Ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu abane- yobukrelekrele obuphezulu be- (HPI) okanye amandla ovakalelo (HPE) kunye nee-manipulators ze-narcissistic zinokuba nzima ngakumbi kwaye zibukhali. Eli nqaku livavanya amandla awodwa anokuthi aphuhliswe xa amandla aphezulu kunye nee-manipulators ze-narcissistic zisebenzisana, kunye nemingeni enokubakho obu budlelwane obunokuthi buveze. Siza kuphonononga iimpawu zezi profayili zimbini kunye nokusebenzisana kwazo okunokwenzeka.
Inkcazo yobukrelekrele obuphezulu kunye namandla angokweemvakalelo
I-high amandla okuqonda (HPI) ibonakaliswe ngamandla angaphezu komndilili wokuqonda. Abantu be-HPI bahlala bene:
- I-IQ ephezulu (idla ngokuba ngaphezu kwe-130)
- Umdla omkhulu wengqondo
- Kuphuhliswe ukucinga okungabonakaliyo
- Inkumbulo entle
- Ukukwazi ukufunda ngokukhawuleza
Amandla aphezulu ngokweemvakalelo (HPE), kwicala lawo, abonakaliswa ngu:
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- Ukonyuka kovakalelo lweemvakalelo
- Uvelwano olunamandla
- Umbono obukhali weemvakalelo zabanye abantu
- Ukuphinda kusebenze ngokweemvakalelo
- Imvakalelo enamandla yobulungisa
Ezi profayili zimbini zihlala zibelana ngeempawu ezithile ezinjehypersensitivity, ukuqina kweemvakalelo kunye notyekelo ekufuneni imfezeko.
Iimpawu ze-narcissistic manipulator
I-narcissistic manipulator ibonisa iseti yeempawu zobuntu eziyingxaki, kuquka:
- Ukuziva wongamile kunye nobukhulu
- Imfuno egqithisileyo yokuncoma
- Ukungabi naluvelwano
- Utyekelo lokuxhaphaza abanye
- Umona oqatha
- Ukuziphatha okukhohlisayo
- Ukungakwazi ukuqonda iimpazamo zikabani
Aba bantu bahlala befuna ukulawula nokulawula abo babangqongileyo, ngokufuthi ngeendlela ezichuliweyo nezichuliweyo.
Umtsalane onokubakho phakathi kwezinto ezinokubakho eziphezulu kunye nee-manipulators ze-narcissistic
Izinto ezininzi zinokuchaza umtsalane onokubakho phakathi kwezinto ezinokubakho eziphezulu kunye nee-manipulators ze-narcissistic:
- Ungqinelwano olubonakalayo: uvelwano kunye novelwano lwe-HP lunokubonakala luhambelana nemfuno ye-narcissist yokuqwalaselwa.
- Umngeni woBuchule: HPIs zinokutsaleleka kubunzima obucacileyo be-narcissist.
- Imfuneko yokuqondwa: HPs, ezihlala zifuna ukuqinisekiswa, zinokuhendwa kukuthakazelelwa kokuqala kwe-narcissist.
- Idealization: HPEs zinokuveza ezazo iimpawu kwi-narcissist, zenze umfanekiso ofanelekileyo.
Ubudlelwane obunetyhefu
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwe-HP kunye ne-narcissistic manipulators inokukhawuleza ibe yityhefu:
- Ukukhohlisa ngokweemvakalelo: I-narcissist isebenzisa ubuntununtunu be-HP.
- gaslighting: I-HP inokuyithandabuza imbono yayo ebusweni bokugqwetheka kwe-narcissist.
- Ukuhla kwexabiso okuqhubelekayo: I-narcissist itshabalalisa ukuzithemba kwe-HP.
- Ukwahlukaniswa kwezentlalo: I-HP inokunqunyulwa kwabo babangqongileyo yi-narcissist.
- Imijikelo ye-devaluation kunye nokuhla kwexabiso: I-HP ifumana utshintsho oluphazamisayo.
Impembelelo yengqondo kumandla aphezulu
Ukuvezwa ixesha elide kwi-narcissistic manipulator kunokuba neziphumo ezibi kwi-HP:
- Ukuxhalaba okungapheliyo
- Ukudakumba
- Ukuphulukana nokuzithemba
- Ukudideka ngokweemvakalelo
- Ukudinwa kwengqondo
- I-post-traumatic stress syndrome
Ii-HPs zinokubandezeleka ngakumbi ngenxa yobuntununtunu obuphezulu kunye notyekelo lokuzihlola.
Iindlela zokhuselo kunye nohlengahlengiso lwamandla aphezulu
Ukujongana nokuxhatshazwa kwe-narcissistic, i-HP inokuphuhlisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuzikhusela:
- Ukujongwa ngokugqithiseleyo ngokweemvakalelo
- Ukwahlukana
- Uqikelelo olugqithisileyo
- Ukukhanyela okanye ukunciphisa ukusetyenziswa gadalala
- Ukwanda kokufuna ukwenza izinto ngendlela egqibeleleyo
- Utyalo-mali olugqithisileyo lobuchwephesha okanye oluyilayo
Ezi zicwangciso, nangona zikhusela kwixesha elifutshane, zinokuba yingxaki kwixesha elide.
Ubunzima bokubona kunye nokushiya ubudlelwane obuxhaphazayo
Ii-HPs zinokujongana nemiqobo ethile yokuqaphela kunye nokushiya ubudlelwane obuxhaphazayo:
- Ingqondo entsonkothileyo: Ukuthambekela kokuhlalutya kakhulu kunye nokuthethelela ukuziphatha kakubi.
- Uvelwano olugqithisileyo: Kunzima ukwamkela ubugwenxa bomntu.
- Ukunyaniseka: Ukuncamathela okuqinileyo ngaphandle kokuxhatshazwa, ngakumbi phakathi kwe-HPE.
- Perfectionism: Ukuziva ukusilela komntu xa ejongene neengxaki zobudlelwane.
- Isolation: Ukunqongophala kwenkxaso yangaphandle ukuqinisekisa amava abo.
Iziphumo zexesha elide kwisazisi kunye nokuzithemba
Amava obudlelwane kunye ne-narcissistic manipulator anokuba neziphumo ezingapheliyo kwi-HP:
- Imibuzo enzulu ngobuni babo
- Ubunzima bokuthemba abanye kunye nesiqu sakho
- Ukulahleka kweempawu zeemvakalelo
- Ukuziva unetyala ngokuzingisileyo
- Ubunzima bokuqinisekisa iimfuno kunye nemida yomntu
- Uloyiko lokuzibophelela kubudlelwane obutsha
Ukwakha ngokutsha kunokuba yinkqubo ende nentsonkothileyo, esoloko ifuna inkxaso yobungcali.
Impembelelo kubudlelwane bexesha elizayo kunye nembono yehlabathi
Amava okuxhatshazwa kwe-narcissistic anokutshintsha ngokusisigxina indlela i-HPs esondela ngayo kubudlelwane kwaye ibone ihlabathi:
- Ukwanda kokungabathembi abanye
- Ubunzima bokuvula ngokweemvakalelo
- Ukutyekela ekubeni ube likheswa ekuhlaleni
- Umbono ongenathemba ngakumbi wobudlelwane babantu
- Ukubuza izakhono zabo zokugweba
- Hypersensitivity kwiimpawu ze-narcissism kwabanye
Olu tshintsho lunokuchaphazela kakhulu umgangatho wobomi kunye neemvakalelo zeHP.
Ukuqukumbela
Ukusebenzisana phakathi kwezinto ezinokwenzeka eziphezulu kunye nee-manipulators ze-narcissistic zinokudala ngokukodwa okuntsonkothileyo kunye nokonakalisa ubudlelwane obunamandla. Ubuntununtunu be-HP, uvelwano, kunye nobukrelekrele bunokubenza babe sesichengeni sokuphathwa kakubi ngabaxhaphazi be-narcissistic, okukhokelela kwiziphumo ezibi ngokwasengqondweni nangokweemvakalelo. Ukuqonda ezi ntshukumo kubalulekile ukukhusela ngcono abantu abaphezulu kwaye ubancede bakhe kwakhona emva kwamava okuxhatshazwa kwe-narcissistic. Kubalulekile ukuqhubeka nokufunda olu nxibelelwano ukuphuhlisa izicwangciso zokukhusela kunye nenkxaso ezilungiselelwe iimfuno ezithile ze-HPI kunye ne-HPE.
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The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.