Sadomasochism ndi kupotoza kwa narcissistic: Kumvetsetsa kuti mudzimasulire bwino

Sadomasochism amaonedwa ngati mchitidwe wonyansa wa kugonana ndipo ngakhale matenda kwa kanthaŵi. Mchitidwewu umasungabe chinsinsi china. Zonyansa komanso zodetsa nkhawa kwa ena, koma zosangalatsa komanso zachinsinsi kwa ena. Choncho tikufotokozereni zomwe mchitidwewu umaphatikizapo. Sexual Sadism : ndi mbiri yamalingaliro yomwe ingakanidwe mosiyanasiyana. Nkhani yokhudzana ndi kugonana ndiyomwe imapangitsa chidwi kwambiri, ngakhale kusokoneza. Mfundo yoti izi zikukhudza kugonana, yomwe ndi nkhani yosavomerezeka, sizithandiza konse kumvetsetsa zankhanza zogonana. 

Sadomasochism: ndichiyani?

Titha kufotokozera sadomasochism ngati chizolowezi chogonana pomwe kugwiritsa ntchito ulamuliro, zowawa komanso kuchititsa manyazi. Cholinga ndi kukwaniritsa zosangalatsa. Kutanthauzira uku kwa sadomasochism kumabweretsa kukhalapo kwa zibwenzi ziwiri. Kumbali ina, yemwe ali ndi chikhumbo chofuna kugonjera masochism. Ndipo amene ali ndi chikhumbo cha ulamuliro, ndiye kukhumudwa pogonana.

Koma ndiye, pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa sadism ndi masochism? Sadism ndi gawo lovuta kwambiri la mchitidwewu. Ndipo chifukwa chake kuli kovuta kuvomereza. Pazifukwa zamphamvu kwambiri, sadomasochism yoopsa imatha kuyambitsa kumenyedwa kapena kugwiriridwa, mwachitsanzo. Timaona kuti ndi mmene zilili ndi anthu amene ali ndi umunthu wosweka.

Sadism mu umunthu wa narcissistic: sitepe imodzi pafupi ndi mdima

Mtundu wodziwika bwino wa umunthu wankhanza umagawana mikhalidwe ndi narcissism ndi psychopathy, koma amapitilirabe. Anthu amenewa amasangalala kwambiri akamachititsidwa manyazi. Tangoganizani munthu wopotoza wankhanza amene samangofuna kulamulira inu, koma amasangalala kukupangitsani kuvutika. Zowopsa, sichoncho?

Zizindikiro zodziwika za narcissistic wopotoza wankhanza

Nazi zina zomwe zingasonyeze kuti mukuchita ndi munthu wopotoza wankhanza wokhala ndi zizolowezi zachisoni:

• Nkhanza zadala
• Kufunika kolamulira
• Kuchita mantha pafupipafupi
• Kuchititsidwa manyazi mobwerezabwereza
• Kuletsa ufulu wanu

Ngati zizindikirozi zikumveka zodziwika bwino, dziwani kuti simuli nokha ndipo si vuto lanu.

Kodi matenda a sadism ndi chiyani?

Kukhumudwa pogonana kumatanthauzidwa ngati mbiri yamaganizo ya munthu amene amasangalala ndi kuvutika kwa ena. Angakhale wolemba kapena wongopenyerera chabe. Munthuyo amamva chilakolako chogonana pomwe munthu wabwinobwino amatha kuchita mantha kapena kusamasuka akakumana naye chiwawa.

Nkhanza zakugonanazi zomwe zimapezeka mwa anthu achisoni ndizomwe zimamupangitsa kuti apitirire nzeru. Nthawi zina amafotokozedwa ngati chilakolako chogonana, chotsiriziracho chimakhala chonyanyira m’njira inayake.

Kodi nchifukwa ninji wopotoza wa narcissistic amakhala wachisoni?

Mosiyana ndi narcissist “wachikale” yemwe amafuna kubwezera kusatetezeka kwake, narcissist wachisoni akuwoneka kuti alibe chifundo chamunthu. Zimakhala ngati pali kusweka kwathunthu ndi zomwe zimatipangitsa kukhala osamala anthu. Kusadzimvera chisoni kotheratu kumeneku kungakhale kopweteka kwambiri makamaka kwa ozunzidwa.

Zotsatira zowononga kwa ozunzidwa

Kukumana ndi munthu wankhanza wamatsenga kungayambitse kukhumudwa kwakukulu m’maganizo. Ozunzidwa nthawi zambiri amafotokoza kumverera kwa kukhala pamaso pa kuipa kotheratu. Kunjenjemerako kungakhale kwakukulu kwambiri kotero kuti zotsatirapo zake zikhoza kukhalapo kwa zaka zambiri ngati sizikuthandizidwa bwino.

Kodi sadomasochism ndi matenda?

Kutengera Phunziro la Masochism mu Psychology, si matenda. Amatengedwa ngati a chilakolako chogonana. « Zokonda zonse zili m’chilengedwe“, sitinganene kuti pali mchitidwewu. Kapenanso kudzudzula anthu amene amachita zimenezo. Komabe, ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti ngakhale sizoletsedwa, ndizowopsa. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kuvomerezana pakati pa okondedwa ndikofunikira.

Sadomasochism – Zomwe zimayambitsa mchitidwewu

Zifukwa zomwe zingayambitse mchitidwe wogonanawu ndi zambiri:

• Chidwi chosavuta. Anthu ena angadabwe kuti zimenezi zikutanthauza chiyani. Zomwe anthu omwe amachita mchitidwewu angamve. Kapena ndingadziwe bwanji ngati ndine masochist? Munthu pokhala nyama yochita chidwi mwachibadwa, izi zikhoza kumuchititsa chidwi. Ndipo poyesa anthu ena amapeza kukoma kwake ndikulowetsedwa mu izo.

• Kufunitsitsa kugonjeraKwa munthu wodzikuza, kugonjera kumatanthauza lingaliro la kufooka. Izi zikutanthauza kuti munthuyo ndi wofooka. kusadzidalira Malinga ndi akatswiri ena a zamaganizo, munthu amene amagonjera amataya mphamvu zonse zodziwongolera. Sakakamizidwanso kuganiza yekha. M’dziko ngati lathu, komwe chisankho chilichonse chimafunika ndipo mumakhala mukupanikizika nthawi zonse, chizolowezichi chimaonedwa ngati njira yosangalalira. Kwa kanthawi kochepa, munthuyo amatha kusiya ntchito yake yanthawi zonse ndikuyamba kuchita china kuti atulutse kupsinjika kwake kwamkati ndi kukhumudwa.

• Kufuna ulamuliro. Chilakolako cha ulamuliro ndi mphamvu zopezeka mu sadism zimatanthauza chikhumbo chofuna kulamulira. Nthawi zambiri, timaganiza kuti munthu uyu sakukwaniritsidwa. Akatswiri ena a zamaganizo amanena kuti chikhumbo chofuna kulamulira ndi kubweretsa mavuto chimenechi chimasonyeza kuti munthuyo amaponderezedwa. Kotero kuti adzitsimikizire yekha, ndi kuthawa ku mtundu uwu wa kuponderezedwa, amakhala wopondereza.

Sadomasochism – Kodi Ndi Ntchito Yathanzi?

Tikhoza kukhala osakanikirana pa funso ili. Kunena poyera kuti mchitidwewu si wabwino ndikuyenereza kukhala kupotoza kwa narcissistic. Ndipo kunena kuti ndi wathanzi ndikutsegula bokosi la Pandora. Titha kunena kuti izi zidalira kwambiri omwe ali nawo.

Ndithudi, popanda chilolezo izi zikhoza kukhala zoopsa kwambiri kwa masochist. Zitha kugwera m’manja mwa munthu wa zolinga zolakwika ndipo mchitidwewo ukhoza kutha. Akatero adzakhala pachiwopsezo chifukwa kuvulazidwa kwa thupi ndi komwe kumawonetsa mchitidwewu. Makamaka popeza wozunzayo angapitirire chilolezo cha wozunzidwayo amene ayenera kuvutika.

Kodi sadism ndi matenda?

Funso ili lili ndi zovomerezeka. Yankho kukhala kuti yotsirizira amakhala matenda, kokha pamene zimatengera a chigawenga ndi khalidwe lobwerezabwereza. Izi zikutanthauza kuti vuto la khalidwe ndi losiyana malinga ndi kuchuluka kwa sadism. Izi zikutanthauza kuti sadism yogonana ili ndi magawo osiyanasiyana. Amapangitsa kuti zotsirizirazo zikhale zopanda thanzi pamene mlingo wa nkhanza ukuwonjezeka.

Mawu athu angaoneke ngati osafunika. Ngati tiyang’ana ndi maso anzeru, sadism ndi vuto lalikulu la maganizo. Komabe, malingaliro okhwima oterowo sangabweretsedwe kwa ife.

Kuzindikira kuti kuwulula vuto la kukhumudwa kwa kugonana – Zizindikiro

Malinga ndi MSD, kukhumudwa pakugonana ndi vuto lomwe limayambitsa chikhumbo chowononga mpaka pamlingo wina. Ndi anthu ozungulira amene amakumana ndi zoopsa zenizeni. Matendawa amayang’ana kuzunzika kwakukulu kuti abweretse munthu.

Nazi zizindikiro zosiyanasiyana zozindikiritsa matendawa:

1. Munthuyo amakhudzidwa ndi khalidwe lake. Ndipo nthawi zina, amalephera kuletsa zilakolako zake. Chotero, iye sali kulamulira kotheratu pa thupi lake. Tinganenenso kuti ali m’chizungulire ndipo sakuganizanso bwinobwino.

2. Zochita za sadist zimatha kufika monyanyira. Popitirira makhalidwe abwino, akhoza kutembenukira ku matenda. Izi makamaka ndi nkhani ya kuzunzidwa kapena kumenyedwa mwankhanza. Izi zitha kuchitika pakachitidwe osavomereza sadomasochistic.

3. Zochita zomwe sadist ndiye mlembi wake zimachitika popanda chilolezo cha wozunzidwayo. Tikatero tingayesedwe kuganiza kuti kugwiriridwa ndiye chitsanzo chosavuta cha mchitidwe wachisoni chakugonana. Ziwerengerozi zikuwoneka kuti zikutsutsana ndi izi. Popeza kuti matenda a sadism ogonana analipo kokha 10% ya ogwirira. Pamene iye analipo 37 mpaka 75% ya opha anzawo chifukwa cha kugonana.

Mayeso kuti awulule umunthu wachisoni

Sadism, ngakhale ikuwoneka yosavuta kumvetsetsa mu tanthauzo lake la terminological. Zimakhala zovuta kuzilemba mukangophunzira mozama. Choncho, funso n’lakuti ndi liti pamene timati munthu ndi wachisoni? ndi funso lovuta.

Ndichifukwa chake Dr Rachel Plouffe adawunikira kafukufuku wake. Pachifukwa ichi, mayeso omwe amapezeka mosavuta pa intaneti amakulolani kuti mukhale ndi lingaliro labwino la sadism. Ili ndi mafunso angapo osankha. Mfundo zazikuluzikulu ndi izi:

• Ganizirani momwe mumakhalira ndi anthu. Kuti muchite izi, amafunsidwa mafunso okhudza momwe mumachitira ndi omwe akuzungulirani.

• Yesani kuchuluka kwa chifundo chanu. Zikakhala zofooka, zimakhala zosavuta kuti muchite zoipa.

• Kusangalatsidwa ndi matenda. Yotsirizira ndi monyanyira ndithu. Ndithudi, anthu ena angasonyeze chidwi chodetsa nkhaŵa ndi chiwawa chimene munthu wamba amatsutsa.

Zodziwika bwino za adani ankhanza?

Monga taonera, ochita zankhanza ali ndi makhalidwe awoawo. Nazi mitundu yosiyanasiyana yomwe ingakwezedwe.

• Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti ambiri mwa anthu amene anakhudzidwa ndi matendawa anali amuna. Chifukwa chikhoza kupezeka mu ubale wathupi womwe umalepheretsa mkazi. Koma munthu wachisoni ndi chiyani? iye ndi munthu amene angasangalale ndi kuvutika kwa ena.

• Zoona kuti cholinga cha kugonana mwina mfundo yofunidwa ndi sadist imamusiyanitsa ndi wogwiririra. Zotsirizirazi zimayendetsedwa ndi chilakolako chakuthupi, pamene sadist wogonana sangaukire m’njira yogonana. Ndiko kunena kuti zochita zomwe adzapitirire nazo zili ndi chikhalidwe chosiyana. Izi fufuzani zowawa mu china kukhala maziko.

• Zopezeka mu a nthawi zina poizoni ubwenzi. Munthawi imeneyi, sadist adzakhala ndi wozunzidwa. Choncho adzapezerapo mwayi pa izi kuti akwaniritse zolinga zake.

Chithandizo cha sadism yogonana ndi zina zofananira

Kusankha mankhwala sikutheka chifukwa cha kukhumudwa kwa kugonana. Zikuwoneka kuti chinthu chabwino kwambiri ndikuthandizira kuthetsa vutoli. kuyitana kwa asing’anga kapena katswiri wa zamaganizo ndiyo njira yotetezeka kwambiri. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti monga chisokonezo cha khalidwe, zovulaza zambiri zimakhala m’maganizo.

Kodi wopotoza wa narcissistic ndi wachisoni?

Pasakhale chisokonezo. Wopotoza wa narcissistic sikuti ndi wachisoni. Mgwirizano ukhoza kupangidwa pakati pa awiriwa. Makhalidwe omwe amawabweretsa pamodzi ndikutha kuwononga ena. The sadist amachita mopupuluma pamene wopotoza narcissistic amayendetsedwa ndi kumverera kofunikira.

Ndiko kunena kuti zomwe amachita ndikudzaza kusowa komwe kulipo. Ndipo ngati aukira, ndi cholinga ichi chokha. M’malo mwake, wachisoni adzasangalala ndi zomwe amachita.

Udindo wa Krafft-Ebing ndi Freud

Mayina a Richard Von Krafft-Ebing ndi Sigmund Freud ali ndi malo ofunikira pakutsimikiza kwa sadomasochism. Iwo anayang’ana kusinthika kwa mchitidwe umenewu m’mbiri yonse. Zolinga zawo kukhala kuona ubale pakati pa chilakolako chogonana ndi nkhanza kapena chiwawa.

Kusanthula kwa Richard Von Krafft-Ebing

Malinga ndi kusanthula kwake, sadism ndi masochism ndi mbali ziwiri za ndalama imodzi. Iwo amaonedwa ndi omalizawo ngati zosokoneza pakugonana. Malinga ndi iye, sadism imapeza chisangalalo pakugonjera kwa mnzanu. Pomwe masochism amasangalala kulamulira ndi kuchita nkhanza pa ena.

Njira ya Sigmund Freud

Mofanana ndi mnzake, Freud poyamba anaumirira kugwirizana pakati pa awiriwa pofufuza za sadomasochism pa msinkhu wa kugonana. Malingana ndi iye, sikokwanira kunena kuti izi ndizosavuta. Iwo ndi ovuta kwambiri kuposa izo. Malingaliro a Sadomasochistic okhudza kugonana ndi osiyana ndi omwe munthu anganene kuti ndi abwino.

M’njira yake, adatsindika mfundo yakuti pali zizindikiro ziwiri. Ku mbali imodzi kwa wozunza ndi mbali inayo kwa wozunza wovulalayo. Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu akuti wozunzidwa kumapangitsa kukhala kovuta kwambiri chifukwa kungatanthauze kuti sakuvomera. Komabe, zonse ziyenera kukhala pamlingo womwewo kuti zikhale zosangalatsa kugawana.

Lingaliro lamakono la Sadomasochism

Njira yamakono ndi yosiyana kwambiri. Zowonadi, kwa amuna ndi akazi, sadomasochism yogulitsidwa muvidiyo pa Tukif kapena filimu ndiyowona. Kumvetsa mmene anthu amaonera zinthu n’kumene kumachititsa chidwi asayansi.

Kodi masochism angakhale bwanji ndi chisangalalo pamene akuvutika? Koma kodi masochist ndi chiyani? Munthu amene amatchulidwa kuti masochist ndi munthu amene amasangalala kumva kuti akulamuliridwa. Munthu wotere akhoza kudziika pangozi nthawi zina. Opotoza a Narcissistic atha kutenga mwayi pa izi.

Malingaliro a Sosaiti pa sadomasochism

Kwa anthu izi zimakhalabe a zotsutsana ndithu. Popeza kupwetekedwa kapena kupweteketsa munthu wina kumakwiyitsa. Kuyambitsa sadomasochism pogwiritsa ntchito zowonjezera kapena kuwerenga buku pankhaniyi sikuthandiza. Mchitidwe kukhala mu zosiyana ndi maganizo amakono kapena nzeru za anthu ambirie. Lingaliro la kukhala ndi moyo ndizovuta kuvomereza muzochitika izi.

Kodi Narcissistic Pervert ndi wotsatira Sadism kapena masochist?

Funso ili likuyenera kufunsidwa poganizira za munthu wopotoza wa narcissistic ndi munthu yemwe wakhudzidwa ndi sadism. Lingaliro lofuna kupweteketsa munthu ndikulamulira munthu wina limabwera muzochitika zonsezi. Onse akhoza kukhala ndi zotsatira zazikulu pa wozunzidwayo.

Nuance yomwe iyenera kupangidwa ndi iyi. Wopotoza wa narcissistic nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi zilakolako zankhanza kwa munthu yemwe amamuwongolera. Pamene munthu ali ndi zilakolako zachisoni sizimasokoneza kwenikweni. Angakhale akugwiritsa ntchito izi ngati njira yopezera kupsinjika kwa tsiku ndi tsiku komwe akumva.

Kuti musapangitse chisokonezo ndikudzipeza nokha opanda chisokonezo ngati ndinu okonda mchitidwewu. Koma mumakayikira za chikhalidwe cha mnzanuyo. Katswiri wa zamaganizo angakuthandizeni kumvetsetsa ndikusanthula mkhalidwe wanu. Malingaliro akunja, akatswiri amakhala othandiza nthawi zonse.