I-Empath ngokumelene ne-narcissistic pervert: Inganekwane yesimanje

Yini i-Empath?

Uzwela ngumuntu onokuzwela okukhulu ngokomzwelo. Uyakwazi ukuzwa ngokujulile nokuqonda imizwa yabanye. Ama-Empaths avame ukuba:

• Ukunaka kakhulu izidingo zabanye
• Ukwazi ukuxolela kalula
• Hlala ulungele ukunikeza ithuba lesibili
• Unesiphiwo sokubona okuhle kwabanye

Lezi zimfanelo, nakuba zituseka, ngezinye izikhathi zingabenza babe sengozini yobuntu obuthile. Ama-Empaths ngokuvamile athwala kanzima ukumisa imingcele enempilo ebudlelwaneni babo. Bangase futhi babe nokuthambekela kokumunca imizwa engemihle kwabanye, okungase kubakhathaze ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

I-narcissistic pervert: Umhlaseli wemizwa

I-narcissistic pervert, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ibonakala ngokuthi:

• Isidingo esiqhubekayo sokunakwa nokutuswa
• Ukuntula uzwelo kwabanye
• Ukuthambekela kokuxhaphaza nokuxhaphaza abanye
• Ukushintshashintsha kwemizwa okungalindelekile

Abahlanekezeli be-Narcissistic bavame ukuthakazelisa kakhulu futhi bathandeke ekuqaleni kobudlelwane. Bahamba phambili ekuboneni abantu abasengozini futhi babahehe kuwebhu yabo yokukhohlisa.

Umhlangano ojabulisayo

Lapho uzwela luhlangana nomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic, ngokuvamile kuyisiqalo se- uthando olunobuthi. Uzwela, ngemvelo yakhe yothando nokupha, ngokwemvelo ludonseleka ku-charisma esobala ye-narcissist. Ubona ikhono kuye engeke libonwe muntu. Lokhu okuguquguqukayo kudala ukungalingani kusukela ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, lapho ukuzwelana njalo kufuna “ukusindisa” noma “ukulungisa” i-narcissist. Ngeshwa, le ndlela iqinisa kuphela ukuziphatha okunobuthi kwe-narcissist.

Izimpawu eziyisixwayiso

Kubalulekile ukuqaphela izimpawu eziyisixwayiso zobudlelwane nomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic:

• Ukuncoma okwedlulele ekuqaleni kobudlelwano
• Isidingo esiqhubekayo sokuba isikhungo sokunakwa
• Ukucasuka okungenasizathu
• Ukuthambekela kokusola abanye ngamaphutha akho

Kuvamile futhi ukuthi umuntu ohlukumezayo othanda ukuzikhukhumeza asebenzise ukukhanyisa igesi, uhlobo lokuphatha kabi ngokwengqondo okuhloswe ngalo ukwenza isisulu singabaze umbono waso ngeqiniso. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bangashintshana phakathi kwezinkathi zothando olujulile kanye nokwenqatshwa ngonya, inqubo eyaziwa ngokuthi “ukushisa nokubanda” noma ” thanda amabhomu“.

Umthelela kuzwela

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzwela lungazithola lusesimweni lapho:

• Idebeselela impilo nenhlalakahle yakho
• Uzihlukanisa nabangane nomndeni
• Ulahlekelwa ukuzethemba kuye
• Uzizwa eqaphile njalo

Umthelela wobudlelwane obunjalo ungalimaza ukuzethemba kozwela. Angase abe nezimpawu zokukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka, noma ngisho nokucindezeleka kwangemva kokuhlukumezeka. Ukululama ebuhlotsheni obunjalo kungathatha isikhathi futhi kudinga ukusekelwa kochwepheshe.

Inqubo yokuphulukisa

Ukuphulukisa ngemva kobudlelwane nomuntu onama-narcissist kuwuhambo lomuntu siqu oluthatha isikhathi nokubekezela. Nazi izinyathelo ezibalulekile kule nqubo:

1. Yamukela imizwa yakho: Kungokwemvelo ukuzizwa uthukuthele, udabukile, noma udidekile.
2. Funda kabusha ngawe: Zitholele kabusha izimfuno zakho nezidingo zakho.
3. Vuselela ubudlelwano obunempilo: Xhumana kabusha nabangane abasekelayo nomndeni.
4. Prakthiza ukuqaphela: Lokhu kungakusiza ukuthi uhlale ugxile esikhathini samanje.
5. Bungaza intuthuko yakho: Zonke izinyathelo ezincane zibalwa ohambweni lwakho lokuphulukisa.

Ukwakha kabusha ukuphila kwakho ngemva kokuhlangenwe nakho okunjalo kungase kubonakale kunzima, kodwa khumbula ukuthi unamandla angaphakathi adingekayo ukuze unqobe lolu vivinyo futhi uvele uqine.

Izinkomba ze-Bibliographic ku-empath ebhekene ne-narcissistic pervert

Nazi izikhombo zebhayibhili eziyisikhombisa ngesiFulentshi, ikakhulukazi ezesayensi, endikimbeni ethi “Uzwela olubhekene ne-narcissistic pervert”:

1. “Ukuhlanekezela kweNarcissistic” ngu-Anne Legraverand, eshicilelwe ku Ijenali Yezazi Zengqondo, 2012/9 no. 302, amakhasi 68 kuya ku-72.
2. “Uzwela kanye nokweqisa kwalo” by Michèle Van Lysebeth-Ledent, eshicilelwe ku Ijenali yesiFulentshi yePsychoanalysis, 2004/3, amakhasi 963 kuya ku-980.
3. “I-Narcissistic perversion”, indaba ephathwayo ye Ijenali yesiFulentshi yePsychoanalysis, 2003/3, ivolumu 67.
4. “Kusuka ‘kumama ophikisayo’ kuya ‘kumngane womshado one-narcissistic'” nguMarc Joly noCorentin Roquebert, etholakala ku-HAL.
5. “Izimpawu Zokuhlanekezelwa Kwe-Narcissistic” ngu-S. Ben Saadi et al., etholakala ku-HAL.
6. “I-Narcissistic perversion, umqondo oguqukayo” ngu-Alberto Eiguer, eshicilelwe ku Ulwazi lwengqondo, 2008/3, amakhasi 193 kuya ku-199.
7. “I-narcissism ye-pathological kanye nozwela: isimo samanje solwazi nokufunda indima yezinsongo zokuzimelela okukhulu ngozwela” nguPascal Simard, ithisisi yobudokotela, iNyuvesi yaseSherbrooke, 2023.

Lezi zithenjwa zinikeza umbono ojulile wokusebenzelana phakathi kwabantu abanozwela kanye nabantu ababonisa izici eziphendukezelwe ze-narcissistic.

Isiphetho: Londoloza uzwela lwakho ngenkathi uzivikela

Uzwela luyisipho esiyigugu okungafanele sisetshenziswe. Ngokufunda ukuzivikela kuyilapho ulondoloza isimo sakho sozwela, ungakha ubudlelwano obunempilo nobanelisayo.

Khumbula: ufanelwe ubuhlobo obusekelwe ekuhloniphaneni nasekulinganiseni ngokomzwelo. Ungesabi ukucela usizo futhi ubeke inhlalakahle yakho kuqala. Uzwela lwakho lungamandla akho, hhayi ubuthakathaka bakho. Ngokuthuthukisa amakhono okugomela kanye nokubeka imingcele enempilo, ungasebenzisa uzwela lwakho ngezindlela ezinhle kuyilapho uzivikela ebuhlotsheni obunobuthi.

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