Kodi kupotoza kwa narcissistic kungasinthe kapena ayi? Mayankho

Ngati muli ndi munthu wopotoza narcissistic, mwina mwaganiza kale za kuthekera kwa kusintha. Zoonadi, ngati munthuyo asintha, mavuto muubwenzi, mavuto ndi mikangano yachiwawa zidzatha. Komabe, akatswiri ambiri a zamaganizo ndi akatswiri amatsimikizira kuti wopotoza wa narcissistic ndi umunthu wosasunthika yemwe sazindikira zolakwa zake. Tikukupemphani kuti muzindikire m’nkhaniyi zifukwa zomwe zimatsimikizira zimenezo wopotoza narcissistic sangasinthe. Komanso ndizovuta ziti zomwe PN ingasinthe. 

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Wopotoza wa narcissistic sangasinthe – chifukwa chiyani?

Ngakhale titaganiza kuti munthu wonyenga wankhanza angasinthe, sitiyenera kubisa nkhope zathu. Kusintha kwa munthu wopotoza wankhanza kumadalira kwambiri kuchuluka kwake kwa kupotoza. Ngati izi zidutsa 25%, sizingatheke kuti PN isinthe. Ndiye ndi zifukwa ziti zomwe zimakhala zachilendo kuti munthu wopotoza wa narcissistic asinthe?

Kupotoza kwa Narcissistic ndi vuto lamalingaliro lomwe silingachiritsidwe

Inde, a kupotoza kwa narcissistic si matenda chabe, ndi umunthu ndi khalidwe lolunjika kwa ife eni. Chifukwa chake, ndizovuta kapena zosatheka kuti wopotoza wa narcissistic asinthe. Akatswiri ambiri azamisala, akatswiri azamisala ndi akatswiri amatsimikizira izi wopotoza narcissistic sangathe kuchiritsidwa. Ngakhale atakhala ndi chifuno, zimakhala zovuta kuti apeze njira yoyenera yochiritsira, chifukwa ndi umunthu wake chabe. Ndipo kusintha kumamupangitsa kukana chimene iye alidi.

A PN akudziwa zoipa zimene amachita ndipo amakonda kuvutitsa ena

Ndi kulakwa kuganiza kuti wopotoza wankhanza sazindikira zoyipa zomwe zamuzungulira. Ngakhale PN alibe chifundo, amadziwa kuti amavutitsa ena, koma amangosangalala nazo. Zowonadi, wopotoza wankhanza ndi munthu wachisoni yemwe amakonda kuvulaza ena. Amakonda mphamvu zomwe ali nazo ndipo amazigwiritsa ntchito pa omwe ali pafupi naye. Zimachitikanso kuti timatha kuwona munthu wopotoza wankhanza akumwetulira mwachisoni akaona wozunzidwayo akulira. Choncho, monga momwe amafunira kuvulaza, sangafune kusintha.

PN si munthu wodzifunsa yekha

Wopotoza narcissistic ndi munthu amene samawona zolakwa zake ndipo nthawi zonse amadzudzula ena. Ngakhale zolephera zomwe amakumana nazo mu ubale wake ndi ntchito yake, samadzifunsa yekha. Nthawi zonse amangoganiza kuti akuchita zabwino ndipo amadziuza kuti ndi amene alakwitsa. Mosiyana ndi anthu wamba, wopotoza wa narcissistic amakonda kusangalala ndi mavuto ndipo amakonda kubwereza mobwerezabwereza. Ngati aona kuti wadodometsa ndi kuvulaza munthu mwa nthabwala kapena chigamulo cholakwika, angafune kuchitanso zomwezo, kuti angoona bwenzi lake likupwetekedwa.

Wopotoza wa narcissistic amapeza chidwi ndi khalidwe lake

Le wopotoza wankhanza amapeza chisangalalo popangitsa ena kuvutika, chifukwa zimamupatsa chitetezo china pansi pake. Ndipotu, PN ali pachiopsezo kwambiri ndipo amadziopa yekha ndi ena. Choncho, kuti adziteteze, amalenga umunthu wankhalwe ndi woipa umene angasonyeze kuti ena amuwope ndi kumulemekeza. Khalidwe lake ndi chotchinga choteteza komanso njira yopezera ulemu, kusilira kapena chisamaliro kuchokera kwa omwe akuzunzidwa. Ngati sachita zinthu ngati PN, amawopa kutaya mphamvu, choncho amakonda kukhala m’dziko lake.

Momwe mungasinthire kapena kuchitira narcissistic wopotoza?

Ngakhale kuchiza kupotoza kwa narcissistic ndi ntchito yovuta, nthawi zina munthu yemwe ali ndi umunthu woyipa wotere amatha kuthandizidwa. Nawa malingaliro atatu ofunikira omwe tingatsimikize pakusintha kwa wopotoza wa narcissistic:

Kuchiritsa kotheka ndi ntchito yochizira

Ngati mlingo wa narcissism suli wokwera kwambiri, chidziwitso chotsatiridwa ndi chithandizo chingasinthe PN. Kuti athetse vutoli, ayenera kutsatira njira zitatu:

• Dziwani vuto lanu
• Kufuna kapena kufuna kusintha
• Yambani kusintha kusintha

Thandizo loyenera limatha kusiyanasiyana malinga ndi momwe PN ilili, zosowa zake kapena umunthu wake. Mwachitsanzo, chithandizo cham’banja chingathandize wopotoka wankhanzayo kupirira, makamaka ngati kupanda chimwemwe kwake kumachokera ku vuto la umunthu limene linawonekera paubwana wake.

Thandizo lamagulu lomwe lilinso ndi anthu opondereza omwe akufuna kuchiritsa ndi kupitilira khalidwe loyipa la narcissistic. Inde, ndizosangalatsa kudziwa ngati Kodi a FN amazindikirana? ?

Ngakhale nthawi zina zimatha kutenga zaka kuti zibala zipatso, chithandizo chamunthu payekha chingathandize kutsimikizira wopotoza wamatsenga ndikumuthandiza kuti adzipangenso yekha.

Inu simungakhoze kusintha wopotoza wankhanza

Pamene kupotoza kwa narcissistic kufika pamlingo wina, sikutheka kuchiza munthuyo. Zoonadi, PN yakhala yoposa khalidwe, ndi gawo la umunthu wake ndipo sawona vuto ndi izo. Pamene NP amasangalala kuchititsa ena kuvutika, pamene sakhalanso ndi chifundo ndipo amasangalala kuzunza omwe ali pafupi naye, banja lake kapena ana ake, kuchiritsa sikungatheke. Njira yabwino ndiyo kuchoka.

Munthu wopotoza wa narcissistic abweranso ndipo akuti wasintha kusewera wozunzidwayo

PN ndi katswiri wonyenga. Amakonda kusewera wozunzidwa ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala ndi mawu omaliza. Kenako akhoza kuthawa kapena kungomusiya mnzakeyo akayamba kulephera kudziletsa. Pambuyo pake, amabwerera n’kunena kuti wasintha. Muyenera kusamala kwambiri, chifukwa ikhoza kukhala chinyengo kapena njira yoti muyike bwino wovulalayo pansi pa mphamvu zanu. Opotoza enieni a narcissistic sasintha, amakhala opotoza moyo wawo wonse ndipo sadzatha kutengera makhalidwe abwino.

Kodi Narcissistic Pervert angasinthire chikondi?

Funso limabuka ngati wopotoza narcissistic akhoza kusintha chifukwa cha chikondi za mnzake? Yankho ndi “ayi.” Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti wopotoza wa narcissistic nthawi zonse amakhala bwenzi lalikulu mu banja. Iye ndi amene amalandira chidwi kwambiri, chikondi kwambiri, amalamulira wokondedwa wake ndipo nthawi zonse amapeza zomwe akufuna. Choncho, zonse zikuyenda bwino kwa iye muubwenzi, ndicho chifukwa chachikulu chomwe chimatipangitsa kukhulupirira kuti kumbali yake, palibe chomwe chingasinthe. Komanso, wopotoza wankhanza sakondadi mnzake. Amangokonda kumulamulira, kumupangitsa kuti azivutika komanso kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zake zosokoneza. Komanso, kuti asinthe, munthu ayenera kudutsa gawo la kuzunzika, kuzindikira kutsimikizira kuti vutoli silingathekenso. Koma PN savutika ndipo saona vuto lililonse ndi khalidwe lake.

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