Ungamthola kanjani futhi ubhekane kanjani ne-narcissistic pervert emsebenzini?

Umhlaba womsebenzi usivumela ukuthi sihlangane futhi sihlanganyele nezinhlobo ezahlukene zobuntu. Phakathi kwalaba bantu, abanye bangaba yingozi ikakhulukazi, njengoba kwenzeka nge-narcissistic pervert. Ungamthola kanjani umuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic emsebenzini ? Ungabhekana kanjani naye? 

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Izici ze-narcissistic pervert emsebenzini

Ama-Narcissistic perverts emsebenzini ayisihloko okuxoxwa ngaso kakhulu eminyakeni yamuva. Ngempela, lesi simo siyakhula futhi amabhizinisi amaningi ayathinteka. I-manipulator ibonakala kanjani endaweni yobungcweti?

Ukuthatheka ngamandla nokulawula

Njengasebudlelwaneni, i-narcissistic pervert ifuna amandla nokulawula. Ngokwalesi sizathu, udinga inyamazane noma isisulu azobambelela kuso. Ngokuvamile, kulula ku-PN ukulawula abasebenzi abangaphansi kwayo uma ingumphathi.

Ukukhohlisa nokusola abanye

Nge-narcissistic disorder yakhe, i-PN iyakwazi ukukhohlisa futhi ukwenza umuntu azizwe enecala isisulu (izisulu) zakhe. Uvame ukusola amaphutha kwabanye.

Ukufuna ukubusa nokuphakama

Lo muntu uzofuna ukukhombisa ukubusa kwakhe futhi alulaze ozakwabo ukuze azizwe emkhulu. Angakwazi-ke ukubahlukumeza ngokokuziphatha futhi asebenzise ubudlova ngamazwi nangokwengqondo..

Ukungabi nokuzisola nozwela

Ibhekene nezenzo zayo, i-PN ayibonisi ukungabi nacala. Akabahloniphi ozakwabo futhi uyababhubhisa ngokwengqondo. Ukuwaphazamisa, usebenzisa izinkulumo ezingahlangani, ezivame ukuzenzela umathanda, ezididayo nezixakayo.

Izimpawu eziyisi-7 zokuhlukunyezwa yi-PN emsebenzini

Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ukuhlukumeza emsebenzini kuyisijeziso somthetho futhi kungenzeka zivikele ekuhlaselweni yi-PN. Kodwa-ke, umuntu ohlanekezelwe akakunaki lokhu, ngoba udla imizwa yabanye, ngisho nasezimweni zochwepheshe. Ngezansi ezinye zezimpawu zokuhlukunyezwa emsebenzini:

Isibonakaliso 1: Ukungakhathali kuthinta umuntu oyedwa ngesikhathi

I-narcissistic pervert emsebenzini idla umuntu oyedwa ngesikhathi. Izobe isikhetha isisulu futhi isicekele phansi ngaphambi kokubheka enye inyamazane. Ukuhlaselwa kwansuku zonke akugcini nje ngekhwalithi yomsebenzi. Ngempela, i-PN izozama ukuqothula inyamazane yayo ngazo zonke izindlela.

Isibonakaliso sesi-2: Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokokuziphatha akuphenduli kunoma yisiphi isizathu

Ezimweni eziningi, ukuhlukunyezwa akunasizathu sokuba khona. I-PN ikhetha umuntu ongasibekela.

Isibonakaliso sesi-3: Umuntu ohlanekezelekayo emsebenzini uvimbela isisulu sakhe ukuba siziveze

Ukuze ube ne ukulawula isisulu sakhe Futhi ukuze ambuthakathaka, umuntu othanda ukuzikhukhumeza uzovimbela isisulu sakhe ukuthi siziveze. Angamvimbela futhi ekuzivikeleni ngokusebenzisa ukuphika ngomsebenzi wakhe, impilo yakhe yangasese kanye nezinsongo.

Uphawu 4: Hlukanisa isisulu

Nge-charisma yakhe, i-PN iyakwazi ukuthonya abanye ozakwabo. Uyawasusa esisulu sakhe ukuze ahlukaniswe.

Uphawu 5: Ukweyisa isisulu ngeqoqo

Ngaso sonke isikhathi ngenhloso yokwenza isisulu sakhe sibe buthaka, i-PN izomhlambalaza ngokunyundela namahemuhemu.

Isibonakaliso sesi-6: Ukudicilela phansi isisulu ngokomsebenzi

Ngaphandle kokuhlaselwa komuntu siqu, i-PN ingaphinda ilimaze isisulu sayo ezingeni lochwepheshe. Uyobe esemnika imisebenzi engahambisani namakhono akhe. Noma, ufaka isisulu sakhe ebunzimeni ngemishini edlula amakhono akhe.

Isibonakaliso sesi-7: Ukuhlasela ubuqotho bomzimba womuntu ohlukunyeziwe

I-PN ingaphathisa izisulu zayo imisebenzi eyingozi noma isabise futhi ize ibahlasele ngokomzimba. Uma isisulu sizizwa sisengozini, i-PN ingababusa ngokuphelele.

Ungayibona kanjani i-narcissistic pervert emsebenzini?

Ama-PN emsebenzini kulula ukuwabona. Bangama-bullshitter aphelele avame ukuhlanekezela iqiniso ukuze bazuze.. Abanqeni ukwenza kanjalo amanga, kungaba ngozakwethu noma amakhasimende. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ama-PN ahlala enikeza imiyalo engacacile, izihlamba ezingenasisekelo futhi awalokothi abe nezimpawu zangempela zokwaneliseka.

Imiphumela yokuziphatha kwe-narcissistic pervert emsebenzini

Ama-FN angamashiqela amakhulu futhi izenzo zawo zingaba nemiphumela emibi kakhulu kuzisulu zawo. Baphila esihogweni nsuku zonke futhi bazizwa beyizingane, becindezelekile futhi benecala.. Ngezansi eminye imiphumela ye-narcissistic pervert emsebenzini:

• Ukucindezeleka,ukukhathazeka kanye nokucindezeleka
• Ukuhlukaniswa kanye nokuwohloka kobudlelwano phakathi kwabantu
• Ukulahlekelwa kwe ukuzethemba kanye nokuzethemba
• Umthelela ekusebenzeni kochwepheshe

Indlela yokubhekana ne-narcissistic pervert emsebenzini?

Uma usebenza ne-PN, kufanele uqonde ukuthi nguye uhlushwa yi-pathological disorder. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokubhekana naye ukungaphenduli ekuhlaselweni kwakhe. Ngakho, gwema ukuxhumana naye ngangokunokwenzeka. Vele unamathele ebuhlotsheni bomsebenzi. Ngalo mqondo, khohlwa ngezingxoxo zomuntu siqu ne-PN, ngoba uzozisebenzisa ngokumelene nawe.

Lapho uthola i-PN emsebenzini wakho, ukubheja kwakho okuhle ukunamathela ezingxoxweni ezikha phezulu. Njengoba ichuma ngokungqubuzana, gwema ukungqubuzana ne-PN. Ukuze acasule isisulu sakhe, uzosebenzisa zonke izindlela. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, ungavumeli ukucasula kwakhe futhi ikakhulukazi ungayibonisi imizwelo yakho.

Khumbula ukuhlala uzolile futhi ufake imizwa yakho ngaphakathi. Uma ekuhlasela, ungazithetheleli futhi usebenzise imisho emifushane. Qiniseka ukuthi uhlale unamarekhodi abhaliwe okushintshana kwakho (i-imeyili, i-SMS) kanye nokuba nofakazi ezingxoxweni zakho. Ngale ndlela ngeke akwazi ukukuphikisa.

Ungazivikela kanjani ku-narcissistic pervert emsebenzini?

Ukuze uzivikele kumuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic endaweni yakho yokusebenza, amanye amathiphu kufanele acatshangelwe:

• Ungabonisi imizwa yakho futhi ungavezi lutho ngempilo yakho yomuntu siqu,
• Gwema ukuzwelana ne-PN,
• Njengoba uzungezwe kahle,
• Sebenza ngokuzethemba: Ukuze uphinde uthole ukuzethemba futhi uzakhe kabusha, ungafuna usizo kuchwepheshe. Lena indlela enhle kakhulu yokuzikhulula ethonyeni lomuntu ohlanekezelwe uma uyisisulu sakhe.