Wopotoza narcissistic ndi telefoni

Narcissistic Pervert ndi Telefoni: Ndithudi ndi banja limene silingalekanitsidwe ndi moyo. Wopotoza wankhanza samasiya foni yake kuti ayimbire wozunzidwayo. N’chifukwa chiyani akukuitanani? Amayimba liti? Ndi zina zotero. Mayankho onse ali m’nkhani ino. 

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Nchifukwa chiyani a PN amakuimbiranibe?

Nthawi zina wopotoza wankhanza amangolankhula nanu pafoni. Kuphatikiza apo, ndi njira yolankhulirana yomwe imayamikiridwa kwambiri ndi ma FN. Tikupatsirani zifukwa zomwe amakonda kukuyimbirani:

• Izi ndithu chifukwaatha kunena chilichonse chomwe akufuna popanda kukumana ndi omwe akuzunzidwa. 
• Poyimba foni, wopotoza wa narcissistic angathenso kupewa zokambirana zomwe sakonda kukhala nazo popeza sizigwira ntchito mwa iwo.
• Kulankhula ndi munthu wopotoza wankhanza kudzera pamafoni amalola kuti awonekere ndikuzimiririka m’moyo wanu nthawi iliyonse. 

Kodi a PN amakuyimbirani liti?

1. Pamene watopa

Kwa a narcissistic wopotoza, atatopa, amatenga foni yake ndikumuimbira. Kupyolera mu kuyitana uku, akhoza kupitirizabe kumunyengerera ndikumupangitsa kukhala wosatetezeka kwambiri. Kuonjezera apo, wozunzidwayo ndithudi amawopa kuyimitsa foni kotero ziri kwa iwo kusankha nthawi yoti asiye kukambirana. Nthawi zambiri, PN amayimirira atatopa kuyankhula ndi wozunzidwayo.

2. Nthawi yomwe akufuna kuti mubwerere

Ikhoza kukhalanso kuti narcissistic manipulator amakuyimbirani kokha kuti ndibwerere nanu. Kumbali inayi, muyenera kusamala kwambiri chifukwa simudzaphonya PN. Adzakupangitsani kukhulupirira kuti amakufunani kuti mugwere mumsampha wake. Kenako adzakuwonongeranitu chifukwa sangakukhululukireni chifukwa chomusiya.

3. Akafuna zambiri

Poyimba foni iyi, wopotoza wamatsenga akuyesera kuchita ngati munthu wamba kufunsa za munthu wina. Golide, cholinga chake ndi kuitana uku si wina koma kudziwa zambiri za inu ngati mwapatukana. Kuti musagwerenso m’manja mwake, muyenera kupewa kumudziwitsa za inu.

4. Pamene akufuna kudziwa ngati muli osangalala m’moyo wanu watsopano

Mukatha kusiya wopotoza wa narcissistic, ndipo sanathe kupeza nyama yatsopano, adzayesa kukuitanani. Cholinga cha izi ndi ku dziwani ngati muli okondwa popanda iye. Ngati ndi choncho, samalani chifukwa zidzakuwonongeranitu. Choncho, musamudziwitse kuti ndinu okondwa, muyenera kungomuika pamndandanda wakuda.

5. Pamene sangathe kusuntha

Ambiri mwa opotoza a narcissistic amasuntha kuchoka ku munthu wina kupita ku wina. Nthawi yomweyo amayang’ana nyama yatsopano pambuyo pothetsa ubale ndi wina. Koma, atalephera kupeza munthu watsopano, a PN apitilizabe kukuyimbirani kuti mubwerere.

The Narcissistic Pervert ndi kulumikizana, zimagwira ntchito bwanji?

Ndikosatheka kukhala ndi kulumikizana kwenikweni ndi wopotoza wa narcissistic. Wotsirizirayo sangathe kukhala ndi zokambirana zabwino komanso zachibadwa ndi aliyense. Kulankhulana kokha komwe PN akudziwa ndikupusitsa. Cholinga chake si china koma kusokoneza munthu amene wamuzunzayo kwinaku akumuimba mlandu.

Kuti akwaniritse cholinga chake, le azondi opotoza a narcissistic pa inu. Zindikirani samamaliza kukambirana komwe adayambitsa. izo amasuntha kuchokera ku mutu umodzi kupita ku wina popanda wozunzidwayo kutha kupereka maganizo awo kapena kufotokozera. Kenako, iye adzaimba mlandu nyama yake mosavuta pomuimba mlandu munthu wopanda nzeru yolankhulana.

Telefoni ndi ubale weniweni ndi PN

Iyi ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri. Pa nthawi imeneyi, n’zoposa zachibadwa kugwiritsa ntchito osakhudzana. Izi zikuphatikizapo sinthani mafoni ndikusintha maakaunti pamasamba ochezera. Popeza posunga mzere wakale ndi maakaunti akale ochezera pa intaneti, a wozunzidwa ndi wopotoza wa narcissistic amakondabe kuwona mameseji omwe adaletsa kale. Ngati nyamayo ichita izi, NP idzadziwa zomwe idachita. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti wozunzidwayo asunge nambala yawo yatsopano ndi maakaunti awo atsopano chinsinsi kuti asabwererenso kumasewera opotoza a narcissistic.

NO Contact – Ndi chiyani?

Pa nthawi inayake, njira yabwino kwambiri yomasukira ku mphamvu ya munthu wodzikonda kwambiri ndi kugwiritsa ntchito mawu akuti “NO Contact“. Izi zimaphatikizapo kuzimiririka kwathunthu kuchokera pakuwona kwa PN. Njirayi ndi yovuta kugwiritsa ntchito, makamaka pamene muli ndi ana palimodzi, koma ndiyothandiza kwambiri kuti mutuluke m’manja mwake.

Narcissistic wopotoza ndi foni – Njira yopusitsa

Wopotoza wa narcissistic amagwiritsa ntchito foni ngati njira yopusitsira. Amakonda njira imeneyi chifukwa imamuthandiza kulamulira wozunzidwayo mosavuta. Pa foni, wopotoza wa narcissistic sangalole kuti womalizayo afotokoze maganizo ake. Komanso, akhoza kusintha nkhani nthawi iliyonse yomwe akufuna. Kenako, amaika mlandu wonse pa wozunzidwayo ndipo wochitiridwayo amaonadi kuti ndiye wolakwa.

Chifukwa chiyani PN nthawi zambiri imakana kulumikizana mwachindunji?

PN imakana kulankhulana mwachindunji pazifukwa zambiri, monga:

• Munthu wonyenga sakonda kupitiriza kukambirana zomwe zimamuchititsa manyazi.
• Safuna kukhala ndi maganizo a ena chifukwa maganizo ake okha ndiwo amafunikira.
• PN imakonda kukhalabe osadziwika pamitu yonse kuti abzale kukayikira mwa wozunzidwayo. Choncho akamalankhula pa foni, salola kuti wozunzidwayo amufunse kalikonse.
• Amatha kuwongolera bwino wozunzidwayo ndi kulumikizana kosalunjika.

Bibliographical pa PN ndi telefoni

Nawa maumboni asanu ndi awiri asayansi pamutu wa “opotoza a narcissistic” komanso kugwiritsa ntchito foni:

1. “Osokoneza Narcissistic: Ndi Ndani? Kodi zimagwira ntchito bwanji? »
   Wolemba: Jean-Charles Bouchoux
   Wofalitsa: Eyrolles
   Chaka: 2013
2. “Kuvutitsidwa ndi Makhalidwe: Chiwawa choipitsitsa pamoyo watsiku ndi tsiku”
   Wolemba: Marie-France Hirigoyen
   Wofalitsa: La Découverte
   Chaka: 1998
3. “Onyenga ali pakati pathu”
   Wolemba: Isabelle Nazare-Aga
   Wofalitsa: Les Éditions de l’Homme
   Chaka: 1997
4. “Kusokoneza maganizo mwa anthu okwatirana: Kuchita ndi munthu wosokoneza maganizo”
   Wolemba: Yvane Wiart
   Mkonzi: Odile Jacob
   Chaka: 2010
5. “Narcissistic Perverts: Mafunso ndi Mayankho 100”
   Wolemba: Christel Petitcollin
   Wofalitsa: Jouvence
   Chaka: 2014
6. “Kupusitsa Wamba: Kumvetsetsa ndi Kusokoneza Osokoneza”
   Wolemba: Pascal Couderc
   Mkonzi: Albin Michel
   Chaka: 2011
7. “The Ravages of Manipulators: Kupulumuka ndi Kubadwanso”
   Wolemba: Patricia Delahaie
   Wofalitsa: Leduc.s Éditions
   Chaka: 2012

Ntchitozi zimapereka chidziwitso chozama cha machitidwe a anthu osokoneza bongo komanso kugwiritsa ntchito foni ngati chida chosokoneza.

Kutsiliza

Pomaliza, foni imakhala chida chomwe chimakondedwa kwambiri ndi wopotoza wamatsenga, zomwe zimamulola kuti azigwirabe popanda kutsutsana mwachindunji. Kupyolera mu mafoni omwe akuwunikiridwa komanso anzeru, wowongolera amatha kukopa, kuwongolera ndikuwunika yemwe akumuvutitsayo ali patali, ndikusunga mtunda wamalingaliro. Kuti mudzimasulire nokha ku chigwiritsiro ichi, mchitidwe wa “osakhudzana” nthawi zambiri umakhala wofunikira, motero kulepheretsa kubwerera kosalekeza kwa ulalo wapoizoniwu.

Kufunsira:

• PN ndi kugona
• Wopotoza Narcissistic ndi Ndalama