Imen Es Mayday – Full Song Explanation

Imen Es in her song Mayday talks about the life of a victim of a narcissist. In this single, she talks about what this person went through throughout their toxic relationship without sending any signs of distress (that’s what Mayday means). To fully understand the message ofImen Es in Mayday, follow this article.

Imen Es Mayday – The Life of a Couple with a Narcissist

At the start of a relationship, a narcissist behaves like the best man in the world. The one who makes all the women of the earth dream. But, it changes when the victim falls into its trap. The change in narcissist is not really noticed by his partner until she discovers that his partner is a narcissist.

Throughout their relationship, the victim does everything to make his partner happy and leaves aside his own happiness. A victim of a narcissist like Imen Es struggles to keep her couple, but the couple in question will never triumph. Because of the manipulation, the partner of the narcissist will take time to understand the situation in which she lives.

Loneliness of the Victim – Imen Es Mayday

In her single “Mayday”, Imen Es talks about the loneliness of the victim in her relationship with the narcissist. Here is part of the lyrics of the song in which she talks about this situation:

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“I needed you

Like you needed me

I wanted to found our kingdom

crown my king

Talk to you, confide in me

Listen to you and hear you

… I realize that I am alone”

As in all other couples, the partner of a manipulator narcissist wants her partner to be there for her. But this is not the case at all because he never listens to her, does not help her, does not show her his love and totally ignores her. The victim, for her part, is always available for her partner. By opening her eyes, the victim realizes that she is the only one who cares and cares about this relationship.

The Expectations of a Victim after Separation from the Narcissist

Now that the victim has left their narcissistic partner, they expect something from this narcissist. Imen Es clearly says in Mayday that: “You have to own up to your mistakes, you have to learn to grow”. These sentences show that victims still want their partners to become better people after they break up.

But before that, they want narcissists to accept that they are wrong. After all the hurt they’ve been through, victims want their narcissistic partners to regret what they’ve done. If the narcissist does this, it’s already a victory for the victim. However, a narcissist never accepts his mistakes unless to seduce her once again.

When the Victim Decides to Leave? may day

“But I sent no Mayday

I kept everything

I never sought revenge

Even if I’m not hiding from you, I thought about it

It’s over I’m gone”

  • By the time she is conscious – Imen Es talks about it in the song Mayday. As soon as she became aware of what she saw in her couple, she made the decision to leave her partner.
  • When she’s ready – In this part of the single Mayday, it is found that the victim already knows that her life is not normal but she remained without asking outside help. She only left when she wanted to leave everything and go away from the narcissist.

Conclusion – Can Listening to Imen Es’ Song Help Victims of narcissist Get Out of It?

Imen Es is a singer who knows very well what a person considered as victim of a narcissist. This is why listening to his songs is a great help to get out of his grip. Also, this type of song helps other people to understand the life that these narcissist victims endured. But, listening to the songs of Imen Es is not enough to help the victim of narcissist. You always need the help of a psychologist. Thus, we recommend that you listen to the song Mayday by Imen Es which is available on Youtube and also in mp3.

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