Faauigaga: le puao o le mafaufau o le tulaga lea e faigata ai le mafaufau, telegese, le mautonu – e pei o faaiuga taitasi e manaʻomia se taumafaiga tele. I le tulaga o le pulea, e le o se faʻailoga masani o le vaivai: o le tuʻusaʻo ma le faʻamaonia o taunuuga o le faʻaumiumi o le faʻaalia i feeseeseaiga, fefe ma le faʻaititia.
Aisea e fa’atupu ai le puao ole ala sa’o?
Tu’ufa’atasi auala e tolu:
- O fusi fa’alua: fa’asaga i fa’atonuga fete’ena’i (silasila i le double binds), e tamo’e le fai’ai i se matasele e foia ai le mea e le mafai ona foia.
- Hypervigilance: o le mata’ituina pea o lagona o le isi e fa’agaoioia ai puna’oa e masani ona tu’uina atu i le manatua, fa’amasinoga ma fuafuaga.
- O le cumulative microtrauma: o tui taitasi, le leoa taitasi, faafitia taitasi e atili vaevae ai le talitonuga i manatu o se tasi.
I’uga: galo, matou fefiloi, matou toe faitau faatolu le laina tutusa, matou te le toe “iloa” mea matou te iloa. Ua ta’u atu i le tagata manua “e leai sau mea o totoe” – ma o le matauga e avea ma faamaoniga atili o lona le agavaa. Ua faapena ona faasaga atu le puao i le tagata ua mafatia ai.
Le suega faigofie
Afai e te masalosalo i le mafuaʻaga o lau puao, mataʻituina lona faʻafanua: i fafo atu o le i ai o isi – faaiuga o le vaiaso i le fale o se uo, faigaluega i le vaiaso – e toe foʻi mai le manino? O le puao fegalegaleai muamua e mou atu i se mamao; e le faapea o se ma’i. O lenei faʻamatalaga faigofie ua faʻamaonia mo le faitau selau o tagata na afaina.
Auala e maua ai le manino
- Fa’aitiitia le uta: fa’ai’uga laiti, lisi pupuu, tasi le mea i le taimi. E ‘ino’ino le puao i le faigofie.
- Tu’u ese manatua: tusi i lalo mea uma – aso, mea moni, talanoaga. O le api e mafaufau mo oe ao e aoao e toe mafaufau.
- Fafaga le tino: puipuia moe, savali, susu. O le iloa o se mea fa’aletino a’o le’i avea ma fa’atinoga o le loto.
- O le mamao: o le faagasologa lea o le talaaga. O le puao o aafiaga e solo i vaiaso o tipi pe faʻapipiʻi fesoʻotaʻiga – o se tasi lea o tufatufaga vaaia muamua o le departure, ma o se tasi o faʻailoga o le healing.
Afai e tumau pea le puao e ui i le mamao, e manaʻomia fautuaga faʻafomaʻi – faʻaeteete e le faʻaumatia le taimi.
Fa’amatalaga mai le glossary o le fa’atauva’a leaga.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.