Hlakulela ukuziqinisekisa okunempilo – Ukuzivocavoca

Ukugomela okunempilo kuyisihluthulelo sokuzethemba okulinganiselwe. Lo msebenzi uhlose ukuqinisa ikhono lakho lokuziveza nokwazisa wena ngaphandle kokuwela ku-narcissism. Umgomo uwukuthuthukisa ubukhona obuqinile kanye nokuzethemba okuqinile, kuyilapho uhlale unake abanye. Ukugomela okunempilo kuzokusiza ukuthi uzulazule kangcono ebudlelwaneni bakho bomuntu siqu nobuphrofeshinali.

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Ukulungiselela:

• • Thola indawo ethulile lapho uzizwa uphephile.
  • Yima phambi kwesibuko.
  • Thatha umoya omncane ukuze ubeke phakathi nendawo.

Ukuqinisekiswa kwezimfanelo zakho:

• • Bheka esibukweni bese usho ngokuzwakalayo izimfanelo ezintathu ozazisa ngawe.
  • Ngekhwalithi ngayinye, nikeza isibonelo esiphathekayo sendlela osanda kuyibonisa ngayo.

Ukubona ngeso lengqondo inguqulo yakho ehamba phambili:

• • Vala amehlo akho uzibone usesimweni lapho uzizwa uqiniseka ngokugcwele futhi uqiniseka.
  • Qaphela ukuma kwakho, isimo sobuso bakho, izwi lakho kulesi simo.
  • Izwa amandla nokuzethemba okuvela kuwe.

Ukuqinisa umzimba:

• • Vula amehlo akho bese uthatha ukuma okubonile ngeso lengqondo.
  • Phefumula ngokujulile futhi uzwe ukuzethemba kugxilile emzimbeni wakho.
  • Momotheka ekuzindleni kwakho ngokuzethemba nangomusa.

Isimemezelo senhloso:

• • Yisho ngokuzwakalayo inhloso enhle ngawe, uqale ngokuthi “Ngifanele…”
  • Phinda le nhloso izikhathi ezintathu, kancane kancane ukhulise ivolumu nokuzethemba kwezwi lakho.

Ukuqagela esikhathini esizayo:

• • Zicabange ngesonto, usuhlanganise lezi zindaba ngokugcwele zithembe wena.
  • Bona ngeso lengqondo ukuthi lokhu kukuthinta kanjani kahle ukusebenzisana kwakho nezinto ozifezile.

Ukubonga kanye Nomkhosi:

• • Zibonge ngokuzwakalayo ngokuzinika lesi sikhathi.
  • Yenza ukuthinta kokugubha (njengokuphakamisa izingalo zakho ngokunqoba) phambi kwesibuko.

Ukuhlanganisa:

• • Bhala phansi kujenali imizwa yakho kanye nemininingwane evele ngesikhathi sokuzivocavoca.
  • Khomba isenzo esisodwa esibambekayo ongasithatha namuhla ukuveza lokhu ukuzethemba okusha okutholile.

Zilolonge lo msebenzi njalo ukuze uqinise ukuzethemba kwakho kanye nekhono lakho lokuzibophezela. Umgomo uwukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba okunempilo ngaphandle kokuwela ekuzikhukhumezeni noma isidingo eseqile sokuqinisekiswa kwangaphandle.

Khumbula ukuthi ukugomela okunokulinganisela kuhilela ukuqaphela amandla akho kanye nobuthakathaka kanye nokukwamukela ngozwela. Lo msebenzi uhlose ukukusiza ukuthi uthole lokho kulinganisela, ukhulise umuzwa omuhle ngawe kuyilapho uhlezi usekelwe eqinisweni nozwela kwabanye.