Kodi Mungatani Ndi Wabodza? Zoyenera kuchita?

 Kodi kuchita ndi wabodza? Wabodza ndi m’modzi mwa anthu omwe ndi ovuta kuwawongolera. Chifukwa chake n’chakuti amanama kwambiri. Muubwenzi, chikondi ndi maubwenzi ogwira ntchito, wabodza nthawi zambiri amasinthika mosavuta kuposa ena.

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Kodi mungadziwe bwanji Wabodza? 6 zizindikiro

Kuti muthane ndi wabodza, pali zinthu zina zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti mudziwe momwe mungathanirane ndi wabodza wodziwika bwino:

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1. Chinenero Chathupi ndi Maonekedwe a Nkhope
2. Maonekedwe a nkhope: maso ndi pakamwa
3. Liwu ndi Mawu 
4. Mr. Ndikudziwa zonse
5. Limbikitsani kuona mtima
6. Onani Zosagwirizana

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1. Chinenero cha Thupi ndi Maonekedwe a Nkhope

Samalirani thupi lanu ndi mawonekedwe a nkhope yanu: Munthu wabodza nthawi zambiri amalankhula mawu osonyeza kuti akunama. Zikhala mu chikhalidwe chosiyana. Tingaone maonekedwe a nkhope zina. Chitsanzo: mphuno zapsa, kuluma milomo kapena kuphethira m’maso mofulumira. Pomaliza, zikhoza kukhala micro-expression, zomwe ndi zazifupi kwambiri. Chofunika kwambiri ndicho kuyang’ana ndi kumvetsera manja a interlocutor wanu ngati mukukumana ndi wabodza.

2. Maonekedwe a Nkhope: Maso ndi pakamwa

Komanso, m’pofunika kuganizira makamaka manja ndi kamwa: Wabodza akakonza bodza, amatseka pakamwa kapena m’maso mwake. Kaŵirikaŵiri manja ameneŵa amagwirizanitsidwa ndi chikhumbo chobisa mmene tikumvera.

3. Kamvekedwe ka mawu ndi kamvekedwe ka mawu

Kumbukirani kamvekedwe kake ndi kapangidwe ka ziganizo zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito: pamene wakhazikika m’zopeka zake, wabodzayo angaone mosiyana. Ikhoza kuyamba kumveka mokweza kapena kuchepetsa voliyumu. Ndipo akhoza kufotokoza mwatsatanetsatane zomwe akunena. Kuphatikiza apo, idzapewa kugwiritsa ntchito mawu otseguka kwambiri “ine” ou “Ine”Izi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pa pathological wabodza kudzipeza m’maganizo mwa mabodza anu.

4. Bambo Dziwani Zonse

Wabodza nthawi zonse amakhala ndi yankho ku chilichonse, ndipo nthawi yomweyo: munthu wabwinobwino adzaima kaye kukumbukira kukumbukira kwawo ngati muwafunsa funso. Izi zingawoneke ngati zotsutsana, chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti munthu amene amanama amatenga nthawi kuti apange nkhani. Pomwe wabodza weniweni amayankha mwachangu ndikubwerezanso kuti mumve zambiri. Fomu iyi imawoneka makamaka pavuto la matenda mythomania.

5. Limbikitsani kuona mtima

Adzayesa kudziwonetsa ngati munthu woona mtima:  Pazimenezi, wabodza adzalimbitsa Choonadi pazimene akusimba. Adzasonyeza kufunikira kwakukulu kokhulupirira kuti amve kuti bodza lake ladutsa. Ndipo akhoza kuperekedwa ndi malingaliro abodza omwe amawonetsa kuti akukhutiritseni.

6. Yang’anani Zosagwirizana

Pezani zosagwirizana ndi zomwe akunena: muyenera kukankhira mpaka malire omaliza awa. Kuti zimenezi zitheke, m’funseni mafunso amene sankayembekezera. Adzakhala wosakhazikika ndipo kudzakhala kosavuta kutsutsana naye pazifukwa zomwe sizikugwirizana nazo.

Kodi mungachite bwanji mutakumana ndi Wabodza? 8 malangizo

Anthu ambiri amakhala ndi anthu omwe ali ndi mythomania, wo- pathological wabodza kuona munthu wabodza wopotozedwa, ndikudabwa kuti kukhala ndi munthu wonama kumakhala bwanji?

1. Sitiyenera kuchita zinthu mongotengeka. Muyenera kukhala odekha muzochitika zonse. Zoonadi, wabodza amatani akagwidwa? Adzathaŵira ku mabodza ena ambiri.
2. Chezani modekha komanso modekha. Musakhale woneneza, muyenera kuchita mwaubwenzi. Muyenera kuyandikira mutu wokwiya kuchokera kumbali yabwino kwambiri ndipo chifukwa chake, kudekha ndikofunikira.
3. Yang’anani naye pamene mukuwona kuti akupita kutali kwambiri zofooka. Kuitana pang’ono kuti muyitanitse ndikukumana naye kungatsegule maso ake. Adzadziwa kuti kunama si njira yothetsera vuto lililonse.
4. Osamufunsa mafunso. Wabodza wa pathological adzayesa kutulukamo. Choncho akamavutika kwambiri, m’pamenenso amanama.
5. Mkhazikeni mtima pansi. Izi ndizowona makamaka pankhani ya mythomania. Izi sizili m’lingaliro la kunama kwa iye. Mpangitseni kumva kuti ndi wofunika kapena kuti mumamulemekeza. Zowonadi, munthu wa mythomaniac nthawi zambiri amakhala munthu yemwe amavutika ndi kudzidalira.
6. khazikani mtima pansi. Wabodza wabodza sangachiritsidwe mwachangu. Muyenera kukhala otsimikiza kuti mudzaziwona mpaka kumapeto.
7. Pewani kumuika m’mikhalidwe yodetsa nkhaŵa. Wabodza nthawi zonse athaŵira ku mabodza pamene ali m’mikhalidwe imene sangathe kuithetsa.
8. Langizani kuti muwone katswiri wa zamaganizo. Thandizo la katswiri ndilofunika kuti limuthandize kuthetsa vutoli. Kunama nthawi zambiri ndiko njira yophweka. Choncho, wabodzayo ayenera kukhala wokhoza kuchoka kumalo ake otetezeka.

Kodi mungakhale bwanji ndi Wabodza?

Funso ili ndilovomerezeka kwambiri ngati litatsogozedwa ndi ili: tingakhulupirire bwanji munthu amene watinamiza? N’zovuta kulingalira kukhulupirira munthu amene watipereka kale. Kwa mabanja ambiri, kunama ndi chizindikiro cha kusakhulupirika. Yankho lake ndi losakanizika pankhaniyi. Tingayerekeze kunena kuti kunama kuli ndi milingo yosiyanasiyana ya kuopsa kwake ndipo kungagwiritsidwe ntchito pa zifukwa zabwino pazochitika zina.

Kotero inde, mutha kukhala ndi wabodza bola ngati sichidutsa malire ena. Komabe, tiyenera kusungitsa malo, chifukwa wabodza ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi chikhalidwe chosiyana. Pankhani ya a wopotoza ndi kunama, n’zosatheka kuyembekezera moyo wokhazikika ndi omalizirawo.

Zoyenera kuchita Wonama ataululidwa?

Pamene sitepeyi yachitidwa, kodi mufunikira kudziŵa mmene mungapezere munthu wonama kuti alankhule? Kwa ichi, njira yabwino kwambiri nthawi zonse imakhala yofatsa, ndiko kuti. Kukambitsirana, kukangana koonekera kumangomupatsa chifukwa chonama. Mfundo yakuti mwadekha idzamusokoneza kwambiri. Kambiranani mozama za chifukwa chimene munthu wina anasankhira bodza m’malo mokuuzani zoona.

Mbiri zosiyanasiyana za onama: Narcissistic Pervert ndi Mythomaniac

Mbiri ziwirizi mosakayikira ndizowopsa kwambiri za abodza a pathological.

• Wopotoza wankhanza amakhala ndi mabodza achinyengo kwambiri. Monga wonyenga, ndi chida chomwe chimamuthandiza kwambiri kuti asaulule zenizeni zake. Koma koposa zonse, izo zimatumikira monga njira yolamulira pa wozunzidwayo. Kuchita ndi wabodza wopotoka ndikovuta.
• Munthu wa nthano ndi wabodza amene adzagwiritsa ntchito mabodza powakhulupirira. Ndiko kunena kuti kwa mythomaniac, bodza ndi lenileni kwa iye, amakhulupirira motsimikiza.

Kodi ndizotheka kusintha Mnzanu wabodza?

Inde, n’zotheka kusintha mwamuna kapena mkazi wabodza ngati mukudziwa mmene mungachitire. Kumupangitsa kumvetsetsa kuti kunama kumawononga kwambiri ubale wanu ndi maziko. Kumbukirani kuti kutengera munthu wabodza m’chizoloŵezicho sikudzakhala kophweka. Choncho zidzakhala zofunikira kusunga nthawi yonseyi. Kwa inu, thandizani kuti mugwire, musayang’ane cholakwika ichi. Onaninso makhalidwe ena a mnzanuyo. Izi zidzakupatsani mphamvu kuti mumuthandize pakusintha kwake kuti akupulumutseni ku mythomania.