Mkazi wopotozedwa wa narcissistic – mungamuzindikire bwanji?

Narcissistic mkazi wopotoka ikupitilira kukula panthawiyi. Ndipo inde, si amuna okha omwe ali ndi vuto losokoneza bongo. M’nkhaniyi, muphunzira zonse za narcissistic manipulators: zizindikiro, makhalidwe, malangizo oti mutuluke m’manja mwawo, ndi zina zotero.  

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Kodi mungazindikire bwanji Mkazi Wopotozedwa wa Narcissistic? 5 zizindikiro

Nazi zizindikiro zina:

1. Kukopa ndi kugonana

Kwa nthawi yayitali, amayi akhala ndi luso lapadera pakukopa. Koma, kwa akazi oyipa a narcissistic ndipamwamba kwambiri. Popeza amadziŵadi luso lokopa, aliyense amagwa m’malo mwake. Komabe, chithunzi chabwino ichi cha iwo chimabisa umunthu woipitsitsa umene ulipo. Amayi a PN amagwiritsanso ntchito awo kugonana kunyengerera ndi kunyengerera ena. Cholinga chake nthawi zonse chimakhala chofanana ndi cha wopotoza wa narcissistic yemwe sali wina koma kuwononga cholinga chake.

2. Kudzikonda

Wopotoza wankhanza samamva chilichonse kwa wina aliyense, amangodzikonda yekha. Nthawi zonse amafuna kukhala pakati pa dziko kulikonse komwe angapite. Kuonjezera apo, mkazi wa PN amathera nthawi yake akudziyesa yekha pamaso pa ena. Kwa iye, ena ndi anthu opanda chidwi komanso opanda chidziwitso. Choncho, adzachitira nsanje ena amene ali abwino kuposa iye. Apo narcissistic manipulator akhoza kumuchotsa panjira yake.

3. Kupanda chikondi ndi chifundo

Monga tafotokozera pang’ono pamwambapa, munthu wokhotakhota samamva chikondi kapena chifundo. Mkwiyo, nsanje ndi chidani zimalamulira mu mtima mwake. Izi ndi zotsatira za zomwe adakumana nazo kuyambira ali mwana. Chifukwa chake akanena kuti amakukondani, samalani kuti ndikukunyengererani. Komanso, kwa akazi ndi amuna narcissistic wopotozas, mnzawoyo ndi chinthu chosavuta chomwe amachigwiritsa ntchito kuti akwaniritse zilakolako zake zankhanza.

4. Kulamulira ndi kufunikira kolamulira

Wonyenga wa narcissistic amagwiritsa ntchito zinthu zingapo kuti amuyandikire pafupi, monga ana, maukwati, ntchito, ndi zina. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, wozunzidwayo amadziimba mlandu akapanga chisankho chothetsa chibwenzi. Pambuyo pake, adzadzipatula yekha kuti asagwirizane ndi anthu akunja. Komabe, poyera, mkazi wa PN amadziwonetsera yekha ngati mkazi wangwiro chifukwa amangosonyeza nkhope yake yeniyeni payekha. Koma, sakhala pamenepo popeza amayesa kulamulira chilichonse. Amawongolera miyoyo ya omwe amamuzungulira komanso zomwe ali nazo monga ndalama kuti akwaniritse zolinga zake.

5. Nkhope zambiri

Wopotoza wa narcissistic ali ndi nkhope zambiri. Nthawi zina amakhala wabwino kwambiri ndipo nthawi zina amakhala mdierekezi mwiniwake. Izi zimangochulukitsa chikaiko pakati pa nyama zake. Maganizo ake amasintha mofulumira kwambiri akakhala pagulu komanso akakhala payekha. Choncho, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kwa iwo omwe ali pafupi naye kuzindikira kuti iye ndi wopotoza wamatsenga. Ichi ndichifukwa chake zimawavuta kukhulupirira bwenzi la mkazi wa PN akamadandaula za khalidwe lake.

Makhalidwe a narcissistic akazi opotozedwa

• Akazi oipa a Narcissistic amasonyeza chithunzi cha mayi ndi mkazi wangwiro pagulu komanso kumayambiriro kwa ubale wawo ndi wozunzidwa.
• Kwa iwo, abwenzi awo ndi magwero okha a ndalama zomwe angathe kuchita zomwe akufuna.
• Amakonda kukhala ndi maubwenzi ndi amuna ena kunja kwa banja lawo kuti adyetse nkhanza zawo.

Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa mkazi wankhanza ndi mwamuna wankhanza?

Nachi kufanizitsa kosavuta kwa mkazi wankhanza ndi mwamuna wamwano:

• Akazi oyipa a Narcissistic ndi amuna onyoza ndi ofanana. Iwo amagwira ntchito mofanana.
• Anthuwa amakumana ndi mavuto a umunthu omwe sangachiritsidwe ndipo amangowonjezereka pakapita nthawi. Chifukwa chake amawona banja lawo ngati magwero omwe amawalola kukwaniritsa zosowa zawo zankhanza.
• Pamene anthu narcissistic ali ndi ana, awo kupotoza kwa narcissistic nthawi zambiri amafika kumapeto.

Woman Narcissistic Woman – Kodi amachita bwanji m’banja lake?

Kuyang’ana kunja, banja loyipa la mkazi wankhanza ndilo banja langwiro. Koma, ili ndi bodza chabe, iye amawonetsera izi kuti anyenge ena. Sakonda ana ake, kwa iye ndi zida zokha zomwe amagwiritsira ntchito kusunga mwamuna wake pansi pa chisonkhezero chake.

Khalidwe la narcissistic mayi wopotoka ali ndi chiyambukiro chachikulu pa ana ake chifukwa adzachita khama lalikulu kuti akope chikondi chake. Choncho, amakula msanga kwambiri kuposa ana ena amsinkhu wawo. Koma, amavutikanso ndi mkhalidwe umenewu mwakachetechete.

Kodi mungadziteteze bwanji kwa mkazi wokhotakhota wankhanza?

Mofanana ndi opotoza a narcissistic, akazi opotoka a narcissistic nawonso amakonda kuzunzidwa. Amakonda kusankha amuna osungika ndi odekha. Munthu wotereyu amatenga nthawi kuti azindikire kupotozedwa kwa banja lake. Ngakhale akudziwa, zimamuvuta kuuza ena za vuto lakelo.

Zotsatira za ubalewu zidzawonetsa ozunzidwa ndi amayi a PN kwa moyo wawo wonse. Amuna motengera ma narcissistic manipulators amavutika kuti achoke. Chotero, pamene ozunzidwa apambana m’kuchoka m’manja mwawo, iwo ndithudi adzaloŵa m’nyengo ya kupsinjika maganizo kumene kungapangitse kudzipha.

Maumboni a m’Baibulo ozindikira mkazi wopotoka wankhanza

Nawa maumboni asanu ndi awiri a m’mabukuwa pa mutu wa “mkazi wopotoka wankhanza”:

1. Simone Korff-Sausse (2003). “Mkazi wa wopotoza wonyenga.” Magazini ya ku France ya psychoanalysis, 67 (3), 925-942.
2. Alain Ksensée (2003). “Hysteria ndi kupotoza: kupotoza kwa narcissistic”. Magazini ya ku France ya psychoanalysis, 67 (3), 943-958.
3. Paul-Claude Racamier (1986). Zosokoneza za Narcissistic. Paris: Payot.
4. Anne Legraverand (2012). “Zopotoza za Narcissistic: Ku funso losayenera, yankho losayenera!” “. Journal of Psychologists, ( 302), 68-72 .
5. Muriel Cadiou (2014). “Wopotoza wa narcissistic. Kodi kuchotsa izo? Lingaliro la loya. Kukambiranako, ( 205), 85-90 .
6. Pauline Delage (2021). “Kupotoza kwa Narcissistic, Jenda ndi Conjugality”. Zili, ( 8), 240-253 .
7. Mickael Benyamin (2022). “Chaputala 1. Mkazi wa Narcissistic Wopotoza.” Mu Kupotoza kwa Narcissistic (pp. 177-180).

Maumboni awa akupereka kumvetsetsa kwakuya kwa machitidwe okhudzana ndi azimayi opotoka, kuchokera kumalingaliro a psychoanalytic, chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso zamalamulo.

Kutsiliza

Pomaliza, kumvetsetsa ndi kuzindikira makhalidwe a mkazi wodzikonda n’kofunika kwambiri kuti adziteteze ndikusiya kulamulira kwake. Mwa kuzindikira zizindikiro ndi kuzindikira njira zonyenga, ozunzidwa akhoza kuyamba njira yopita ku kuchira. sichisinthasinthanso ndi kumanganso. Chidziwitso ndi chithandizo zikadali zida zabwino kwambiri zotsutsana ndi mtundu uwu wa chinyengo.