Inkcazo kunye neempawu zabantu abaguquguqukayo

Umbuzo othi “ingcaciso yegeza” uhlala uphakamisa imibuzo malunga nokuba lithetha ukuthini kanye kanye igama elithi “uhlanya”. Isetyenziswa ngokuqhelekileyo, ichaza umntu obonisa ukuguquguquka kwemo yeemvakalelo okubalulekileyo nokungalindelekanga. Oku kungazinzi ngokweemvakalelo kunokwenza kube nzima ukulawula ubudlelwane kwaye kubangele ukungaqondani. Ukuqonda ubume kunye neempawu zokuziphatha okuguquguqukayo kusivumela ukuba siyiqonde ngcono imiba yengqondo ejikeleze kuyo.

Imvelaphi kunye nentsingiselo yegama elithi “Lunatic”

Igama elithi “lunatic” lifumana imvelaphi yalo kwigama lesiLatini elithi “lunaticus”, elibhekisela kwiNyanga (“luna”). Ngaphambili, bekukholelwa ukuba izigaba zenyanga zinempembelelo kwindlela yokuziphatha komntu, kungoko unxibelelwano phakathi kokuguquguquka kweemvakalelo kunye nempembelelo yeNyanga. Namhlanje, nangona le nkolelo ingavunywanga, eli gama liyaqhubeka ukuchaza indlela yokuziphatha ephawulwa ngotshintsho lwequbuliso oluhlala lungalindelekanga kwisimo sengqondo.

Iimpawu zomntu onomsindo

Nazi ezinye iimpawu zomntu onomsindo:

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1. Ukungazinzi ngokweemvakalelo

L’ukungazinzi ngokweemvakalelo ngomnye wemiqondiso ephambili eyahlulayo yomntu onomsindo. Oku kungazinzi kuzibonakalisa njengotshintsho olukhawulezileyo phakathi kweemvakalelo ezichasayo, ezinjengovuyo nosizi. Olu tshintsho lunokwenzeka ngaphandle kwesizathu esicacileyo kwaye luphazamise unxibelelwano lwentlalo kunye nobungcali.

2. Iimpendulo ezibukhali nezikhawulezayo

Abantu abaguquguqukayo badla ngokusabela ngokugqithiseleyo kwiimeko ezinokubonakala zincinane kwabanye. Ezi mpendulo zingxamisekileyo zinokubandakanya ukukhwaza, umsindo wequbuliso, okanye ngokuchaseneyo, ukuthula ixesha elide kunye nokurhoxa. Ukungacingeleki kwezi ndlela zokuziphatha kunokudala umoya oshubileyo, ngakumbi kubudlelwane obusondeleyo.

3. Ubunzima bokulawula iimvakalelo

Into eqhubekayo phakathi kwabantu abaguquguqukayo bubunzima bokulawula iimvakalelo zabo. Ngokungafaniyo nokulawulwa kweemvakalelo ngendlela ephilileyo, apho abantu bechonga baze baveze iimvakalelo zabo ngokufanelekileyo, abantu abaguquguqukayo banokuziva bonganyelwe ziimvakalelo zabo. Oku kukhokelela ekuphenduleni okungalindelekanga kwaye, rhoqo, iingxabano zangaphakathi nangaphandle.

4. Impembelelo kubudlelwane boluntu

Ukutshintsha kwemo yesiquphe nokungalindelekanga kunokwenza kube nzima ukunxulumana nabanye. Amaqabane, abahlobo, kunye nabalingane banokuziva bebophelelekile ukuba “ hamba kumaqokobhe amaqanda » ukunqanda ukuxhokonxa iintshukumo ezingafanelekanga. Olu xinzelelo luqhubekayo lungonakalisa umgangatho wonxibelelwano kunye nokuthembana.

Iindlela zokuziphatha eziqhelekileyo ezinxulumene nabantu abaguquguqukayo

Ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ezithile zenza kube lula ukuchonga abantu abanokuziphatha okuguquguqukayo.

  • Umsindo wequbuliso kunye nokuthula ixesha elide

Uphawu oluqhelekileyo lwabantu abaguquguqukayo yindlela abawubonakalisa ngayo umsindo wabo. Bambi basenokusuka bagqabhuke ngumsindo baye kuthi cwaka ngokomkhenkce, besebenzisa le yokugqibela njengendlela yokulawula okanye yokuzikhusela. Ezi ndlela zokuziphatha zibonisa ukulawulwa kakubi ngokweemvakalelo, okuhlala kukhuliswa luloyiko olunzulu lokulahlwa okanye ukulahlwa.

  • Intetho engafanelekanga yeemvakalelo

Abantu abaneemoyi basenokuba nobunzima ekuvakaliseni iimvakalelo zabo ngokufanelekileyo. Oku kunokukhokelela ekuphenduleni ngendlela engafanelekanga okanye engafanelekanga, njengomsindo ongachazwanga okanye amaxesha emvakalelo enzulu engahambelaniyo nemeko. Le ndlela yokuziphatha inokutolikwa gwenxa ngabo bakungqongileyo, abangasoloko bewuqonda umthombo woku kusabela.

  • Isidingo sokulawula okusingqongileyo

Abanye abantu abacaphukileyo bafuna ukuyilawula imeko-bume yabo ukuze bathintele iimeko ezigqalwa njengezoyikiso. Oku kunokubandakanya ukuziphatha okufana nokukhohlisa okanye iimfuno ezingqongqo kwabanye. Eli linge lokulawula lidla ngokusabela kwixhala elibangelwa kukungacingelwa kwangaphambili kweemvakalelo zabo.

Umahluko phakathi kwamageza kunye nokuphazamiseka kobuntu

Kubalulekile ukwahlula indlela yokuziphatha eguquguqukayo kwezinye iziphazamiso zobuntu ukuthintela ukubhideka okuqhelekileyo.

  • Lunatic okanye umntu onarcissistic?

Nangona kulinga ukulinganisa ukuziphatha kwemoody kunye neempawu ze-narcissistic, kubalulekile ukwenza umahluko. Umntu onama-narcissistic ubonakalisa ipateni engaguqukiyo yokufuna ukunconywa kunye nokungabi novelwano. Kwelinye icala, umntu onesithukuthezi unokuba neemvakalelo ezibaxiweyo engakhange afune ukukhohlisa okanye ukulawula abanye ngokuphindaphindiweyo.

  • Ukuphazamiseka kweMood kunye nokuziphatha kwemood

Kukwaluncedo ukwahlula indlela yokuziphatha eguquguqukayo kwimo yokuphazamiseka kwengqondo, njenge-bipolar disorder. Ngokungafaniyo neziganeko ezinde zokudandatheka okanye ukuphambana okubonwa kwibipolar disorder, abantu abaguquguqukayo banokusuka ngokukhawuleza besuka kwenye imvakalelo baye kwenye, maxa wambi izihlandlo eziliqela ngemini.

Izinto ezinokuba ngunobangela wokuziphatha kakubi

Zininzi izinto ezinokuthi zibe negalelo ekukhuleni kokuziphatha okuguquguqukayo, kwaye kubalulekile ukuqonda ezi zinto zinokuba ngunobangela.

Imiba yokusingqongileyo kunye neyothuso

Ezinye iingcali zidibanisa ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kumava obomi abalulekileyo okanye abuhlungu. Ukukhula kwindawo engazinzanga, ingakumbi kubazali abangalungelelananga ngokweemvakalelo, kunokukhuthaza ukuphuhliswa kolu hlobo lokuziphatha. Oku kusabela kunokubonwa njengendlela yokusinda ukumelana nokungacingeleki kwendalo.

I-Genetic kunye ne-biological predispositions

Uphando lucebisa ukuba eminye imiba yokuziphatha okuguquguqukayo inokuba nemvelaphi yebhayoloji. Ukungalingani kweekhemikhali kwingqondo, njengamanqanaba angaqhelekanga e-neurotransmitters njenge-serotonin kunye ne-dopamine, inokuchaphazela ukulawulwa kweemvakalelo. Ngaphaya koko, uphononongo lubonise ukuba i-genetic predispositions inokudlala indima, okwenza abanye abantu babe sesichengeni sokuziphatha kolu hlobo.

Impembelelo yemfundo kunye nokusingqongileyo kwezentlalo

Ngaphandle kwemizila yemfuza, indlela umntu akhuliswe ngayo nemekobume yentlalontle akhulele kuyo inokuba negalelo ekukhuleni kwesimilo. Abazali okanye abakhathaleli ababonisa ukuziphatha okungazinzanga ngokwabo okanye abasilelayo ukubonelela ngemizekelo yolawulo lweemvakalelo olunempilo banokudlulisela ezi patheni kubantwana. Olu sulelo lunokugxininiswa ngakumbi ukuba umntwana akakwazi ukufikelela kwimilinganiselo yeemvakalelo ezinzile kunye nenkathalo.

Ireferensi yebhayibhilografi

Nazi iireferensi ezisixhenxe zebhayografi kumxholo wokuziphatha okuguquguqukayo:

  1. “Isichazi-magama se-Academy yaseFransi, uhlelo lwe-9”
    Academy Dictionary
  2. “Iingcaciso: igeza-Larousse isichazi-magama sesiFrentshi”
    Larousse
  3. “LUNATIC: Inkcazo ye-LUNATIQUE – Iziko leSizwe leMixholo yoMxholo kunye neLexical Resources (CNRTL)”
    Cnrtl
  4. “Inkcazo ye-lunatic-etymology, izithethantonye, imizekelo”
    Encyclopedia Universalis
  5. “lunatique – Iingcaciso, izithethantonye, ukubizwa, imizekelo | Isichazi-magama esikwi-Intanethi Le Robert”
    Le Robert
  6. “Lunatique: inkcazo kunye nesithethantonye se lunatic ngesiFrentshi | TV5Monde”
    Ulwimi lwesiFrentshi
  7. “whimsical | Usito”

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Ukuqukumbela

Indlela yokuziphatha evakalala, ehlala ibonwa njengento engalindelekanga kwaye iyabhidisa, ineengcambu zayo kwindibaniselwano yeemvakalelo, zokusingqongileyo, izinto zebhayoloji kunye nezengqondo. Ukwazi indlela yokwahlula olu hlobo lokuziphatha kukuphazamiseka kobuntu kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo kubalulekile ukuqonda ngcono kunye nokulawula ukusebenzisana kwakho nabantu abachaphazelekayo. Nangona ukuziphatha okuntsonkothileyo, okuguquguqukayo kunokuphononongwa kwaye kuqwalaselwe ngenkxaso yengqondo kunye neendlela zokulawula iimvakalelo, ukuvumela abo bachaphazelekayo ukuba baphucule umgangatho wobomi babo kunye nabo babangqongileyo.

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