Wozunzidwa ndi Zizindikiro Zopotoka za Narcissistic – Zizindikiro 20 Zoyenera Kudziwa

Ambiri aife timadziwa kale munthu wamwano, kaya m’banja, kuntchito, m’kalasi kapena m’mabwenzi. NP imayendetsa ndikuchepetsa wozunzidwayo mpaka sadzidalira ndipo akudalira iye. Pofuna kuthandiza ozunzidwa ndi PN, ndi bwino kukaonana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo. Ambiri aife titha kukhala ozunzidwa popanda kudziwa. M’nkhani ino muone ngati ndinu m’modzi mwa anthu amene anazunzidwa ndi anthu opondereza kapena ayi.

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Zizindikiro 22 za wozunzidwa ndi Narcissistic Pervert

Nazi zizindikiro zozindikiritsa munthu yemwe wazunzidwa ndi narcissistic pervert:

1. Anali ndi kholo losokoneza lokha

Wozunzidwa wa narcissistic wopotoza ayenera kukhala ndi makolo aukazi. Choncho wakhala akuvutika kale ndi PN kuyambira ali mwana. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, wozunzidwayo amavutika kuzindikira kuti moyo wawo si wabwinobwino. Iye amaganiza kuti moyo umagwira ntchito monga choncho. 

Wozunzidwayo akuwopa kuti ngati PN angamusiye, ayenera kuyambira pachiyambi, chifukwa chake amakhala pambali pake. Zowonadi, uku ndikumverera komwe wopotoza amapangira mwa wozunzidwayo. 

2. Kwa vuto la narcissistic

Ozunzidwa ndi PN akumanapo kale ndi anthu onyoza kuyambira ali aang’ono kwambiri, chifukwa chake ali ndi zolakwika za narcissistic. Zolakwika izi ndi zotsatira za mabala a narcissistic. Pokhala ndi zolakwika izi mwa iwo, anthu omwe adakumanapo kale ndi zochitika zachipongwe nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi ubale ndi wopotoza wamatsenga. 

3. Kudalirana (mwamalingaliro, zachuma)

Wozunzidwa ndi PN amadalira kwambiri iye, kaya ndi maganizo kapena ndalama. Munthuyo sangathenso kuchoka ku manipulator awo ndipo alibe ufulu wodziimira m’moyo. Koma, wopotoza wa narcissistic amadaliranso nyama yake, kuzunzika kwawo kumawongolera kudzikonda kwake. 

4. Kusadzilemekeza

Nyama zambiri zogwiriridwa zimangotaya ulemu wawo. Pokhala nthawi yochuluka ndi wonyengayo, wozunzidwayo amayamba kudzidzudzula yekha, sakhutira ndi zomwe amachita ndipo amavutika maganizo kwambiri. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, munthuyo samadzimva kuti ndi wotetezeka. 

Wopotoza wa narcissistic amadzudzula wozunzidwayo nthawi zambiri. Amayesa kumuyika pansi. Amaganiza kuti ndi yekhayo amene angamukonde, ndichifukwa chake amawopa kuyambitsa ubale watsopano ndi munthu watsopano.

5. Kusadzikonda

Chifukwa cha kugwiritsiridwa ntchito kwa wopondereza wa narcissistic, wozunzidwayo amadzimva kuti alibe chikondi. Nyamayo ikufuna kukondedwa mochulukirachulukira, sadziwanso zomwe ikufuna ndipo sangathenso kudzisamalira. Iye amakhala chizolowezi. Ubale pakati pa PN ndi wozunzidwayo ndi wovuta kwambiri. 

6. Palibe zopinga zabwino zamaganizidwe 

Munthu mothandizidwa ndi manipulator awo, wozunzidwayo sangathenso kunena kuti NO. Amavomereza zonse zomwe PN imamufunsa ngakhale zili zosemphana ndi chifuniro chake. Munthuyo amayamba kusakhalanso ndi chotchinga chabwino chamalingaliro. M’kupita kwa nthaŵi, wozunzidwayo amakhala chidole cha wopotoza wa narcissistic. 

7. Mosavuta kusinthidwa

Anthu omwe amazunzidwa ndi PN ndi osavuta kuwongolera. Akakhala ndi nthawi yambiri ndi anthu otere, m’pamenenso amawasokoneza kwambiri. Mlingo wawo watcheru ndi chidwi chawo umakhala wotsika kwambiri pakapita nthawi. Zoonadi, mu mgwirizano ndi wonyenga wonyenga, palibenso chikondi, chinyengo chimalamulira.  

8. Munthu wachifundo kwambiri

Wozunzidwa wa PN alinso ndi umunthu wachifundo kwambiri. Amakhala wokhudzidwa kwambiri ndi malingaliro a ena. Munthuyo amamvetsa mosavuta mmene ena akumvera chifukwa cha mphamvu zake komanso nzeru zake. Wozunzidwa amakhala wabwino. Kupatula apo, chinali kukoma mtima kwake komwe kunathandiza wopotozayo kukwaniritsa zolinga zake. 

9. HPI/HPE

Wozunzidwa ndi munthu wopotoza wamatsenga akhoza kukhala munthu wa High Intellectual Potential (HIP) komanso munthu yemwe ali ndi High Emotional Potential (HPE). Onsewo ndi anthu okhala ndi mikhalidwe ya mbidzi. Anthu amtunduwu ali ndi luntha lamphamvu kwambiri. Choncho, thupi lake ndi munthu wanzeru. Ngakhale wozunzidwayo atakhala waluntha, izi sizinathe kuyika chotchinga ku zochita za wopotokayo. 

10. Kudzipatula

Pambuyo pakusintha kosiyanasiyana kwa PN, wozunzidwayo akuwoneka kuti amadzipanga yekha. Munthuyo amayamba kudzipatula kwa okondedwa, mabanja, abwenzi, anzake, ndi zina zotero. Wopotoza wa narcissistic akufuna kuti atalikirane ndi dziko kuti angoyang’ana pa iye yekha ndipo asalandire thandizo kuchokera kunja.

11. Kudzinyenga Kwabodza

Munthu wabodza ndi munthu amene akukumana ndi imfa. Wozunzidwa wa PN alinso ndi umunthu uwu. Amataya chizindikiritso chake. Komanso, alibe chisangalalo m’moyo ndipo amadziwonetsera yekha ngati fano. 

12. Timavutika kwambiri (kuchuluka kwa chikondi)

Wozunzidwayo sakhalanso wosangalala m’moyo wake, m’zochita zake ndipo ngakhale atachita zinthu zimene ankakonda poyamba, sizim’bweretseranso chimwemwe. Moyo wake suli kanthu koma kuvutika. Sakuwonetsa kumwetulira kulikonse. 

13. Ndife achinyengo (ogonana, okhudzidwa)

Wopotoza wa narcissistic amawononga nyama yake kwambiri. Blackmail ikhoza kubwera m’njira ziwiri: kugonana ndi maganizo. Wozunzidwayo sangazindikire zomwe akukumana nazo mpaka mochedwa kwambiri. Wopotokayo adzapangitsa wozunzidwayo kuzindikira kuti iyeyo ndi wopanda pake, ndiye yekhayo amene amamuganizira ndipo ayenera kubwezera chifundo chake.  

14. Ego wamng’ono kwambiri

Wogwiriridwayo samadziona kukhala wofunika kwambiri koma amapereka zochuluka kwa winayo. Sathanso kupereka malingaliro ake kapena malingaliro ake pamavuto koma amangotsatira upangiri wa womupusitsa.  

15. Wowolowa manja kwambiri 

Kuti asangalatse mnzawo wolakwika, wozunzidwayo amapereka chilichonse chomwe ali nacho komanso kupitilira zomwe ali nazo. Moyo wake tsopano ukungoyang’ana pa munthu wankhanza uyu ndipo amatanganidwa ndi ntchito yomupulumutsa. Koma, wozunzidwayo si wabwino kwa wonyenga, ndi wabwino kwa aliyense. 

16. Timapanikizidwa, kunjenjemera, kuda nkhawa, ndipo izi nthawi zonse

Kupsinjika maganizo kwa munthu amene akudwala PN kukupitirirabe. Kuwonjezera pa kupsinjika maganizo, amakwiya kwambiri ndipo amakhala ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse. Sadzimva kukhala wosungika m’pang’ono pomwe ali ndi mnzake kapena ngati palibe. Wozunzidwayo amakhala mopanikizika. 

17. Taiwala kuti ndife ndani ndipo taiwala zoipa zambiri zomwe zidatichitikira.

Nyamayo sithanso kuzindikira umunthu wake weniweni ndipo amaiwala zoipa zambiri zomwe zidachitidwa kale. Amaganiza kuti wapeza bwenzi loyenera komanso kuti moyo wake ndi wabwinobwino. Izi ndi zotsatira za kusintha kwa wopotoza. 

18. Akunena chowonadi ngakhale chili chomsowa

Nthawi zambiri munthu amanama kuti apeze phindu. Kumbali ina, wozunzidwa ndi PN sali wotero, amalankhula zoona ngakhale zitamulepheretsa. Zitha kuwononga moyo wake koma amazichitabe chifukwa chopusitsa. 

19. Munthu yemwe wakhala akutumikira kholo lake nthawi zonse ndipo sadziwa kwenikweni ufulu wamaganizo

Ambiri mwa omwe adazunzidwa ndi opondereza onyenga anali ndi makolo ankhanza. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zonse akhala akutumikira makolo awa, ndichifukwa chake sanakhalepo ndi ufulu wodziyimira pawokha. Izi zimakakamiza wozunzidwayo kuvomereza zonse zomwe akufunsidwa ndipo amawopa malingaliro a ena.  

20. Mumavutika ndi kupanda chifundo koma mumavomereza zosavomerezeka

Munthu amene wachitiridwa chipongweyo amavutika ndi kupanda chifundo. Iye ali ngati kukhala ndi umunthu wotsutsana ndi anthu. Koma amatha kuvomereza chilichonse, ngakhale zinthu zosavomerezeka. Izi ndi zomwe tangonena pachikwangwani 6, osatha kunena kuti Ayi. 

21. Muli ndi savior syndrome

Pambuyo pa kugwiriridwa, wozunzidwayo amakakamizika kuchita ntchito ya mpulumutsi. Iyi ndi njira yomwe imagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi narcissistic pervert. Wotsirizirayo amayesa kuchititsa mwa iyeyo kukhala ndi chikhumbo chofuna kumpulumutsa ku mkhalidwe wake kotero kuti iye akhalebe mu ulamuliro wake. 

22. Muli ndi imposter syndrome

Chizindikiro chomaliza ndi imposter syndrome. Mudzamva izi mukakhala paubwenzi ndi PN. M’kupita kwa nthawi, mudzaona kuti simukuyenerera malo anu ndipo mudzayamba kudziyerekezera ndi ena. 

Ndani angakhale wozunzidwa ndi Narcissistic Pervert?

Aliyense wa ife akhoza kukhala mkhole wa wopotoza wankhanza. Akazi komanso amuna akhoza kukhala ozunzidwa ndi ntchito za PN. Otsatirawa ali ndi mtundu wa radar kuti asankhe nyama zawo. Ngakhale aliyense atha kukhala wozunzidwa, opotoza a narcissistic amakhala ndi zomwe amakonda.

• Kumbali ina, iwo amakonda kufalitsa kachilombo, amene sadzidalira. Amasankha anthu amtunduwu chifukwa amatha kuwasokoneza. Ena akumana ndi kusoŵa chisungiko kuyambira ali ana, pali awo amene anasiyidwa kapena kuchitiridwa nkhanza ndi okondedwa awo. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, amalephera kuzindikira konse kuopsa kowazungulira. 
• Chilichonse chomwecho, a anthu anzeru kwambiri alinso ndi chimodzi mwazokonda zawo. Akatswiri a zamaganizo omwe adafunsidwa adawonetsa kuti 70% ya ozunzidwa ndi PN ndi anthu wamba pomwe 30% ndi HPI / HPE. Anthu amtunduwu amatenga nthawi yayitali kuti amvetsetse kuti amachitiridwa nkhanza chifukwa ubongo wawo ndi wolumala. 

Unyinji wa anthu amene anafunsidwa ndi akazi. Kwa amuna, ndi nkhani yosaloledwa. Komabe, amuna ochulukirachulukira amachitiridwa nkhanza ndi opondereza. 

Maumboni a m’Baibulo 

Nawa maumboni asanu ndi awiri a m’mabukuwa pamutu wazizindikiro mwa ozunzidwa ndi opotoka a narcissistic:

1. Fajnwaks, F. (2003). Kupanga lingaliro la umunthu wa narcissistic mu American psychopathology kuyambira 1940. Thesis ya udokotala, Rennes 2 University.
2. Bardouil, N. (2002). Chitsanzo ndi njira yowunikira zachitetezo cha narcissistic identity vulnerability: kumvetsetsa ndi kupewa khalidwe loipa mwa achinyamata.. Thesis ya udokotala, University of Toulouse 2.
3. Rotta Teixeira, M.A. (2012). Kuchokera ku kusamutsa ma neuroses kupita ku narcissistic neuroses: zopereka ku maziko a chiphunzitso cha Freudian cha melancholy.. Thesis ya udokotala, University Paris 7.
4. Ballans, P. (2003). Zotsatira za kukana mopotoka: kulemba koyera. Thesis ya udokotala, Montpellier 3 University.
5. Bozzoni, O. (2019). Kuthandizira anthu othamangitsidwa kufunafuna chitetezo pantchito yothandiza anthu: kuyimilira anthu ndi machitidwe aukadaulo oyesedwa ndi chidwi. Thesis ya udokotala, University of Toulouse.
6. Rick, F. (2018). Emotions and social cognition: njira yoyesera. Thesis ya udokotala, University of Bordeaux.
7. Bozzoni, O. (2019). Copyright ndi choreography: kusanthula zamalamulo. Thesis ya udokotala, University of Paris 1 Panthéon-Sorbonne.

Ntchitoyi ikuyang’ana mbali zosiyanasiyana zokhudzana ndi narcissism, kupotoza ndi zotsatira zake kwa ozunzidwa, motero kupereka kumvetsetsa mozama za zizindikiro zomwe zikugwirizana nazo.

Kutsiliza

Pomaliza, ndikofunikira kuzindikira zizindikiro zaubwenzi wapoizoni ndi wopotoza wamatsenga. Kumvetsetsa njira zogwirira ntchito komanso momwe zimakhudzira ozunzidwa ndi gawo loyamba lofunikira kuti mudzipulumutse ku chikokachi. Ngati mukukayika, chithandizo chochokera kwa katswiri chimakhalabe chida chachikulu chopezeranso chidaliro ndikukhazikitsanso moyo wokhutiritsa. Tisaiwale kuti aliyense amayenera kukhala ndi ubale wabwino komanso waulemu.

Kufunsira:

• Kodi ndine mkhole wa ubale wapoizoni?
• The Manipulator’s Weak Point
• Kuchita kwa Wonyenga Mukamusiya
• Ndi Mayday
• Imen Ndi Narcissistic Pervert
• Chithandizo cha Narcissist Chopotozedwa
• Emotional manipulator
• Momwe Mungapwetekere Wopotoza Narcissistic
• Zimatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji kuti PN ibwerenso?
• Kodi PN akudziwa kuti ndi PN
• N’chifukwa chiyani PN akazitape pa inu? 
• Narcissistic Pervert ndi Telefoni
• Kodi Narcissistic Pervert Ndi Wosangalala M’moyo?
• Zizindikiro Zabodza
• Makolo Omwe Amakhala Okhumudwa

Ngati mukumva ngati ndinu wozunzidwa ndi munthu wopotoza wa narcissistic, musazengereze kukaonana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo. Osadandaula, mutha kutuluka m’manja mwa PN.