Owesifazane ohlanekezelwe we-narcissistic – Ungambona kanjani?

Narcissistic owesifazane ophendukezelwe iyaqhubeka nokukhula okwamanje. Futhi yebo, akuwona kuphela amadoda aphethwe yi-narcissistic perversion disorder. Kulesi sihloko, uzofunda konke mayelana nama-manipulators e-narcissistic: izimpawu, izici, amathiphu okuphuma ekulawuleni kwabo, njll.  

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Indlela yokubona owesifazane ophendukezelwe we-Narcissistic? 5 izimpawu

Nazi ezinye izimpawu:

1. Ukuyenga kanye nobulili

Sekuyisikhathi eside abesifazane benamakhono athile ekuyengeni. Kodwa, kwabesifazane ababi be-narcissistic yizinga eliphakeme nakakhulu. Njengoba beyizingcweti ngempela zobuciko bokuyenga, wonke umuntu uwela ngaphansi kwesipelingi sabo. Nokho, lesi sithombe esihle sabo sifihla ubuntu obubi kakhulu obukhona. Abesifazane be-PN nabo basebenzisa i-bo nezocansi ukuyenga nokuphatha abanye. Umgomo wakhe uhlala ufana nowomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic ongeyena omunye ngaphandle kokubhubhisa ngokuphelele umgomo wakhe.

2. Ukuzicabangela wena

Umuntu okhohlakele akazweli muntu, unothando lwakhe kuphela. Uhlale efuna ukuba yisizinda somhlaba noma yikuphi lapho eya khona. Ngaphezu kwalokho, owesifazane we-PN uchitha isikhathi sakhe ezihlonipha phambi kwabanye. Kuye, abanye bangabantu nje abangenazo izithakazelo futhi abangenalo ulwazi. Ngakho-ke, uzoba nomona ngabanye abangcono kunaye. Lapho i-narcissistic manipulator akwazi ukumsusa endleleni yakhe.

3. Ukuntula uthando nozwela

Njengoba sisanda kucacisa kancane ngenhla, i-narcissist ekhohlakele ayizwani uthando noma uzwelo. Intukuthelo, umona nenzondo kubusa enhliziyweni yakhe. Lona umphumela walokho okwakudingeka abhekane nakho kusukela ebuntwaneni. Ngakho-ke lapho ekhuluma ngothando lwakhe ngawe, qaphela ukuthi kuwukukhohlisa okumsulwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kwabesifazane nabesilisa i-narcissistic perverts, umlingani wabo uyinto nje elula ayisebenzisayo ukwanelisa izifiso zakhe zokubhebhana.

4. Ukubusa kanye nesidingo sokulawula

I-narcissistic manipulator isebenzisa izakhi ezimbalwa ukugcina isisulu saso siseduze naso, njengezingane, imishado, umsebenzi, njll. Ngenxa yalokhu, isisulu sizozigxeka lapho sithatha isinqumo sokuqeda ubudlelwano babo. Ngemva kwalokho, uzohlukanisa umlingani wakhe ukuze angaxhumani nezwe langaphandle. Kodwa-ke, esidlangalaleni, owesifazane we-PN uzibonakalisa njengowesifazane ophelele ngoba ubonisa kuphela ubuso bakhe bangempela ngasese. Kodwa, akahlali lapho njengoba ezama ukulawula yonke into. Uqondisa izimpilo zalabo abaseduze kwakhe kodwa nabanakho njengemali yokufeza izinhloso zakhe.

5. Ubuso obuningi

I-narcissistic pervert inobuso obuningi. Kwesinye isikhathi muhle kakhulu kanti kwesinye isikhathi ungusathane uqobo lwakhe. Lokhu kutshala kuphela ukungabaza phakathi kwezisulu zayo. Ukushintsha kwemizwa yakhe kuyashesha kakhulu lapho ephambi kwabantu nalapho engasese. Ngakho-ke, kunzima kakhulu ukuthi labo abasondelene naye babone ukuthi ungumuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic. Yingakho bekuthola kunzima ukukholelwa umlingani wowesifazane wasePN lapho ekhononda ngokuziphatha kwakhe.

Izici zabesifazane abahlanekezelwe benarcissistic

• Abesifazane abakhohlakele be-Narcissistic babonisa isithombe sikamama nomfazi ophelele emphakathini futhi nasekuqaleni kobudlelwane babo nesisulu sabo.
• Kubo, abalingani babo bayimithombo yemali kuphela abangenza ngayo uma befuna.
• Bavame ukuba nobudlelwano namanye amadoda ngaphandle komshado wabo ukuze bondle i-narcissism yabo.

Yimuphi umehluko phakathi kowesifazane oyisigayo kanye nendoda ebhuqayo?

Nasi isiqhathaniso esilula sowesifazane obhuqayo kanye nendoda ebhuqabhuqayo:

• Abesifazane ababi beNarcissistic namadoda angama-narcissistic bayafana. Basebenza ngendlela efanayo.
• Laba bantu babhekana nezinkinga zobuntu ezingeke zilapheke futhi ziba zimbi kakhulu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ngakho-ke babona imindeni yabo njengemithombo ebavumela ukuba banelise izidingo zabo zokuziphatha.
• Lapho abantu be-narcissistic benezingane, zabo ukuguqulwa kwe-narcissistic isikhathi esiningi sifinyelela kokugcina.

I-Perverse Narcissistic Woman – Uziphatha kanjani emndenini wakhe?

Uma ubheka ngaphandle, umndeni wowesifazane omubi ungumndeni ophelele. Kodwa, lokhu kungamanga nje, ukuveza lokhu ukuze akhohlise abanye. Akanalo uthando ngezingane zakhe, kuyena ayizinsimbi kuphela azisebenzisela ukugcina umyeni wakhe engaphansi kwethonya lakhe.

Ukuziphatha kwe umama ohlanekezelwe onarcissistic unomthelela omkhulu ezinganeni zakhe njengoba zizokwenza umzamo omkhulu wokuzuza uthando lwakhe. Ngakho-ke, baba abantu abadala ngaphambi kwesikhathi kakhulu kunezinye izingane ezilingana nazo. Kodwa, nabo bahlushwa yilesi simo ngokuthula.

Ungazivikela kanjani kowesifazane one-narcissistic?

Njengabahlanekezeli be-narcissistic, abesifazane abahlanekezelwe be-narcissistic nabo banokuthandwa kwezisulu. Bavame ukukhetha amadoda agodliwe futhi ezolile. Lolu hlobo lomuntu luthatha isikhathi eside ukubona ukuhlanekezelwa komndeni wakhe. Ngisho noma eqaphela, usazoba nobunzima ekukhulumeni nabanye ngesimo sakhe.

Imiphumela yalobu budlelwano izomaka izisulu zabesifazane be-PN impilo yabo yonke. Amadoda angaphansi kwethonya lama-narcissistic manipulators akuthola kunzima ukuhamba. Ngakho, lapho izisulu ziphumelela ukuphuma ezintanjeni zazo, ngokuqinisekile zizongena enkathini yokucindezeleka engaholela ekuzibulaleni.

Izikhombo ze-bibliographic zokubona owesifazane ophambene ne-narcissistic

Nazi izikhombo zebhayibheli eziyisikhombisa endikimbeni “yowesifazane ophambene”:

1. Simone Korff-Sausse (2003). “Umfazi we-narcissistic pervert.” Ijenali yesiFulentshi yePsychoanalysis, 67 (3), 925-942.
2. U-Alain Ksensée (2003). “I-Hysteria ne-perversion: i-narcissistic pervert”. Ijenali yesiFulentshi yePsychoanalysis, 67 (3), 943-958.
3. UPaul-Claude Racamier (1986). Ukuguqulwa kweNarcissistic. I-Paris: I-Payot.
4. U-Anne Legraverand (2012). “Ukuhlanekezela kweNarcissistic: Embuzweni ongafanele, impendulo engafanele!” “. Ijenali Yezazi Zengqondo, (302), 68-72.
5. UMuriel Cadiou (2014). “Impetha ye-narcissistic. Indlela yokuyisusa? Umbono wommeli. Ingxoxo, (205), 85-90.
6. U-Pauline Delage (2021). “Ukuhlanekezela kweNarcissistic, ubulili kanye nokuhlangana”. Zilsel, (8), 240-253.
7. U-Mickael Benyamin (2022). “Isahluko 1. Umfazi we-narcissistic pervert.” Ku I-Narcissistic perversion (i-177-180).

Lezi zithenjwa zinikeza ukuqonda okujulile kokuguquguquka okubandakanya abesifazane abaphambene ne-narcissistic, ngokombono we-psychoanalytic, wezenhlalo kanye nezomthetho.

Isiphetho

Ekuphetheni, ukuqonda nokuqaphela izici zowesifazane ozithanda ngokweqile kubalulekile ekuzivikeleni nasekugqashuleni ekulawulweni kwakhe. Ngokubona izimpawu nokuqaphela izindlela zokukhohlisa, izisulu zingaqala indlela eya ekululameni. nokuqinisela kanye nokwakhiwa kabusha. Ulwazi kanye nokusekelwa kusalokhu kuyizikhali ezinhle kakhulu zokulwa nalolu hlobo lokuhlanekezela.