Manipulative paranoid personality: what is paranoia?

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La paranoia is a common symptom in individuals who suffer from narcissistic personality disorder. But how is it that a manipulator can feel vulnerable to the point of becoming paranoid? Are his paranoid delusions overplayed or is he genuinely afraid? Can he recover from his paranoia? We take stock in this article.

5 Reasons That Cause the Paranoid Personality of the Narcissistic Manipulator  

Due to the malaise of a narcissistic manipulator, he considers several elements to be real threats. In the following paragraphs, we will introduce 5 main reasons that generate their paranoid characteristics.

1. His narcissism places him at the center of covetousness

People with narcissistic personality disorder are convinced that those around her covet her qualities and possessions. However, it is an egocentrism, a fabricated reality that will allow him to fill his inner void.

He needs external stimuli to convince himself that he is at the center of lusts. Therefore, to feel grandiose, he needs the gaze of others. However, to bring others' attention back to him, he might go so far as to provoke animosity towards him.

2. It tires him of wanting to control everything

Narcissistic manipulators have a craving for control. They are driven by a constant need to feel superior to others and to make up for their lack of self-confidence. However, to establish and keep those around them under control, they have to deploy a lot of effort. By dint of being on the alert, the PN lives in a state of permanent stress.

Therefore, at the slightest threat that affects his balance, he is terrified. Consequently, he anticipates any possible risk that could threaten him, to the point of making a real obsession with it. This state of permanent anxiety about risking losing control at any moment will feed paranoia in him and lock him into a vicious circle.

3. He projects his own actions onto others and anticipates them

Narcissistic perverts can also become paranoid because they are aware of their own impact on their entourage. Indeed, when one manifests a destructive character on others, one automatically considers the world as a potential threat. Therefore, the manipulator feels permanently threatened because of his actions.

Moreover, this explains the behavior of excessive jealousy that sentimental manipulators exert in their couple. Love and empathy are not feelings they know or understand.

4. The PN abuses its prey by reversing the roles

In order to have a absolute control over his victim, the sentimental predator adores reverse roles. He sows confusion in the mind of his prey by making her believe that the problems come from her. As a good manipulator, he has no qualms about considering himself as the main victim. In addition, this ploy allows him to divert his victim's attention to the real problem. As a result, she becomes plagued with guilt. And by dint of undergoing such attacks, the real victim ends up believing it.

5. He anticipates the revenge of his victims

Manipulators also become paranoid when they are unmasked. By manhandling his victim and sowing chaos in his mind, he fears that he will have to suffer their wrath when he is unmasked. Revenge is a behavior that the narcissistic manipulator is afraid of. For him, once his victim has torn the veil from him, this one would like to avenge himself for the wrongs he has suffered. He then expects a possible counter-attack.

Narcissistic and paranoid evil personality – the differences between these two manipulation experts

personality disorders narcissistic perverts et paranoid both have similar characteristics. However, these two manipulation experts still have some differences.

  • In addition to manipulation, a narcissistic pervert is usually a mostly self-centered person. He constantly feels excessive needs for admiration and attention. They can also be ethically uninhibited and cannot feel any remorse or guilt. On the contrary, it destroys its prey using sentences that make you feel guilty.
  • As for an individual with paranoia, his disorder is most often manifested by a great mistrust and suspicion of others. He is constantly convinced that he is being manipulated or betrayed. On the other hand, they respond to these inner beliefs with aggression or hostility.

To sum up, people with narcissistic personality disorder are primarily focused on themselves and their own image. As for people with paranoid personality disorder, they are focused on others and their distrust of them.

How to cure the paranoid personality disorder of a manipulator?

Paranoid personality disorder of a manipulator manifests as generalized distrust as well as a tendency to see conspiracies and betrayals everywhere. Nevertheless, there are ways to treat the paranoid disorders of a manipulator :

  • La cognitive behavioral therapy as well as group therapy might help the person suffering from paranoia disorder.
  • La psychotherapy is also a means that can help people with this disorder to manage their distrust and anger. This treatment also allows paranoids to improve their social relationships and develop effective communication skills.

Sometimes paranoia requires drug treatment, especially when the state of permanent fear generates anxiety and depression. It should be noted, however, that treating paranoid personality disorder for a manipulator is far from straightforward. It can take several months or even years to be able to see significant results.

How to react to the paranoid personality of a manipulator?

In a narcissistic manipulator, paranoia is a mental disorder that can cause irrational behaviors et obsessive. Therefore, the individual should be treated with patience and understanding. But if you comment on him and criticize him, it could make things worse. In addition, it is also important to respect personal space and avoid sharing feelings that they do not feel comfortable sharing. Finally, consulting a mental health professional could help on how to manage a paranoid person.

Bibliographic references on the paranoid personality of a manipulator

Here are seven bibliographic references on the theme of paranoid personality and manipulative behavior:

  1. Bergeret, J. (1996). Normal and pathological personality. Paris: Dunod.
  2. Moro, M.-R., & Baubet, T. (2004). Transcultural psychopathology. Paris: Masson.
  3. Mellier, D. (2009). Pathological personalities. Paris: Armand Colin.
  4. Crocq, L. (2013). personality disorders. Paris: PUF.
  5. Racamier, P.-C. (1992). The genius of origins. Paris: Payot.
  6. Kernberg, O. (2004). Object relations and psychic processes. Paris: PUF.
  7. Cloninger, CR (1999). Biology and personality. Paris: Odile Jacob.

These references should provide you with a solid foundation to further your understanding of paranoid personality and manipulative behaviors.

Conclusion

In conclusion, this article highlights the complex and intricate characteristics of the paranoid personality in narcissistic manipulators. It illustrates how their exacerbated narcissism, their need for control and their projections fuel a cycle of distrust and paranoia. Although therapeutic approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy or psychotherapy offer solutions, the healing process often remains long and delicate. Faced with these behaviors, patience, understanding and support from mental health professionals are essential.

Cristina Balan
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