I-Hypersensitivity kanye ne-narcissistic perverts: Ukuphula umjikelezo wozwela oluvalelekile

Njengomuntu wesifazane, kungenzeka ukuthi uke wabhekana nobudlelwano obubuhlungu nomlingani omubi we-narcissistic. Laba bantu banekhono elimangalisayo lokukwenza ungabaze futhi uzizwe unecala. Esinye sezimpawu eziyinhloko ezihlukanisayo zalolu hlobo lobuntu ukuzwela kwabo ngokweqile ekugxekeni okuncane noma ukuphawula okungase kubangele ukungabaza ukuziqhenya kwabo okukhulu. Ukufunda ukubona lezi zindlela zokuziphatha kubalulekile ukuze uzivikele ekukhohlisweni kwazo.

I-Hypersensitivity – kuyini?

I-Hypersensitivity isici esingokwengqondo nesokuphila esizibonakalisa njengokwanda kokuzwela ekushukumiseni kwemvelo nangokomzwelo. Abantu abane-Hypersensitive bavame uku:

1. Izwa imizwa ngamandla
2. Gqoka kalula izisusa zezinzwa (imisindo, izibani, iphunga, njll.)
3. Yiba nozwela oluthuthukisiwe
4. Cubungula ulwazi ujule kakhudlwana
5. Yenza okuthile ekucindezelekeni

Lokhu kuzwela okwandayo kungaba nezinzuzo, njengokusungula okukhulu kanye nokuzwisisa okubukhali, kodwa futhi nokubi, njengokukhathala ngokushesha ezindaweni ezivuselelayo.

I-Hypersensitivity ayibhekwa njengokuphazamiseka, kodwa kunalokho isici sobuntu esithinta cishe i-15 kuya ku-20% yabantu.

Kungani abantu abane-hypersensitive beyizinjongo ezithandwayo ze-PN?

Abantu abazwela kakhulu, ngenxa yemvelo yabo yozwelo kanye nokuthambekela kokuzwa ngokujulile, bangase baheheke kalula ekuqineni kwemizwelo okudalwa abahlanekezeli be-narcissistic ekuqaleni. Isifiso sabo sokuqonda nokusiza abanye singabenza bakwazi ukuhlala ebudlelwaneni obunobuthi, benethemba “lokwelapha” noma “lokusindisa” abalingani babo.

I-Hypersensitivity, isibonakaliso esibonakalayo

Okunye kokubonakaliswa okuyinhloko komphendukezeli we-narcissistic ukuzwela kwakhe ukugxeka okuncane noma ukuphawula okungase kubangele ukungabaza isithombe sakhe esihle kakhulu. Engakwazi ukwamukela ukungapheleli nokuncane, uzosabela ngendlela engafanele, ngentukuthelo, ukweyisa noma ngisho nokuba isisulu.

Isibonelo, uma unesibindi sokusho amazwi akhayo mayelana nokuziphatha kwakhe, angase akusole ngokuthi “uzwela kakhulu” noma “unganeliseki neze.” Ngaleyo ndlela uyoguqula isimo sibe yinzuzo yakhe ukuze akwenze ungabaze ukufaneleka kwakho futhi akwenze ubonakale uyicala. Lokhu kuzwela okungenampilo kuyisikhali esesabekayo esisezandleni ze-narcissistic pervert, ngoba kumvumela ukuthi akwenze uzizwe unecala futhi alondoloze ukukubamba kwakhe.

Qaphela izimpawu ze-hypersensitivity

Nakhu okunye ukuziphatha okujwayelekile okungakuxwayisa ngokuzwela okukhulu komuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic:

• Ukusabela okungahambisani nokugxekwa okuncane, noma okwakhayo
• Ukungakwazi ukwamukela ukungapheleli okuncane noma iphutha labo
• Ukuthambekela kokuzihlukumeza nokuzenza isisulu esingaqondakali
• Ukwehlisa isithunzi ukuhlaziywa okuhlelekile kwempumelelo nemizamo yabanye
• Ukwenqaba ngokuphelele ukungabaza imibono nezinkolelo zakho
• Isimo sengqondo sokuzibukela phansi nesokweyisa kulabo abanesibindi sokumphikisa.

Izinselelo ezithile zabantu abazwela kakhulu ebudlelwaneni obunobuthi

Njengoba behlanganyele ebudlelwaneni nomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic, abantu abazwela ngokweqile kufanele babhekane nezinselele ezinkulu ezingokomzwelo.

• Ubunzima bokusungula nokugcina imingcele enempilo:

Abantu abazwela kakhulu bangase babe nobunzima bokwenqaba noma ukubeka imingcele ecacile, ngenxa yokwesaba ukulimaza abanye noma ngenxa yesifiso sokuzwana. Lobu bunzima buxhashazwa abahlanekezeli be-narcissistic abahlala becindezela le mingcele.

• Ukwenyuka kwemizwa engemihle evela kuzakwethu:

Ikhono labantu abazwela kakhulu ukuzwa ngokujulile imizwa yabanye lingase libangele ukuthi babambe ingcindezi, ukukhathazeka, noma intukuthelo yomlingani wabo onobuthi, ngaleyo ndlela kuthinte inhlalakahle yabo yemizwa.

• Ukukhathala okusheshayo ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba:

Lapho bebhekene ne-roller coaster edalwe yi-narcissistic pervert, abantu abazwela ngokweqile baphelelwa amandla ngokushesha. Isimiso sabo sezinzwa, esivele sisebenza ngokwengeziwe, sihlala sicindezelekile, okuholela ekukhathaleni ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo.

• Ukudideka phakathi kokuqina kwemizwa nothando lweqiniso:

Ukushuba kwemizwelo yobudlelwano nomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic kungenziwa iphutha njengokushiseka noma uthando olujulile lomuntu ozwela ngokweqile. Lokhu ngokwemvelo kuyakwazisa ukuzizwisa okujulile kwemizwa.

• Ukuthambekela kokuzigxeka:

Abantu abazwela kakhulu bavame ukuba nokuthambekela okunamandla kokuzihlola. Ebudlelwaneni obunobuthi, le mfanelo ingaphenduka ibe ukuzigxeka ngokweqile, okuholela ekubeni bathwale umthwalo wezinkinga zobudlelwane.

Ukuzihlukanisa, umphumela we-hypersensitivity

I-hypersensitivity ye-narcissistic pervert nayo inomphumela we hlukanisa kancane kancane kulabo abakuzungezile. Ngempela, lapho ubhekene nokusabela kwakhe ngokweqile, uzothambekela ekuziholeleni ukuze ugweme izingxabano. Kancane kancane uzozihlukanisa nabangani nomndeni wakho, ungabe usafuna ukubaveza ezinkingeni zomlingani wakho.

Ngokwengxenye yakhe, i-narcissistic pervert izokhuthaza ngenkuthalo lokhu kuhlukaniswa, ngoba kumvumela ukuthi akugcine ngaphansi kwethonya lakhe. Ngokwesibonelo, angase akugxeke ngokuchitha isikhathi esiningi nabantu obathandayo, ethi awumnaki. Noma ululaze abangani bakho nomndeni wakho, ubethula njengabantu ababi nabanobuthi ebudlelwaneni bakho.

Kancane kancane, uzozithola unqanyuliwe kunethiwekhi yakho yokwesekwa, ube nozakwenu kuphela njengephoyinti lokubhekisela. Leli yiphuzu eliphelele lalelisu lokuzihlukanisa: ukukwenza uncike kuye futhi ukuvimbele ekuthatheni isinyathelo emuva ebuhlotsheni.

Izinkomba ze-Bibliographic mayelana nokuzwela ngokweqile kanye ne-narcissistic pervert

Nalu uhlu lwezikhombo zebhayibhili eziyi-7 ngesihloko sokuzwela okukhulu nokuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic:

1. “I-Narcissistic kanye ne-hypersensitive pervert: umhlangano okufanele ugwenywe”
2. “I-Hypersensitive ne-narcissistic pervert: kungani zikhangana? »
3. “Kungani abantu abangama-narcissistic bekhangwa abantu abazwela ngokweqile? »
4. “I-Hypersensitivity kanye ne-Narcissism: Kungani Laba Bantu Bakhangana”
5. “I-Hypersensitive kanye ne-narcissistic – Izixhumanisi eziyingozi”
6. “The Narcissist’s Hypersensitivity: Igobolondo Elibuthakathaka NjengeCrystal”
7. “AmaNarcissists Ane-Hypersensitive and Perverse”

Lezi zithenjwa zinikeza ukuqonda ekusebenzisaneni okuyinkimbinkimbi phakathi kokuzwela ngokweqile kanye nokuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic, okunikeza ukukhanya kuzinqubo zokukhohlisa kanye nokuba sengozini okuhilelekile.

Isiphetho: Ukubuyisela Amandla Akho

Uma ubhekene nozakwenu okhohlakele, i-hypersensitivity yisikhali esesabekayo asisebenzisayo ukuze akugcine ngaphansi kwethonya lakhe. Ukufunda ukubona lezi zenzo nokuziqinisa ngokuqinile kubalulekile ukuze ugcine ubuqotho bakho nempilo yengqondo.

Khumbula ukuthi ufanelwe ukuhlonishwa nokwaneliseka ebudlelwaneni obunempilo. Ungazivumeli ukukhohliswa ngamasu akhe futhi uthembele emandleni akho okwenza izinqumo ezifanele zokuzivikela. Inhlalakahle nenkululeko yakho kuncike kukho.

👇 Ukuze ufunde kabanzi:

• Kungani ama-narcissistic perverts engazithandi izingane zabo?
• Izinhlobo ezahlukene zama-narcissistic perverts
• I-HPI Target Narcissistic Perverts: Ungazikhulula Kanjani?