Intsomi kaNarcissus kunye nawe

Kwintsomi yamaGrike, uNarcissus wayesaziwa ngobuhle bakhe obumangalisayo nokungakhathali kwabo babemthanda. Ibali lakhe lisankenteza nanamhlanje, ngakumbi thina sizifumana sibambeke kwiwebhu yobudlelwane obuyityhefu kunye nobuntu be-narcissistic. Ukuba uyazazi ukule meko, yazi ukuba akuwedwa kwaye kukho iindlela zokuphuma kuyo. Oku ukubona isifundo kwintsomi kaNarcissus kunye nawe ebomini bakho.

Intsomi kaNarcissus: I-echo yobudlelwane bethu bale mihla

UNarcissus, umfana omhle wentsomi yamaGrike, wayesaziwa ngokuba lilize nokungakhathaleli iimvakalelo zabanye. Ngenye imini, wathandana nomfanekiso wakhe emanzini, akazange akwazi ukuhlukana nawo de wafa. Eli bali lavelisa uluvo lwe-narcissism, uphawu lobuntu oluphawulwa ngokuzithanda ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nesidingo esiqhubekayo sokunconywa.

Kubomi bethu banamhlanje, “i-Narcissus” ikhona kakhulu. Bangamaqabane ethu, oogxa bethu, nkqu namalungu osapho lwethu. Indlela abaziphatha ngayo inokusifaka kuvavanyo lokwenyani lweemvakalelo, ngokufuthi isishiya sididekile yaye sibuhlungu.

Izifundo ezivela kwiNtsomi kaNarcissus kunye nawe: Ukuguqula iintlungu zibe bubulumko

Nangona amava obudlelwane kunye ne-narcissistic manipulator enokuba nzima, inokuba lithuba lokukhula komntu. Nazi ezinye izifundo onokuzifunda:

1. Ukubaluleka kokuzithanda: INarcissus isifundisa ukuba ukuzithanda kubalulekile, kodwa kufuneka kulinganiswe.
2. Ixabiso le-authenticity: Ngokungafaniyo ne-narcissist ehlala kwinkohliso, funda ukunyaniseka kubudlelwane bakho.
3. Amandla ovelwano: Hlakulela uvelwano, olu phawu alukho kwi-narcissist, ukukhulisa ubudlelwane bakho.
4. Amandla Angaphakathi: Usinde kubudlelwane obunzima, obububungqina bamandla akho angaphakathi.

Intsomi yeNarcissus: Ibali lobuhle kunye nesiqalekiso

UNarcissus wayelityendyana lobuhle obumangalisayo, lizelwe kumanyano lothixo womlambo uCephisus kunye nenymph Liriope. Ngokukhawuleza nje ukuzalwa kwakhe, abazali bakhe baya kwigqirha uTiresias ukuze bafumanise ikamva lonyana wabo. UTeiresias waprofeta ukuba uNarcissus uya kuphila ubomi obude, ngaphandle kokuba akazange ajonge ukucinga kwakhe.

Njengoko wayekhula, uNarcissus waba ngumfana osemtsha onobuhle obumangalisayo kangangokuba watsala ingqalelo yomntu wonke, amadoda kunye nabasetyhini ngokufanayo. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kobuhle bakhe, uNarcissus wayesaziwa ngokubanda kwakhe kunye nokungakhathali kwabo bamthandayo. Wawakhaba ngaw’ omane onke amaqabane akhe, ekuvuyela ukubabona bebandezeleka ngenxa yokubathiya kwakhe.

Phakathi kwabantu abaninzi ababemncoma kwakukho i-nymph Echo. U-Echo wayeqalekisiwe nguHera, umfazi kaZeyus, kwaye wayengenakukwazi ukuziphendulela. Wayenokuphinda amazwi okugqibela awavileyo. Ethandana noNarcisse, u-Echo wamlandela kuyo yonke indawo, engakwazi ukubonisa uthando lwakhe. Xa uNarcissus, eziva elandelwa, wakhwaza esithi “Ngubani na?”, I-Echo yayinokuphinda “Apho!” Ekugqibeleni, ngenkohlakalo uNarcisse wamtyhalela kude, njengoko wayenzile kwabanye abaninzi.

Ebuhlungu, u-Echo wabuyela emqolombeni apho wamosha khona de kwasala ilizwi lakhe kuphela. Abanye abantu abachaswa nguNarcissus bathandaza kuthixokazi wempindezelo uNemesis, ukuba amohlwaye lo mfana ngenxa yenkohlakalo yakhe.

UNemesis wawuphendula umthandazo wabo. Ngenye imini, ngoxa uNarcisse wayezingela, wema kufuphi nomthombo ocwengileyo ukuze athobe unxano lwakhe. Njengoko wayechophe phezu kwamanzi, wayibona imbonakalo yakhe okokuqala. Engaziqondi umfanekiso wakhe, uNarcissus ngoko nangoko wathandana nobu buso buhle abubona emanzini.

Engakwazi ukuhamba ekuboniseni kwakhe, uNarcissus wahlala emaphethelweni amanzi, ecinga ngomfanekiso wakhe imini nobusuku. Wazama ngamandla ukuncamisa nokuwola esi sidalwa sihle wayesibona, kodwa ngalo lonke ixesha echukumisa amanzi, lo mfanekiso wawusiba luzizi uze unyamalale okomzuzwana.

I-Narcissus, edliwa ngolu thando lungenakwenzeka, yaqala ukumosha. Wayengasatyi, engasalali, ethe phithi kukucinga kwakhe. Ekugqibeleni, eqonda ukuba uthando lwakhe alusayi kuphinda lubuyekezwe, uNarcissus wazivumela ukuba afe emanzini.

Apho wafela khona, kwantshula intyantyambo ebizwa ngokuba yinarcissus ngenxa yozuko lwakhe. Kuthiwa kwanasebukumkanini babafileyo, iHadesi, uNarcissus uqhubeka ecamngca ngokubonakalisa kwakhe kumanzi eStyx.

Eli bali elibuhlungu liye laba ngumqondiso onamandla wokuzithanda ngokugqithiseleyo, amampunge kunye nokungakwazi ukuthanda abanye. Intsomi kaNarcissus isikhumbuza ngokubaluleka kokulinganisa ukuzithanda kunye nokuvuleleka kwabanye, isifundo esisasebenza ngamandla kuluntu lwethu lwanamhlanje.

Intsomi kaNarcissus: Inguqulelo kaOvid

Bafundi abathandekayo, masingene kunye kolu guqulelo lunika umdla lwentsomi kaNarcissus, njengoko kubaliswa yimbongi yaseRoma uOvid. Eli bali lisinika ukuqonda okuxabisekileyo kutshintsho kubudlelwane obuyityhefu kunye nengozi yokuzithanda ngokugqithiseleyo.

Isiprofeto esibangel’ umdla

Konke kuqala ngesiprofeto. Xa uNarcissus wazalwa, abazali bakhe baya kwigqirha elidumileyo uTiresias. Bambuza enoba unyana wabo uza kuphila ixesha elide kusini na. Impendulo kaTeiresias iyathembisa kwaye iyamangalisa: “Uya kufikelela kwiminyaka yobudala, ngaphandle kokuba engazi.” Esi siprofeto siyimfihlakalo siya kubumba ikamva leNarcissus.

Ubuhle obubulalayo

Njengoko ekhula, uNarcissus uba mhle kakhulu. Khawube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni womfana oselula onomtsalane kangangokuba utsale amehlo, amadoda namabhinqa ngokufanayo. Kodwa ubuhle bayo bangaphandle bufihla umlingiswa ongathandekiyo. UNarcisse unebhongo, nokuba unekratshi. Uyabagxotha bonke abo banobuganga bokusondela kuye, efumana uyolo olukhohlakeleyo ngokwaphula iintliziyo.

I-echo yothando olungapheliyo

Phakathi kwabaninzi abathandayo kukho i-nymph Echo. Ibali lakhe lichukumisa ngakumbi. U-Echo uthandana noNarcisse, kodwa akakwazi ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zakhe. UNarcisse umtyhalela kude njengoko enzile nabanye abaninzi, esongeza elinye ixhoba kuluhlu lwakhe.

Impindezelo yobuthixo

Ukuzigwagwisa kukaNarcisse ekugqibeleni kuneziphumo. Omnye wamaxhoba akhe, etyumke intliziyo, ubhenela koothixo. Umthandazo wakhe uviwa nguNemesis, uthixokazi wempindezelo. UNemesis uthatha isigqibo sokohlwaya uNarcissus ngendlela ehlekisayo.

Umgibe wokubonisa

Ngenye imini, emva kokuzingela imini yonke, uNarcisse umisa kufutshane nomthombo ocwengileyo ukuze athobe unxano lwakhe. Kulapho umgibe kaNemesis uvala kuye. Engqiyame phezu kwamanzi, uNarcissus ubona umboniso wakhe okokuqala. Engaziqondi umfanekiso wakhe, ngoko nangoko uyawathanda lo buso abubonayo emanzini.

Umnqweno ongenakwenzeka

UNarcissus ngoku ubanjiswe ngumtsalane wakhe. Uchitha iintsuku zakhe emanzini, ezama ngamandla ukufezekisa umfanekiso owuthandayo kakhulu. Kodwa ngalo lonke ixesha echukumisa amanzi, umboniso uyanyamalala. UNarcissus uyamosha, etyiwa lolu thando lungenakwenzeka kuye.

Imfesane ye-Echo

Kwi-twist ehlekisayo, u-Echo, nangona wayekhathazwe kukungafunwa nguNarcisse, akanakunceda kodwa uyavelana nentlungu yakhe. Uphinda isikhalo sakhe sokuphelelwa lithemba, esongezelela kwintlekele yendawo.

Isiphelo esibuhlungu kunye nobomi obutsha

Ekugqibeleni, uNarcissus uyanikezela kulo mnqweno angenako ukwanelisa. Kwanasemva kokufa kwakhe, kuthiwa umphefumlo wakhe uyaqhubeka ufuna ukubonakaliswa kwawo emanzini eStyx, umlambo wehlabathi elingaphantsi komhlaba.

Kwindawo apho umzimba wakhe wafunyanwa khona, kukhula intyatyambo entle: inarcissus. Le ntyatyambo imhlophe, enentliziyo etyheli ejikelezwe ngamagqabi, iba luphawu lobuhle obudlulayo kunye nobungozi bokuzithanda ngokugqithiseleyo.

Ukulwa nobukho obunomtsalane, kuthetha ukuba ulaliso okanye i ukwahlukana ingaba sisisombululo esihle.

Isifundo seNtsomi kaNarcissus kunye nawe

Le nguqulelo yentsomi kaNarcissus isinika isifundo esinamandla malunga neengozi zokucingela iziqu zethu kunye nokubaluleka kovelwano kubudlelwane bethu. Usikhumbuza ukuba ubuhle bokwenyani buvela kumandla ethu okuthanda nokunxibelelana nabanye, kungekuphela nje inkangeleko yethu yangaphandle.

Kuthi, abanokuthi banamava obudlelwane kunye nobuntu be-narcissistic, le ntsomi ihambelana nzulu. Kusikhumbuza ukuba ukuzithanda kubalulekile, kodwa kufuneka kulungelelaniswe nokuvuleleka kwabanye novelwano.

Bafundi abathandekayo, ungaze ulilibale ukubaluleka kwakho, kodwa hlala ugcina intliziyo yakho ivulekile kuthando lokwenyani kunye nonxibelelwano lwenyani. Kulapho ubuhle bokwenene bobomi bulele khona.

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