Opotoka a Narcissistic nthawi zambiri amawoneka ngati anthu omwe ali ndi malingaliro apamwamba pa iwo okha. Koma kumbali ina, palinso cholakwika cha narcissistic chomwe ndi gulu lina la anthu omwe ali ndi zophophonya, ndiko kunena kuti alibe ulemu wochepa.. Anthu amtundu wotere amakhala opanda chikondi kwa iwo eni. Pachifukwa ichi, amakhala ndi kufunikira kosalekeza kwa chitsimikiziro chokhudzana ndi phindu lawo laumwini.
Narcissistic Flaw: Ndi Chiyani?
Mawuwa amagwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zambiri ndi psychoanalysts, cholakwika cha narcissistic ndi chosiyana ndi umunthu wa narcissistic womwe umadziwika ndi kudzidalira komanso kudzidalira. Pachifukwa ichi, munthu amene akuvutika ndi vuto la narcissistic m'malo momangoganizira za iye mwini, nthawi zonse amadziona kuti alibe ntchito, sakuyenera kanthu ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala wotsika kwa ena.
Izi zimawonekeranso ndi mawonekedwe osiyanasiyana monga:
- Kusadzidalira
- Kudzinyoza
- Kuyerekeza ndi ena
- Kudziona koipa
- Kuvuta kudzimva wofunika
- Kumva manyazi
- Kusatetezeka kwamphamvu
- Kuvuta kuphatikiza
- Kudziimba mlandu
Kodi zolakwika za Narcissistic zimabisika kuti?
Malinga ndi akatswiri ena azachipatala ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, zolakwa za narcissistic nthawi zambiri zimabisala m'maganizo abwino kuti adzifooke. Nthawi zambiri imadziwonetsa ngati kudzikonda kocheperako chifukwa zambiri zomwe zimayambira zimalumikizidwa ndi ubwana. Cholakwika ichi chimabisalanso m'njira yofuna chidwi komanso kuzindikira kwa munthu wotsutsana naye.
Izi zimadziwonetsera kupyolera mu makhalidwe angapo ndipo zimabisika m'njira zosiyanasiyana monga narcissism osatetezeka, kapena chifukwa cha hypersensitive komanso zovulaza mosavuta.
Kodi zomwe zimayambitsa vuto la narcissistic ndi chiyani?
Kafukufuku akutulukirabe zambiri za narcissism ndi kufooka kwa narcissistic.
Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti:
- Zovulala zaubwana
- Nkhanza
- Kudyerana masuku pamutu
- Chibadwa
Zinthu zonsezi zimathandizira pakukula kwa mtundu uliwonse wa narcissism. Kusintha kwa chilengedwe ndi majini kungathe kuchitapo kanthu.
Kufotokozera chifukwa cha vuto la narcissistic
Pamene ubongo ukukula, amaganiziridwanso kuti kusokonezedwa kwa thanzi labwino, kukula kosasunthika kungayambitse chifukwa chake munthu akhoza kukhala ndi vuto la umunthu wa narcissistic wopotoza wa narcissistic. Zochitika monga kusinthasintha kwa banja komanso kuchulukitsidwa kapena kucheperachepera kungakhale koyambitsa. Mabanja osagwirizana kapena osokonezeka maganizo angayambitsenso chitukuko cha umunthu umenewu pamene munthuyo akukalamba.
Kunyada kulikonse (kwambiri kapena pang'ono), kaya kutamandidwa, kutamandidwa, kapena kulekerera, kungayambitsenso chitukuko cha mtundu wa narcissism, monga narcissism yosatetezeka. Kusakhazikika bwino komanso kukhazikika kumayambitsa kusokonezeka kwa homeostasis yamkati, komwe kumabweretsa zovuta zingapo zamaganizidwe, kuphatikiza narcissism kapena narcissism osatetezeka.
Kusanthula muubongo kwa munthu yemwe ali ndi vuto losokoneza bongo kunawonetsa kuti munthuyo anali ndi zinthu zotuwa zochepa mu ubongo zomwe zimayendetsa malingaliro ndi malingaliro, kuphatikizapo chifundo ndi chifundo, makhalidwe awiri omwe sapezeka mumtundu uliwonse wa umunthu wonyansa.
Zotsatira za cholakwika cha narcissistic
Makhalidwe a anthu omwe ali ndi zolakwika za narcissistic akhoza kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zoipa, kuphatikizapo kukhumudwa, nkhawa, kudzipatula, kudzimva kuti ndi chidani komanso kusalidwa ndipo amapereka chitsanzo chogwira mtima cha momwe cholakwika cha narcissistic chingadziwonetsere pa ntchito.
- Kusapeza bwino m'maganizo ikhoza kukhalanso imodzi mwazotsatira za cholakwika cha narcissistic. Zingayambitse munthuyo kudzinyalanyaza, thanzi lawo, ndipo zimenezi zingachititse kuti ayesetse kudzipha.
- Chimodzi mwazotsatira zazikulu za kulephera kwa narcissistic ndi kudalira maganizo kapena kuzolowera. Izi zimalimbikitsa ozunzidwa kuti adzigonetsa ndi kuthawa kusasangalala kwawo kwakukulu kuti athetse kukhumudwa kwawo.
Zilonda zitatu za narcissistic
Freud adalongosola mabala atatu akuluakulu a mbiriyakale ku nkhani yodzikuza ya munthu, yemwe amayesa kuti asachite mantha ndi zongopeka za anthu apadera.
- Choyamba ndi kuvulala kwa Copernican chimene chinachotsa Dziko Lapansi lenilenilo, dziko lakwawo la munthu, pakati pa thambo ndi kukonza njira ya kusweka kwa cosmos kukhala chilengedwe cha nthawi ndi mlengalenga zopanda umunthu, zosagwiritsa ntchito teleology. Ndi sayansi yomwe yachititsa kuti izi zitheke.
- Chilonda chachiwiri ndi Darwin, zomwe zinaika Homo sapiens molimba m'dziko la zolengedwa zina, zonse zikuyesera kupeza moyo wawo wapadziko lapansi ndipo motero zikusintha mogwirizana wina ndi mzake popanda kutsimikizika kwa ma beacons otsogolera omwe amafika pachimake pa Munthu. Sayansi yatsutsanso kudulidwa kwankhanza kumeneku.
- Chilonda chachitatu ndi Freudian, zomwe zimabweretsa chikomokere chomwe chimagonjetsa ukulu wa njira zodziwikiratu, kuphatikiza chifukwa chomwe chimatonthoza Munthu mu kupambana kwake kwapadera, ndi zotsatira zoyipa za teleology kachiwiri. Sayansi nayonso ikuwoneka kuti ili ndi tsamba ili.
Kodi mungachiritse bwanji vuto la narcissistic?
Chithandizo chodziwika bwino cha narcissism ndi chithandizo, chomwe chimathandiza odwala kumva bwino. Mankhwala angaphatikizidwe mu chithandizo ngati muli ndi matenda ena a maganizo, monga kuvutika maganizo.
Mankhwalawa amatha kukuthandizani kuthana ndi zizindikiro ndikuchepetsa kukhudzidwa kwa mkhalidwewo pakudzidalira, ntchito ndi maubwenzi.
Ngakhale izi, zolakwika za narcissistic zimatha kusintha pakapita nthawi. Angathe kuyesetsa kukhala achifundo kwambiri, ndipo ubwenzi ukhoza kukhala wopambana. Ndikofunikira kungoona zenizeni ndikumvetsetsa kuti sizikhala zophweka.
Maupangiri a m'mabuku pa vuto la narcissistic
Nawa maumboni asanu ndi awiri pamutu wa "narcissistic flaw":
- Kapsambelis, V. (2011). "Narcissistic fragility", chipatala chamakono. Magazini ya ku France ya psychoanalysis, 75 (4), 1097-1112.
- Descôteaux, J., & Laverdière, O. (2019). "Normal and pathological narcissism: Integrated presentation of the main North American psychoanalytic conceptualizations". Psychotherapies, 39 (2), 55-69.
- Desloges, G. (2013). "Kuchokera ku zolakwika za narcissistic mpaka kulephera kwa chitetezo chamthupi: kodi matenda amthupi ali ndi tanthauzo? » Zolemba zomaliza, La Pitié - Salpêtrière Faculty of Medicine.
- Nosal, S. (2022). "Kusazindikira komanso kukhumudwa pachiwopsezo cha malire akuti: kumutu wachitatu? » Thesis ya udokotala, University of Lorraine.
- Desjardins-Begon, D. (2013). "Kulephera kwa Narcissistic ndi Kudzidalira Kwawo Pamakhalidwe Osokoneza Bongo: Kubwereza Zolemba ndi Kuphunzira Zachipatala". Dissertation yomaliza, Nice Sophia Antipolis University.
- Maïdi, H. (2014). "Narcissism mu Unyamata". Journal ya Child Psychoanalysis, 4 (1), 123-140.
- Hirigoyen, M.-F. "The Narcisses: adatenga mphamvu". Zolemba za La Découverte.
Mabuku ndi nkhanizi zimapereka kusanthula mozama kwa mbali zosiyanasiyana za narcissism, kuphatikizapo zofooka za narcissistic ndi zolakwika, muzochitika zosiyanasiyana zachipatala ndi zamaganizo.
Kutsiliza
Pomaliza, cholakwika cha narcissistic chikuwonetsa gawo lodziwika bwino koma lofunikanso lomwe limadziwika ndi kusadzidalira komanso kusadzidalira. Pomvetsetsa bwino magwero ndi mawonetseredwe a matendawa, zimakhala zotheka kulingalira njira zothetsera vutoli, makamaka kudzera mu njira zochiritsira zomwe cholinga chake ndi kubwezeretsa kukhazikika kwamaganizo ndi kudziwona bwino.
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