The Vulnerable Narcissistic Pervert: Pakati pa Mawonekedwe Osalimba ndi Kuwongolera Kobisika

Anthu okonda kudzikuza omwe ali pachiwopsezo amaimira mbali yovuta ya umunthu wokonda kudzikuza. Mosiyana ndi chithunzi cha munthu wodzikuza komanso wolamulira, munthu wokonda kudzikuza narcissist pachiwopsezo Amakhala ngati ofooka komanso osavuta kumva. Chigoba chobisikachi chimabisa njira zamakono zosinthira zomwe zingakhale ndi zotsatirapo zoopsa kwa anthu omwe ali pafupi nawo.
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Maonekedwe a Chiwopsezo

Chimodzi mwazinthu zochititsa chidwi kwambiri za narcissist yemwe ali pachiwopsezo ndikutha kudziwonetsa ngati munthu wofooka komanso wosakhazikika m’malingaliro. Kumayambiriro kwa misozi ndi nthano zomvetsa chisoni za mavuto amene munthu akukumana nawo ali munthu wodziwa kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro a ena kuti akwaniritse zolinga zake.

Kusokoneza Mochenjera

Mosiyana ndi opotoza odziwika bwino, wonyengerera omwe ali pachiwopsezo sagwiritsa ntchito njira zaukali nthawi zonse. Kaŵirikaŵiri kachitidwe kake kamakhala kosaoneka bwino ndiponso kobisika, kamene kamasonyeza m’mawu onyoza ooneka ngati nthabwala, kudzudzula kooneka ngati uphungu wosamala, ndi khalidwe laukali. Kuchenjera kumeneku nthawi zambiri kumapangitsa kukhala kovuta kuzindikira zolinga zoyipa msanga.

Wozunzidwa Wamuyaya

Wopotoza wosatetezeka wa narcissistic nthawi zambiri amasewera gawo la wozunzidwayo. Amadziwonetsera yekha ngati wozunzidwa nthawi zonse ndi moyo, motero amafunafuna chifundo ndi chisamaliro. Kaimidwe kameneka kamagwiritsiridwa ntchito monga njira yonyengerera ena kuti apeze zimene akufuna, kaya zikhale ndalama, chikondi, kapena mphamvu.

Maubwenzi apamtima

M’maubwenzi apamtima, opotoza osatetezeka a narcissistic amatha kuwononga kwambiri. Pogwiritsa ntchito kufooka kwake komwe kumawonekera, angakope mabwenzi achifundo omwe amawona kuti ali ndi udindo womuteteza. Komabe, ubalewo ukangokhazikitsidwa, wonyengayo amatha kuwulula zomwe zili zenizeni, ndikuyambitsa kusokoneza ndi kuzunza.

Zotsatira za Ozunzidwa

Zotsatira za ozunzidwa ndi onyengawa angakhale aakulu. Kusokoneza maganizo nthawi zonse kungayambitse kuwonongeka kwa maganizo, kutaya mtima komanso kudalira maganizo. Ozunzidwa athanso kukhala ndi vuto lozindikira kuopsa kwa ubalewo chifukwa cha mawonekedwe achitetezo a wowongolerayo.

Kuzindikiridwa ndi Chitetezo

Kuzindikira munthu wodzikuza yekha kungakhale kovuta chifukwa amatha kubisa zolinga zake zenizeni. Komabe, maphunziro okhudza zizindikiro zochenjeza za kusokoneza maganizo, monga kuzunzidwa nthawi zonse ndi makhalidwe ankhanza, angathandize kulimbitsa sichisinthasinthanso kuvutika maganizo mwa anthu komanso kupewa nkhanza.

Kutsiliza

Wopotoza wosatetezeka wa narcissistic akuphatikiza njira yovuta yachinyengo, kubisala kuseri kwa chigoba cha kufooka kwamalingaliro. Kuzindikira mikhalidwe yobisika imeneyi n’kofunika kwambiri kuti titeteze anthu ku zotsatira zowononga za kusokoneza maganizo. Kuphunzitsa za chochitikachi kumathandiza kulimbikitsa kulimba mtima kwa munthu payekha ndikupanga gulu lodziwa zambiri zapoizoni pakati pa maubwenzi. Pakati pathu tiyenera kukhala tcheru chifukwa milandu ya Hoovering kuwongolera kudzakhala kolimba.