I-Narcissistic victimization syndrome: yintoni na?

i-narcissistic victimization syndrome : yindlela yokukhohlisa esetyenziswa ngabanye abantu ukuphumeza iinjongo zabo. Ukukhohlisa kunokuzibonakalisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Siyakuxelela kweli nqaku ukuba uya kuchonga njani.

Yintoni i-narcissistic victimization syndrome?

I-Narcissistic victimization syndrome sisifo sobuntu esisuka kulawulo lwengqondo ngumxhaphazi we-narcissistic. I-syndrome yokuxhatshazwa ingabakho ngexesha leempembelelo zengqondo, okanye nasemva kokuba impembelelo iphelile. Kodwa Umbiza ntoni umntu ozenza ixhoba? Kwintetho yenkobe bangamaxhoba obuxoki; kodwa le ndima inokuthi ithathwe yi-narcissistic manipulator.

Iimpawu ze-narcissistic victimization syndrome

Ukuze ukwazi ukusabela kwimeko ezenza ixhoba? kufuneka uqale wazi ukuba ungambhaqa njani umntu ozenza ixhoba? Nantsi imikhondo:

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1. Anxiety
2. Depression
3. Ukungathembeki
4. Codependency
5. Eating disorder
6. Denial
7. Ukuzixhoba
8. Savior syndrome

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1. Anxiety

Ixhoba lisenokubonakalisa ukusabela komzimba okungalawulekiyo olusuka kwixhala elilula ukuya ekungenisweni ngokupheleleyo kuxhatshazo. Ixhoba libonisa utyekelo lokuqonda ngenxa yempatho embi elayifumana ngaphambili okanye ityala elalisenziwa ngumthuthumbisi walo.

2. Ukudakumba

Ukuzithoba kudla ngokukhatshwa kukudandatheka. Ukwehla kokuzithemba kukhokelela ixhoba kwiingcinga ezimnyama ezinokukhokelela ixhoba kutyekelo lokuzibulala.

3. Ukunqongophala kwentembeko

Emva kwexesha elide lokuxhaphaza, ukuzithemba kuyehla. Ixhoba liya kuba notyekelo lokuzithelekisa nabanye ukuze lizuze isidima. Kodwa kwakhona, ixhoba ngokuthe ngcembe liphelelwa yintembelo kwabanye, ingakumbi ekubeni lisenokuzibona lingaphantsi kwabanye.

4. Ukuxhomekeka kwi

I-narcissistic manipulator ixhaphaza ixhoba layo ukuze lingakwazi ukuhamba ngokukhululekileyo. Enyanisweni, ulawulo lwengqondo lukhokelela ekuxhomekekeni ngokupheleleyo kwexhoba kumthuthumbisi wabo.

5. Ukuphazamiseka kokutya

Ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kuchaphazela umzimba. Ukulahlekelwa ngumdla yenye yeziphumo zokuxhatshazwa kwe-narcissistic. Ixhoba lisenokungakwazi ukuyilawula le meko ngaphandle koncedo lweengcali.

6. Denial

Ixhoba alisakwazi ukuba nembono efanelekileyo yenyaniso. Akayi kuqonda ukuba uphantsi kwempembelelo yengqondo yomnye umntu. Nangona kunjalo, abo basondeleyo kuye babona ngokucacileyo ukuba ixhoba alikwazi ukukhupha umthuthumbisi wakhe.

7. Ukuzixhaphaza

Abanye abantu badla ngokubona ububi kuyo yonke indawo kwaye oku kufumaneka kwinto yokuba uthelekisa ubomi bakhe nabanye. Ingxaki isekubeni yena ubona kuphela okona kulungileyo kwabanye nokubi kuye. Kulapho ukuxhatshazwa kutyhilwa khona kwi-psychoanalysis.

8. Savior Syndrome

I-Narcissistic victimization syndrome akufanele ibhidaniswe nayo umsindisi syndrome (uvavanyo lomsindisi syndrome). Kwimeko ye-savior syndrome, ixhoba linesidingo se-pathological sokuzincama ngenxa yokulungelwa kwabanye. Akakho phantsi kolawulo lwe-narcissistic manipulator.

Ngaba i-narcissistic manipulator ingayenza njani ixhoba kwixhoba layo?

Ukuphuhlisa ukuxhatshazwa emntwini, i-narcissistic manipulator ichonga amanqaku awenza buthathaka ixhoba lakhe kwaye enze ukuba kube lula ukuwasebenzisa.

• Kuyenzeka ukuba ixhoba sele linembali yokuxhatshazwa, kodwa lakwazi ukuzikhulula kuyo. Kule meko, umntu unokubandezeleka ngenxa yokuxhatshazwa kwe-pathological kwaye umntu ogqwethekileyo unokusebenzisa le pathology ukuze azuze.
• Umntu ngu-in ukufuna ngokungapheliyo intuthuzelo nokhuseleko. Ixhoba eliye laqhawula umtshato ngaphambili linokusetyenziswa ngokulula, njengoko i-narcissist inokuxhaphaza iimvakalelo zexhoba lokungakhuselekanga malunga nokuba yedwa.
• Ukusebenzisa ubuchule bokukhohlisa obufana nobuxokiivumela i-narcissistic manipulator ukuba iphuhlise ukuxhatshazwa kwixhoba lakhe. THEi-narcissistic manipulator kunye nobuxokizinxulumene ngokunzulu.
• I-narcissistic manipulator isebenzisa ukuzixhaphaza ukuze iqhube ixhoba layo. Njengoko kukhankanyiwe apha ngasentla, i-victimization syndrome ihamba kunye ne-savior syndrome. Ixhoba lisenokuziva libaluleke kakhulu kumbhexeshi we-narcissistic kwaye lizibhaqe libhaliswe kwihlabathi lenkohliso.

Ukuxhatshazwa komntu okhohlisayo kubonakala njani ngexesha loqhawulo-mtshato?

• Ukuzixhoba kwe-Manipulator

Ixhoba lidla ngokubonwa emtshatweni xa elinye iqabane liqhatha elinye. Utyhala omnye ukuba azive enoxanduva ngale meko kwaye uzama ngazo zonke iindlela ukuthatha indawo yexhoba. I-narcissistic manipulator izenza amaxhoba kule meko, kodwa ngaphezu kwayo yonke into ixhoba alikwazi ukufumanisa ukuba iqabane lakhe lizixhaphaza.

• I-Narcissistic Manipulator iqalisa ukwahlula

Ngexesha lokwahlukana, umxhasi we-narcissistic unokukhokela kwaye aqalise inkqubo yoqhawulo-mtshato. Injongo yalo kukwenza yenza iqabane lakho lizive linetyala. Xa i-narcissist idlala ixhoba, unethemba lokuba ixhoba lalo liziva linetyala yaye liya kuyiphelisa inkqubo yoqhawulo-mtshato ngokuzithandela. Le yimeko yokuxhatshazwa kwe-manipulator ukuqinisa eyakhe impembelelo yengqondo.

Yintoni umahluko phakathi kokuxhatshazwa kunye nokuxhatshazwa?

Umahluko omkhulu phakathi kokuxhatshazwa kunye nexhoba lilele ekukwazini ukulawula okanye ukungakwazi ukulawula i-manipulator ye-narcissistic.

• Ixhoba lomkhohlisi we-narcissistic liyazi ukuba lijolise kuye. Uyayazi indlela yokujongana nobuchule bobuqhetseba benarcissistic kunye nendlela yokuphepha ukuphenjelelwa lirhamncwa.
• I-Ukuxhatshazwa sisigaba esilandelayo sokukhohlisa. Ngapha koko, xa ixhoba liwela phantsi kwempembelelo yengqondo ye-narcissistic manipulator, sithetha ngokuxhatshazwa. Iimpawu ezahlukahlukeneyo zokuthotywa ziqala ukubonakala kwaye kuvela isangqa esikhohlakeleyo.

Indlela yokujongana ne-narcissistic victimization syndrome?

Ukulawula i- victimization syndrome yinkqubo ende nedinisayo. Nokuba isibambisi sikhululekile, kusenokwenzeka ukuba iimpawu zesi sifo ziphinde zivele ngokungalindelekanga.

• Inyathelo lokuqala lokulawula ngcono i- victimization syndrome kukoyisa ukukhanyela. Yamkela ukuba siphantsi okanye besiphantsiimpembelelo yengqondoye-narcissistic manipulator ibalulekile.
• Ukuphakamisa ukuzithemba linyathelo elilandelayo, njengomntu oneNarcissistic Victimization Syndrome ufunyaniswa enokungazithembi. Kwaye ukwenza oku, ixhoba kufuneka likhatshwe ngoncedo lweengcali ezifana ne-psychoanalyst kunye nesangqa esicacileyo senkxaso efana nosapho kunye nabahlobo.

Ngaba singazifumana izibonelelo zesibini emva kokuxhatshazwa?

• Kwixhoba, ukuxhatshazwa akuzisi nzuzo. Ixhoba liya kuba buthathaka ngokwasengqondweni, banokuba namava okubuyela kwakhona ukuba bajongana ne-manipulator entsha ye-narcissistic. Ixhoba lisenokuba ne- calimero syndrome ekwenza ukholelwe ukuba umhlaba wonke uchasene nawe.
• I-Ukuxhatshazwa kunokuba luncedo kwi-pervert ye-narcissistic, kuba ingathatha uhlobo lwenkqubo yokukhusela kuye. Enyanisweni, i-manipulator ye-narcissistic yayinokuba lixhoba lelinye i-narcissistic manipulator ebuntwaneni bakhe, ngokulinganisa ixhoba, unokuzikhusela.

I-Bibliographic reference kwi-narcissistic victimization syndrome

Nazi iimbekiselo ezisixhenxe zebhayibhili kumxholo othi “narcissistic victimization syndrome”:

1. Lemoine, C. (2018). Le narcissisme et ses dérives : Comprendre le syndrome de victimisation narcissique. Paris : Éditions de la Sorbonne.
2. Miller, J. (2019). Le narcissisme : Un miroir déformant des relations humaines. Paris : Presses Universitaires de France.
3. Kernberg, O. (2016). Les pathologies narcissiques : Théorie et pratique clinique. Paris : Éditions Odile Jacob.
4. Pichot, P. (2020). Victimisation et narcissisme : Une approche psychanalytique. Revue Française de Psychanalyse, 84(3), 345-360.
5. Grosjean, A. (2021). La victimisation dans les relations interpersonnelles : Aspects psychologiques et sociaux. Toulouse : Éditions Érès.
6. Dumont, F. (2017). L’impact du narcissisme sur la dynamique de la victimisation. Psychologie et Sociétés, 9(2), 123-139.
7. Bouchard, M. (2022). Narcissisme et stratégies de victimisation : Une analyse systémique. Psychothérapie, 45(4), 256-272.

Ezi mbekiselo ziya kukubonelela ngeembono ezahlukeneyo ngalo mbandela, zijongana nethiyori kunye neemeko ezisebenzayo ze-narcissistic victimization syndrome.

Ukuqukumbela

Ukuqukumbela, i-narcissistic victimization syndrome imele ukuguquguquka okuntsonkothileyo apho ukukhohlisa kunye nokubandezeleka kuthungelana. Kubalulekile ukuqonda iimpawu zolu kuxhatshazwa, kumntu ochaphazelekayo kunye nakwi-manipulator, ukuze uqonde ngcono kunye nokunciphisa le mijikelezo eyonakalisayo. Ukuqonda linyathelo lokuqala elibhekiselele ekuchacheni, kwaye inkxaso eyaneleyo yengqondo inokuthatha isigqibo kumaxhoba. Ekugqibeleni, ukudambisa le syndrome kunye neendlela zayo kukhanyisa indlela yokuziphatha ehlala ingaqondwa, ngaloo ndlela inika indlela eya ekomeleleni kunye nokwakhiwa kwakhona komntu.