I-Megalomania: Incazelo, izimbangela nemiphumela

I-Megalomania igama elibhekisela ekuthathekeni okungenampilo ngamandla, ubukhulu noma ukuqashelwa. Lesi simo esingokwengqondo ngokuvamile sihlotshaniswa nokuziphatha okweqile kwe-narcissistic kanye nokuntuleka kozwela kwabanye. Kulesi sihloko, sizohlola incazelo ye-megalomania, izimbangela zayo, imiphumela yayo, kanye nesixhumanisi sayo sokuhlukumeza.

Incazelo ye-Megalomania

I-Megalomania ivame ukuchazwa njengesimo sengqondo esibonakala ngokuzicabangela ngokweqile kanye nokufuna amandla nodumo ngokweqile. Abantu abane-megalomania bavame ukuzibona bephakeme kunabanye. Ngokuvamile bakholelwa ukuthi bafanelwe amalungelo nezinzuzo ezibenza bahluke kwabanye.

Leli gama livela emagameni esiGreki athi “megalos,” okusho “omkhulu,” kanye nelithi “mania,” okusho “ukuhlanya” noma “ukuthatheka ngokweqile.” Lisho ukugxila ebukhulu, okuvame ukungahlobene neqiniso. I-Megalomania ingaba uphawu lwezinye izifo zengqondo, njenge… i-narcissistic personality disorder, kodwa futhi ingazibonakalisa ngokuzimela.

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Izimbangela eziyinhloko ze-megalomania

Les izinkinga ze-megalomania zihlukahlukene futhi ziyinkimbinkimbi. Zingabandakanya izici ezingokwengqondo, zezenhlalo nezemvelo. Phakathi kwezimbangela ezivame kakhulu, sithola:

  • Indawo yomndeni

Abantu abakhulele endaweni ababehlala betuswa futhi bebekwa phezu kwayo bangase babe nombono ophakeme wokubaluleka kwabo. Ukuntuleka kwemingcele enempilo nokuqinisekiswa ngokweqile kokuziphatha kwabo kungakhuthaza i-megalomania.

  • Okuhlangenwe nakho kwempilo

Okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu kwempilo, njengokulahlwa noma ukululazeka, kungase futhi kube nendima ekuthuthukisweni kwe-megalomania. Kwabanye abantu, ukufuna amandla nokuqashelwa kuba yindlela yokunxephezela imizwa yokungabi nalutho noma yokungazethembi.

  • Ithonya lezenhlalakahle

Umphakathi wanamuhla uvame ukwazisa impumelelo, ingcebo namandla. Le ngcindezi yomphakathi ingabhebhethekisa ukuziphatha kwe-megalomaniacal, idale umhlabathi ovundile kulabo abafisa ukubonwa ubukhulu. Abezindaba, ngokugqamisa abantu abathakazelayo nabanamandla, nabo baneqhaza kulesi siko lobukhulu.

Imiphumela ye-Megalomania

Imiphumela ye-megalomania ingaba yingozi, kokubili kumuntu othintekile nakulabo abaseduze nabo. Nansi eminye yemiphumela ephawuleka kakhulu:

1. Ubudlelwano obuwohlokayo phakathi kwabantu

I-Megalomania ingalimaza ubudlelwano bomuntu siqu nobuchwepheshile. Abantu abane-Megalomaniacal bavame ukuba nobunzima bokusungula ubudlelwano obunempilo ngoba isidingo sabo sokubusa nokulawula singaholela ekuziphatheni okuhlukumezayo. Bangase bangazinaki izidingo zabanye futhi babonise ukuziphatha kobugovu.

2. Ukuzihlukanisa nabantu

Isidingo esiqhubekayo sokugomela ukuphakama komuntu nakho kungaholela kulokhu ukuzihlukanisa emphakathiniAbangane, umndeni, kanye nozakwabo bangase bazihlukanise nomuntu othanda kakhulu izinto ngenxa yokuziphatha kwakhe okuhlukumezayo nokukhohlisayo. Lokhu kungakhulisa imizwa yokuzizwa ukuhlala yedwa kanye nokuhlukaniswa.

3. Ukuziphatha kabi

Kunokuxhumana okuqinile phakathi kwe-megalomania nokuhlukunyezwa, kungaba ngokomzwelo, ngokwengqondo noma ngokomzimba. Abantu be-Megalomaniacal bangase basebenzise amandla abo ukuze balawule noma balawule abanye, bathethelele izenzo zabo ngomuzwa wokuba phezulu. Lolu hlobo lokuziphatha lungabangela umonakalo omkhulu ongokwengqondo kulabo abayizisulu zakho.

4. Ukwehluleka nokudumazeka

Nakuba ama-megalomaniacs angase abe nempumelelo yesikhashana, ukungakwazi kwawo ukuxhumana nabanye nokuqaphela ukulinganiselwa kwawo ekugcineni kungaholela ekwehlulekeni. Amaphrojekthi athembele embonweni osontekile weqiniso ngokuvamile agwetshelwe ukwehluleka, okungaholela enkingeni yomuntu siqu kanye nokulahlekelwa isimo.

Isixhumanisi se-megalomania ekuhlukunyezweni kwe-narcissistic

I-Megalomania ivame ukuhlotshaniswa nokuziphatha okuhlukumezayo. Abantu be-Megalomaniacal bangase babe nokuthambekela kokuxhaphaza abanye ukuze bafeze izinhloso zabo. Lokhu kungazibonakalisa ezinhlotsheni ezahlukene zobudlelwano: ezothando, umndeni noma umsebenzi.

  • Ukuxhaphaza Imizwelo

Ukukhohlisa imizwa kuyisici esivamile phakathi kwabantu abane-megalomaniac. Bangase basebenzise ukugxeka okungokomzwelo, ukululaza, nokwesabisa ukuze balondoloze ukulawula abanye. Lolu hlobo lokuziphatha lungaba nemiphumela elimazayo empilweni yengqondo yezisulu.

  • Ukusetshenziswa kabi kwamandla

Ezimweni zobungcweti, ama-megalomaniac angasebenzisa kabi amandla awo ukuze axhaphaze abasebenzi babo noma ozakwabo. Lokhu kuziphatha kungadala indawo yokusebenza enobuthi, lapho ukwesaba nokuzithoba kuthatha indawo yokusebenzisana nokuhloniphana.

  • Umjikelezo wokuhlukunyezwa

Abantu abahlangabezana ne-megalomania bangazithola bevaleleke emjikelezweni wokuhlukunyezwa. Ukuhlukumeza kungaholela ezindabeni zokwethembana kanye nobunzima bokusungula ubudlelwano obunempilo esikhathini esizayo. Ukwesaba nokukhwabanisa kungabavimbela ekushiyeni izimo ezihlukumezayo, ngaleyo ndlela kuqinise amandla e-megalomaniac.

Ireferensi yezincwadi zokuqonda kangcono i-megalomania

Nazi izikhombo eziyisikhombisa zebhayibhili ngendikimba ye-megalomania, egxile emisebenzini yesayensi noma yezemfundo:

  1. Miller, J.D., & Campbell, K.W. (2008). I-Narcissism: Imibono kanye nocwaningo. E-LA Pervin & OP John (Eds.), I-Handbook of Personality: Ithiyori nocwaningo (Umqulu 3, amakhasi 110-136). ENew York: I-Guilford Press.
  2. Lemoine, M. (2013). I-Megalomania kanye ne-narcissism: Ukusuka ekuthandeni kuya ekugcolweni. EParis: Editions L’Harmattan.
  3. Sicard, C. (2012). I-Psychology ye-megalomania: Isimo samanje kanye nemibono. IPsychology & Societies, 5 (1), 73-85.
  4. Bush, G. (2011). I-Narcissism kanye nokuphuma kwayo: I-Megalomania, ukucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka. Ijenali ye-Psychoanalytic Group Psychotherapy, 4 (3), 25-36.
  5. Pichon, J. (2016). I-Psychology ye-megalomania: Lapho ubukhulu buphenduka ubuhlanya. Paris: Éditions Dunod
  6. Levy, A. (2015). I-Narcissism kanye ne-megalomania: Incazelo kanye nezinkinga zomtholampilo. Ubuchopho, 41 (4), 392-399.
  7. Fornari, F. (2014). I-Megalomania nemiphumela yayo ebudlelwaneni babantu. Ijenali Yezempilo Yengqondo, 9 (2), 102-112.

Lezi zithenjwa zizokunikeza isisekelo esiqinile sokuhlola isihloko se-megalomania kumongo wesayensi.

Isiphetho

I-Megalomania yisimo esiyinkimbinkimbi esidala ukuziphatha okulimazayo kokubili komuntu ngokwakhe kanye nalabo abaseduze kwakhe. Ngokuqonda incazelo yayo, izimbangela zayo kanye nemiphumela yayo, kuba lula ukuqonda umthelela engaba nawo ebudlelwaneni nasemphakathini. Imiphumela ye-megalomania ingaba yimbi kakhulu, iguqule ubuhlobo obunempilo obuke baba yimithombo yokuhlupheka nokungqubuzana. Ukuqwashisa ngokuhlanganyela lesi simo kubalulekile ukuze kwakhiwe izindawo ezinempilo nezihloniphekile.

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