadoda akwizikhundla zamagunya abonisa ukuziphatha kwe-narcissistic, “bubutata obugwenxa.” Eli binzana lidibanisa ingcamango yesimo sengqondo sokuzithoba (ubutata) kunye nobukhulu okanye ubundlongondlongo.

Eli gama linokufihla ngakumbi ukuziphatha kwe-narcissistic efana nale:

• Ukuzibaxa izinto ngokubaluleka komntu
• Imfuno egqithisileyo yokuncoma
• Ukunqongophala kovelwano kwabo baphantsi
• Utyekelo lokuxhaphaza abanye ukuze kungenelwe yena

Ukusebenzisa olu hlobo lwe-euphemism ngamanye amaxesha kunokuthoba ubungqongqo beendlela zokuziphatha ezichazwe, zibonise njengendlela yobunkokeli obungqongqo kunokuba imiboniso enokuthi ibe nokuxhatshazwa kwe-narcissism.

“Iingxaki zomsindo”: ukulula okulahlekisayo

Ukuchaza umntu “njengoba unemiba yomsindo” yenye indlela eqhelekileyo yokubhekisela ekuziphatheni okunokubakho kwe-narcissistic ngaphandle kokusebenzisa igama. Nangona umsindo unokuba luphawu lwe-narcissism, le nkcazo yenza lula ngakumbi ukuntsonkotha kwesi sifo.

“Iingxaki zomsindo” ezinxulumene ne-narcissism zinokubandakanya:

• Ukugqabhuka komsindo akuhambelaniyo nale meko
• Ukungakwazi ukujongana nokudandatheka okanye ukuphoxeka
• Ukusebenzisa Umsindo njengeNdlela yoLawulo kuBudlelwane
• Ukutshintsha kwemo engalindelekanga

Nangona kunjalo, ukunciphisa i-narcissism kwi-“ingxaki yomsindo” elula ibeka ingozi ekujongeni ezinye iinkalo ezibalulekileyo zokuphazamiseka, ezifana nokungabi novelwano, imfuneko eqhubekayo yokuncoma, okanye ukuziphatha okukhohlisayo okungahambelani nomsindo.

“Amandla oMlinganiswa oPhambili”: I-Narcissism kwiXesha leMedia yeNtlalo

Igama elitsha, elithandwa kakhulu phakathi kwezizukulwana eziselula, “ligama eliphambili lamandla.” Eli binzana libhekisa kwisimo sengqondo somntu oziphatha ngokungathi ngoyena mntu uphambili kwibali lobomi bakhe.

Nangona esi simo sengqondo sinokuthi sigqalwe silungileyo xa sikhuthaza ukuzingisa kunye nokulawula ubomi bukabani, sisenokubonakalisa utyekelo lwe-narcissistic xa luthathwa ngokugqithisileyo. Iimpawu ezigqithisileyo “zamandla omlingisi” zinokubandakanya:

• Isidingo esiqhubekayo sokuba sisazulu sokuqwalaselwa
• Umkhuba wokulinganisa iziganeko eziqhelekileyo zobomi
• Ukungaqwalaseli amava neemfuno zabanye
• Isidingo esigqithisileyo sokuqinisekiswa ngokusebenzisa imidiya yoluntu

Lo mbono ubonisa indlela iindlela ezintsha zokunxibelelana kwi-intanethi kunye nokwabelana ezinokunyusa okanye ziqaqambise imikhwa esele ikho ye-narcissistic.

Iimpembelelo zokusebenzisa amagama ekhowudi kwi-narcissism

Ukusebenzisa la magama eeuphemisms kunye namagama ekhowudi ukuchaza ukuziphatha kwe-narcissistic kuneziphumo ezininzi ezibalulekileyo:

1. Ukunciphisa ingxaki: Ngokusebenzisa amagama athambileyo okanye angaqondakaliyo, sibeka emngciphekweni wokungabujongeli phantsi ubuzaza bokuziphatha kwe-narcissistic kunye neempembelelo zazo kwabanye.
2. Ukubhideka kumaxhoba: Abantu abafumana i-narcissistic abuse banokuba nobunzima bokuchonga kunye nokubiza amava abo ukuba iindlela zokuziphatha zihlala zichazwa ngamagama aneswekile.
3. Isithintelo soKwazisa: Ukusebenzisa ii-euphemisms kunokuthintela abantu abane-narcissistic ukuba baqaphele ukuziphatha kwabo okuyingxaki, okunokuthi kulibazise ukufuna uncedo.
4. Ukwenziwa ngokusesikweni kwe-Qimpawu zetyhefu: Ngokuchaza isimilo se-narcissistic nge-banal okanye nemibandela eyakhayo (efana “nokuqina”), sibeka emngciphekweni wokuzenza ziqheleke kwaye zamkeleke ngakumbi ekuhlaleni.

Indima yamajelo eendaba ekusebenziseni amagama ekhowudi kwi-narcissism

Imidiya eqhelekileyo idlala indima ebalulekileyo ekusasazeni nasekulungiseni la magama ekhowudi kwi-narcissism. Abacholacholi beendaba kunye nabahlalutyi, ngokufuthi ngenxa yenkxalabo yokungathabathi cala okanye ukoyika inyathelo lomthetho, bayakuphepha ukusebenzisa amagama arhabaxa afana nelithi “narcissist” ukuchaza amanani oluntu.

Esi silumkiso semithombo yeendaba, nangona siqondakala ngokwembono yezomthetho, sinokuba neziphumo ezibi:

• Ingaqhubela phambili ukungazi kwabantu malunga nokuziphatha kwe-narcissistic
• Inokuqinisekisa ngokungangqalanga amava amaxhoba ama-narcisists
• Inokuthintela iingxoxo ezibanzi zoluntu malunga ne-narcissism kunye neempembelelo zayo

Impembelelo ekuqondeni uluntu nge-narcissism

Ukusetyenziswa ngokubanzi kwamagama ekhowudi ukuchaza i-narcissism kunempembelelo ebalulekileyo ekuqondeni koluntu kwesi sifo sobuntu. Kwelinye icala, inokwenza ukuba isifundo sifikeleleke ngakumbi ngokuthintela ukusetyenziswa kwamagama eklinikhi anokoyikisa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ibeka umngcipheko wokunciphisa ukuqonda kwezibonakaliso ezithile kunye nemiphumo ye-narcissism.

Le meko idala isiphithiphithi: ngelixa igama elithi “narcissism” lisanda kubakho kwintetho ethandwayo, intsingiselo yalo echanekileyo kunye neempembelelo zinokuthi zingabonakali ngokusetyenziswa kwe-euphemisms kunye namagama anekhowudi.

Isiphelo: ukuya kwingxoxo evuleleke ngakumbi malunga ne-narcissism

“Amagama ekhowudi ye-narcissism” abonisa utyekelo loluntu lokujonga i-narcissism ngokungangqalanga. Nangona le ndlela isenokubonakala ithambile okanye inozakuzaku, ibeka emngciphekweni ukufihla ubunzulu kunye nobunzima bokuziphatha kwe-narcissistic.

Ingxoxo evulelekileyo nethe ngqo ye-narcissism, kusetyenziswa amagama achanekileyo nachazayo, inokuba negalelo ekuqondeni ngcono okuhlangeneyo kwale narcissistic personality disorder. Isenokunceda amaxhoba ukuba achonge ngcono kwaye athethe ngamava abo, kwaye anokukhuthaza abantu abaneempawu ze-narcissistic ukuba bafune uncedo.

Ekugqibeleni, indlela esithetha ngayo malunga ne-narcissism inempembelelo enkulu ekukwazini kwethu ukuqaphela, ukuqonda, kunye nokujongana nayo ngokufanelekileyo, kwinqanaba lomntu kunye nentlalontle.