imen es ghost – Dzimasuleni nokha ku ubale woyipa

Mwinamwake mukudziwa mawu akuti imen es phantom omwe mwanjira ina amafotokoza nkhani ya mkazi yemwe anali ndi chibwenzi choyipa. Pakati pa kusokoneza maganizo, mabodza, mikangano, zovuta, kusapezeka, mkwiyo, kukhumudwa … nyimboyi ikuwonetsa zotsatira zovulaza zomwe ubale wotero ungakhale nawo. Choncho, ngati muli mumkhalidwe wotere, nayi njira yoti muzisiyanitseni ndi mnzanu wapoizoni kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino.

Kodi ubale wapoizoni ndi chiyani?

Ndi ubale wapoizoni womwe munthu m’modzi amasunga bwenzi lake pamavuto, popanda kuthekera kosinthana. Ikhoza kupitirira miyezi ingapo kapena zaka zingapo. Pano, chimwemwe chalowa m’malo mwa kuwawidwa mtima. Kusagwirizana kulibenso, moyo watsiku ndi tsiku umakhala ndi ziwonetsero ndi mikangano.

Komabe, ubwenzi si mwachibadwa poizoni, umakhala poizoni. Ndipo sikophweka kuchita kusanthula. Monga mawu a nyimbo ya imen es phantome amati:

“Ndinali wakufa mufilimuyi koma ndimakutsatirani ngati mthunzi wanu

Script yolembedwa ndi misozi yanga ndi inki pang’ono

Koma sindinakayikire chilichonse chokhudza doko lanu, ndagwetsa nangula “

Nthawi zambiri sitizindikira izi zikachitika, makamaka tikakumana ndi a narcissistic wopotoza, wonyenga kapena mzukwa.

Zizindikiro 6 za ubale wapoizoni

1. Kulamulira : Ngati muwona kuti mnzanuyo amakulamulirani, ngati akukakamizani zosankha zake kapena masomphenya ake a zinthu popanda kuganizira maganizo anu, mukhoza kukhala pachibwenzi choopsa. Zowonadi, m’mabanja oterowo, ndi ubale waukulu/wolamuliridwa womwe umalamulira.
2. Kutsika mtengo : Paubwenzi woipa, wokondana naye nthawi zambiri amanyoza ndi kuvulaza, kaya payekha kapena pagulu. Izi zingachokere ku mawu achipongwe osavuta mpaka kuzunza, kuphatikizapo kutukwana ndi kunyodola.
3. Kuwongolera: Ichi ndi chizindikiro china cha ubale wapoizoni. Ngati muli ndi mnzanu amene amathera nthawi yawo kuti azizonda zochita zanu, kuyang’anira maonekedwe anu kapena kukufunsani za zochita zanu, zili ndi inu. kupangitsa munthu kudzimva wolakwa, muyenera kudzifunsa mafunso okhudza mtundu wa ubale wanu.
4. Kusalumikizana: Ngati mupezanso kuti simungathe kuthetsa mavuto anu mwa kukambirana kapena kusinthanitsa, izi zikhoza kukhala chizindikiro chakuti mukukhala paubwenzi woopsa. Mu ubale woterewu, kukambirana nthawi zambiri kumabweretsa mikangano ndi mikangano. Ndipo nthawi zambiri, ndi mbali imodzi. Mukayesa kuyankhula, mumapezeka kuti mwakumana ndi mzukwa.
5. Nkhanza zakuthupi ndi zamaganizo
6. Zoyipa zamalingaliro

imen es phantom – Zotsatira za ubale wapoizoni

Zotsatira za ubale wapoizoni ndizochuluka. Imen Es anayesa kuwafotokozera mwachidule mu pre-chorus:

“Munandipangitsa kukhala wodekha, wokhumudwa, wankhanza, wokwiya, wokwiya

Mpira wamitsempha, ndinavutika kwambiri “

Monga tikuonera, zotsatirazi zimamveka kwambiri pa thanzi lakuthupi monga thanzi labwino komanso kudzidalira:

• Zotsatira zoipa pa kudzidalira : pamene moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku ukutsutsidwa, kunyozedwa, kunyengerera, ndi kusadzidalira imakhazikika pansi. Mutha kutaya chidaliro mwa inu nokha, maluso anu ndi zosankha zanu. Muthanso kukhala ndi malingaliro odziona ngati otsika, manyazi kapena kudalira.
• Zotsatira zoyipa pa thanzi lanu lamalingaliro : paubwenzi wapoizoni, mnzawoyo amangokhalira kunjenjemera, kusinthasinthana pakati pa mphindi zachikondi ndi zachiwawa, malonjezo ndi kusakhulupirika, kuyamikirana ndi kutukwana. Ndiye mukhoza kumva chisokonezo, kukhumudwa, mkwiyo kapena chisoni. Mukhozanso kukhala ndi nkhawa, nkhawa kapena kukhumudwa.
• Zotsatira zoyipa pa thanzi lanu : mnzanu wapoizoni akhoza kukuvutitsani chiwawa chakuthupi, kugonana kapena kulankhula, zomwe zingayambitse kupwetekedwa mtima, kupweteka ndi kuvulala. Zitha kuchitika kuti chifukwa cha ubale wanu wapoizoni, mumavutika ndi kutopa, kudya kapena kugona, matenda osatha, etc.

Kodi muyenera kusunga ubale wanu kapena kutembenuza tsamba?

Palibe yankho lachilengedwe ku funsoli, chifukwa chilichonse chimakhala chosiyana. Komabe, ngati muli paubwenzi pomwe wokondedwa wanu amakuzunzani, amakupatulani, amakusungani m’malo mwamantha, amakulamulirani ndipo samazindikira zolakwa zake, muyenera kuchitapo kanthu mwachangu ndikufunsani. kwa thandizo. Kumbali ina, ngati akuvomera kuti azidzigwira yekha ndikusankha kutsata chithandizo chamankhwala, mutha kuyesa kupulumutsa ubale wanu.

Imen es ghost – Kodi mungatuluke bwanji muubwenzi woyipa?

“Iwe uli kutsogolo, yang’anani pulogalamuyo mosamala.”

Za mkazi wowonongedwa kuyesera kupewa zopinga

Simunali dzuwa langa, munali thambo lodzaza ndi namondwe

Ndikadamvera zomwe ndingathe, adalosera kwa ine ngati mawu

Mwadzipangira nokha zokhumba, mwadzilola nokha kupita

Oyitanira anakana kenako inu munachokapo

Mabodza anu onse ndinawapanga kukhala chowonadi changa

Ndinadzigawa ndekha kotero ndidadzimasula ndekha”

Mukazindikira kuti muli pachibwenzi choopsa, musadikire mpaka mutawonongedweratu kuti muchoke. Mukangozindikira zizindikiro zosiyanasiyana, muyenera kuthawa “monga nswala” monga mmene zilili mzukwa. Kwa izo:

• Pangani dongosolo lothandizira : chifukwa cha izi, mutha kuyandikira banja lanu ndi omwe akuzungulirani. Izi zidzathandiza kuchepetsa kuvutika maganizo. Mukhozanso kupeza chithandizo kuchokera kwa akatswiri.
• Khalani osasunthika pa chisankho chanu : mzukwa wanu kapena mnzanu wamwano angaganize zobwerera pokuwonetsani chithunzi chabodza chake. Koposa zonse, musalole.
• Dzizungulireni ndi positivity : Kuti mupite patsogolo muyenera kudzikhululukira nokha ndikudzimasula ku zakale. Komanso, yesani kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena zinthu zomwe zimakupangitsani kumwetulira kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro abwino.

Buku la “imen es fantôme”

Nawa maumboni asanu ndi awiri a Baibulo pamutu wa “mizimu” (kapena zochitika zolumikizidwa ndi zosawoneka):

1. Boudet, M. (2009). Paranormal phenomena ndi zikhulupiriro: njira yamaganizidwe. Paris: Editions L’Harmattan.
2. Meridian, A. (2011). Mizukwa m’malingaliro ophatikizana: pakati pa chikhulupiriro ndi sayansi. Lyon: Editions du CNRS.
3. Burgalassi, A., & François, E. (2013). Mzimu wa Malo: Mizukwa ndi paranormal padziko lonse lapansi. Toulouse: Éditions Ouest-France.
4. Hervé, S. (2015). Psychology ya zikhulupiriro ndi zochitika za paranormal. Paris: Zosindikiza za Sukulu ya Advanced Studies in Social Sciences.
5. Mtsinje, M. (2017). Paranormal: Kufufuza za zikhulupiriro ndi machitidwe. Marseille: Editions Geuthner.
6. Trémont, F. (2019). Ghosts and apparitions: kafukufuku wa anthropological. Strasbourg: Presses universitaire de Strasbourg.
7. Desjardins, P. (2020). Pakati pa sayansi ndi chinsinsi: Kafukufuku wa mizukwa. Brussels: Éditions Academia.

Kutsiliza

Pomaliza, maubwenzi oipa akhoza kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zoipa pa thanzi lathu ndi maganizo athu. Nyimbo ya “imen es fantome” ikuwonetsa mwamphamvu kuzunzika kumeneku komanso kufunika kozindikira zizindikiro za ubale wotero. Ngati nanunso mukukumana ndi vuto ngati limeneli, kumbukirani kuti n’kofunika kwambiri kudzisamalira ndi kupeza chithandizo chimene mungafunikire kuti mumasuke ku chiwonongeko chimenechi. Machiritso amayamba ndi kuzindikira ndi kusankha kusuntha.

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