Na aʻoaʻoina le leai o se fesoasoani: aisea e le alu ese ai le tagata manua (faʻamatalaga)

Definition: aʻoaʻoina le leai o se fesoasoani o le tulaga lea o se tagata – pe a uma ona matauina o latou gaioiga e leai se mea e suia ai – e taofi le gaioiga, tusa lava pe ua toe mafai. Na faʻaalia e le fomaʻi o le mafaufau o Martin Seligman lenei faʻataʻitaʻiga i le 1960s: o manu e oʻo i le faʻateʻia e le maalofia ona taofi lea o le sosola, e tusa lava pe matala le faitotoa e ulufafo ai. Ua latou iloa e leai se aoga o se mea.

Mai le poto masani i le potu malolo o le aiga

O le liliu atu i le faatosinaga, o le aʻoaʻoina o le leai o se fesoasoani e faʻamatalaina ai le mealilo e le malamalama ai i latou o loʻo siomia ai i latou: “aisea e le alu ese ai?”. Talu ai ua ia aʻoaʻoina – e leʻi mafaufauina, learned, faatasi ai ma lona tino neura – o le tetee e le taitai atu ai i se mea, o le sola ese e toe aumai ai oe i le amataga, o le fesili e mafiafia ai le puao. I le mavae ai o tausaga o microtrauma ma faʻalavelave faʻalua, o le manatu faigofie o le tuʻua e faʻatupuina le vaivai lava e tasi e pei o taumafaiga ua mavae. E mafai ona matala tele le faitotoa: o le aoaoina e totonu.

O saini e tolu o le le mafai ona aʻoaʻoina

  • Passivity i le feagai ai ma faʻafitauli, e oʻo lava i laʻititi ma soʻo.
  • So le faanoanoa ma le faaui i tua: itiiti galuega faatino, itiiti le faailoaina o manaoga.
  • S fa’agesegese le a’oa’oina: “E le mafai lava ona ou faia” e oo lava i luma ole su’ega.

O le tala lelei: o mea ua aʻoaʻoina e leʻi aʻoaʻoina

Na maua e Seligman ma ana uo le tutusa tonu: o le poto masani o le pule. O nisi taimi ua lava i le une le manumalo muamua – o se tapulaʻa na faia, o se tofiga na faʻamalieina naʻo ia, o se pusa na faʻagaoioia – mo le faiʻai e toe lesitala e aoga le gaioiga. O le mafuaaga lea o le manumalo o filifili laiti:

  • Filifili taua e mafai ona manumalo ma manumalo i latou – e le o le faʻataʻitaʻiga tele mulimuli.
  • Faamaumau manumalo taitasi i se faiga tusitusia: o le a’oa’oina e mana’omia se faamaoniga faifaipea.
  • Fa’ataga oe e lagolago: foma’i, vaega, po’o le a’oa’oga fa’apitoa, e faatelevave ai le toe fa’atatauina o le malosi e galue ai.

O le ata tonu lea o le fuafuaga a le i laʻasaga e 6 e tuʻu ai se PN: o laʻasaga taʻitasi o le manumalo o le faʻamalosi lea e saunia ai le isi. healing, foʻi, o loʻo fausia e ni faʻamaoniga laiti, fai soo.

Fa’amatalaga mai le glossary o le fa’atauva’a leaga.

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