Narcissistic victimization syndrome: ndi chiyani?

narcissistic victimization syndrome : ndi njira yopusitsira yomwe anthu ena amagwiritsa ntchito kuti akwaniritse zolinga zawo. Kuwongolera kungadziwonetsere m’njira zosiyanasiyana. Tikukuuzani m’nkhaniyi momwe mungadziwire.

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Kodi Narcissistic Victimization Syndrome ndi chiyani?

Narcissistic victimization syndrome ndi vuto la umunthu lomwe limayamba chifukwa cha kuwongolera kwamaganizidwe ndi munthu wopotoza wamatsenga. The victimization syndrome ikhoza kukhalapo panthawi yamaganizo, kapena pambuyo pa kutha kwa chikoka. Koma Kodi mumamutcha chiyani munthu amene amadzinamiza? M’mawu omveka ali ozunzidwa onama; koma udindowu ukhoza kutengedwa ndi wopotoza wa narcissistic.

Zizindikiro za narcissistic victimization syndrome

Kodi mungatani ngati mutakumana ndi vuto linalake? choyamba tiyenera kudziwa momwe tingadziwire munthu amene akudzizunza? Nazi zina zomwe zingakuthandizeni:

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1. Anxiété
2. Kusokonezeka
3. Kusadzidalira
4. Kudalira 
5. Kusadya bwino
6. Kukana
7. Kudzizunza
8. Savior syndrome

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1. Anxiété

Wogwiriridwayo angasonyeze machitidwe akuthupi osalamulirika zomwe zimachokera ku nkhawa yosavuta mpaka kugonjera kwathunthu ku nkhanza. Wozunzidwayo akuwonetsa zizolowezi zoyipa chifukwa cha nkhanza zomwe adakumana nazo m’mbuyomu kapena kudziimba mlandu womuzunza.

2. Kukhumudwa

Kugonjera nthawi zambiri kumatsagana ndi kuvutika maganizo. Kuchepa kwa kudzidalira kumapangitsa wozunzidwayo kukhala ndi malingaliro olakwika omwe angapangitse wovutitsidwayo kufuna kudzipha.

3. Kusadzidalira

Pambuyo pa nthawi yayitali yonyenga, kudzidalira kumatsika. Wozunzidwayo adzakhala ndi zikhoterero zodziyerekezera ndi ena kuti adzilemekeze. Komanso, wogwiriridwayo pang’onopang’ono amasiya chidaliro mwa ena, makamaka popeza kuti angadziwone kukhala wocheperapo kwa ena.

4. Kudalira

Wopotoza wa narcissistic amayendetsa nyama yake kuti isathenso kuyenda momasuka. M’malo mwake, kuwongolera m’malingaliro kumabweretsa kudalira kwathunthu kwa wozunzidwayo pa wowazunza.

5. Kusadya bwino

Kusokonezeka maganizo kumakhudza thupi. Kutaya chilakolako cha chakudya ndi chimodzi mwazotsatira za kuzunzidwa mwankhanza. Wozunzidwayo sangathe kuwongolera vutoli popanda thandizo la akatswiri.

6. Kukana

Wozunzidwayo sangathenso kukhala ndi lingaliro loyenera la zenizeni. Iye sangazindikire kuti ali pansi pa chisonkhezero chamaganizo cha munthu wina. Komabe, amene ali pafupi naye amaona bwino lomwe kuti wozunzidwayo sangachotse womuzunzayo.

7. Kudzizunza

Anthu ena amakonda kuona zoipa paliponse ndipo izi zimapezeka poyerekezera moyo wake ndi ena. Vuto n’lakuti amangoona zabwino mwa ena ndiponso zoipa mwa iye mwini. Apa ndi pamene kuzunzidwa kumavumbulutsidwa mu psychoanalysis.

8. Savior syndrome

Narcissistic victimization syndrome sayenera kusokonezedwa ndi Savior Syndrome (mayeso a savior syndrome). Pankhani ya Savior Syndrome, wozunzidwayo ali ndi kufunikira kodzipereka kuti athandize ena. Iye sali kwenikweni pansi pa ulamuliro wa narcissistic wopotoza.

Kodi wopotoza wa narcissistic angayambe bwanji kuzunzidwa mwa wozunzidwayo?

Kukulitsa nkhanza mwa munthu, wopotoza wa narcissistic amazindikiritsa mfundo zomwe zimafooketsa wozunzidwayo ndi zomwe zimapangitsa kuti izi zikhale zosavuta kuzisintha.

• N’zotheka kuti wozunzidwayo ali kale ndi mbiri ya kuzunzidwa, koma kuti anatha kudzimasula yekha. Pachifukwa ichi, munthu akhoza kuvutika ndi kuzunzidwa kwa pathological ndipo wopotoza amatha kugwiritsa ntchito matendawa kuti apindule.
• Munthu ali pofunafuna chitonthozo ndi chitetezo kosatha. Munthu amene anasudzulidwa kale akhoza kugwiriridwa mosavuta, chifukwa munthu amene anasudzulidwa akhoza kupezerapo mwayi wodzikayikira ngati akukhala yekha.
• Kugwiritsa ntchito njira zonyenga monga mabodza amalola wopotoza wa narcissistic kukulitsa nkhanza mwa wozunzidwayo. THE wopotoza ndi kunama zimagwirizana kwambiri.
• Wopotoza wa narcissistic amagwiritsa ntchito kudzizunza kuti awononge nyama yake. Monga tafotokozera pang’ono pamwambapa, ndi victimization syndrome amatsagana ndi Savior syndrome. Wozunzidwayo angadzimve kukhala wofunika kwambiri kwa wopotoza wankhanzayo ndipo adzipeza kuti walowa m’dziko lachinyengo.

Kodi kuzunzidwa kwa wopondereza wankhanza kumawonekera bwanji panthawi yachisudzulo?

• Kudzizunza kwa Manipulator

Kuchitiridwa nkhanza kumachitika kawirikawiri m’banja pamene wina wachitira chinyengo mnzake. Amakankhira winayo kuti adzimve kukhala ndi mlandu pazochitikazo ndipo amayesa mwa njira zonse kutenga m’malo mwa wozunzidwayo. The narcissistic wopotoza amadzizunza pamenepa, koma koposa zonse, wozunzidwayo sangathe kuzindikira kuti mnzake akudzizunza.

• Wopotoza narcissistic amayambitsa kulekanitsa

Panthawi yopatukana, wopotoza wa narcissistic akhoza kutsogolera ndikuyambitsa chisudzulo. Cholinga chake ndi kupanga pangitsa mnzanuyo kudzimva wolakwa. Pamene narcissist amasewera wozunzidwayo, akuyembekeza kuti wogwiriridwayo adzimva kuti ali ndi mlandu ndi kuti mkaziyo asiye chisudzulo mwakufuna kwake. Umu ndi nkhani ya kuzunzidwa kwa manipulator kuti alimbikitse zake Psychological kugwira.

Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa kuzunzidwa ndi kuzunzidwa?

Kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa kuzunzidwa ndi kuzunzidwa kwagona pakutha kuwongolera kapena kusatengera chikoka cha NP.

• Wozunzidwayo wachinyengo amadziŵa kuti iye ali chandamale. Amadziwa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito njira zopulumutsira anthu opondereza a narcissistic ndi momwe angapewere kugwiriridwa ndi adani.
• Kuchitiridwa nkhanza ndi gawo lotsatira lachinyengo. M’malo mwake, pamene wozunzidwayo agwa pansi pa chisonkhezero chamaganizo cha wopotoza wa narcissistic, timalankhula za kuzunzidwa. Zizindikiro zosiyanasiyana za kutsika zimayamba kuonekera ndipo chizungulire choyipa chimatuluka.

Kodi mungathane bwanji ndi narcissistic victimization syndrome?

Kusamalira victimization syndrome ndi njira yayitali komanso yotopetsa. Ngakhale atathetsa, zizindikiro za matendawo zidzawonekeranso mosayembekezereka.

• Chinthu choyamba chothandizira kuthana ndi vuto la kuzunzidwa ndikugonjetsa kukana. Vomerezani kuti wina ali kapena wakhala pansiPsychological kugwira kupotoza kwa narcissistic ndikofunikira.
• Kukulitsa kudzidalira ndi sitepe yotsatira, chifukwa timawona mwa munthu amene akudwala matenda ovutika maganizo, kudzidalira. Ndipo kuti achite izi, wozunzidwayo ayenera kutsagana ndi thandizo la akatswiri monga psychoanalyst ndi gulu lodziwika bwino lothandizira monga banja ndi abwenzi.

Kodi tingapeze phindu lachiwiri pambuyo pa kuzunzidwa?

• Kwa wozunzidwayo, kuzunzidwa sikubweretsa phindu. Wozunzidwayo adzakhala wofooka m’maganizo, amatha kubwereranso ngati akukumana ndi wopotoza watsopano. Wozunzidwayo athanso kupereka calimero syndrome zomwe zimakupangitsani inu kukhulupirira kuti dziko lonse likutsutsana ndi inu.
• Kuzunzidwa kungakhale kopindulitsa kwa wopotoza wa narcissistic, chifukwa akhoza kutenga mawonekedwe a chitetezo kwa iye. M’yoyo, jwalakwe jwaliji jwakusosekwa mnope pandaŵi jilijose jwalijose jwalijose jwalijose jwalijose jwalijose jwalijose jwalijose jwalijose jwalijose jwakusosekwa mnope.

Bibliographic reference on narcissistic victimization syndrome

Nawa maumboni asanu ndi awiri ofotokoza za mutu wa “narcissistic victimization syndrome”:

1. Lemoine, C. (2018). Narcissism ndi kuchuluka kwake: Kumvetsetsa narcissistic victimization syndrome. Paris: Editions de la Sorbonne.
2. Miller, J. (2019). Narcissism: Kalilore wosokoneza ubale wa anthu. Paris: Presses Universitaires de France.
3. Kernberg, O. (2016). Narcissistic pathologies: chiphunzitso ndi machitidwe azachipatala. Paris: Éditions Odile Jacob.
4. Pichot, P. (2020). Kuzunzidwa ndi Narcissism: Njira ya psychoanalytic. Revue Française de Psychoanalyse, 84 (3), 345-360.
5. Grosjean, A. (2021). Kuzunzidwa mu ubale pakati pa anthu: Zokhudza zamaganizo ndi zamagulu. Toulouse: Éditions Érès.
6. Dumont, F. (2017). Zotsatira za narcissism pazochitika za kuzunzidwa. Psychology and Societies, 9(2), 123-139.
7. Bouchard, M. (2022). Narcissism ndi njira zozunza: kusanthula kwadongosolo. Psychotherapy, 45 (4), 256-272.

Maumboni awa akupatsirani malingaliro osiyanasiyana pamutuwu, kuthana ndi zongopeka komanso zothandiza za narcissistic victimization syndrome.

Kutsiliza

Pomaliza, narcissistic victimization syndrome imayimira zovuta zomwe kuwongolera ndi kuvutika zimalumikizana. Ndikofunikira kuzindikira zizindikiro za kuzunzidwa uku, mwa munthu wokhudzidwayo komanso mwachinyengo, kuti timvetsetse bwino ndikuchepetsa zowononga izi. Kuzindikira ndi gawo loyamba lothandizira kuchira, ndipo chithandizo chokwanira chamaganizo chingakhale chosankha kwa ozunzidwa. Pamapeto pake, kufotokoza momveka bwino za matendawa ndi machitidwe ake kumawunikira machitidwe omwe nthawi zambiri samvetsetseka, motero kumapereka njira yolimbikitsira komanso kumanganso munthu.