I-Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Lokho Abesifazane Okufanele Bakwazi

Endaweni eyinkimbinkimbi yobudlelwano phakathi kwabantu, ukuphazamiseka kobuntu be-narcissistic (NPD) kuyisihloko sentshisekelo ekhulayo nokukhathazeka, ikakhulukazi kwabesifazane abazithola besebudlelwaneni obunobuthi. Lesi sihloko sihlose ukukhanyisela abesifazane abayizisulu ze-narcissistic pervert mayelana namaqiniso e-TPN, ukubonakaliswa kwayo, nezindlela zokuzivikela kukho.

Ukuqonda I-Narcissistic Personality Disorder

I-Narcissistic personality disorder iwukuxilongwa kwengqondo okubonakala ngephethini eqhubekayo yobukhulu, isidingo esiqhubekayo sokunconywa, kanye nokuntuleka kozwela okuhlukile. Ngokuphambene nenkolelo evamile, i-NPD ayifani nje nobugovu noma ubuze obudlulele. Kuwukuphazamiseka okujulile okuthinta indlela umuntu abona ngayo umhlaba nokusebenzelana nabanye.

Abantu abane-TPN bavame ukuba:

• a isithombe sakho okuhle ngokweqile
• Umuzwa wokuba nelungelo lamalungelo akhethekile
• Ukuthambekela kokuxhaphaza abanye ukuze bafeze izinhloso zabo
• Ukungakwazi ukubona noma ukuqinisekisa imizwa nezidingo zabanye

Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi, ngokusho kwezibalo ze-epidemiological, i-TPN ithinta ngaphansi kwe-3% yabantu abaningi. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma usola othile ngokuba yi-narcissist, kubalulekile ukuthi ungafinyeleli esiphethweni.

Umsuka we-narcissistic personality disorder

I-Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) iyinkinga yengqondo eyinkimbinkimbi enemvelaphi ehlukahlukene. Nakuba izimbangela eziqondile zingaqondwa ngokugcwele, izici eziningana kukholakala ukuthi zinomthelela:

1. Izici zofuzo: Ukuthambekela kofuzo kungase kube nendima, nakuba ucwaningo kule ndawo lusalinganiselwe.
2. Indawo yomndeni: Imfundo ebonakala ngokuthi:
   • Ukulinganisa ngokweqile nokungenangqondo kwengane
   • Noma ngokuphambene, ukuntula ukunakwa nokuqinisekisa ngokomzwelo
   • Abazali abangamaNarcissistic ngokwabo bakhonza njengezibonelo
3. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwasebuntwaneni :
   • Ukuhlukumezeka ngokomzwelo noma ukuhlukumeza
   • Ukunganakwa ngokomzwelo
   • Ukunamathela okungavikelekile ngezibalo zabazali
4. Izici zezenhlalo namasiko :
   • Umphakathi owazisa kakhulu impumelelo yomuntu ngamunye kanye nesithombe sakhe
   • Umthelela wenkundla yezokuxhumana namasiko osaziwayo
5. Izindlela zokuvikela: I-Narcissism ingathuthuka njengesivikelo emizweni ejulile yokungafaneleki noma yokungabi nalutho.
6. I-Neurodevelopment: Umehluko ekwakhiweni nasekusebenzeni kwezifunda ezithile zobuchopho ezixhumene nokuzwelana nokuzethemba kuye kwabonwa.

Izimpawu ezichazayo zobudlelwano nomuntu obhemayo

Kwabesifazane abazibuza ukuthi ngabe basebudlelwaneni ne-narcissist, izimpawu ezithile zingasho:

1. Ukuxhaphaza imizwelo okuqhubekayo
2. Ukuntula uzwela okusobala
3. Isidingo esidlulele sokutuswa nokunakwa
4. Ukuthambekela kokusola abanye ngamaphutha akho
5. Ukungakwazi ukwamukela ukugxekwa
6. Umona nokulawula ngokweqile
7. Ukushintshana phakathi kwe-idealization kanye nokwehliswa kwamanani

Lokhu kuziphatha kuvame ukudala isimo semizwa esingazinzile nesinobuthi kumlingani.

Umthelela we-narcissistic personality disorder kuzisulu

Abesifazane abasebudlelwaneni nabantu abaphethwe yi-NPD bangathola imiphumela emibi kakhulu engokwengqondo nengokomzwelo:

• Ukulahlekelwa ukuzethemba
• Ukukhathazeka okungapheli
• Ukucindezeleka
• Umuzwa wecala njalo
• Ukuzingabaza kanye nombono womuntu ngeqiniso (ukukhanya kwegesi)
• Ukuzihlukanisa emphakathini

Le miphumela ingaqhubeka isikhathi eside ngemva kokuphela kobudlelwane, igqamisa ukubaluleka kokunakekelwa okufanele.

Kungani izisulu zicabanga ukuthi zine-NPD?

Isenzakalo esithakazelisayo nesiphazamisayo ukuthi izisulu eziningi zama-narcisists zigcina zizibuza ukuthi ngabe bona ngokwabo bahlushwa yi-NPD. Lokhu kuchazwa yizici eziningana:

1. Ukuqagela kwe-narcissist: Abantu be-Narcissistic bavame ukufaka amaphutha abo kwabanye. Bangase basole umlingani wabo ngokuthi unobugovu noma u-narcissistic.
2. Ukuzingabaza kudala: Ngokukhohlisa kanye nokukhanyiswa ngegesi, izisulu zilahlekelwa ukuzethemba ekwahluleleni kwazo futhi ziqala ukungabaza.
3. Imicabango engemihle: Izisulu zingase zibe nemicabango engemihle ngomhlukumezi wazo, engase ibenze bazizwe benecala futhi bacabange ukuthi “babi” noma banonya.
4. I-Medical Student syndrome: Njengoba abantu befuna ulwazi mayelana ne-NPD, bangase baqale ukukhomba izimpawu ezithile, into eyaziwa ngokuthi “i-medical student syndrome.”

Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi le micabango ijwayelekile futhi ayichazi ukuthi une-NPD. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ngokuvamile ziwumphumela wokuxhashazwa okungokwengqondo okutholakalayo.

Ukubaluleka kwemfundo nokuqwashisa

Ulwazi lungamandla, ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa ekuhambeni emanzini adungekile obudlelwane be-narcissistic. Uma abesifazane bekwaziswa okwengeziwe nge-TPN nemiphumela yayo, bazokuhlomela kangcono:

• Ukubona Izimpawu Zokuqala Zobudlelwane Obuhlukumezayo
• Qonda ukuthi akulona iphutha labo
• Yazi ukuthi ungalufuna nini futhi kanjani usizo
• Ukuphula Umjikelezo Wokuhlukumeza I-Narcissistic

Kubalulekile ukuqhubeka nokukhuluma ngokukhululekile ngalesi sihloko futhi wabelane ngezinsiza ezitholakalayo.

Ireferensi yezincwadi ngendikimba ethi “narcissistic personality disorder”

Nalu uhlu lwezikhombo eziyisikhombisa ze-bibliographic mayelana ne-narcissistic personality disorder:

1. UKernberg, O.F. (1996). Izinkinga ezinzima zobuntu: ukuxilongwa kanye nokwelashwa kwengqondo. EParis: I-PUF.
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Isiphetho: Awuwedwa

I-Narcissistic personality disorder ingaba nemiphumela elimazayo kubalingani nabathandekayo balabo abaphethwe yiso. Uma uziqaphela kulesi sihloko, yazi ukuthi awuwedwa nokuthi usizo luyatholakala.

Khumbula ukuthi ukuzingabaza noma ukuba nemicabango engemihle akukwenzi umnakekeli. Lokhu kusabela kuvamile ekuhlukunyezweni kwengqondo. Ukuphulukisa kungenzeka, futhi ngokusekelwa okufanele kanye nezinsiza, unganqoba imiphumela yobudlelwano be-narcissistic futhi wakhe kabusha impilo eyanelisayo.

Unganqikazi ukufuna usizo lochwepheshe futhi uzungeze nabantu abakhathalelayo. Inhlalakahle yakho nempilo yengqondo iyigugu. Ufanelwe ubudlelwano obunempilo, obulinganiselayo, obungenakho ukukhwabanisa nokuhlukunyezwa.