Ingoma Mayday kaImen Es ibhekwa lapha ngezindikimba zesizungu, ukungalingani ebudlelwaneni nesinqumo sokushiya ubudlelwano obulimazayo. Lokhu kuwukuguqulwa kokuhlelwa kwesihloko sesiFulentshi okugxile ezindikimbeni, ngaphandle kokushicilela noma ukuhumusha amazwi engoma.
Lapho izithembiso zingahambisani nokwenzeka
Isihloko sichaza ubudlelwano obuqala ngamaphupho amakhulu kodwa bushintshe bube isimo lapho omunye ethatha kakhulu kunalokho akunikezayo. Ozama ukubugcina buqhubeka angabeka izidingo zakhe eceleni futhi abe nobunzima bokuqonda ukuthi yini eshintshile.
Isizungu ngaphakathi kobudlelwano
Indikimba eyinhloko yalesi sihlaziyo iwukuba nesizungu nakuba abantu bendawonye. Umlandi ufuna ukulalelwa, ukusekelwa nokusondelana okuvela kubo bobabili, kodwa uzizwa sengathi uyena yedwa othwala umsebenzi wobudlelwano. Lapha kukhulunywa ngomlando wengoma, hhayi izehlakalo eziqinisekisiwe empilweni yomculi.
Ukuhamba nokulindela ukuvunywa kwamaphutha
Ngemva kokuhlukana, umuntu angafisa ukuthi umlingani wakhe wangaphambili avume amaphutha akhe futhi akhule. Isihloko sesiFulentshi sixhumanisa ukuhamba nokubona isimo ngokucacile nokuba ukulungele ukusishiya. Ukuhlaziya kugxila ekubuyiseleni ukuphila kwakho kunokulinda impendulo yomunye umuntu.
Umculo nokusekelwa
Umculo ungase usize abantu bachaze okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo futhi bazizwe beqondwa. Kodwa isihloko sigcizelela ukuthi ukulalela kuphela akuthathi indawo yokusekelwa okufanele yisazi sokusebenza kwengqondo. Lokhu kuwukuhumusha izindikimba, hhayi ukuxilonga abantu.
Ufuna ukwesekwa komuntu ngamunye?
UCristina unikeza iseshini yomuntu ngamunye ukukusiza uphume ekulawulweni okuhlukumezayo futhi wakhe impilo yakho kabusha.