Momwe mungadziwire ndikuthana ndi wopotoza wa narcissistic pantchito?

Dziko la ntchito limatithandiza kukumana ndi kuyanjana ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya umunthu. Pakati pa anthu awa, ena akhoza kukhala ovulaza kwambiri, monga momwe zimakhalira ndi wopotoza wamatsenga. Momwe mungadziwire munthu wopotoza wa narcissistic pantchito ? Kodi mungakumane naye bwanji? 

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Makhalidwe a narcissistic wopotoza pa ntchito

Opotoza a Narcissistic pantchito ndi nkhani yomwe ikukambidwa kwambiri m’zaka zaposachedwa. Poyeneradi, chodabwitsachi chikukula ndipo mabizinesi ambiri akukhudzidwa. Kodi manipulator amadziwika bwanji ndi akatswiri?

Kutengeka ndi mphamvu ndi ulamuliro

Monga paubwenzi, wopotoza wa narcissistic amafuna mphamvu ndi ulamuliro. Pachifukwa ichi, akusowa cholanda kapena wogwiriridwa yemwe angamugwire. Nthawi zambiri, ndizosavuta kwa PN kuwongolera omwe ali pansi pake akakhala manejala.

Kusokoneza ndi kuimba ena mlandu

Ndi vuto lake la narcissistic, PN imatha kuwongolera komanso kupangitsa munthu kudzimva wolakwa wake (wa). Nthawi zonse amakonda kuimba mlandu ena.

Kufunafuna ulamuliro ndi ukulu

Munthu ameneyu adzafuna kusonyeza kulamulira kwake ndikuchepetsa anzake kuti adzimve kuti ndi wapamwamba. Kenako akhoza kuwavutitsa mwamakhalidwe ndi kuwachitira chipongwe mwamawu ndi m’maganizo..

Kupanda chisoni ndi chifundo

Poyang’anizana ndi zochita zake, PN ikuwonetsa kuti palibe cholakwa. Salemekeza anzake ndipo amawawononga maganizo. Kuwasokoneza, amagwiritsa ntchito mawu osagwirizana, omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala osasinthasintha, osokoneza komanso odabwitsa.

Zizindikiro za 7 za kuzunzidwa ndi PN kuntchito

Zindikirani kuti kuzunzidwa kuntchito ndi chilango chalamulo ndipo n’zotheka tetezani ku ziwopsezo za PN. Komabe, wopotozayo samaganizira izi, chifukwa amadyetsa maganizo a ena, ngakhale m’malo mwa akatswiri. M’munsimu muli zizindikiro za kuzunzidwa kuntchito:

Chizindikiro 1: Kusalekeza kumakhudza munthu m’modzi panthawi

Wopotoza wa narcissistic pantchito amalanda munthu m’modzi panthawi imodzi. Kenako idzasankha nyamayo ndi kuiwononga isanayang’ane nyama ina. Kuwukira kwatsiku ndi tsiku sikungokhudza ubwino wa ntchito. Zowonadi, PN idzayesa kuwononga nyama yake mwanjira iliyonse.

Chizindikiro 2: Kuzunzidwa sikumayankha pazifukwa zilizonse

Nthaŵi zambiri, kuvutitsidwa kulibe chifukwa chokhalirapo. PN imasankha munthu amene angayime.

Chizindikiro 3: Wopotoka wankhanza kuntchito amalepheretsa wozunzidwayo kuti adzinenere yekha

Kukhala ndi kulamulira wozunzidwayo Ndipo kuti amufooketse, munthu wodzikonda yekha amaletsa mdani wake kuti asadzionetse. Angathenso kumuletsa kuti asadziteteze pogwiritsa ntchito kutsutsana za ntchito yake, moyo wake wachinsinsi komanso ziwopsezo zake.

Chizindikiro 4: Kupatula wozunzidwayo

Kupyolera mu chisangalalo chake, PN imatha kukopa anzake ena. Amawachotsa kwa wophedwayo kuti womalizayo akhale yekha.

Chizindikiro 5: Kunyoza wozunzidwa ndi gulu

Nthawi zonse ndi cholinga chofooketsa wozunzidwayo, PN imamunyoza ndi miseche ndi mphekesera.

Chizindikiro 6: Kunyoza wozunzidwa mwaukadaulo

Kuwonjezera pa kuukira munthu, PN imathanso kuvulaza wozunzidwayo pamlingo waukadaulo. Kenako adzam’patsa ntchito zosagwirizana ndi luso lake. Kapena, amaika wozunzidwayo m’mavuto ndi mautumiki omwe amaposa luso lake.

Chizindikiro 7: Kuukira kukhulupirika kwa thupi la wozunzidwayo

PN imatha kuyika ntchito zowopsa kwa wozunzidwayo kapena kumuwopseza ngakhale kumumenya. Pamene wozunzidwayo akumva kuti ali pachiopsezo, PN ikhoza kuwalamulira kwathunthu.

Kodi mungawone bwanji wopotoza wa narcissistic pantchito?

PNs kuntchito ndizosavuta kuziwona. Iwo ndi ang’ombe athunthu omwe amakonda kupotoza zenizeni kuti apindule.. Sazengereza kutero bodza, kaya ndi ogwira nawo ntchito kapena makasitomala. Kuphatikiza apo, ma PN nthawi zonse amapereka malamulo osamveka bwino, zitonzo zopanda chifukwa komanso zizindikilo zenizeni zokhutitsidwa.

Zotsatira za khalidwe la narcissistic pa ntchito

Ma FN ndi ankhanza a megalomaniac ndipo zochita zawo zimatha kukhala ndi zotsatira zoyipa kwa omwe akuzunzidwa. Amakhala ku gehena tsiku ndi tsiku ndipo amadzimva ngati makanda, opsinjika maganizo komanso olakwa.. M’munsimu muli zotsatira za narcissistic pervert pa ntchito:

• Kupsinjika maganizo,nkhawa ndi kuvutika maganizo
• Kudzipatula komanso kuwonongeka kwa ubale pakati pa anthu
• Kutayika kwa kudzidalira ndi kudzidalira
• Zokhudza momwe akatswiri amagwirira ntchito

Kodi mungathane bwanji ndi wopotoza wa narcissistic pantchito?

Ngati mumagwira ntchito ndi PN, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti ali odwala matenda a pathological. Njira yabwino yothanirana naye si kuyankha akamamuukira. Choncho, pewani kulankhula naye mmene mungathere. Ingotsatirani maubwenzi a akatswiri. Mwanjira iyi, iwalani za zokambirana zanu ndi PN, chifukwa adzazigwiritsa ntchito motsutsana nanu.

Mukazindikira PN kuntchito kwanu, kubetcherana kwanu ndikumamatira pazokambirana zachiphamaso. Pamene ikukula pa mikangano, pewani kusagwirizana ndi PN. Kuti akhumudwitse wozunzidwayo, adzagwiritsa ntchito njira zonse zomwe angathe. Koposa zonse, musagonje pa zokwiyitsa zake ndipo makamaka musasonyeze malingaliro anu.

Kumbukirani kukhala odekha ndikusunga malingaliro anu mkati. Akakuukirani, musadzilungamitse ndikugwiritsa ntchito ziganizo zazifupi. Onetsetsani kuti nthawi zonse mumalemba zolemba zanu (imelo, SMS) komanso kukhala ndi mboni pazokambirana zanu. Mwanjira imeneyi sangathe kutsutsana nanu.

Kodi mungadziteteze bwanji kwa munthu wopotoza wa narcissistic kuntchito?

Kuti mutetezeke ku zosokoneza za narcissistic kuntchito kwanu, malangizo ena ayenera kuganiziridwa:

• Osawonetsa zakukhosi kwanu ndikuwulula chilichonse chokhudza moyo wanu,
• Pewani kumvera chisoni PN,
• Kuzunguliridwa bwino,
• Gwirani ntchito pa kudzidalira: Kuti muyambenso kudzidalira ndikudzimanganso nokha, mukhoza kupeza thandizo kwa katswiri. Iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yodzipulumutsira ku chikoka cha opotoka mukamagwidwa nawo.