Ukubuyisela umva ibhombu yothando kubhekisa kwimeko apho abantu abangengabo i-narcissistic betyala imali kakhulu kubudlelwane nomntu one-narcissistic. Ngokuqhelekileyo, “ibhombu yothando” inxulunyaniswa nama-narcissists abagqithisa iithagethi zabo ngothando kunye nengqalelo. Oku kusenokubandakanya ukuzincama okubalulekileyo, okubonisa inkolelo yokuba bamele “bafanelwe” luthando nolwamkelo lwenarcissist. Kubalulekile ukuba ungaze unikezele kwizinto ezinjalo. Ugqibelele kanye ngale ndlela uyiyo, kwaye akukho sizathu sokwenza yonke into ukukholisa i-narcissist. Ufanelwe ngcono!
Isiganeko sokuBuyisa iBombu yoThando
I”Uthando lweBombing” idla ngokunxulunyaniswa nommandla we-narcissistic, kodwa kuthekani ukuba nguwe “uthanda ibhomu” i-narcissist? Lo ngumbuzo esingazange siwuphendule ngokwenene, kodwa ndicinga ukuba abaninzi benu baya kuhambelana nale meko. Sihlala sithetha “ngothando lokubhobhoza,” kodwa kuthekani ukuba “uthando luqhuma ibhomu” ukuba “umntu owakha wacinga, ukuba u-narcives wayekhe wacinga? ‘thanda ibhombu’ kubo”
IiNgcaciso zokuReverse Love Bombing
Ingqikelelo ye-reverse “Love Bombing” inomdla kwaye yacetyiswa ngumbukeli. Le yinto ebendisoloko ndiyiqwalasela kodwa ndingafane ndiyixoxe. Ukuba sele “uthando ibhombu” umntu narcissistic okanye ucinga ukwenza njalo. Musa ukuba neentloni ngale nto, kuba ndiza kuchaza ukuba kutheni le nto yenzeka.
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Ibali Elikhanyiselayo
Makhe ndikuxelele ibali. Khawucinge nje ngomntu omnandi, onobubele odibana nomntu omhle, onomdla, ophumeleleyo okanye osisityebi, masibize lo mntu “Yves”. UYves unomdla kumntu olungileyo, kwaye umntu olungileyo akanakukholelwa inhlanhla yakhe. Ufuna ukuyizuza intliziyo kaYves, ngoko umsa kwezona ndawo zokutyela zibalaseleyo, amnike izipho ezicingisisiweyo, ahlengahlengise ucwangciso lwakhe ngokweemfuno zikaYves, aze asebenzise imali angafanele ayichithe ukuze ambonise ixesha elimnandi.
Nangona kunjalo, uYves akayiqapheli yonke imizamo eyenziwe. Uyazamkela izipho, akaze athembise ukuhlawula, yaye ngokufuthi uhlala engenambulelo. Umntu olungileyo uqalisa ukuziva ediniwe yaye engahoywanga, kodwa uyaqhubeka kuba uziva enethamsanqa ukuba kunye nomntu onomtsalane njengoYves. UYves uhlala ejikeleza kuba ethanda izibonelelo amnika zona umntu olungileyo, kodwa akenzi nto ngembuyekezo.
IPsychology yeReverse Love Bombing
Kucacile ukuba abantu be-narcissistic ngokubanzi babonwa njengabanomtsalane ngakumbi, abaphumeleleyo nabanomtsalane, nto leyo eyenza ukuba banqweneleke. Ukuba “uthando luqhubhile” i-narcissist, inokuba kungenxa yomnqweno wokufumana ingqalelo yabo. Nangona kunjalo, umahluko phakathi kothando lokuqhushumba i-narcissistic manipulator esengozini yaye oko komntu oqhelekileyo ilele kwinkxalabo enzulu enxulumene nokuzithemba.
Ukwahlula Ukungaqiniseki eluthandweni
Uthando lwebhombu lunokuvela ebuntwaneni apho uthando bekufuneka lufunyenwe, kwaye oku kuba yipatheni yobudlelwane. Kulinge lokubuyisela imvakalelo yokungathandwa ngenxa yokuba ungubani, kodwa kuphela oko ukwenzayo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ukuqhushumba kwebhombu akukuthetheleli naluphi na uxhatshazo onokuthi uhlangabezane nalo. Awunaxanduva lokuxhatshazwa ngabanye abantu.
Ukuqukumbela: Ukuzixabisa nokuZibekela imida
Lo mxholo ujolise ekuqinisekiseni kunye nokwenza ubuntu kuni abo “bathanda ibhombu” umntu onama-narcissistic. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba oku kuvela kwindawo enzulu yangaphakathi, edla ngokunxulunyaniswa nobuntwana apho umntu engazange azive ebonwa, exatyiswa okanye engaviwa. Ufanelwe ukuthandwa ngenxa yokuba ungubani, kwaye awuze ufune “ukuthanda ibhomu” nabani na. Funda ukuzixabisa, uhambe kubudlelwane obuyityhefu, kwaye ubeke imida. Ufanelwe yintlonipho novelwano kubo bonke ubudlelwane bakho.
👇 Ukuya phambili:
- Ubuchule bokuqhunyiswa koThando nguMxhasi weNarcissistic osesichengeni
- Yintoni i-manipulator ye-narcissistic engenisiweyo?
- Ingaba umbhexeshi we-narcissistic akathembekanga? Kutheni?
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The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.