Namuhla, ake sikhulume ngesihloko esivusa imibuzo ngesinye isikhathi: ingabe bakhona abantu abakwazi ukuhlukanisa ama-narcissists, bangazivumeli ukuthi bathinteke yibo, noma ngisho nokubagwema? Lowo ngumbuzo othokozisayo. Abanye abantu babonakala, ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukene, abathintwa kancane ngama-narcisists. Kunabantu abagonyelwe yizifo, kodwa lapha ngizoxoxa ngokuguquguquka okuhluke ngokuphelele: okwenzeka lapho i-narcissist ihlangana nomuntu wangempela.
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Ubuqiniso, Ikhwalithi Ebaluleke Kakhulu?
Ngaphambi kokuba siqhubekele phambili, ake sichaze kafushane ukuthi buyini ubuqiniso. Leli gama livame ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi abaningi benu ngeke bavumelane nencazelo yami. Kuvamile, imibono iyehluka. Kimina, umuntu wangempela uphila ngokuvumelana nencazelo yakhe, incazelo, ukuzazi, kanye nokuhlolwa okunembile kwamandla abo nobuthakathaka. Akawavumeli amandla akhe amholele ebukhulu noma ubuthakathaka bakhe bumenze aphelelwe yithemba.
UCristina unikeza iseshini yomuntu ngamunye ukukusiza uphume ekulawulweni okuhlukumezayo futhi wakhe impilo yakho kabusha.
Ubuqiniso ngokumelene ne-Narcissism
Abantu bangempela bavamise ukulawulwa ngokomzwelo futhi bangabonisa imizwa yabo ngendlela efanele nangengozi. Zivame ukubonwa njengokuzolile, ngoba aziphazamiseki kalula. Pho, kwenzekani lapho laba bantu bangempela bewela izindlela ne-narcissist?
Abantu bangempela abathinteki kalula, futhi okuthakazelisayo ukuthi abaweli ezingibeni zama-narcisists. Ngokungafani nabaningi, abafuni ukuqinisekiswa, ukudunyiswa, noma ukunakwa kwabaqaphi. Abantu bangempela abazivumeli ukuba besatshiswe, futhi lokhu kungase kubakhungathekise ama-narcissists abathola ukuthi amacebo abo avamile ehluleka.
Ukuhlakanipha Kobuqiniso
Abantu bangempela abasizwa isidingo sokubeka i-narcissist phansi. Bahlala endleleni baqondise ingxoxo lapho idinga ukuya khona. Abawona aluhlaza, kodwa kunalokho banekhono. Lapho bebona ukuthi isimo siyaba nzima, bayazi ukuthi kufanele bahambe nini, ngaphandle kokudelela. Bazwakalisa isidingo sabo sokuhamba ngomusa, bebonga abanye ngokuhlangenwe nakho.
Amandla Obuqiniso
Ukuba yiqiniso lapho ubhekene ne-narcissism kuyisikhali esinamandla. Abantu bangempela abavumeli ukuqinisekiswa, ukuyenga, noma ukuziphatha okudinga ukunakwa kwama-narcissists. Abamehluleli umnaki, kodwa bayazi ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuhamba. Ama-Narcisists, lapho ebhekene nalaba bantu bangempela, bangase bangabi nandaba futhi bagxeke, kodwa ngokuvamile ngeke bazame ngisho nokuzama ukubanqoba.
I-Ultimate Narcissist Repellent
Kubonakala sengathiubuqiniso Lokhu kuyindlela yokuxosha abantu abathanda ukuzikhukhumeza. Nakuba lokhu kungase kubonakale kuyisihluthulelo, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ukuba ngumuntu oqotho akulula. Kudinga umsebenzi, ukuphikelela, kanye nekhono lokuzihlukanisa nokwahlulela kwabanye.
Isiphetho: Hlakulela Ubuqiniso
Sengiphetha, ngiyanikhuthaza ukuthi niqhubeke nendlela yobuqiniso. Uhambo olunzima, kodwa luvuza kakhulu. Uma uyiqiniso ngokwengeziwe, uzomelana nakakhulu nama-narcissists. Ungesabi ukugxekwa noma ukwahlulelwa, futhi funda ukuphila ngokuvumelana nalokho oyikho ngempela.
Siyabonga futhi ngokusijoyina. Ungakhohlwa ukubhalisa, ube yingxenye yalo mphakathi, futhi ufunde ukuthi ungaba yiqiniso kanjani uma usebenza nama-narcissists. Kunzima kodwa sikhona ukuzokweseka.
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