Reverse Love Bombing – The Ravages of the Narcissistic Pervert

Mabomba achikondi obwerera kumbuyo amatanthauza nthawi yomwe anthu omwe si a narcissistic amawononga ndalama zambiri paubwenzi ndi munthu wankhanza. Nthawi zambiri, kuphulitsa kwachikondi kumalumikizidwa ndi anthu onyoza omwe amasokoneza zolinga zawo mwachikondi komanso chidwi. Izi zingaphatikizepo kudzimana kwakukulu, kusonyeza chikhulupiriro chakuti ayenera “kulandira” chikondi ndi chivomerezo cha munthu wankhanzayo. Ndikofunikira kuti tisagonje kuzinthu zotere. Ndinu wangwiro momwe mulili, ndipo palibe chifukwa chochitira chilichonse chomwe mungathe kuti musangalatse munthu wamatsenga. Mukuyenera bwino!

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Chochitika Chotsitsimutsa Chikondi Chowombera Mabomba

” Kukonda Mabomba nthawi zambiri zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi gawo la narcissistic, koma bwanji ngati ndiwe amene “amakonda kuphulitsa” narcissist? Ili ndi funso lomwe sitinayankhepo kwenikweni, koma ndikuganiza kuti ambiri a inu mukugwirizana ndi izi. Nthawi zambiri timalankhula za “kuphulitsa kwachikondi,” koma bwanji ngati ndiwe amene “amakonda kuphulitsa” wamatsenga? Ngati munayamba mwaganizapo, “Dikirani, ine ndi amene ndimayenera kuwakonda bomba.”

Zobisika za Reverse Love Bombing

Lingaliro la reverse “Love Bombing” ndilosangalatsa ndipo lidaperekedwa ndi wowonera. Ichi ndi chodabwitsa chomwe ndakhala ndikuchiwona nthawi zambiri koma sindimakonda kukambirana. Ngati “mwawombera kale” munthu wamatsenga kapena mukuganiza kutero. Musachite manyazi ndi izi, chifukwa ndikufotokozera chifukwa chake izi zimachitika.

Nkhani Younikira

Ndiroleni ndikuuzeni nkhani. Tangoganizani munthu wokoma, wachifundo yemwe amakumana ndi munthu wokongola, wosangalatsa, wopambana kapena wolemera, tiyeni timutchule munthu uyu “Yves”. Yves ali ndi chidwi ndi munthu wabwino, ndipo womalizayo sakhulupirira mwayi wake. Amafuna kukopa mtima wa Yves, choncho amapita naye kumalo odyera abwino kwambiri, amamupatsa mphatso zomuganizira, amakonza ndandanda yake mogwirizana ndi zosowa za Yves, ndiponso amawononga ndalama zimene sayenera kuwononga posonyeza kuti akusangalala.

Komabe, Yves sazindikira zoyesayesa zonse zomwe zachitika. Amalandira mphatso, safuna kulipira, ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala wosayamika. Munthu wabwino amayamba kutopa komanso kunyalanyazidwa, koma amapitirizabe chifukwa amaona kuti ndi mwayi kukhala ndi munthu wokongola ngati Yves. Yves amalimbikira chifukwa amakonda zabwino zomwe munthu wabwino amamupatsa, koma samabwezera chilichonse.

Psychology of Reverse Love Bombing

Zikuwonekeratu kuti anthu a narcissistic nthawi zambiri amawoneka kuti ndi okongola, opambana komanso okongola, zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala ofunidwa. Ngati muli ndi “chikondi chowombera” munthu wamatsenga, zikhoza kukhala chifukwa chofuna kuti amvetsere. Komabe, kusiyana pakati pa chikondi mabomba osatetezeka narcissistic wopotoza ndipo munthu wamba ali ndi nkhawa yaikulu yokhudzana ndi kudziona kuti ndi wofunika.

Kusiyanitsa Kusatsimikizika ndi Chikondi

Kuwombera kwachikondi kungabwere kuchokera ku ubwana komwe chikondi chimayenera kupezedwa, ndipo ichi chimakhala chikhalidwe cha ubale. Ndi kuyesa kubwezera kumverera kwa kusakondedwa chifukwa cha zomwe inu muli, koma chifukwa cha zomwe mumachita. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti kuphulitsa kwachikondi sikukhululukirira nkhanza zilizonse zomwe mungakumane nazo. Simuli ndi mlandu pa nkhanza zomwe ena amakuchitirani.

Kutsiliza: Kudzilemekeza Ndi Kudziikira Malire

Izi zikufuna kutsimikizira ndikusintha anthu inu omwe “mwakonda bomba” munthu wankhanza. Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti izi zimachokera ku danga lakuya lamkati, lomwe nthawi zambiri limagwirizanitsidwa ndi ubwana momwe munthu samamva kuwonedwa, wofunika kapena kumva. Muyenera kukondedwa chifukwa cha zomwe muli, ndipo simuyenera “kukonda bomba” aliyense. Phunzirani kudziona kuti ndinu wofunika, pewani maubwenzi oipa, ndi kuika malire. Muyenera ulemu ndi chifundo mu ubale wanu wonse.

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