Iimpembelelo Zokunxila Kwabazali Ebantwaneni

Iziphumo zokusela utywala kwabazali ebantwaneni: iPsychological, Social and Physiology.

Intshayelelo

Utywala lwabazali yingxaki enkulu engachaphazeli kuphela abantu abachatshazelwa ngokuthe ngqo ngumlutha, kodwa nabo babathandayo, ngakumbi abantwana. Aba bamva, abadla ngokulityalwa kwiingxoxo malunga nokukhotyokiswa, bafumana iziphumo ezinzulu nezihlala zihleli. Iimpembelelo zokusela utywala kwabazali zidlulela kumacandelo engqondo, eemvakalelo, ezentlalo kunye nangokwempilo. Eli nqaku liphonononga ezi ziphumo nzulu, lizoba kwizifundo zenzululwazi kunye nobungqina.

1. Impembelelo yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo

1.1. Ukuxhalaba kunye nokudandatheka

Abantwana babazali abangamanxila badla ngokuchanabeka kwimekobume engazinzanga, ephawulwa zizigigaba zobundlobongela, ukungahoywa nongquzulwano. Oku kungazinzi kunokukhokelela ekuphuhliseni ukuxhalaba kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Ukungakhuseleki rhoqo kunye nokunqongophala kwenkxaso yeemvakalelo zenza ezi ngxaki zibe mandundu.

1.2. Imiba eqhotyoshelweyo

Ukusela utywala kwabazali kuphazamisa ubudlelwane bomzali nomntwana, nto leyo enokuchaphazela ukuphuhliswa kokunamathela okukhuselekileyo. Abantwana basenokuthatha indlela yokuziphatha yokuphepha okanye yokuxhomekeka ngokugqithisileyo kubudlelwane bexesha elizayo, ngenxa yokoyika ukulahlwa okanye ukwaliwa.

1.3. Ukuzijongela phantsi

Abantwana abahlala nomzali olikhoboka lotywala basenokuqalisa ukungazithembi. Basenokuziva benetyala okanye benembopheleleko ngemeko yentsapho, nto leyo echaphazela ukuzithemba kwabo nokukwazi kwabo ukuzithethelela.

2. Impembelelo yeNtlalo noBudlelwane

2.1. Ubunzima bezifundo

Ukukhotyokiswa butywala kwabazali kunokukhokelela ekuncipheni kokuqhuba ezifundweni. Uxinzelelo olungapheliyo kunye nokungabikho kwenkxaso yabazali kunempembelelo embi ekugxininiseni kwabantwana kunye nenkuthazo.

2.2. Ukwahluka kunye nokubekwa ibala

Abantwana babazali abangamanxila basenokuba nebala eluntwini. Basenokukuphepha ukuthetha ngemeko yabo ngenxa yokoyika ukugwetywa, nto leyo edla ngokukhokelela ekubeni babe ngamakheswa.

2.3. Ukonyuka koMngcipheko wokuziphatha okutenxileyo

Abanye abantwana abasesichengeni sobutywala babazali bakhula ngendlela yokuziphatha enobungozi njengokusebenzisa iziyobisi, ubunjubaqa, okanye ukungasebenzi kakuhle kobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu.

3. Impembelelo yePhysiological and Neurobiological

3.1. Uxinzelelo kunye neempendulo zePhysiology

Ukuxinezeleka okungapheliyo okubangelwa yimeko yentsapho enetyhefu kunokuba nemiphumo ye-physiological, kubandakanywa nokunyuka kwe-cortisol, ebeka phambili kwi-cardiovascular and immune disease.

3.2. Iziphazamiso zoPhuhliso lwengqondo

Uphononongo lubonisa ukuba abantwana babazali abanotywala bahlala bebonisa utshintsho ekuphuhlisweni kwe-cortex yangaphambili, ummandla obandakanyekayo kulawulo lweemvakalelo kunye nokwenza izigqibo.

3.3. Imingcipheko yemfuzo kunye neSibonelelo sokuQala ukuSetyenziswa kotywala

Abantwana babazali abanxilisayo banomngcipheko ophezulu wokuphuhlisa iingxaki zokusetyenziswa kotywala ngokwabo ngenxa yemfuzo kunye nemeko yendawo.

4. IziCwangciso zoThintelo noNgenelelo

4.1. Indima yeSikolo kunye neeNgcali zezeMpilo

Ukuchongwa kwangethuba kwabantwana abasentlungwini kubalulekile. Ootitshala, iisayikholojisti noonontlalontle badlala indima ebalulekileyo ekubhaqweni nasekudluliseleni kwiinkonzo ezifanelekileyo.

4.2. IiNkqubo zeNkxaso kunye namaQela eeNgxoxo

Amaqela enkxaso afana no-Al-Anon okanye i-Alateen anika abantwana ithuba lokuba babelane ngamava abo kwaye bafunde ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo.

4.3. I-Psychotherapy kunye nokuqina

Unyango lomntu okanye lwentsapho lunokunceda abantwana baphuhlise izicwangciso zokumelana kunye nokwakha kwakhona umfanekiso omhle.

Ukuqukumbela

Ukukhotyokiswa butywala kwabazali kuneziphumo ezinzulu nezininzi kubantwana, eziphembelela ukukhula kwabo ngokwasengqondweni, ngokwentlalo nasemzimbeni. Kubalulekile ukubeka iindlela zokuthintela kunye nenkxaso yokunciphisa ezi mpembelelo kunye nokukhuthaza ukomelela kwaba bantwana. Ukuzinikela okuhlangeneyo, okubandakanya iintsapho, amaziko kunye noluntu, kuyimfuneko ukubanika ikamva elizolileyo.

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